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04-06-08 10:16 #1226
Posts: 4050Stopping Kidding yourselves
Please do not delude yourselves that Filipinas, at least those from the cities, cannot figure out quickly, and reasonably accurately, the level of wealth of foreign men. There are lots of cues on which they are very quick to pick up: the type of restaurant to which you take them; the type of gifts you provide for them; your clothes and your clothing style; the types of drinks you order; the hotel in which you stay. All of these are, to them, reasonable predictors of degrees of wealth. Whether they accept you/stay with you depends on part, on whether they find that level acceptable.
The guys who don't have, or at least don't want to spend any money are not going to attract, for the most part, decently-educated, reasonably middle class Filipinas, at least not for long. They will have no trouble attracting poor girls, mostly uneducated, from the provinces, to whom even minimal luxuries represent reasonable improvements in their living standards. Here in Davao at least, if you're staying at the Marco Polo or one of the other good hotels, and you're taking the ladies to eat in European restaurants, you're going to have a much better success ratio with middle class women. This may not be an absolute law, but it's certainly true in most cases.
GE
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04-06-08 10:02 #1225
Posts: 704Poor Pinays And Rich Falangs
I do not understand the basis of this discussion.
In your own country, do you see well dressed women associating with deadbeats?
No.
Do you see poor women doing their best to hitch up with rich men?
Yes.
What is the difference?
As I see it, the difference is that in their own country, women can pretty quickly susss out the level of wealth of the man. This is not as easy as with a filipina in the Philippines with a poor falang, because the falang can afford to live relatively well and convey the impression of wealth for a period of time.
The pinay will try to get to western countries because these countries have a welfare system which will guarantee a standard of living which as far better than she can expect in the Philippines.
Also, our level or regulation, consumer protection, and law and order guarantees that she will be safe from predators.
What is the discussion?
Gangles
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04-06-08 09:41 #1224
Posts: 139Originally Posted by D Etat
I see myself as of average income, but do not consider myself as "[CodeWord140] poor".
Girls don't see you as [CodeWord140] poor they see you as able to travel thus having money. They have no understanding of how much money you really have.
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04-06-08 09:34 #1223
Posts: 100Originally Posted by D Etat
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04-05-08 19:18 #1222
Posts: 1342?
Originally Posted by X Man
I said I never see Filipinas with [CodeWord140] poor foreigners and if you don't know what [CodeWord140] poor is you are a lost cause. Dude are you an American? If not then I understand maybe you not knowing what [CodeWord140] poor means.
It means to be destitute or poor or have an average income dude.
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04-05-08 18:01 #1221
Posts: 4567Meeting family = fiance?
AV, you are an enigma in your own mind.
X
Originally Posted by Amavida
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04-05-08 17:29 #1220
Posts: 4567So, you see [CodeWord140] poor foreigners with Filipinas and you see [CodeWord140] poor Filipinas with foreigners?
I'm not sure what your definition of "[CodeWord140] poor" is, and I'm not sure what your question is.
My answer to the question which I imagine you asked...yea, it's a strange world.
X
Originally Posted by D Etat
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04-05-08 02:38 #1219
Posts: 1856hi d etat! since you have asked for opinions & im enjoying reading all these opinions i contribute from my perspective.
Originally Posted by d etat
on the other hand a mate of mine who was a pilot & retired here on a very handsome nest egg. he managed to blow the lot on [CodeWord140], women & idiotic 'business deals'. he eventually lost everything & arrived on my doorstep begging for a fare home so her could go back to australia & live off friends & relatives until he & his wife had enough money to eek out an existance on social security beneifts. throughout out all this, his long suffering pinay gf/wife stuck with him. she is still with him to this day back home in oz, going to work to support her 'retired' husband. i asked his wife "what happened?" she said to me "every day was a fiesta.."
Originally Posted by d etat
as a self made man im sure that you know that the law of the jungle applies here as everywhere else.
Originally Posted by d etat
Originally Posted by d etat
its good to have this debate so that newbie lurkers can maybe get an idea of what they are walking into if they care to know..
cheers
av
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04-05-08 01:37 #1218
Posts: 2656Originally Posted by D Etat
Yes. It is always about dough, visas or some other resource, status or privilege. This is not limited to Filipinas. Women worldwide simply don't fuck for "free", they never have and never will so don't let it upset you.
