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[CoolMachine]

3 for the price of one.

[AussieGaigin]

FD would not have gotten very far unless she pretty much wanted it and perhaps needed some alcohol to scramble up some courage. After all "good traditional girls" don't do such things as go home with strangers for a one night stand.

MAB.

But surely there is a difference between a girl having a few drinks to "scramble up courage" and one who was apparently so drunk that she was not aware of what was happening.

[Mighty Spearsman]

Hey Mate.

OK you are right. Now tell me how do I get her photos removed?

I do not mean any harm but was just sharing with fellow guys. The same species.

Just noticed that this poor girl's photos have been deleted by Jackson. Good!

[Levitian]

This is called sharing mates.

I just do not like to spend too much time to comment more, neither on your "great" post here, nor on the one in "cheap sex in China".

Lev

[BionicMan]

Hey Mate.

OK you are right. Now tell me how do I get her photos removed?

I do not mean any harm but was just sharing with fellow guys. The same species.

Copy your message if you want to save it, then ask Jackson to remove our ENTIRE psost, by using the "report" function at the bottom left of every post.

You can ask to remove your own post (in question)

Then you can repost the text only at a later stage with a foreword about the "repost"

[FrancoDemore]

Hey Mate.

OK you are right. Now tell me how do I get her photos removed?

I do not mean any harm but was just sharing with fellow guys. The same species.

I agree with Wonderer's assessment of general attitude regarding what "good" girls in China do and don't do. They do in fact need face with regard to having sex with strangers. In general most Chinese women are relatively conservative and having an "out" to save face is important. She can talk about this with her girlfriends if she chooses but still save face. More importantly she can still honestly claim she resisted a man's advances before succumbing to have sex thus she can keep her reputation and won't be labeled as a common. The semantics and actions are all gray for westerner's perhaps but in the mind of the Chinese woman, it is very much calculated and fairly black and white.

FD would not have gotten very far unless she pretty much wanted it and perhaps needed some alcohol to scramble up some courage. After all "good traditional girls" don't do such things as go home with strangers for a one night stand.

BTW as much fun as it is to post pics of your conquests, pictures clearly showing the face of girls not in the business on a sex site is definitely not good. I had a girl who was a pro turned "civilian" ask me to take her picture down because she was no longer in the business and she was living a normal life. You can easily ruin the reputation of good girls by posting identifying pics of non-pros on sex sites.

MAB.

[FrancoDemore]

Hi Bro.

Yes I totally agree with you. You had it all every cent of it is right. I have been chatting with her on skype and she just wanted to be friends and pretends nothing ever happened. And yes Chinese girls wants to get drunk so they can not be blamed for getting fucked or simply sleeping with a guy she hardly know. Guys do not need a reason to fuck but girls need one.

I totally agree with you bro. I had a similar experience just a couple of months back.

It turns out the my agent office girl and I were traveling. It was her bday. S being good friends with her I organised a party for her. Good dinner andt fancy restaurant and then Peter to KTV for some fun with a few suppliers and friends. Now she got really drunk and I had no idea about it. Later back at the hotel she didn't go to her room and came with me to my room on pretext of talking and discussing next days plan. Once in the room she suggested we play poker. I said fine. But suggested not with money. I asked her then? She say add some adventure to it. Although a little buzzed myself I got the message. I suggested how about strip poker. She asked whats that. I explained The rules and she quickly agreed. In about half hour of play we were both ihad lost everything on us. And I suggested we move to the bed. She didn't want to. Then again half a round of poker to decide what we going to do next. I won and we had a good 2 sessions at night and one in the morning which is I started while she was still asleep by fingering her to get her excited and she responded.

After we got ready to go to work she said although I don't regret what happened, but I just want to forget what happened. I've tried to be close to her a couple of times after that, to which she has really got upset to the extent that she shouted back and saying respect her space.

Now the point which wonderer made is theT ot is normal for the Chinese girls to get drunk and have sex but you cannot be sure that she have got a babe forever once doing her. She might not agree after that As happened in my case. QUOTE=Wonderer; 1424428]I didn't really want to get involved in this topic. However, I am afraid that there are a few aspects, which we westerners often forget.

