Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[Goferring]

2. If you are sending money then you are creating an addict and then tada they are gone.

I never send money ever.

Agreed. Sending money from overseas achieves nothing.

Those that think sending a monthly allowance will keep Lyn out of the bar, on the straight and narrow or will secure a place at the front of the queue upon return are just kidding them selves.

Enjoy. G.

[Pinaypounder]

Casual reader, first time poster.

For the past few years I was mixed up with a young pinay. She was pretty good company, actual real university student and committed to keeping my sausage happy.

We called it quits earlier this year. It's amazing how quickly they can accept reality when the money stops flowing. Actually I learned so much when I saw that in action.

Pay money every week for two years and then when it stops that really drives her to picking up casual mongers every weekend. I will be better prepared next time.l.

1. Have reasonable intelligence and expectations and understand the market.

2. If you are sending money then you are creating an addict and then tada they are gone.

I never send money ever.

[Pinaypounder]

I am in Canada and I like to hunt Filipinas.

Met one here, we chatted and agreed to meet for 5 days & 4 nights.

The known facts prior to meeting:

I knew she was working here and had one daughter (a rather normal circumstance).

She told me she had not had any sex for 2 years (again a typical story).

I am 19 years her senior.

She is an intelligent (a nice surprise) well educated woman who worked in a great professional job and was rather expert at it and frankly the 2nd most intelligent Filipina I have ever met.

She has made a good living in her last profession, had a car, motorcycle etc (rare in my travels). Traveled home allot.

Prior to meeting she found and went through my entire Facebook profile (I think she wanted to know that I was truly single ha ha ha, I leave mine open because I am actually single and one day hope to meet my last partner (not this one).

She was the daughter of a typical abusive relationship where the Father cheated repeatedly and beat the Mother, typical behavior. She of course loves her parents who in my normal western mind are very bad people.

She has done a great job in her profession progressing to Team Lead in a school and a supervisory position. She has goals and will likely achieve them.

She has had "4 lovers" (she repeatedly defended this) but has some pretty "good skills" so I wonder if the number is closer to 40. I should probably get tested.

She is a 7 with great tits and a hungry hungry!

She is multi orgasmic and loved a cock being inside of her.

Refused to provide any sort of sexual pictures again odd.

We meet and 2 hours later are having sex (this is why I love Filipinas despite their many flaws).

Typically conservative but a hungry, hungry ****. And was actually an active lover and perhaps the 4/5th best fucker I have ever had with a great mouth.

Super easy to be with and exhibits those old school woman values, again a huge positive of the Filipina.

Over the course of the 4 days I discover the following:

She is actually married and maintains a relationship with her husband in the Philippines who takes care of their daughter (that is a nice surprise a man being responsible, the marriage was a but of a shocker, I am an idealist).

Based on her description of her husband he seems to be gay (buy who knows she is a liar, they are such skilled liars I mean this may be their best cultural trait.).

She went home and fucked her husband at Christmas, but "not much" and she does not enjoy it (hahahahahaha) (8 months ago).

And of course when then reveals that she had a Filipina lover where she worked whom she fucked just prior to arriving here. (4 months ago).

The lover was the husband of a friend of hers and for the longest time during our 5 days she defended him despite him turning out to be a typical Filipino Muslim male who was constantly taking advantage of her. He made her pay for most of their meetings and adventures and then treated her like an indentured slave then asked of course to borrow money from her and for her to sign as a guarantor on his loan, likely she did although she denied it.

She is smart and meticulous in keeping her relationships separate, all of her Filipina friends are completely complicit in supporting her separate lives. Remember that fact boys! (If you want to know the real truth find an ex-friend and she will likely burn her to the ground.).

She took a lot of selfies and had a couple of calls with her husband. Maybe 5% of her pics involved the 2 of us.

Her "ex" lover called her 15 times but she did not take his calls.

I chatted with her best friend a couple of times so now the lying about me is added to the mix, that she never hid.

She is here desperate to get her PR and openly admits that she will bring her husband over with her daughter.

I was pissed at first, especially when it seems besides being married she is still maintaining with the lover. I had higher hopes and expectations, call me a Romantic.

After 4 days we talked about living together (my eyes were WIDE open now) and I think that I will, the fat white cunts here are frankly horrible and we had more sex in 5 days than most poor married bastards my age have in a year.

When we live together I will have the advantage, a wonderful **** at my disposal, a woman who takes care of me and I am able to provide a constant threat of being able to expose her if she becomes an asshole and there will be a pre-nup yes even for living together. Rather a sad perspective but now at least my eyes are wide open.

