Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Blackangst]

Hey blink...sucks youre sick hope u feel better soon!

I dont know man ur in a bad place and you really only have two choices in my opinion. First, let her go. If Youre paying a steady b/f that usually means when ur in town she doesnt barfine except with you. Is this the arrangement you had? It sounds like she doesnt want to quit partying yet.

Second, as a couple people have said you need to firm up arrangements with her and her mamasan. Set some rules. Otherwise she might not really honor your request.

I agree that most BG are decent human beings and want nothing more than to have a loving normal family. If you cant give it to her thats fine, but you have to find a way to deal with your own jealousy. Which brings me back to my first point. Either sponsor her, and get her back to the province, or perma BF her with the understanding she wont BF except you when youre in town. I know of several girls with this arrangement and a couple who dont BF anyone- ladies drinks only. Again you gotta work it out with mamasan.

Good luck bro

[Cunning Stunt]

How did you show her the ropes? Did you tie her up?

x

Blimey mate, was that a joke you made? Feeling dizzy? Need a seat? Stiff drink?

[Blink157]

OK. A few things. First off. When you say "Voila, who shows up after some minutes". Did the two of you share a steady room or something? How is it she came to the room you were in, when from the sounds of it you werent supposed to be there? The guy takes the girl to HIS room, not hers. I'm confused about this.

Second. It doesnt sound like you two are steady. So, sorry man but she's open season on whomever she wants to go BF with. Now, if you were serious, you, her, and mamasan would sit down mand make an arrangement about permanently BF her, or taking her off the market. It isn't terribly uncommon. Or, if you're REALLY serious, you would pay for her to go back home and you would support her. It doesnt sound like you're at that point.

Filipinas are a dichotomy. They are FIERCLY loyal, and FULL of temper and revenge. Just because a girl works in a bar doesnt mean she doesnt either want a normal life, or a normal relationship. But, from the sounds of it, you two arent that serious.

Sorry bro. She's open game. Hell. Post a pic and a name maybe I'll BF her when I come in August: p

(caveat: the above are statements of a general nature, and do not apply to every circumstance. But, exceptions make the rule true).

Hi,
just been a bit sick and there were no connection in the place where I stayed last night,(Apartele Royale, AC, 2800p , jacuzzi room)so here my reply..
She showed up in Orchid Inn at frontdesk with her friend and 2 asian guys. I was in the standard room near the frontdesk so I could see who is coming or going out..Thats not my hobby, but bfore I went to my room alone, I saw her coming in with her customer. Well , of course she wanted to leave the bar and be with me all the time, but I havent plan that yet, cause I also have another GF who wanted the same, non working collegue student from the province, so called good gurl. Well , Im living here and I know, soon or later if you want to be serious with a gurl, she wanted a kid, she wanted to live with you,etc etc etc....doesnt matter if she work in a bar, not all bar gurls are bad and of course they all woman who wanted a normal life and normal relation..on the other hand Im just started to live her again and I guess I need some time to be with one GF..as of now..Im not ready for that, on the other other side I also dont wana see her going with another guy..well lets see..I know when Im in manila and she work in the bar she likely go with a guy if she dont make enough money on drinks. If Im in ac its also hard for her to skip the bar, cause the mama san knows Im her steady so called BF and when Im in town and she is absent, then she is with me....as of now its complicated..

anyway hope my reply helps a bit, sorry for my english, I could do much better, but Im dizzy with all the medication I took to overcome this f..in cold, its not fun to have a flue in ac, evrybody is drinkin and having fun (see fotosection I also had :D) and me , just sippin on calamansi juice and sleeping all day, sweating, drinkin water and pills and syrup...well, hopefully next week I can barhop again :D

Happy hunting


Blink


PS see fotosection, sorry only my GF butt on the picture, but she is pretty, I have a good taste :D

PPS Blackangst if you not asian guy with big money waving around, she wont go barfine with you.at least since Im in town and she aint what you called hot in bed, only when she is ur steady one she changed and give it all to you

[X Man]

How did you show her the ropes? Did you tie her up?

x

The fear in her face, the thumping heart and her inexperience but she performed once I showed her the ropes.

[Cunning Stunt]

the Filipina's I've met could suckstart a leafblower.

Best BJ I ever had was in the Philippines (and I've had some knee tremblers over the years in various parts of the world). She was a young 'butter wouldn't melt' shopgirl type which made it all the more astonishing. Whoever had been coaching her had done a world class job. I won't go into the gory details but suffice to say she must love her protein shakes. Everything else was red hot as well. I was so into it that I forgot to get my camera out even though she had agreed to a few pix. I also didn't get her cf no which was more inexcuseable and never saw her again. The following day the whole scenario seemed so unreal to me that I seriously thought that I had dreamed the whole thing. Except that I had the hickey (good job the missus was away) and was still as sore as hell :D

Ain't the Philippines great!!

[Warbucks]

Most filipinas you've had mustnt have been cherries. Even though some of the cherry girls in AC will do "anything but", they werent born with head knowledge :D

They gotta be taught hehe

Nah none of the Filipinas I have had have been virgins. I also don't want one. When If not my girl I don't like all that sweet time... The girl I bar friend in Cebu was close to a virgin as I have seen. Her snatch also felt like one. The fear in her face, the thumping heart and her inexperience but she performed once I showed her the ropes.

