Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Cunning Stunt]

Gamhucher.....I LOVE THAT MONIKER, mainly as a certain disc Jockey in Washington DC (The greasman) used to use that phrase when refering to
picking up girls and screwing them (As in that little honey you're Gamhooching might have a leak in her plumbing) Translation...that girl you're screwing might have the clap...he would talk this way on the air as the FCC
couldn't fine the radio station for indeceny, I'm Kinda curious if you ever heard of the guy in OZ and thats how you got the name???

Anyhow to answer your question:

Being a conoseurre of Brown skinned honeys (I like 'em dark) I've noticed that different regions in the Phils have differing "Pink places" and brown places, probably an ethnic trait, those with Chinese blood have less pink and brown BTW. Withouta doubt Mindano lass' have brown pink places and pinker brown places. Especially near the "Taint" (as in It tain't pussy and it Taint a butt hole) best to examine such area in an afternoon romp or with the light on for verification.

IMHO Thai women have darker Pink places than Filipina, especially the nips.


P.S.

Hairiness seems to be a second hereditary trait in accordance with pinker
pink places.

Geez I better stop babbling


Spamhog

Hi Spam, Nice to see you back (not that I knew you had been away, I'm a bit of a nublet hereabouts). First response to my facetious query, which was a bit disappointing as I was hoping for a bit more banter and repartee. However I sense from your posts that you are a bit of a kidder yourself so there is hope for us all yet.

I'm not a Foo Rucker (couldn't catch one so guess I'll leave that to Amavida). I'm from the old country so concentrate my efforts on sheep and LBFM’s:o

Fantastic to hear about the Greaseman’s smooching and gamahuching when few of his listeners had a clue what the fuck he was talking about. Its actually an old French word for muff diving which I guess implies that his advice was to take care they don’t [CodeWord140] in your mouth whilst your tucking in at the Y!

Well still think the brownest girls are from the Cagayan Valley in North Luzon. I used to live in Tuguegarao City and never failed to be amazed at the numbers of very dusky beauties strolling the streets. However yet to get to Mindanao (although I’ve screwed plenty them cute Mindanaoan lasses) so maybe they are darker there.

Love the ‘taint’ reference. So I guess ‘painting the taint’ involves a little bit of lingual erogenous stimulation?

Cheers GH

[Blackangst]

Blink, Your fun is her work. Any relationship that comes from you having fun and her doing her job more enthusiastically with you (call it GFE) is a bonus

I agree with both of you. I agree with your question to yourself about "why worry, since you chose not to be with her". If she hadn't come into the same bar where you were, you would never have known, and it doesn't sound like you were planning to go looking for her.

And I agree with your girl that it is your fault that the two of you fought. She has to work. You do NOT have to pay her on nights when you are not with her. And especially if you have not made arrangements for the night, then she will have to do what seems most sensible at the time.

She may be your friend, but she is still a working girl. I say don't give her grief for simply doing a difficult job. Once somebody else has barfined her, then she owes that fellow her attention. Maybe different if YOU approached the fellow and bought back the barfine, but that's not something you should expect her to do. Especially since you seem to be clear in your own mind that you are still playing the field.

If you have not made a formal (and financial) commitment to her, then she has to earn a living. That includes not doing anything to [CodeWord140] off a customer who has paid for her services already.

My advice for you depends on what you want. If you want to keep seeing your girl and deepen your relationship because you have strong feelings for her (dangerous though that may be). Well ok, then best to go to her and apologize. Take full responsibility for having behaved badly when she was only doing her job. Tell her the fight was your fault, but that the reason you were upset is because you care for her. Don't forget the many lessons and warnings from others posted on this site to never go down this path. You won't be the first or the last if you follow your heart instead of your brain though.

