Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Blackangst]

I truly cannot believe that no one here seems to think that posting up the picture of an unsuspecting third party and then getting into a slagging feast at his expense is OK.

And I'd let it rest if the offending (to me anyways) photo WAS removed. and NO I am NOT the guy (and NO I don't know the guy!) - but I just think this whole thing is wrong. OK, up to now, it seems that no one agrees with me. But does anybody actually DISagree?

Come on guys - surely at least one of you agree with me????!!

Even you 50-50 - do you really think it is ethically, morally, legally correct to have posted up the picture of the guy? And even the fact that AV has such a picture - I have my reservations as to how he had obtained it.

Yes, every one has the right to post - but does it give any one the right to put an innocent third party up to ridicule?

SEAJ

ps. AV and D'etat - "...just fucks with your mental....." is this perhaps, just maybe.. what's happening....so much so that you cannot see what I see??

Youre exactly right. It's SO disrespectful no matter what the motive. Not to mention vindictive.

I guess some people are like that though. Lesson? Dont get your pic taken ;)

[SE Asia Joe]

Two posts, same subject, itch itch ?? Looks like somebody else is doing the grinding to me, give it a rest mate.

We all have a right to post here, words, pics etc and IMHO with Jackson who is the God of Moderators, we have a very well run Forum.

If you truly mean ''peace'' then let this one RIP.

Cheers, F/Fifty

I truly cannot believe that no one here seems to think that posting up the picture of an unsuspecting third party and then getting into a slagging feast at his expense is OK.

And I'd let it rest if the offending (to me anyways) photo WAS removed. and NO I am NOT the guy (and NO I don't know the guy!) - but I just think this whole thing is wrong. OK, up to now, it seems that no one agrees with me. But does anybody actually DISagree?

Come on guys - surely at least one of you agree with me????!!

Even you 50-50 - do you really think it is ethically, morally, legally correct to have posted up the picture of the guy? And even the fact that AV has such a picture - I have my reservations as to how he had obtained it.

Yes, every one has the right to post - but does it give any one the right to put an innocent third party up to ridicule?

SEAJ

ps. AV and D'etat - "...just fucks with your mental....." is this perhaps, just maybe.. what's happening....so much so that you cannot see what I see??

[Wicked Roger]

I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)

Three times - at least you are in the land of pussy so you can find a replacement(s) quite easily I trust :)

[Amavida]

I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)

You nailed it exactly D Etat. All the other responses seriously misunderstood what I was getting at.
AV

[Fifty Fifty]

errrrr......here you go again AV....

Just IMHO please, no offense meant at all - just a reminder to direct your anger at the correct target. peace
SEAJ

Two posts, same subject, itch itch ?? Looks like somebody else is doing the grinding to me, give it a rest mate.

We all have a right to post here, words, pics etc and IMHO with Jackson who is the God of Moderators, we have a very well run Forum.

If you truly mean ''peace'' then let this one RIP.

Cheers, F/Fifty

[SE Asia Joe]

.............Im very suspicious of her old farang. Would'nt be at all surprised if he is a 'serial offender'. AV

errrrr......here you go again AV.


Ok, like I said, I feel for you - but you're really slagging a guy who you don't know and who you really should not have an axe to grind with. OK, Irish, I can understand.... but what has this guy done KNOWINGLY against you? Shouldn't you instead feel "sorry" for him - that he's probably also going to be "taken" by Irish?
Just IMHO please, no offense meant at all - just a reminder to direct your anger at the correct target. peace
SEAJ

[SE Asia Joe]

I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)

Thanks - at least it's acknowledged that there MAY be problems with the posting of third parties without their knowledge/prior approval.

Even when posting up picture of gals who I've done, I always try to safeguard their actual identity by blotting/cutting out some of the features - as to me, there really is no over-riding/redeeming factors to show them 100%.