Perhaps, it is the Asian women doing the choosing not the Western men. A woman who has a lot to offer or who is considered a prize catch may not need to turn to Western men to get what she wants since desirable local suitors may be abundant.
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04-04-08 19:43 #1217
Posts: 1342Random Thoughts....
Have any of you guys ever seen a Filipina with a [CodeWord140] poor foreigner? I always see some of the girls dating Filipino guys who have nothing. Is it all about the dough and visas when a foreigner is involved? I met my ole lady in Japan she was doing well when I met her. Working two jobs but still financially stable.
Also why do the foreigners seem to pick the low of the lot when it comes to choosing Asian women? Filipinos guys seem to know what to look for. While western guys get stuck with the gold diggers and visa runners.
I asked A Filipina about the whole meeting the parent’s thing. One close to me. My ole girl. She said if the girl pushes the guy then not a problem. But if he asks to then it’s something different. She said now and days some people do it but she doesn’t agree with it. She said the parents will expect more from the relationship (other then a wham bam thank you mam) if a guy is brought before them.
Keep in mind I am asking questions not proclaiming
Beware Of Dog
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04-04-08 12:41 #1216
Posts: 4050The Difference
Going to cock fights, meeting the parents, going to the local eateries...I guess it's all an adventure if you're on vacation. It's different though, if you actually live here, work here, make your home here. Then, the dirt, the poverty and other generally down market stuff is just something unpleasant and to be avoided. You probably wouldn't hang out at cock fights or shacks in your home country or at least I sure wouldn't and it's for the same reasons that I don't go looking for them here.
GE
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04-04-08 03:08 #1215
Posts: 1239Meeting The Relatives
You guys are amusing in your way of thinking. Setting ground rules for meeting family members? In my view it can be a privilege to meet relatives and friends of the women you pursue. They can only open up doors leading to having great experiences!
Why visit the Philippines? To stay in 4 or 5 star hotels rubbing elbows with other tourists? Attending weddings, cockfights, discos, parties, etc. can be very rewarding and prosperous. When I visit, I always try to meet as many people as possible.
Sounds like some of you are meeting the wrong kind of people. You need to circulate and see what comes up!
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04-02-08 14:54 #1214
Posts: 3281Dear X man,
This is a forum for opinions and discussions. I am not offended by yours or anybody's reply.
PS. Rent a video so that you can watch with the whole family.- lol.
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04-02-08 14:32 #1213
Posts: 4567meeting the parents
I think the consensus from most of the posters was that the negative aspects of meeting a woman's parents outweigh the advantages. Not everyone touched on the specific issue of whether meeting parents might create some expectation of marriage. I asked a few Filipinas and so far rec'd only one answer. This one from a college educated lady, early 20s, in Visayan region, did not grow up in a big city, but lives there now. I didn't meet her parents (but was invited) and I didn't get past first base. Here is her answer:
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Well, it's my pleasure to answer your question...
Meeting Filipina's parents doesn't mean that you want to marry that girl maybe unless you had relationship (more than just a friend) towards that person and both of you decided already to got married...But it cannot be denied that before ,if a guy meets the parents of the one he loves,obviously he want to marry that girl...I think that was around 1970s-1980s..But it did not practiced as of now...We're modern now,so it's already accepted.
In fact we had a more Friends,boy or girl, welcome to our family..Where did you get that information?
So, your scared to meet my family because of that information???hehehehehe
Your cute...thank you for the question...
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Hey, I got a compliment out of that question, so I will thank AV for bringing up such an interesting topic in the first place! Ha, ha, AV, I bet you never thought you would get a compliment from ME!
X
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04-01-08 17:48 #1212
Posts: 4567Well, Sammon, I have to keep up my reputation as a caustic prickly ass who will disagree with anyone and everything, I never once suspected that the family thought of me as an ATM. After all, they don't have ATM's up on the mountains.
Try to be more logical in your next post!
But I'm sorry if I misundertood your post (I've been "apologizing continually" according to the fan mail in my PM box).
X
PS, I don't watch National Geographic. Should I rent the video?
Originally Posted by Sammon