On the other hand, if you want to keep playing the field without regard for her feelings. Which is a totally valid choice. Then either don't say anything, or simply tell her you are sorry you gave her a hard time for only doing her job. But leave the "you care for her" story out of it unless you mean it. Don't play with these girls' emotions. It isn't nice, even if it's tempting to do.

No offense meant, Blink. I hope I come across as offering only my opinion and not scolding you. But I think you are experiencing the normal sort of human jealousy that we first see when one child suddenly wants a toy he was not playing with before. Only after a second child begins to play with that very same toy that he didn't care about before.

Most of us STILL feel that jealous emotion from time-to-time all our lives. But most of us also recognize it for what it is. Bad news. And suppress it (grin). Well, at least most of the time.

Hope that helps.

Shit. We posted the same thing LOL. I guess blink there's your answer: D

[Blackangst]

Hello to all,

Im not sure if somebody reads my extreme thrilling report from what have last happen to me in AC and about my so called GF.


I should say that I go AC evry weekend to party and then meet my GF. I told her I love you, but I dont love you evry day :D....

Serious, I dont like to have a steady relation yet, so many gurls here and I know myself not being that faithfull if I dont really love a gurl and until now Im not much in love.

Thats what I thought....WRONG...Last time I havent told my GF that I will come another day to AC, but I was there allready. Happends to me I got a bit stomach sick from the day before and just sleep all day, woke up around midnight and decide to go to some bars. Went back at Orchid Inn around 3 am and Voila, who shows up after some minutes. My Atlantis spotlight dancer GF with her friend and 2 asian guys. They like asian for some special reasons.

Now she walks in, looked up and oh shock, saw me, turning into LOts Wife immedtly..

But that was all, they sit, while I was standing over them (they were full so at that night I had to sleep in those standard rooms in the front desk area)and look like a dumbshit. From what I saw, she immdediatly moved away some inches from the guy..

I txt her and called her and ask her if she stays in the hotel with the guy and she says yes..I have to say we had some quarel before I had to find some excuses not to see her..

Ok, so after that she left with the guy and I was sitting in my room and thinkin WTF...and also why do I worry, it was me who didnt wanted to meet her now..

Now, knowing me as a nice guy, she could have come over to me and I would pay the sucker his barfine back and he could bunr his money with somebody else, cause my GF is pretty but a starfish to those she not attracted, specially her "barfines"..I know that from before..

So, why put this little story in the filipina thread...actually I want to share my experience and happy for some input from you guys..

Should she have come to me after I saw her?? SHould she go back to the bar and gave the guy his barfine back? She did nothing like that, her escuse was the guy allready paid her barfine and thats why she have to went with him, well I can say that I also pay her sometimes her barfine but nothing happn during the night, cause we both were drunk and I wanted to sleep as well she does, but then the next night no sleep at all. What Im telling is, how should she act..

I ask her and she says its my fault we fight before. Any comment on this??

Thanks for you value time to read this..


Happy hunting

Blink

OK. A few things. First off. When you say "Voila, who shows up after some minutes". Did the two of you share a steady room or something? How is it she came to the room you were in, when from the sounds of it you werent supposed to be there? The guy takes the girl to HIS room, not hers. I'm confused about this.

Second. It doesnt sound like you two are steady. So, sorry man but she's open season on whomever she wants to go BF with. Now, if you were serious, you, her, and mamasan would sit down mand make an arrangement about permanently BF her, or taking her off the market. It isn't terribly uncommon. Or, if you're REALLY serious, you would pay for her to go back home and you would support her. It doesnt sound like you're at that point.

Filipinas are a dichotomy. They are FIERCLY loyal, and FULL of temper and revenge. Just because a girl works in a bar doesnt mean she doesnt either want a normal life, or a normal relationship. But, from the sounds of it, you two arent that serious.

Sorry bro. She's open game. Hell. Post a pic and a name maybe I'll BF her when I come in August: p

(caveat: the above are statements of a general nature, and do not apply to every circumstance. But, exceptions make the rule true).