As a matter of fact, in China, to make a girl drunk and then to bring her home to do her seems to be a normal "game" among Chinese men and girls. Let's not be overly critical here. This is a game, which both parties. Male and female. Equally enjoy. In the Chinese society, girls have to be "good","traditional" and all the other and. S. They don't like this in fact. They like to do the men as much as the men like to do them. But how shall they do without losing their "face"? Well, getting drunk and to do "crazy" things when you are drunk is pretty much acceptable in China. So, the girls who get drunk often do this on purpose and driven by instinct, though not necessarily always fully consciously. It allows them to do what they would not be able to do if they were sober. Hence, being drunk is a good.

[DeepDeeper]

I totally agree with you bro. I had a similar experience just a couple of months back.

It turns out the my agent office girl and I were traveling. It was her bday. S being good friends with her I organised a party for her. Good dinner andt fancy restaurant and then Peter to KTV for some fun with a few suppliers and friends. Now she got really drunk and I had no idea about it. Later back at the hotel she didn't go to her room and came with me to my room on pretext of talking and discussing next days plan. Once in the room she suggested we play poker. I said fine. But suggested not with money. I asked her then? She say add some adventure to it. Although a little buzzed myself I got the message. I suggested how about strip poker. She asked whats that. I explained The rules and she quickly agreed. In about half hour of play we were both ihad lost everything on us. And I suggested we move to the bed. She didn't want to. Then again half a round of poker to decide what we going to do next. I won and we had a good 2 sessions at night and one in the morning which is I started while she was still asleep by fingering her to get her excited and she responded.

After we got ready to go to work she said although I don't regret what happened, but I just want to forget what happened. I've tried to be close to her a couple of times after that, to which she has really got upset to the extent that she shouted back and saying respect her space.

Now the point which wonderer made is theT ot is normal for the Chinese girls to get drunk and have sex but you cannot be sure that she have got a babe forever once doing her. She might not agree after that As happened in my case. QUOTE=Wonderer; 1424428]I didn't really want to get involved in this topic. However, I am afraid that there are a few aspects, which we westerners often forget.

As a matter of fact, in China, to make a girl drunk and then to bring her home to do her seems to be a normal "game" among Chinese men and girls. Let's not be overly critical here. This is a game, which both parties. Male and female. Equally enjoy. In the Chinese society, girls have to be "good","traditional" and all the other and. S. They don't like this in fact. They like to do the men as much as the men like to do them. But how shall they do without losing their "face"? Well, getting drunk and to do "crazy" things when you are drunk is pretty much acceptable in China. So, the girls who get drunk often do this on purpose and driven by instinct, though not necessarily always fully consciously. It allows them to do what they would not be able to do if they were sober. Hence, being drunk is a good.

[Haokool]

Looking at your shirt, it reminds me the one of a Airlines Pilots, is she a member of your crew?

Beijing Quicky:

To be continued.

[AussieGaigin]

i am not an expert on chinese customs and attitudes, so don't want to partake in further comment on this incident.

but this australian newspaper report highlights the difficulties elsewhere with the "she was drunk, but consented to sex" vs "i might have been drunk, but i didn't consent" syndrome, which seems to surface here at regular intervals.

http://www.smh.com.au/nsw/this-will-...520-2jw40.html

the most unusual "[CodeWord123]" case i've seen here involved a guy who picked up a girl in a bar. they went back to her place, they had sex and she went to sleep. he got up go to to the bathroom to take a leak. in the dark he went back to the bedroom and got back into bed. the girl roused and they had sex again. only problem was that he unknowingly went into her flatmate's bedroom; she thought it was her boyfriend come home and was happy to have him. it was only when she later switched on the light that she realised she had the wrong man. she went off to the police and claimed [CodeWord123]. it went to court but i never saw the outcome of the trial.

[BossManFred]

Hey mate.

