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[DJ FourMoney]

While an iPhone is the easiest way for pics, I went old school with a disposable 35mm camera during my last visits.

I took it in to get processed, and when I went to pick up the packet, half of the roll of photos was missing, there were the chicas in bikinis and tight dresses, but they didn't print any of the nude pics.

Well they did put all the pics on a CD in the packet, even though they didn't actually print any of the nudes, and they also included this note about their policy on unsuitable images.

Oh well, I got all my pics, but it's back to a digital camera.

Hi-Res point and shoots are cheap. I still have one, works well and its small, takes HD pictures and video.

[Husted01]

Well here's a few more pics to share, since they don't seem unsuitable for this gallery.

Keg

Great pics Keg. Tempted to make a trip down south a after watching these beautiful ladies. They are my type of girls with big boobs.

[Keg]

Well here's a few more pics to share, since they don't seem unsuitable for this gallery.

Keg

[Efjayel]

so did the attendant give you a weird a look when they gave you your packet? it didn't happen to be an **** girl was it? 0_o

[TomJackin]

While an iPhone is the easiest way for pics, I went old school with a disposable 35mm camera during my last visits.

I took it in to get processed, and when I went to pick up the packet, half of the roll of photos was missing, there were the chicas in bikinis and tight dresses, but they didn't print any of the nude pics.

Well they did put all the pics on a CD in the packet, even though they didn't actually print any of the nudes, and they also included this note about their policy on unsuitable images.

Oh well, I got all my pics, but it's back to a digital camera.

Very nice Keg!

Great to see photos in the Photo Gallery!

[Keg]

While an iPhone is the easiest way for pics, I went old school with a disposable 35mm camera during my last visits.

I took it in to get processed, and when I went to pick up the packet, half of the roll of photos was missing, there were the chicas in bikinis and tight dresses, but they didn't print any of the nude pics.

Well they did put all the pics on a CD in the packet, even though they didn't actually print any of the nudes, and they also included this note about their policy on unsuitable images.

Oh well, I got all my pics, but it's back to a digital camera.

[Rick Rock]

The only problem my wife ever had with me punting was when she couldn't come with me to participate. I would never have married her if she viewed me as her private property to be dictated too like some sort of common house pet.

She didn't like Tijuana much because it was tough to arrange any true threesome action, and most of the women simply aren't that attractive with lots of broad shoulders, bulging bellies, flat asses and hips, and terrible tit jobs.

[TomJackin]

How about some photos in the Photo Gallery!

[Efjayel]

Ah ok. Thanks for the info.

Wait I remember now, it was Country John that said his wife (also an ex-bar girl) was okay with it. What ever happened to that guy?

[The Hammer1169]

Hey hammer, did you say in one of your posts that your wife is okay with you going back to the bars when you are in the mood and she is not? I ask because most of the girls I talk to say that's there is nothing wrong with guys that fool around. But I get the feeling they just say this because that's what the guy wants to hear or maybe its because they've been in this industry long enough that they end up believing it / brainwashed that such a thing is normal and meaningless. If she does, can you ask her why she believes this?

What I said is that when my wife goes through those dry spells like women do, I refuse to sit around pulling my pud. I'm 48yo and will dip into a club as needed. If my wife knew she would literally cut my balls off. She is insanely jealous. I'm of the opinion that when two people get married certain expectations come with that comittment, one of which is access to sexual release. If a woman plays with that, I will step outside the marriage without guilt or hesitation. But no; my wife is not ok with that in the slightest.

[Efjayel]

Hey hammer, did you say in one of your posts that your wife is okay with you going back to the bars when you are in the mood and she is not? I ask because most of the girls I talk to say that's there is nothing wrong with guys that fool around. But I get the feeling they just say this because that's what the guy wants to hear or maybe its because they've been in this industry long enough that they end up believing it / brainwashed that such a thing is normal and meaningless. If she does, can you ask her why she believes this?