[Morepoonhound]

I told her I love you, but I dont love you evry day :D....

Serious, I dont like to have a steady relation yet, so many gurls here and I know myself not being that faithfull if I dont really love a gurl and until now Im not much in love.

Ok, so after that she left with the guy and I was sitting in my room and thinkin WTF...and also why do I worry, it was me who didnt wanted to meet her now..

I ask her and she says its my fault we fight before. Any comment on this??

Thanks for you value time to read this..

Blink, Your fun is her work. Any relationship that comes from you having fun and her doing her job more enthusiastically with you (call it GFE) is a bonus

I agree with both of you. I agree with your question to yourself about "why worry, since you chose not to be with her". If she hadn't come into the same bar where you were, you would never have known, and it doesn't sound like you were planning to go looking for her.

And I agree with your girl that it is your fault that the two of you fought. She has to work . . . you do NOT have to pay her on nights when you are not with her . . . and especially if you have not made arrangements for the night, then she will have to do what seems most sensible at the time.

She may be your friend, but she is still a working girl. I say don't give her grief for simply doing a difficult job. Once somebody else has barfined her, then she owes that fellow her attention. Maybe different if YOU approached the fellow and bought back the barfine, but that's not something you should expect her to do . . . especially since you seem to be clear in your own mind that you are still playing the field.

If you have not made a formal (and financial) commitment to her, then she has to earn a living. That includes not doing anything to [CodeWord140] off a customer who has paid for her services already.

My advice for you depends on what you want. If you want to keep seeing your girl and deepen your relationship because you have strong feelings for her (dangerous though that may be). Well ok, then best to go to her and apologize - take full responsibility for having behaved badly when she was only doing her job. Tell her the fight was your fault, but that the reason you were upset is because you care for her. Don't forget the many lessons and warnings from others posted on this site to never go down this path. You won't be the first or the last if you follow your heart instead of your brain though.

On the other hand, if you want to keep playing the field without regard for her feelings - which is a totally valid choice - then either don't say anything, or simply tell her you are sorry you gave her a hard time for only doing her job. But leave the "you care for her" story out of it unless you mean it. Don't play with these girls' emotions. It isn't nice, even if it's tempting to do.

No offense meant, Blink - I hope I come across as offering only my opinion and not scolding you. But I think you are experiencing the normal sort of human jealousy that we first see when one child suddenly wants a toy he was not playing with before - only after a second child begins to play with that very same toy that he didn't care about before.

Most of us STILL feel that jealous emotion from time-to-time all our lives. But most of us also recognize it for what it is - bad news - and suppress it (grin) - well, at least most of the time.

Hope that helps.

[Blink157]

Hello to all,

Im not sure if somebody reads my extreme thrilling report from what have last happen to me in AC and about my so called GF.


I should say that I go AC evry weekend to party and then meet my GF. I told her I love you, but I dont love you evry day :D....

Serious, I dont like to have a steady relation yet, so many gurls here and I know myself not being that faithfull if I dont really love a gurl and until now Im not much in love.

Thats what I thought....WRONG...Last time I havent told my GF that I will come another day to AC, but I was there allready. Happends to me I got a bit stomach sick from the day before and just sleep all day, woke up around midnight and decide to go to some bars. Went back at Orchid Inn around 3 am and Voila, who shows up after some minutes. My Atlantis spotlight dancer GF with her friend and 2 asian guys. They like asian for some special reasons.

Now she walks in, looked up and oh shock, saw me, turning into LOts Wife immedtly..

But that was all, they sit, while I was standing over them (they were full so at that night I had to sleep in those standard rooms in the front desk area)and look like a dumbshit. From what I saw, she immdediatly moved away some inches from the guy..

I txt her and called her and ask her if she stays in the hotel with the guy and she says yes..I have to say we had some quarel before I had to find some excuses not to see her..