In this case, AV has actually posted a picture of a third party who totally has nothing to do with him. OK, I can go along with posting Irish's picture up to warn others/ her potential suitors about her "proclivities" - but what does posting this poor guy's picture serve? - except to put/set him up for public ridicule etc. (and indeed Av actually started this process in the accompanying post).

OK I can feel for AV and what he's going thru - but really, I would strongly suggest that he take down that picture.

The above of course only IMHO. Peace!

SEAJ

[Puerto La Cruz]

In the English speaking world there is law about posting somebody's image in that context. Problem is that its on this board and this board is generated in Argentina. So Jackson remains pretty judgment proof and it will be very difficult to sustain a viable lawsuit in the domicile country of AV or whoever the poster is.

If you don't want to be put in the position of the guy whose image is posted, I would advise to error on the side of discretion. So as not to take this subject to a pissing match, I doubt whether I will respond to any replys to this, however, I applaud the guy in th epic for getting such a doll. I hope Cialis is cheap in Bangkok.

That'll be $500.00 for my opinon guys.

[Warbucks]

I've waited a few days to write this..... thinking that - "surely someone will point it out. mEANWHILE telling myselt to MYOB."
But up-to-date - nothing...zilch.. nada!

What am I going on about? Well, its the posting of someone else's picture; someone who most likely donot know that he's being posted and certainly would mind a helluva lot if he ever finds out - as he's being put to really bad ridicule here.

How would you llike it if someone posts YOUR picture without your expressed permission. Especially in this context - and by someone who does have an axe to grind - i.e. he's lost his Irish to someone else.

I don';t know much about the law - but I would think that there may be a case for slander or ....????

Perhaps you should consider asking Jackson to remove the offending picture?

Just IMHO.

Peace and Salutations

SEAJ

I don’t think AV has a axe to grind I think he is like me. To see a girl you had a relationship with for months or even years who walks out of your life and pops on the internet in some other dude arms you had no prior knowledge about just fucks with your mental. In the last few months I have had it happen to me three times already. :)

[Amavida]

AV - are you keeping a low profile. It appears that your 'oh my god' photo posting of a monger (or maybe not) with your former GF has received attention on the China Photo board, of all places. Your fame knows no bounds.

It even enticed Prof Doff, that old anti-mongering, pseudo-intellectual fool from the Thai threads to leave his comfort zones and turn into barrack room lawyer for the day. Your privileged indeed.

So I guess your gone into online hiding as you anticipate a man with a lawsuit
(or an irate former GF) to come knocking at your door. Is it cold in an Afghan cave this time of year? :D GH

G'day GH! No not hiding, just busy doing rather than talking ;) I guess its always touchy posting pics of old GF's and there new meal tickets. I deliberately posted a only a small pic precisely to minimise potential misuse. I doubt that Irish would ever find the pics but Im very suspicious of her old farang. Would'nt be at all surprised if he is a 'serial offender'. I doubt he would risk exposing himself by being so rash as to contemplate anything remotely like litigation.
Cheers mate!
AV

[Warbucks]

Girls here tend to associate with each other on all diffferent strata. Yeah, she likely has a few square friends. Remember, people develop associations and friendships based on region. Same language, I know so and so your from such and such. Girls also usually dont condem another out there putting it on the block, people have to do what they have to do n order to get by. They all know some Japiyuki,

Spamhog

I knew a lot of Japiyuki in my days in Japan and a lot of them wasn't fucking the customers. They fleeced them out thier yen... rub their bald ass head and tell them how much they like them but that was about it. I seen it with my own eyes to many times...I have a homeboy who wife was Filipina and he knowing let his wife fleece Japanese dudes out of money but at night her ass was right at home by his side. Strong guy I couldn't put up with that shit...

Go For What You Know

[Spam Hog]

I'll concede that more likely she was working scams on the net with help from her "manager" in Davao.