This is not ideal but hey it's a savage world and this is far better than what I can expect from a white woman my age who wants to lie around and drink wine because after all she "earned it" entitled bitches.

She knows that I will also be travelling to the Philippines a few times and will fuck my brains out. She refuses to discuss group sex she knows I love it and I have a green light.

So I look forward to it, in the back of my mind I am a little sad that it will never be a true relationship and of course she can never ever be trusted but hey I am getting fucked it seems nothing else matters.

So take advantage of what you can and if I stray now and again what can she say?

So that boys is my heads up to you. Please know that if you think you can actually have a real marriage 1970 style with an intelligent Filipina you can't. They all lie, the stupid part is that often lie for no reason.

Maybe this is why most seem so stupid, they are using most of their brain power to maintain their lie database and they have to cross reference each statement!

I guess I will never ever find true and proper love with a Filipina but but oh well. But now I realize I have a really good fuck who I can cheat on as she is cheating on me!

Keep your heads up, never marry them, treat them well, fuck the shit out of them but NEVER marry or trust them then you won't be disappointed just don't abuse them physically.

PP.

[Wicked Roger]

If lying, cheating and conniving were events at the Olympic Games, then the Philippines would win gold, silver and bronze in each event. That's a total of 9 medals. Since only one Pinay has a ever won a medal at the Olympics in its 124 year history, perhaps some well connected mongers should lobby the IOC for the inclusion of these events on the grounds of fairness. Pinays are too lazy to run, jump or swim, so we should focus on events that can be done while laying in bed with a smart phone.

Every Pinay you meet in the hooking world or on dating apps will be a pathological liar. I am sure lying, cheating and conniving are biologically evolved survival skills to compensate for the lack of brain mass.

Add to that sleeping for up to 20 hours a day if allowed, spending an inordinate amount of time in the shower relative to body size (the 2 minute shower rule in some countries would never work in the Philippines) and not understanding that 830 pm means 830 pm and not some time much later LOL.

9 more medals ED LOL.

[Chocha Monger]

I like to think I'm better a selecting the right woman who doesn't have these tenancies. A) She has as much to lose and B) she's also a player.

Most of the men who got their lives destroyed were confident that they were choosing the right women and that their money and power could protect them.

[Engine Driver]

If lying, cheating and conniving were events at the Olympic Games, then the Philippines would win gold, silver and bronze in each event. That's a total of 9 medals. Since only one Pinay has a ever won a medal at the Olympics in its 124 year history, perhaps some well connected mongers should lobby the IOC for the inclusion of these events on the grounds of fairness. Pinays are too lazy to run, jump or swim, so we should focus on events that can be done while laying in bed with a smart phone.

Every Pinay you meet in the hooking world or on dating apps will be a pathological liar. I am sure lying, cheating and conniving are biologically evolved survival skills to compensate for the lack of brain mass.

[PilotPaul]

While there are many post-wall married American women who would leap at the chance to cheat on a husband, they often fantasize about doing so with a much younger man with washboard abs not middle-aged or elderly men. If the target of your sexual advances finds you less than desirable, she may welcome the opportunity to make some drama by informing her husband, peers, employer, and the public. This gets her the attention, validation, sympathy, and vindication she craves. Good for her but maybe not so much for you..

I like to think I'm better a selecting the right woman who doesn't have these tenancies. A) She has as much to lose and B) she's also a player.

[Chocha Monger]

I was comparing a slim 37 size 6 western woman to the tight 22 year old Filipino body.

Another comparison I have to make is the regular but limited access to a western woman here or trade that off to 6 monthly trips where it is 24 x 7 sex on call.

I have been amazing at the quality of western women whom will do things, when you ask nicely. I had an interim fling with a department head, she was responsible for her location. Happy with her partner, he is a good dad but he no longer ravished or even touched her body. She was an attractive blonde that usually I would have been nervous to approach. My relationship cynicism tells me to give things a try these days and she was grateful for the attention. Amazing.

I have been watching Esther Perel which gives me some confidence of surviving all this.

PP.

Approaching Western women for trysts is likely playing Russian roulette with a loaded gun. It does not matter whether one asks nicely or not. What matters is if she takes offense or wants the attention that comes with claiming sexy harassment. Is the possibility of having sex with her worth the risk to one's career and reputation? Likely not.

While there are many post-wall married American women who would leap at the chance to cheat on a husband, they often fantasize about doing so with a much younger man with washboard abs not middle-aged or elderly men. If the target of your sexual advances finds you less than desirable, she may welcome the opportunity to make some drama by informing her husband, peers, employer, and the public. This gets her the attention, validation, sympathy, and vindication she craves. Good for her but maybe not so much for you.