Ok, so after that she left with the guy and I was sitting in my room and thinkin WTF...and also why do I worry, it was me who didnt wanted to meet her now..

Now, knowing me as a nice guy, she could have come over to me and I would pay the sucker his barfine back and he could bunr his money with somebody else, cause my GF is pretty but a starfish to those she not attracted, specially her "barfines"..I know that from before..

So, why put this little story in the filipina thread...actually I want to share my experience and happy for some input from you guys..

Should she have come to me after I saw her?? SHould she go back to the bar and gave the guy his barfine back? She did nothing like that, her escuse was the guy allready paid her barfine and thats why she have to went with him, well I can say that I also pay her sometimes her barfine but nothing happn during the night, cause we both were drunk and I wanted to sleep as well she does, but then the next night no sleep at all. What Im telling is, how should she act..

I ask her and she says its my fault we fight before. Any comment on this??

Thanks for you value time to read this..


Happy hunting

Blink

[Fifty Fifty]

Withouta doubt Mindano lass' have brown pink places and pinker brown places. Especially near the "Taint" (as in It tain't pussy and it Taint a butt hole) best to examine such area in an afternoon romp or with the light on for verification.

Ha ha, nice term, but I have always known the described part as her "Cozif"'

As in " Cos if it wasnt there, her guts would fall out"

Agree with all about the LBFMs, and the lil brownies are some of the best :)

Cheers, F/Fifty

[Spam Hog]

Ok you know it. Right next to where they are the pinkest. But the recent post of pictures of a lovely brown Filipina had me wondering which area of the Philippines produces the most dusky beauties.

OK I know that barangay girls who labour in the paddies are obviously going to be browner than city girls but in some areas native blood flows stronger and is less adulterated by Spanish/Mestizo influences. I seem to remember that girls from North Luzon in the Cagayan Valley area fit this category and are much darker skinned than average.

Any ideas for although they hate their dark colour, I am confident in saying that the majority of us western punters (but not Asians mongers) prefer them the duskier the better.

Cheers GH

Gamhucher.....I LOVE THAT MONIKER, mainly as a certain disc Jockey in Washington DC (The greasman) used to use that phrase when refering to
picking up girls and screwing them (As in that little honey you're Gamhooching might have a leak in her plumbing) Translation...that girl you're screwing might have the clap...he would talk this way on the air as the FCC
couldn't fine the radio station for indeceny, I'm Kinda curious if you ever heard of the guy in OZ and thats how you got the name???

Anyhow to answer your question:

Being a conoseurre of Brown skinned honeys (I like 'em dark) I've noticed that different regions in the Phils have differing "Pink places" and brown places, probably an ethnic trait, those with Chinese blood have less pink and brown BTW. Withouta doubt Mindano lass' have brown pink places and pinker brown places. Especially near the "Taint" (as in It tain't pussy and it Taint a butt hole) best to examine such area in an afternoon romp or with the light on for verification.

IMHO Thai women have darker Pink places than Filipina, especially the nips.


P.S.

Hairiness seems to be a second hereditary trait in accordance with pinker
pink places.

Geez I better stop babbling


Spamhog

[Amavida]

Off topic I know. But I'm seeking help. I have a phone and if I go to another country and its on roaming. Well if I get a call but can't answer it in time the caller gets a message as in Phils. " subscriber can't be reached " etc.

Well I'm planning a trip but don't want someone to know where I am. How can I handle this. (no not taking the phone is not an option.)

Any techies out there can help. All I can think to do is pretend phone is broken and not take it to said country, tho I realy need it with me.

G'day FF, We'd love to help but need to request clarification of your question.

- You're a foreigner going TO Phils
- You're an expat going FROM Phils

Which is it?

Your question seems to be how do I avoid the country specific "subscriber can't be reached" message of where you are at the time?

The simple answer is turn your cp _OFF_ when not making/receiving calls.
Even when making/receiving calls its quite likely callers may see your caller ID different to usual & quickly conclude you are not where you say you are.

