I'm going to have to disagree politely. This is not how men pick-up women in these countries. We do, as foreigners, have license to approach them and ply our wares, but flashing cash like this is counter productive and make one look socially retarded. I'm not saying that there isn't a cash-for-honey component to S. E. Asia, but it must be done subtly-pay for her meal, take her shopping, etc-after the woman has made some sort of minor commitment. Doing it your way makes foreigners look like targets, will not bring respect, and will garner lower quality women. The point of S. E. Asia is not to have to get used by women in the pursuit of companionship / hook-up, unlike back home. (Most older women will be flattered and even buy you a gift in most parts of Asia.)
I agree with Jesterl. I had a local HK MILF for several years; took her to lunch often and let her talk. Be sympathetic and appreciative (not just with $). Later, she would even visit my office early in morning for a free fuck. Ending up giving ME gifts, including some jewellery and clothes. Parted on very good terms when I returned to Australia. There is no need to act like a master or ruler. Show respect and you get respect. Even in our favourite activity!
I'm going to have to disagree politely. This is not how men pick-up women in these countries. We do, as foreigners, have license to approach them and ply our wares, but flashing cash like this is counter productive and make one look socially retarded. I'm not saying that there isn't a cash-for-honey component to S. E. Asia, but it must be done subtly-pay for her meal, take her shopping, etc-after the woman has made some sort of minor commitment. Doing it your way makes foreigners look like targets, will not bring respect, and will garner lower quality women. The point of S. E. Asia is not to have to get used by women in the pursuit of companionship / hook-up, unlike back home. (Most older women will be flattered and even buy you a gift in most parts of Asia.)
What fantasy land do you live in? With respect, have you even stepped foot inside Vietnam? I only ask because your MO seems contrary to the situation on the ground there, especially in the provinces, unless of course you have good Vietnamese language skills. Then again, judging by your previous posts you're still in your early 30s and shouldn't be paying for it anyway IMO. Note to any middle aged members reading this, unless you've got a lot of time, a lot of patience and are feeling extra lucky, ignore the gallant approach when on the prowl for a cute Vietnamese girl and indicate there might be something in it for her beyond flattery and an hour or two of 'romance'. That is generally how it's done in SE Asia.
Last week I can barely get my little finger in her azz without complaints of pain. One week and three sessions later and she is riding a toy like a pro and telling to put down the camera so that I can put my cock back in her puzzy. Sorry it is so blurry. Lube everywhere.
Yes Doppel, These are always my best experiences. Girls who are not out looking, maybe have never thought to be, and if you are not afraid or being forward, and you try this ten times, you will have 1 or 2 successes. I have met girls in the post office, at the employment center, in markets, walking on the street, etc. If you catch their eye and they smile, go for it! Don't waste time with later meeting, dinner, lunch, etc, go for it now! You may offend some but not too badly, nothing like in western countries. One thing to note, keep up your appearance. You don't have to be young or even handsome, but look clean and neat. Better to be wearing decent pants (slacks, trouser) , nice and clean shoes and a shirt with a collar. Keep your hair trimmed and no beard. You may be shocked at what comes your way. And finally, no need to offer money, this will put some girls off as you are treating them as prostitutes. You can give them some gift later if you want a return visit.
JD
I'm going to have to disagree politely. This is not how men pick-up women in these countries. We do, as foreigners, have license to approach them and ply our wares, but flashing cash like this is counter productive and make one look socially retarded. I'm not saying that there isn't a cash-for-honey component to S. E. Asia, but it must be done subtly-pay for her meal, take her shopping, etc-after the woman has made some sort of minor commitment. Doing it your way makes foreigners look like targets, will not bring respect, and will garner lower quality women. The point of S. E. Asia is not to have to get used by women in the pursuit of companionship / hook-up, unlike back home. (Most older women will be flattered and even buy you a gift in most parts of Asia.)