Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Steve Nash]

I consider these the exceptions that prove the rule. If they are western educated, and have spent more time in the US than some Americans, are they truly representative of the other 50,000,000 females in the Philippines?

I couldn't disagree more!

I had met 100's of Filipinas here in Canada the last 8-9 years, and even thought they mostly came to Canada as a contract worker (live-in caregivers), they all got used to the western culture eventually, of course at first they were homesick (in the first 1-2 years) since many of them were here alone with no family. But at the end of year 3 when it was time to apply for a permanent resident they all were happy living here in Canada.

Some even didn't want to visit the Philippines again because they rather save money to buy a car or a house or save for a better life.

In my opinion they easily adapt to the Western Culture, maybe it helps that the city I live in (Toronto) is a multicultural city, maybe it helps that there are hundreds of thousands of Filipinos in this city (and close to 1 million here in Canada), maybe it helps that they have a FilipinoTown here (like a Chinatown), maybe it helps that they have 2 Jollibees here in the city (soon there will be 5 Jollibees), maybe it helps that the Filipinos are friendly and like to hangout in the many bars, karaokes, and Filipino nightclubs here, they like to make house parties / celebrations every month, and they never feel alone here in a Western country.

[Chocha Monger]

Yeh, with hindsight, sometimes love / faithfulness, cannot be purchased.

The fact that you are a good fuck, most probably comes into play too, I suppose, LOL.

Not hard to imagine Sponsor being a lot older than you, and maybe a bit overweight. Sad scenario for Sponsor. Personally, I could not satisfy her needs at the expense of a fellow monger brother. Especially one who spends $1200 a month on her.

Which raises the question, are you the reader of this post, a Sponsor too? LOL.

A conscience is a hard thing to find in the Philippines, as taking advantage of the generous and soft is a way of life for the women. Ole Joe certainly learned that the hard way and ultimately paid for the lesson with his life. Conscience is something that Filipinas have no use for in their transactional romances with foreign mongers. They are not sucking old man cock out of altruistic feelings of love.

Sometimes a monger without conscience fucks the Filipinas without conscience, resulting in all kinds of interesting outcomes, tragedies, and maladies. Consider, for example, the case of one late large and very prodigious monger and wine list connoisseur who frequented Davao. In spite of his clubfoot, he managed to impregnate a large number of the local Bush women. He would scrub them up, dress them in silk dresses, and fete them on fine wine and food, bemoaning their lack of appreciation for a good wine list. While he sowed his raw oats without conscience, the local Bush women without conscience had the last laugh, as he was duped into thinking that another Western monger's bastard was his own and went to his pauper's grave believing this.

It appears that neither monger nor Filipina hooker can afford the expense of a conscience. LOL!

[Sxxxx]

I was seeing a Filipina who is heavily sponsored by an American who's been sending $1200 US a month for the last 2 years. When I was around I would stay at her house, drive her car, eat her cooking, have her maid do my laundry etc. Her sponsor always had priority though. I'the have to be quiet whenever he called or fuck off elsewhere whenever he was due to visit, I basically felt like the secret Pinoy boyfriend. I eventually had enough of being her plan be and ended it, causing a massive and prolonged emotional meltdown for her. Minimal contact ensued for almost 2 years until I rolled back into town a couple of weeks ago, she came to my hotel for a "catch up" and we were in my room fucking within 10 minutes.

Pretty sure there was a study that concluded when one partner was financially dependent on the other, it made them more likely to cheat. True in this case and many others.

Cheers.

Yeh, with hindsight, sometimes love / faithfulness, cannot be purchased.

The fact that you are a good fuck, most probably comes into play too, I suppose, LOL.

Not hard to imagine Sponsor being a lot older than you, and maybe a bit overweight. Sad scenario for Sponsor. Personally, I could not satisfy her needs at the expense of a fellow monger brother. Especially one who spends $1200 a month on her.

Which raises the question, are you the reader of this post, a Sponsor too? LOL.

[Enzo2019]

I was seeing a Filipina who is heavily sponsored by an American who's been sending $1200 US a month for the last 2 years. When I was around I would stay at her house, drive her car, eat her cooking, have her maid do my laundry etc. Her sponsor always had priority though. I'the have to be quiet whenever he called or fuck off elsewhere whenever he was due to visit, I basically felt like the secret Pinoy boyfriend. I eventually had enough of being her plan be and ended it, causing a massive and prolonged emotional meltdown for her. Minimal contact ensued for almost 2 years until I rolled back into town a couple of weeks ago, she came to my hotel for a "catch up" and we were in my room fucking within 10 minutes.