Low tech solution : Lie, say your normal cp is broken & being repaired (or stolen) for how ever many days is convenient. Turn your cp off & Just go 'off the air'.

You can start your cover story now by complaining a lot every day about your cp not working correctly & mention you may need to put it in for repair... Careful with this, I once did this & a GF bought me a new cp as a 'surprise'. It was very hard to have a 'problem' with my cp after that hehe :)

If you give honey ko different number to use while you're away, you still have the problem of strange subscriber messages on unanswered calls.

Hi tech solution : Buy a 3G cell phone & get a skype account. You can create a skype ID that appears to be a cell phone number (anything you like). Honey ko may be suspicious because caller id may still be a lttle weird but she can't prove it. (Caveat : in some countries, eg China etc, even this will not hide your true location)

Best solution is both the Low tech & Hi tech combined.

AV

* its probably better to post this question in the 'Help & Advice' thread.

[Blackangst]

Dead on AV. You only have to look at the cloyingly syrupy shit (phrases lke 'Looking for my Prince Charming' 'Undying love'spring to mind) that they pile on in their pp's at DIA. It fair breaks my heart but not before I've upchucked my lunch. If only they knew that their audience comprises a fair percentage of world weary, cynical old farts like us (if you do not fall into this category, my apologies but I'll bet your getting their).

MInd you, like you say, can you blame them living unremittingly dreary lives in a bubblegum culture such as exists in the Philippines. Everyone needs a dream and theirs is to escape their poor lives on the arm of a knight in shining armour from the first world' preferably with a healthy bank balance. Sadly for most of them it aint gonna happen.

Having dated/flirted/fucked many pinays before my wife I can, of course, say this is true; however...let me bring to mind American ads. They say the same things, although to a lesser extent. Also, can anyone tell me a country where a woman doesnt strive to ''move up''? Its universal. I think many times we're too hard on these girls when in reality they want the same thing every girl wants. Diba?

I would also like to comment on the 'syrupy' comment. Filipinas really ARE different than most of their counterparts, especially in USA. IMHO its not brainwashing by soap operas so much as their trained and ingrained dedication to commitment of marriage. I know my wife still amazes me sometimes with her love and respect for our marriage...and of me. Weve been married 6 years and sometimes its like a first date. I think alot of guys feel this way. Again, just my opinion.

[Amavida]

its also a common word used for "driver" around Manila

Ah a little light bulb just went off in my head! All the Cebuano speakers Im around are always adding 'man' the end of their sentences. A contraction of manong I assume?
AV

[Member #2718]

I asked my wife what's 'manong' she told me its a visaya word same as kuya. I've studied Tagalog so I can converse in the business world. Cebuano has many simillar words but its too hard for my poor brain to learn dialects.
AV

its also a common word used for "driver" around Manila

[John05]

"Apparently getting married in phils has disrupted the normal visa process. Her hubby tells her it will be some time before she gets to come over. Shame"

That is a rather funny story. I have known many people from the Philippines. All of them know about the visa process. If you get married in her country, it takes longer to get a visa than the fiance visa. Duh! I am sure that she must know 500 people who could have told her that in her own country. The Phils. is notorious for marriage scams. You have to be extremely careful with them. RTFF. Many guys married a girl from the Phils only to end up supporting 10 to 15 people in a large, extended family. You know that there are rich peole in the Phils. The girls NEVER ask those guys for money. They assume all Americans are rich and CARELESS with their money. Careless is the main thing.

Having said all of that, there are thousands of diamonds in the Phils. as well. Pretty and caring ladies who would do anything to please her man. Hard for the basic gringo to find them while he is in Ermita most of his nights. I work here with some Phil. ladies and they are all very sweet.

[Amavida]

... That pretty little pinay married a fat guy 35 years her senior to get out off the pig farm, why? Because she really was.... THAT desperate.