A well-known Spanish tenor is learning the risks that comes with asking nicely or not nicely from the perspective that matters, that of the quality Western women.

https://www.bbc.com/news/entertainment-arts-49334226

Most mongers are better off keeping it in their pants until the next trip.

[PilotPaul]

Yes a good conversation is important but is that with a slim 20+ years white girl who calls you 'daddy' or a large assed 50+ woman? For me the pinay wins (but am biased and am used to the 'demands' so deal with harshly at times).

I was comparing a slim 37 size 6 western woman to the tight 22 year old Filipino body.

Another comparison I have to make is the regular but limited access to a western woman here or trade that off to 6 monthly trips where it is 24 x 7 sex on call.

I have been amazing at the quality of western women whom will do things, when you ask nicely. I had an interim fling with a department head, she was responsible for her location. Happy with her partner, he is a good dad but he no longer ravished or even touched her body. She was an attractive blonde that usually I would have been nervous to approach. My relationship cynicism tells me to give things a try these days and she was grateful for the attention. Amazing.

I have been watching Esther Perel which gives me some confidence of surviving all this.

PP.

[SaltyPete]

The no honey no money rules applies everywhere but I know many with pinay 'girlfriends' this rule is very strictly enforced if not by her by her family (who can be the ones behind the demands) - had this before etc and I was my usual direct and rude self to cut off chatter about for example why I would not send cash to help as her uncle had died and she needed PHP 10 k to help. My reply was her uncles family can do all that. We stopped chatting soon after.

Yes a good conversation is important but is that with a slim 20+ years white girl who calls you 'daddy' or a large assed 50+ woman? For me the pinay wins (but am biased and am used to the 'demands' so deal with harshly at times).

All up to you PP we all are different. As Mr E says try both as same time to decide but be sure you compare apples to apples not apples to large tits LOL.

My rule is "no honey, no money".

[Wicked Roger]

Casual reader, first time poster.

For the past few years I was mixed up with a young pinay. She was pretty good company, actual real university student and committed to keeping my sausage happy.

We called it quits earlier this year. It's amazing how quickly they can accept reality when the money stops flowing. Actually I learned so much when I saw that in action.

Pay money every week for two years and then when it stops that really drives her to picking up casual mongers every weekend. I will be better prepared next time.

On the rebound I was happy with an arrangement I made with a local girl back in my home country. OMG I had forgotten how much fun it was to have a decent conversation.l.

The no honey no money rules applies everywhere but I know many with pinay 'girlfriends' this rule is very strictly enforced if not by her by her family (who can be the ones behind the demands) - had this before etc and I was my usual direct and rude self to cut off chatter about for example why I would not send cash to help as her uncle had died and she needed PHP 10 k to help. My reply was her uncles family can do all that. We stopped chatting soon after.

Yes a good conversation is important but is that with a slim 20+ years white girl who calls you 'daddy' or a large assed 50+ woman? For me the pinay wins (but am biased and am used to the 'demands' so deal with harshly at times).

All up to you PP we all are different. As Mr E says try both as same time to decide but be sure you compare apples to apples not apples to large tits LOL.

[PilotPaul]

Not understanding why you can not have both.

That's an excellent question. Well I already have one current wife of long standing so I think one extra is enough. I'm looking for an ongoing arrangement.

[Mr Enternational]

Well now I'm free again and thinking about the next choice.
A) Another pinay with their lies and screwed up brain but great enthusiasm sex.

B) Another white home girl, more expensive but sensible.

Decisions.

Not understanding why you can not have both.

[PilotPaul]

Casual reader, first time poster.

For the past few years I was mixed up with a young pinay. She was pretty good company, actual real university student and committed to keeping my sausage happy.

We called it quits earlier this year. It's amazing how quickly they can accept reality when the money stops flowing. Actually I learned so much when I saw that in action.

Pay money every week for two years and then when it stops that really drives her to picking up casual mongers every weekend. I will be better prepared next time.

On the rebound I was happy with an arrangement I made with a local girl back in my home country. OMG I had forgotten how much fun it was to have a decent conversation.

Well now I'm free again and thinking about the next choice.

A) Another pinay with their lies and screwed up brain but great enthusiasm sex.

B) Another white home girl, more expensive but sensible.

Decisions.

Paul.

[CzarNicholas]

When forgiveness is unlimited, so are lies, adultery, thievery, and murder. That is their strength and their downfall. Those who hitch their fortunes and futures to such duplicitous creatures seldom fare well.

When forgiveness is unlimited, so are lies, adultery, thievery, and murder. That is their strength and their downfall. Those who hitch their fortunes and futures to such duplicitous creatures seldom fare well.