Pretty sure there was a study that concluded when one partner was financially dependent on the other, it made them more likely to cheat. True in this case and many others.

Cheers.

Not quite stupid:

She's unlikely to have given up the pinoy dick while looking for the foreign boyfriend. When she does find one the pinoy will become the live in driver / gardner / cousin in their new house. Very convenient for the 48 weeks a year said BF is back home.

A few sponsors will certainly be providing allowances higher than a call girl salary and as you said it's zero effort and the guys are only in country a few weeks a year.

The belief that mixed kids are beautiful is quite common and often true throughout Asia. Many past Ms Universe representatives were Eurasian. The 2018 winner was Aussie / Philippine.

I've always said part time hookers are the most expensive root you can find. 😲.

Enjoy. G.

[PilotPaul]

The only metric that matters for us is the time taken (in seconds) from "eyes first meet" to "panties down". The thickness in inches of her dissertation doesn't count.

Nicely written but.

I met with a double degree, business-law type that was a senior manager for a large US corp. She was head of her region and had a nice corner office in Clark. Our first meeting venue was Jollibee near Walking Street at 7 am in the morning. One coffee there and she took me back to her apartment on the road to Dau. Fucked me stupid for two hours, then headed into her office.

Another smarter type was happy to meet me provided that I had Dove soap in the bathroom. Good for her skin and the scent that the hubby would get when she got home afterwards.

These are harder to score for the tourist but certainly on the menu for extended stays.

Paul.

[PedroMorales]

I consider these the exceptions that prove the rule. If they are western educated, and have spent more time in the US than some Americans, are they truly representative of the other 50,000,000 females in the Philippines?

A lot of middle class Pinays, nurses and the rest, wouldn't give any monger a second look. Being bonked by World war 2 veterans will never be part of their linked in profile. The Philippines is not that different form many Western countries of the past. The upwardly mobile (call them what you will) work hard and hope to help their families. Speak to them and they will tel you. If they just think you bonk alley cats or like sniffing hiso panties, forget about it.

On the Red Horse: that is lethal stuff. If they are swigging it back, drop them and save yourself trouble.

Of course, it depends what you are looking for. A lady who has a few SMLs with bad English is probably the best, age 20-32. Going out karaokeing, Jollibeeing, clubbing and Dark Horsing can be fun but too much for this old soldier, who prefers a few SMLs, a leisurely roll in the hay a friendly pat on the ass to send them on their way and a good night's sleep.

A local provider just kik'd me at 7.17 am. What is a good hooker doing up at that hour, I ask. Kik will soon be no more. We will soldier on, without Red Horse.

[Kabul Guy]

KG, I usually agree with your insights, and doubtless what you've said is true in many cases. However, I've met beautiful women here with excellent educations, who have spent more time in the US than I have and who would be entirely comfortable in a Western, English-speaking environment. So while these are rare birds, they're not so rare that they can't be found; surely not in bars and not without some effort, but they do exist. I have several friends heremostly European but also a couple of Americanswho travel routinely with their wives between their home countries and the Philippines, living in both for extended periods.

GE.

I consider these the exceptions that prove the rule. If they are western educated, and have spent more time in the US than some Americans, are they truly representative of the other 50,000,000 females in the Philippines?

[Goferring]

We mongers prefer girls who sit around plastic tables drinking Red Horse, rather than those snobby ones who sit in airconditioned wine bars, perusing expensive wine lists.

It's horses for courses.

The Red Horse set are great for a weekend's fun. But daily for 18 years (the time GE said he's been in Davao)? I'd rather stab myself in the eye.

Similarly, the HiSo set come with way too much baggage to engage in Cum gargling challenges but come in handy when it's time to go stateside and meet the family or have enough IQ to book a holiday.

Cheers. G.

[Engine Driver]

KG, I usually agree with your insights, and doubtless what you've said is true in many cases. However, I've met beautiful women here with excellent educations, who have spent more time in the US than I have and who would be entirely comfortable in a Western, English-speaking environment. So while these are rare birds, they're not so rare that they can't be found; surely not in bars and not without some effort, but they do exist. I have several friends heremostly European but also a couple of Americanswho travel routinely with their wives between their home countries and the Philippines, living in both for extended periods.

GE.

Outlaw motorcycle club members wear a 1% patch on their leathers to indicate that's the percentage of riders who are non-law abiding.

GE, I think you should wear a 1% patch on the back of your shirt to indicate precisely the percentage of mongers who would seriously consider your proposal to meet sophisticated, highly educated, wealthy Pinays in Davao. LOL.