[Blackangst]

Hmm this is strange... most Filipinas I have met could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. :)

Most filipinas you've had mustnt have been cherries. Even though some of the cherry girls in AC will do "anything but", they werent born with head knowledge :D

They gotta be taught hehe

[Member #4647]

the Filipina's I've met could suckstart a leafblower.

[Warbucks]

Why do women love oral sex performed on themselves but regard oral sex on their man with disgust?

Here in the phils I have had the privilege several times of pretty young virgin ask me to introduce her to adult sex life. These girls, genuine virgins, ALL enthusiastically accepted DATY. But getting them to suck YOUR dick? Oh no! (Of course in time with patience they have all learned to please a man)

Seems to be a universal trait amongst women all over the world.

AV

Hmm this is strange... most Filipinas I have met could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. :)

[Amavida]

Why do women love oral sex performed on themselves but regard oral sex on their man with disgust?

Here in the phils I have had the privilege several times of pretty young virgin ask me to introduce her to adult sex life. These girls, genuine virgins, ALL enthusiastically accepted DATY. But getting them to suck YOUR dick? Oh no! (Of course in time with patience they have all learned to please a man)

Seems to be a universal trait amongst women all over the world.

AV

[Nvslim]

You've heard of sheep shaggers? Well transpose 2 letters and what have you got?

There was an old joke about a husband and wife missionaries traveling in the outback. When they returned to their hotel, they complained to the clerk about seeing a native foo rucking and a one legged man leaning against a tree masturbating.

The hotel clerk simply replied "How can the poor booger catch a roo with only one leg."

Slim

[Amavida]

...I guess you'd be in furry paradise and what is more would have a handy pouch to put your KY and stuff ;)

:D hehehe! Ya think of everything mate!

[Cunning Stunt]

He he he! :) What the hell is that?? Sounds weird!
AV

You've heard of sheep shaggers? Well transpose 2 letters and what have you got? Don't guess its theoretically possible unless you got the fucker on its back and was able to avoid those lethal big feet. Do that and I guess you'd be in furry paradise and what is more would have a handy pouch to put your KY and stuff ;)

For people who don't speak aussie how about this?

Addendum - Don't mind me, I was a squaddie in a former life so naturally have a rather peculiar sense of humour.

[Amavida]

I'm not a Foo Rucker (couldn't catch one so guess I'll leave that to Amavida)

He he he! :) What the hell is that?? Sounds weird!
AV

[Blink157]

Blink, Your fun is her work. Any relationship that comes from you having fun and her doing her job more enthusiastically with you (call it GFE) is a bonus

I agree with both of you. I agree with your question to yourself about "why worry, since you chose not to be with her". If she hadn't come into the same bar where you were, you would never have known, and it doesn't sound like you were planning to go looking for her.

And I agree with your girl that it is your fault that the two of you fought. She has to work . . . you do NOT have to pay her on nights when you are not with her . . . and especially if you have not made arrangements for the night, then she will have to do what seems most sensible at the time.

She may be your friend, but she is still a working girl. I say don't give her grief for simply doing a difficult job. Once somebody else has barfined her, then she owes that fellow her attention. Maybe different if YOU approached the fellow and bought back the barfine, but that's not something you should expect her to do . . . especially since you seem to be clear in your own mind that you are still playing the field.

If you have not made a formal (and financial) commitment to her, then she has to earn a living. That includes not doing anything to [CodeWord140] off a customer who has paid for her services already.

My advice for you depends on what you want. If you want to keep seeing your girl and deepen your relationship because you have strong feelings for her (dangerous though that may be). Well ok, then best to go to her and apologize - take full responsibility for having behaved badly when she was only doing her job. Tell her the fight was your fault, but that the reason you were upset is because you care for her. Don't forget the many lessons and warnings from others posted on this site to never go down this path. You won't be the first or the last if you follow your heart instead of your brain though.

On the other hand, if you want to keep playing the field without regard for her feelings - which is a totally valid choice - then either don't say anything, or simply tell her you are sorry you gave her a hard time for only doing her job. But leave the "you care for her" story out of it unless you mean it. Don't play with these girls' emotions. It isn't nice, even if it's tempting to do.

No offense meant, Blink - I hope I come across as offering only my opinion and not scolding you. But I think you are experiencing the normal sort of human jealousy that we first see when one child suddenly wants a toy he was not playing with before - only after a second child begins to play with that very same toy that he didn't care about before.

Most of us STILL feel that jealous emotion from time-to-time all our lives. But most of us also recognize it for what it is - bad news - and suppress it (grin) - well, at least most of the time.

Hope that helps.

thanks for ur comments, also from the guys who PM me..


Yes, I like my freedom, but jelousy caught me in the act, I dont mind what she do if Im not around, I know it but I dont see it. But When I get confronted with that I got jellous. Guess I feel like one of those locals, who got supported from their workin bargirl friends, try to ignore the fact but get pissed on us when they see us with their so called GF s :D

Well , tomrow IM back, we txt allready, she called me and told me when M there tomrow she wont work and on saturday we going to watch Iron man :D

LG, life is good


Blink