Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[MasterBlaster]

'Your review of my posts are only what "I" want people to know about me! '. What kind of defense is that? For a lawyer, you suck! Oh, I'm sorry, you might not be a lawyer.

[MasterBlaster]

Trim Keeper,

I thought you were just confused; now, you are a liar. The last time you left the Philippines was 35 years ago that puts you at 6 years old back then. The only thing that was clear back then was that you wanted your baby bottle. The most recent was 4 months ago. That makes you an expert? See your own post - they don't lie.

http://www.wsgforum.com/vforum/showthread.php?s=&postid=201502#post201502

http://www.wsgforum.com/vforum/showthread.php?s=&postid=200202#post200202

Anyways, my age is no further that yours and I wasn't wearing my daddy's shorts like you claim I was. Surely, i'm not an idiot coz I beat you. Are you an ambulance lawyer? A public defender can beat you. You don't run after pussy? You flew 3,000 miles just to get pussy. Don't kid me. Keep boasting and don't forget to pay somebody an SMB.

MasterBlaster

[MasterBlaster]

Wil Kil,

Glad your enjoying yourself in the country. The more you get in tune with the locals the more you get action. You will also love it in Australia as the locals are also fun loving and they enjoy Asians and Afro-Americans like no other country I know. Upon arriving at the airport, the women are already flirting and the bars are so full of gorgeous women. I court women even on the streets and they respond. I snagged myself a few and it cost me practically nothing. The P4P is also excellent especially in Sydney. The quality of the girls are so high I can't believe it. It's like meeting girls from the covers of Cosmopolitan and Vogue magazines and it's not expensive either. The escort services even have higher quality. I went to Penthouse in Pitt Street and I banged women of various race and color for two days. It was like the United Nations there but filled with beautiful ready to f*** rated 10 women. I almost fulfilled my dream of "going around the world" and f***ing women. I thought I could do it but upon hearing the different accents while they do their sex talk / moans / groans is like Viagra to the ears and the Johnson just kept on raising up from the dead like clockwork. I think the only country I missed was Russia since I didn't have the time left. I'll probably just go to Toronto for that one or maybe go back to Sydney for another "trip around the world". Sorry for the sidetrip. Well, have fun and treat those Filipina GFs of yours nice like you already do. BTW, how is Hungary action? I love Slavic women. Their butts are the best.

MasterBlaster

[MasterBlaster]

J Boy, Migrant One,

I agree with what both of you said. There is still hope for a bar girl. I have met the nicest bar girls and they could easily pass as my childhood friend. Unfortunately, some have developed the bar mentality and find it difficult to really adjust to life outside of the bar. On the other hand, some are shameful of what they are doing but have no recourse since that is their only way out of a more unbearable situation. The difficulty, like you said, is knowing how to identify which one is which. Just to add, another is the difficulty of trying to live (once you are already married) with the knowledge that she was once a bar girl and the relationship constantly suffers since the trust level is never constant. I wouldn't recommend it to anybody, and, personally, I do not want to be in that situation. Besides, there are a lot more decent girls to be had without going through those complications. I really appreciate you writing sensible and stimulating comments unlike some who could only write wildly.

Happy mongering.

MasterBlaster

[Sho Nuff]

Master Blaster

you are right man I am a Afro-American and I love your country man the hospitality is like none other and I have traveled the world extensively via the US army Hungary, Korea etc.... but I met a girl she was not a bar girl we made love cause it was not hot sex to me I am 22 and handsome and I got a little dough(money) I can get that in my home city of Chicago she was a sweet little something though I do believe she wanted to make me love her with sex cause I told her over and over again it was not necessary but like you said we are the choosers.

[MasterBlaster]

Trim Keeper,
You're problem is you generalize too much and you go off context and you have a lot to say about the Philippines yet your experience did not even go more than 4 months. The first time you came to the Philippines was April as stated in your previous posts. When you were running after pussy all this while, when did you get the moment of clarity that you understood how life is in the Philippines? Have you really the chance to met normal people? I don't dispute everything you said but please put everything in context.

MasterBlaster

[MasterBlaster]

Trim Keeper,

The topic was about 18 year olds expressing interests for a 46 year old man in a penpal site; a topic raised by Slickery. You made a simplification that all these 18 YO are all bad and bound to ruin the man's life. These 18 YO are from the general population; so, how could you have made that simplication? For sure, you associate them with the bar girls, your rented gfs or unsavory characters you're capable of attracting.

I am NO foreigner so my perspective is definitely different than yours. But I'm no stranger in trying to attract other women in other countries either, that is, including First World countries. The truth is any woman in any country can potentially screw you up. The problem is some people think they deserve a better deal than anybody just because they came from a First World country. And when the failure happens, these people just find it convenient to malign everybody else from the Third World country for the s*** they got themselves into. That is just Western arrogance. The truth is the foreigner is the "chooser" and the Third World country girl is the "chosen". So, who's fault is it if the relationship failed? If you think others would want to shoot their own foot just let them do it and call them stupid later, but, quit painting all Filipinas as beasts out to get you.

MasterBlaster

[MasterBlaster]

Trim Keeper,

The statement "I wonder what an 18 year old girl wants with a 46 year old man" is not specifically about bar girls. Anyways, this section is about Filipinas and not bar girls. And, if you think your opinion about an 18 old girl being happy with a 46 year old negates the thousands of successful marriages between 18 year olds and 40+ or 50+ Westerners then you must be using a faulty crystal ball. I agree that many have been unsuccessful but it simply means NOT ALL. Do not assume that every human being in the planet has money and material gains in their minds. Third World people may not be rich but I would assure they can find happiness with just a little comfort and a little kindness.