99% of motorcycle riders are law abiding. A similar percentage of mongers have no interest whatsoever in being intellectually challenged while on a mongering sexcation. We mongers prefer girls who sit around plastic tables drinking Red Horse, rather than those snobby ones who sit in airconditioned wine bars, perusing expensive wine lists. We want "mud between her toes" girls. Not those who wear Alexander McQueens from Greenbelt 5. Someone who can deep throat a cock and smile after swallowing a big cum load. Not someone who can analyse the proverbs of Marcus Aurelius after swallowing our expensive Chateau Lafite.

The only metric that matters for us is the time taken (in seconds) from "eyes first meet" to "panties down". The thickness in inches of her dissertation doesn't count.

I hope you don't mind my saying this, but I think you've been stuck in that "terrorist shithole" (attrib. C.Monger) for too long and have lost touch with what feral mongers really want. I will bring you a 1% patch when I visit Davao. I promise.

[GoodEnough]

I usually do not agree with CM's view but on this post I have to say I am 100% in agreement with him.

Marrying a foreigner, even if you got a good girl with an education and from an upper middle class background and taking her out of this culture and expecting her to adapt to a Western culture is fraught with issues, it is difficult to do successfully.

KG, I usually agree with your insights, and doubtless what you've said is true in many cases. However, I've met beautiful women here with excellent educations, who have spent more time in the US than I have and who would be entirely comfortable in a Western, English-speaking environment. So while these are rare birds, they're not so rare that they can't be found; surely not in bars and not without some effort, but they do exist. I have several friends here—mostly European but also a couple of Americans—who travel routinely with their wives between their home countries and the Philippines, living in both for extended periods.

GE.

[Mr Enternational]

Combining the two is just a good plan to have a disaster. It will cost you nothing but money, now and for an ongoing long time afterwards.

Say no to marrying a pina sex worker, save yourself while you can.

It will cost you more than money.

[Kabul Guy]

Correct fellas! This is how mongers fall in love with freelance Pinay cocksuckers, marry them, and take them home to be good little wives. ....

I usually do not agree with CM's view but on this post I have to say I am 100% in agreement with him.

Marrying a foreigner, even if you got a good girl with an education and from an upper middle class background and taking her out of this culture and expecting her to adapt to a Western culture is fraught with issues, it is difficult to do successfully.

Marrying a sex worker and expecting her to be totally reformed and becoming your own personal sex toy forever, even if she is from your culture is also a low percentage effort.

Combining the two is just a good plan to have a disaster. It will cost you nothing but money, now and for an ongoing long time afterwards.

Say no to marrying a pina sex worker, save yourself while you can.

[Goferring]

If you are already planning on discounting, you are indeed off to a bad start. I'm sorry to say this, but you are fucked before you even get on the plane. LOL.

Agreed. For 3 days only, just pay the rate x 3 because:

It's the right thing to do.

She will find numerous things to do to thank you for the ongoing business.

You will be getting more for your money anyway as her definition of LT will likely grow from just overnight to 24 hrs per day (if that's what you want).

You can bail if you want to after a day or two rather than comiting to your whole holiday at a fixed lower price.

I have organised weekly rates before but these are hardly knock down prices. Typically just her normal income paid direct to her without drink, dancing, barfine commissions etc paid to the bar. It's a win win.

Enjoy. G.

[Sxxxx]

If you are already planning on discounting, you are indeed off to a bad start. I'm sorry to say this, but you are fucked before you even get on the plane. LOL.

I agree, "you are fucked before you even get on the plane".

Filipinas are averse to curipot guys. They like generous guys. Even so, they do not respect guys who are stupid with their money either. There is a balance between being generous and being a fool, with ones money. You will not get much if your a fool, and you will get even less if your curipot / dihig / cheap charlie.

Wrong attitude / m. O. I am afraid, my friend.

[Engine Driver]

5. What is the possibility of getting a decent looking freelancer below 30 yrs of age and making her stay with me for 3-4 days at a lesser price.
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If you are already planning on discounting, you are indeed off to a bad start. I'm sorry to say this, but you are fucked before you even get on the plane. LOL.

If you saw your doctor three days in a row, would you ask him for a discount? You are a rich monger who can afford to go on overseas holidays. The girl is poor, unmarried and has a baby. Why use the power imbalance to beat her down on price for the three day trip? It is plain wrong. If her LT fee is 5,000 a day, then three days would be 15,000. Just pay it. Everyone will be a lot happier.

Prostitution is hard work. Girls do not like hanging out with foreign mongers. Mongers snore, they smell, they sweat and constantly want shots on goal. The girl is providing you with a valuable service you cannot get back in your country. Just treat her with a little kindness and respect. They hate having to negotiate, just so they can buy milk for their babies.

That's my rant for the day. Gentlemen, you may shoot me down.