[The Hammer1169]

Wow, I have never read a post about relationships with former entertainers quite as spot on as this. Fantastic post. I spent years in relationships with girls in Tijuana who were either entertainers of some sort, ie hookers or dancers, and some who were not, but all are affected in some way by the industry. I had some great experiences and some terrible ones. I would not trade the experiences for anything though. Those were some of the best times of my life! I did end up marrying a girl from Colombia who is absolutely an angel.

I am happy to see that it worked out well for someone.

Thanks for the positive feedback. I just wanted to shed some light on what to expect in these relationships as the reality is the guys that frequent those places generally have love in their hearts or a need other than sex they want fulfilled. I think any honest "monger" will say they have fell into that trap or are currently falling in it now. These girls absolutely know the way in a man's heart (through his zipper) and they are very astute at getting inside our hearts and our minds. Once they got that, they can have their way with us. I would bet 80% or more have gotten stung by their "novia." I wish I could get them to understand that they are not your girlfriends. It is generally all business, and most don't give you a passing thought once you walk out of the hotel room door and you go home with them in your heart and mind all week! It is on to another. Their idea of the relationship dynamic is 100% different than what the man's is. They absolutely see it as a FWB role; period. They are going home to their real boyfriend or husband and their kids.

My wife once told me she can't remember a single face from her days working, and that literally 10-minutes after a privado she had forgot the face of the guy she gave it to and moved on. In fact prior to meeting her I was in the same club I eventually did meet her at. I was relatively new to the strip club scene, and basically ignorant. I met this pretty little thing that was all over me. Man we had a great night drinking and talking. I went back to my hotel with a throbbing heart and a throbbing pecker. I thought "tomorrow I'm going back for her." I get to the club and there she is. Girl walks right by me like she didn't even recognize me (she didn't) I eventually called her over and she said "Oh, I'm sorry! I forgot." At that monet I started keeping the business in perspective.

In my case I guess I found the diamond in the rough, but honestly it was all business from the start and then we fell in together. Also; it has not been all paradise. These relationships are very difficult with a ton of issues to wade through; a normal relationship times 100 in terms of complexities.

With her, I removed money from the equation about a month in fully expecting her to bail out. She just kept calling. From there I met her family, basically moved in her home, and one day she showed me her medical clearance card for the industry, tore it up, and said "I'm done." She was done, she never went back and never looked back. We did go to one of the clubs she danced at one time and had a few beers and she talked to the waiters and girls she knew, but when we walked out she said "it was nice to see them but I don't miss it at all."

Nice chatting!

[Belldude2]

Some advice: If anyone tries to do what I did, remember one thing: These women fuck all of the time because it is their job! They are also scarred from it. There's allot of damage that has to be waded through in getting serious with them. Best way I can say it is straight: If you had your tits being fondeled every night, your nipples being sucked on as you gave privados 8-times a day, you kind of lose interest in it. Be prepared for that response early one in a serious relationship with a stripper or "worker." I admit, I thought to myself after we moved in together "damn, I'm going to be buried in that stuff every night!" NOT! I get my wife 3-4 times a week generally, but sometimes only a couple. They are women, and are no different than any other woman. If she is mensturating or stressed from work, she isn't always in the mood. However, because my wife understands what men do when their wives don't put out, she knows they end out in the strip clubs or brothels, she generally takes care of me when she sees me getting "testy." Also, don't consider yourself their "savior." They survived without a man, most are very independent, and really don't need one to survive. They want a true companion and best friend. For those girls who are torn about their involvement in the sex trade, their greatest need is being appreciated for something other than whether they BBJ! If they enjoy that industry, I would steer clear because they will probably want to return to it. My wife was still kind of new to the industry. She hadn't hardened to it yet nor submitted to it. She wasn't a brothel girl turning $60. 00 tricks five times a day. In fact, she thought that was nasty. But she also knew her future was doing exactly that if she didn't get out. We talked allot about the process the girls go through as they age. Price goes down and down until you are giving $20. 00 BBJ or working at a bar, brothel, or the streets. The hardened girls can't get past seeing men as money; it is hopeless with them.