MasterBlaster

[MasterBlaster]

Action Star aka Mr 1-post,

What report? Kill more brain cells and work your way up to at least 1/20-th the number of postings of the people in the discussions especially when you feel like summarizing for them. At least, we won't think of you as a Boy Scout doing your sacred oath.

MasterBlaster

[Leo Monti]

Mikster wrote:

"Remember, if you marry a foreign woman you are on the hook for a long period of support should things go south."

Hello to all you guys. I've read many time on this web site opinions like this, and I think there is a misunderstanding there. Financilay would it be so different,when things goes wrong but you have married a girl of your land?? IMO your problems will be the consequence of the fact that you trusted a girl (most of them) who dosen't really cares at you, independently she is a foreign woman or not. :)

Only my opinion.

Peace

Leo

[Migrant One]

My 2 cents, or pesos,

Many of the ladies that provide the services we want come from poor families and have very little options.

Unlike the US it is virtually impossible to break out of the lower classes in the third world countries. Combine this with a culture (many not just in the Phillipines) that accept prostitution, and you have the ladies.

Let's face it sex is friction, and a physical act only. and to many cultures that is why the stigma that we Americans have doesn't exist.

Like everything, there is no absolutes, but I know some bargirls from asian countries that have made good wives, long lasting relationships.

The difficulty is finding the ones that are honest, they exist, but many that are also lying for the chance to come over here and the money.

Younger women fall for older men, it happens and with many of the cultures we hobby in, the men can be real jerks.

If one wishes to hook up with a working lady, I would counsel take your time as here, the more time you are together, the more you get to know the person. It's difficult with long distance, but hey, if your serious, it's a small price to pay.

Migrant

[J Boy]

I guess I'll dive in on this one. I don't believe for a minute that a bar girl can't leave the bars and have a great relationship with some guy. I think the reason Americans who marry bar girls have such low success rates is that the girls never loved them in the first place. The girls married them for practical finacial reasons - to escape their current circumstances. If those same girls married for love rather than money the odds of a happy permanent relationship would go up dramatically.

I do agree that the bar life has negative effects on girls that they will need to work out but they can be worked out. I think it would be harmful to self esteem, make them distrust men, addict them to the excitement, etc.

So what is my conclusion? I won't marry a bar girl. I'm over 50, over weight, bald - I doubt the girl's attraction would be real. But if I were a good looking younger guy - I don't know. If I did fall for a bar girl I would live with her IN THE Philippines - unmarried. And I would try to get her into counseling.

[Uninfun]

Hank,

Thank you for your reply. I guess we can agree to disagree, but I feel that I need to clarify two important points.

First, my ex was not a bar girl. Out of all of her freinds, only one was a bar girl. My ex came over on a pen pal service and I met her in the US years later. She was from a real conservative family.

Second, she was older than me by a couple of years. Again, it wasn't the age difference at all. In five years I met her family (which was great though it is true about the extended family asking for money), and her friends, almost all of whom were filipina. There certainly was some good side, but the bad side unfortunately prevented my relationship from working. Similar problems arose in her friend's relationships.

As I said before, if and when I retire and move to Phillippines, I would definately get into a relationship there (no marriage though), but here, I'll stick to others. Just my two cents.

[Action Star]

This is my first report on the forum. I have read the opinion of all members. I would just like to say if you want a Filipina, just enjoy with her but dont get seriously involved else you would be heart broken. That's the best way to sum it up.

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[Rorschach]

Just my two cents worth, from a native of the Philippines.

I realize that a lot of those who post on this thread (or this forum) are really foreign to the Philippines. I bet even a lot of you will be caucasian, which really make you stand out in the crowd over here. I understand how easy it is to generalize and put down Filipinas because of the bad experiences you guys may have had. However, like what a lot of others have said, you just made a bad pick.

Face it, if you pick up a "working girl," don't expect her to be all nice to you and not to exploit you. That's their ultimate intention really. Foreigner or not, you really can't trust these women especially with regard to money matters. Just like picking up a cheap hooker in any country.

Now, some of you may ask "why can't I get a decent girl in the Philippines?" Here's what I think happens:

The bad eggs (working girls looking to exploit foreigners) are all over the place, especialy in public malls and bars. The more foreign you look, the more they'll approach you. So, you may think you met a decent girl, but you just met a very good con artist in disguise. Also, looking at the pics you guys post here, I see that your tastes lean more towards the exotic (a.k.a. half-monkey) women. Honestly, there are a lot more pretty women here than you may realize. I know because I've availed of the local services as well. It will probably cost you guys just as much to get a decent escort service as it is to pick-up an ugly woman who's all ready to put out just because she sees you've got a fat wallet.

Now, decent girls are a difficult catch if your a strange looking foreigner. There is the local mentality that foreigners here are always looking for a quick wham-bam-thank-you-ma'am thing. So, you probably will have a very difficult time getting to know any decent local girl. Besides, the upper scale women here have the idea that AIDS and other STD are more prolific in the western countries, so one-nighters with a foreigner are dangerous. Further, please don't dress up like garbae when you're walking around. If you look like trash, you'd probably attract trash too.

Just some word of advice, don't get too involved with paid women. The reason you're paying for their services is so that you can part ways and forget each other after. Sex is cheap in the Philippines, so stop trying to get any freebees and you'll probably remain safe from those girls that are after your money thinking you're gonna give them a better life in some other part of the world.