You guys are right and if she really press charges I'm probably dead and never return to China ever. But usually that's never the case here. I have been chatting with her over skype and it all seems cool. She is now dating again and been asking me for tips on guys. Isn't that cool.

Well, if that's how it is, then looks like we have a happy ending then!

Bro don't get me wrong, not having a go at you, but you might want to be careful. You may not be so lucky next time!

[Mock A Bee]

i agree with wonderer's assessment of general attitude regarding what "good" girls in china do and don't do. they do in fact need face with regard to having sex with strangers. in general most chinese women are relatively conservative and having an "out" to save face is important. she can talk about this with her girlfriends if she chooses but still save face. more importantly she can still honestly claim she resisted a man's advances before succumbing to have sex thus she can keep her reputation and won't be labeled as a common ****. the semantics and actions are all gray for westerner's perhaps but in the mind of the chinese woman, it is very much calculated and fairly black and white.

fd would not have gotten very far unless she pretty much wanted it and perhaps needed some alcohol to scramble up some courage. after all "good traditional girls" don't do such things as go home with strangers for a one night stand.

btw as much fun as it is to post pics of your conquests, pictures clearly showing the face of girls not in the business on a sex site is definitely not good. i had a girl who was a pro turned "civilian" ask me to take her picture down because she was no longer in the business and she was living a normal life. you can easily ruin the reputation of good girls by posting identifying pics of non-pros on sex sites.

mab.

i didn't really want to get involved in this topic. however, i am afraid that there are a few aspects, which we westerners often forget.

as a matter of fact, in china, to make a girl drunk and then to bring her home to do her seems to be a normal "game" among chinese men and girls. let's not be overly critical here. this is a game, which both parties. male and female. equally enjoy. in the chinese society, girls have to be "good","traditional" and all the other and. s. they don't like this in fact. they like to do the men as much as the men like to do them. but how shall they do without losing their "face"? well, getting drunk and to do "crazy" things when you are drunk is pretty much acceptable in china. so, the girls who get drunk often do this on purpose and driven by instinct, though not necessarily always fully consciously. it allows them to do what they would not be able to do if they were sober. hence, being drunk is a good excuse.

i remember a case when i was in a bar in china and met an attractive girl. she kept on telling me that she is not like all the others and will not be an easy target for me or any other men."i am a traditional woman" was her statement. however, she then recommended to move. together with her female friend. to another bar. we drunk more, she became somewhat drunk and her female friend became very drunk. so, we put her friend into a taxi. then, she suggested to go to may home. so much about the "traditional woman". china is full of "inconsistencies". at least from a western perspective.

so, it is quite likely that the shanghai muse girl wanted to be done that night. it might have been her sort of "revenge" for the lost boyfriend. so, fd was just lucky to get her at the right time. when she pushed him away in the morning was probably when she thought she should be a "good girl" and would need to keep her face. but then, she liked to be done again.

there is currently an ongoing debate in china, what [CodeWord123] actually means. it is not so clearly defined. it is only clear if it is non-consensual vaginal intercourse. however, other forms, which western countries might call [CodeWord123] are not so clearly defined, or not defined at all.

if the girl was over 18 when it happened, it wouldn't be that easy to claim "[CodeWord123]". if it turns out that she was so drunk on that day that she couldn't think anymore and went with the guy on her own will (as much as she still had one) , it would be difficult to qualify for [CodeWord123]. if she really tries, she risks to lose also her reputation. i don't think she is too keen about that.

if fd wants to do something meaningful, then he may buy a few small gifts for her, date her a few more times (not necessarily to bring her back home) and may tell her that he really likes her and they can be good friends. the old story will soon be forgotten, and both are in peace with each other.

other countries, other cultures.

however, and this is now serious: i think it is unacceptable to copy her pics from weixin (which is still quite "neutral") and then to post here in a sex forum, even without covering her identity. this is simply and bluntly stupid.

i strongly recommend fd to ask jackson for removal of the pics from the forum. it will be better for all.

all this is just mho from some experience and observation in china. others might have other experiences and other views.