Simple test of a girls honest intentions.

1) Tell her you want to get married in the Phils (Takes YEARS to get a divorce). if she says no, [CodeWord140] her off, she's likely got no intention of staying married to you.

2) Tell her you want to live there in the Phils with her. If she makes it clear that staying here is not on her agenda, [CodeWord140] her off.

BTW have you noticed that the happy couples pictured on the dating sites like CB are always a really unattractive (old) man with a pretty young woman? Sends the message loud & clear...
AV

[Sol111]

After my first day back home in the US spent the first day cursing around in my rented 08 Lac settled down in front of the pc. Was looking for an old friend on Friendster. While I didn’t find her I did find my ex’s account. To my dismay I saw her new husband for the first time. The guy is a certified troll not the forum type. Was she really that damn desperate to leave the PI? Damn where the hell do I rank compared to this guy? I believe it was AV who wrote about the desperation of Filipinas and how they chat with old the young, fair the dark, the skinny the fat the ugly the handsome. Unbelievable

D Etat, similar story. One year ago I met a gal from online, claimed 23 y.o. We met in manila and took the whole family out for shopping and dinner (on me). Mama then left her daughter with me for a few days, and she whined for money several times. The second day I checked her ID, she was 20. Very pretty, and I was doing her twice daily for 3 days (killing her, claiming she was SORE). She kept asking for 10K pisos to pay for family debts, so to shut her up I told her OK. Each day would ask me for 5K of the 10. I'm pretty sure that if I'd handed her 5K on any given day she would have bolted. Only said I LOVE YOU during discussion of money (way too obvious).

When I got back to the states we spoke lovingly online for about 2 weeks, then she asked for me to send 5K for her birthday party (that would be my present to her, a nice party for her family). I balked and ended the relationship. Money, money, money. 1 week after that there she was online, picture of herself sitting in a man's lap, wedding dress on and a big smile. He was 55-60, fat troll. The pic had a date stamp from 3 days prior. When I enquired she said that she had gotten married to an american and was quite happy and would be coming to the USA. This 3 weeks after I left her. I was stunned. Not that I liked her whiny butt that much, but 3 weeks? Yap it worked like this: the entire time she was lovey with him online, and possibly also while he was there in Manila with her, she was either boffing me or asking me for funds after I left. I'm sure he has no idea. Who knows how many others she was milking for money, all the while engaged? That pretty little pinay married a fat guy 35 years her senior to get out off the pig farm, why? Because she really was.... THAT desperate. Im guessing that in phils you have to apply a week (or more) ahead of your marriage for a marriage license, like here. So, she was applying for that while still asking me for money (and how many others?). I'm sure her husband had no idea.

As an aside, I've talked online with her since. Apparently getting married in phils has disrupted the normal visa process. Her hubby tells her it will be some time before she gets to come over. Shame.

[Cunning Stunt]

Most girls here grow up with family obligations ingrained into them. They are force fed a diet of syrupy romantic soap operas on TV. They dream of having a beautiful handsome young middle class pinoy BF who will marry them & live happily forever. The reality of her life will be a 6 day a week grind of a low paying job (if she can get one) the family is poor & needs her to find a 'supportive' husband.
AV

Dead on AV. You only have to look at the cloyingly syrupy shit (phrases lke 'Looking for my Prince Charming' 'Undying love'spring to mind) that they pile on in their pp's at DIA. It fair breaks my heart but not before I've upchucked my lunch. If only they knew that their audience comprises a fair percentage of world weary, cynical old farts like us (if you do not fall into this category, my apologies but I'll bet your getting their).

MInd you, like you say, can you blame them living unremittingly dreary lives in a bubblegum culture such as exists in the Philippines. Everyone needs a dream and theirs is to escape their poor lives on the arm of a knight in shining armour from the first world' preferably with a healthy bank balance. Sadly for most of them it aint gonna happen.