One thing that threw me off was that her female friends on her Friendster page were, for the most part, square-bears (these gals can be narcisstic though, having 500 pics of themeslves striking redundant poses- how much of an artistic effect is it when you've seen them sticking out their tongue for the 10the time?). I've always, at least in the States, partially judged a gal by who she hangs with. Usually strippers and hoes hang with other strippers and hoes. Conversely, conservative gals generally hang out with other conservative gals.

In the Phils, if a gal is either hooking or scamming, do her friends either accept what she is doing or are they gullible enough to believe the lie(s)??

fwiw, the other day she told me she thought she was pregnant, and is indeed, not.

The key points here are income, she has a lap top, cell phones (yeah...all of 'em do) but she has two...lemme guess, they are not P900 specials she got at the pawn shop. Question is where does she get all this money to get those things which is likely beyond the reach of your average barrio kitty.

Girls here tend to associate with each other on all diffferent strata. Yeah, she likely has a few square friends. Remember, people develop associations and friendships based on region. Same language, I know so and so your from such and such. Girls also usually dont condem another out there putting it on the block, people have to do what they have to do n order to get by. They all know some Japiyuki, somebody working in a bar or somebody who was a mistress to a rich Chinese, or even more likely her sister who had a baby out of wedlock to a married man.

Now when they get catty is when one of looser morals comes buzzing around HER guy.

Spamhog

[SE Asia Joe]

AV - are you keeping a low profile. It appears that your 'oh my god' photo posting of a monger (or maybe not) with your former GF has received attention on the China Photo board, of all places. Your fame knows no bounds.



It even enticed Prof Doff, that old anti-mongering, pseudo-intellectual fool from the Thai threads to leave his comfort zones and turn into barrack room lawyer for the day. Your privileged indeed.

So I guess your gone into online hiding as you anticipate a man with a lawsuit
(or an irate former GF) to come knocking at your door. Is it cold in an Afghan cave this time of year? :D GH

Hey GH - thanks for at least acknowledging!
Did you.... and anybody else .... read what I wrote earlier on this thread?

I've waited a few days to write this..... thinking that - "surely someone will point it out. mEANWHILE telling myselt to MYOB."
But up-to-date - nothing...zilch.. nada!

What am I going on about? Well, its the posting of someone else's picture; someone who most likely donot know that he's being posted and certainly would mind a helluva lot if he ever finds out - as he's being put to really bad ridicule here.

How would you llike it if someone posts YOUR picture without your expressed permission. Especially in this context - and by someone who does have an axe to grind - i.e. he's lost his Irish to someone else.

I don';t know much about the law - but I would think that there may be a case for slander or ....????

Perhaps you should consider asking Jackson to remove the offending picture?

Just IMHO.

Peace and Salutations

SEAJ

[Warbucks]

I'll concede that more likely she was working scams on the net with help from her "manager" in Davao.

One thing that threw me off was that her female friends on her Friendster page were, for the most part, square-bears (these gals can be narcisstic though, having 500 pics of themeslves striking redundant poses- how much of an artistic effect is it when you've seen them sticking out their tongue for the 10the time?). I've always, at least in the States, partially judged a gal by who she hangs with. Usually strippers and hoes hang with other strippers and hoes. Conversely, conservative gals generally hang out with other conservative gals.

In the Phils, if a gal is either hooking or scamming, do her friends either accept what she is doing or are they gullible enough to believe the lie(s)??

fwiw, the other day she told me she thought she was pregnant, and is indeed, not.

All the girls I have met in PI hang with the same crowd... If she is hooking more then likely all her friends are also. If she is a professional more then likely her friends are also....my two

Take It Sleazy

[Psdai]

In the Phils, if a gal is either hooking or scamming, do her friends either accept what she is doing or are they gullible enough to believe the lie(s)??

In my 14 years of experience visting to and living in (off and on) the PI:

Being a working girl is merely another form of work and they will all hang out and intermingle (except for those that realy do have alot of money as they feel themselves to be better). Good girls accept that some of their friends may be working a bar and thats that - it is no biggie to them.