wonderer

[Wonderer]

more likely never return home. if what you described is true you face some serious shit if she decided she wasn't happy about it. you can get 8-10 years in the usa for [CodeWord123] and china is much harsher on violent crime.

also, i don't know what the consensus is here, but my opinion is that if a girl allows a pic, it's just a matter of respect that you either get her ok to post it or block out her face. this forum is open to the world and if family or friends were to pop her pic into google images or tineye, they'd find your post about what you did to her. especially so if it's a non-pro girl that doesn't actually post her own pics online herself. if you're re-posting an ad from online that she posted herself then it's all fair game.

i didn't really want to get involved in this topic. however, i am afraid that there are a few aspects, which we westerners often forget.

as a matter of fact, in china, to make a girl drunk and then to bring her home to do her seems to be a normal "game" among chinese men and girls. let's not be overly critical here. this is a game, which both parties. male and female. equally enjoy. in the chinese society, girls have to be "good","traditional" and all the other and. s. they don't like this in fact. they like to do the men as much as the men like to do them. but how shall they do without losing their "face"? well, getting drunk and to do "crazy" things when you are drunk is pretty much acceptable in china. so, the girls who get drunk often do this on purpose and driven by instinct, though not necessarily always fully consciously. it allows them to do what they would not be able to do if they were sober. hence, being drunk is a good excuse.

i remember a case when i was in a bar in china and met an attractive girl. she kept on telling me that she is not like all the others and will not be an easy target for me or any other men."i am a traditional woman" was her statement. however, she then recommended to move. together with her female friend. to another bar. we drunk more, she became somewhat drunk and her female friend became very drunk. so, we put her friend into a taxi. then, she suggested to go to may home. so much about the "traditional woman". china is full of "inconsistencies". at least from a western perspective.

so, it is quite likely that the shanghai muse girl wanted to be done that night. it might have been her sort of "revenge" for the lost boyfriend. so, fd was just lucky to get her at the right time. when she pushed him away in the morning was probably when she thought she should be a "good girl" and would need to keep her face. but then, she liked to be done again.

there is currently an ongoing debate in china, what [CodeWord123] actually means. it is not so clearly defined. it is only clear if it is non-consensual vaginal intercourse. however, other forms, which western countries might call [CodeWord123] are not so clearly defined, or not defined at all.

if the girl was over 18 when it happened, it wouldn't be that easy to claim "[CodeWord123]". if it turns out that she was so drunk on that day that she couldn't think anymore and went with the guy on her own will (as much as she still had one) , it would be difficult to qualify for [CodeWord123]. if she really tries, she risks to lose also her reputation. i don't think she is too keen about that.

if fd wants to do something meaningful, then he may buy a few small gifts for her, date her a few more times (not necessarily to bring her back home) and may tell her that he really likes her and they can be good friends. the old story will soon be forgotten, and both are in peace with each other.

other countries, other cultures.

however, and this is now serious: i think it is unacceptable to copy her pics from weixin (which is still quite "neutral") and then to post here in a sex forum, even without covering her identity. this is simply and bluntly stupid.

i strongly recommend fd to ask jackson for removal of the pics from the forum. it will be better for all.

all this is just mho from some experience and observation in china. others might have other experiences and other views.

wonderer

[Stegram]

hey mate.

if she really press charges i'm probably dead and never return to china ever.

more likely never return home. if what you described is true you face some serious shit if she decided she wasn't happy about it. you can get 8-10 years in the usa for [CodeWord123] and china is much harsher on violent crime.

also, i don't know what the consensus is here, but my opinion is that if a girl allows a pic, it's just a matter of respect that you either get her ok to post it or block out her face. this forum is open to the world and if family or friends were to pop her pic into google images or tineye, they'd find your post about what you did to her. especially so if it's a non-pro girl that doesn't actually post her own pics online herself. if you're re-posting an ad from online that she posted herself then it's all fair game.

[FrancoDemore]

Thought the same.

Lev

This is called sharing mates.