Finally; be careful! Early on my relationship with my future wife was pure business. I remember about a month in she hit me up for money because I had never paid for her after our first weekend together (I was gaming her). I looked right at her and said the following "look, I thought we moved beyond this. If you see me as a client, I'm not coming back to see you." She stopped, looked at me, and said "I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. I don't see you as a client at all." The biggest test for these women, if you are trying to move beyond the client role, is get them out on their time, and keep money out of the equation. If they keep coming back to money for their time, drop them in a hurry. 99. 99999% of the time once you remove money from the relationship they will be gone. Mine wanted out of the industry, and was looking for stability and security. Trust me; many nights I held her while she cried in shame about her past and her actions. She explained her "career" like this " Its like cleaning shit out of a kennel. It stinks, it is dirty, but it has to be cleaned, so you protect yourself, and clean it. Some times you find a dog you like in the process."

Now, I'm also not stupid. I know my wife, and more importantly I know women. There's NO doubt in my mind she calculated every move we made. She knew she would get her green card, she knew I was stable financially although far from well off, and she knew I was a good man. Clearly she weighed allot of her options / benefits when she dropped her life in Mexico for me. But truth is; all women think the same way. They all expect financial stability in a relationship.

Again; I hope nobody reads this and runs off to their favorite thinking about love! I had to be VERY careful the first 6-months in my relationship, and watch every move she made until I could trust her, and then I always wondered "is this a confidence game for her." It was really two years in to our relationship I knew she was in it for the long haul. I got laid off and was broke. I mean broke. Spent all my pension, everything. That woman stepped right up, and carried us financially for over a year. It was then I knew she was for real. And of course the wedding. She wept when I proposed to her. It was truly a dream come true for her. Someone truly wanted her as a wife, not an hour.

All in all it has been a good life with her. I think there were just the right stars aligned when I met her. It just kind of happened. It wasn't like I pursued it or intended for it to happen. Maybe that's why it worked. I suppose if I had kept running down there to Mexicali with a hard on in one hand and a dozen roses in the other she would have played me out. Who knows. We just grew on each other. My dad was alive when I married her, and being a simple man, he said it like this "when you find a woman that fits you like an old glove, you better grab her and not let go." We just mind of fit! We cuddle every night just like we did early in the relationship. More than 24Hrs. Apart and we are going nuts. It was just meant to be.

Wow, I have never read a post about relationships with former entertainers quite as spot on as this. Fantastic post. I spent years in relationships with girls in Tijuana who were either entertainers of some sort, ie hookers or dancers, and some who were not, but all are affected in some way by the industry. I had some great experiences and some terrible ones. I would not trade the experiences for anything though. Those were some of the best times of my life! I did end up marrying a girl from Colombia who is absolutely an angel.

I am happy to see that it worked out well for someone.

[SBeach25]

I have read some of your previous posts. Don't get attached to this girl my friend. I'm telling you straight up; she is playing you. I got VERY lucky with my wife. She was relatively new in the industry, never liked it, and had a traditional sense of Hispanic morals and values in terms of how to care for a man. Of course I knew that after studying her over some time. If not I would never have married her. The tried and true test is this: Try to get your lady out without paying for her time, and see if she puts out without compensation. If money comes up she is in it for the buck. A 7-year vet has played her fair share of men. Please be careful. A guy on here that also married a sex-worker down there just contacted me, and he got cleaned out and left broken hearted. 1-100 of these marriages actually work out. My wife is 18 years younger than me, but I wll be honest: I lift weights and take great care of myself. I still turn heads, at age 48, from women in their 20's, so my wife has something to hold on to. This doesn't work for the average 48 year old.

I too am skeptical and always observe my girl. I watch how she behaves with me and her customers. Lately, I see her slacking in the attention that I get and I'm noticing how she reacts to other clients. So I knew she was slow playing me. Now, when I see her I play it right back. I tell her that I'm too tired or I'm here to just hang with friends and not ask for her or go looking for her. I see that she see's me and if she was into me, she would come down to come and meet me. So I play her by telling her I want to see her later and end up going another club and hooking up there then tell her I'm too tired. I think she knows I'm on to her. LOL.

[Efjayel]

Thanks. I will remain vigilant about the whole thing.