China Women - Opinions and Advice

[Loveasiangirls]

these girls can be dangerous in another way. I think all these girls would like to get married and have children. Case in point: I have one freebie that I have been seeing for 4-5 years. She is now 36 and thinks she is running out of time. She is putting pressure on me to shit or get off the pot. Obviously, there is nothing I can do about it given my circumstances of which she is aware. I just hope that she does not take matters into her own hands and does anything stupid and / or desperate.

Best to cut them loose soon enough to avoid this dilemna.

Just my POV.

OAH.

After all these years she must think she is your GF. Less pressure with the divorced ones.

[Mock A Bee]

[QUOTE=OldAsiaHand; 1180867]these girls can be dangerous in another way. I think all these girls would like to get married and have children. Case in point: I have one freebie that I have been seeing for 4-5 years. She is now 36 and thinks she is running out of time. She is putting pressure on me to shit or get off the pot. Obviously, there is nothing I can do about it given my circumstances of which she is aware. I just hope that she does not take matters into her own hands and does anything stupid and / or desperate.

Best to cut them loose soon enough to avoid this dilemna.

Just my POV.

OAH. [/QUOTE.]

OAH, I agree. When they get a little too close for comfort, yes, you MUST cut them loose asap, keep it clean, or sh*t happens. This is also why I like to keep low cost pro-friends on the back burner in case a no fuss no muss quickie is called for. Strictly business. There is a reason saunas are popular in China.

As a precaution, when it comes to my single "leftover" girls, I try to size up the girls pretty well, and make sure they know the program. We are strictly friends with benefits, that's all, don't expect anything more. Again, keep it all clean.

[SE Asia Joe]

Bnlee2,

Bravo for being so brave!

I see them all the time while conducting my business in China. They usually pull up in a brand new German luxury car and are packaged in designer clothes and jewelry. Sometimes, they even have a young duck with them, but not usually. What I worry about is that all this newfound wealth did not come from hardwork or their own business although some of them pretend to do business. Most of the time, there is a rich hubby supporting this either because he feels guilty or just does not want them bothering him since he already has a new model. That aside, most men have a double standard in China, and most rich hubbies will lose face if their wife is screwing around. I get a lot of offers but always turn them down for fear of repercussions.

It might be different if I was just a frequent visitor and did not have to stay in China long term.

Stay safe my friend!

Just my POV.

OAH

The old risk to reward equation!

Me-thinks the reason Bnlee has got the balls to go after these wives / mistresses of the powerful is that these women are usually much better turned out than their counterpart with Laogongs of lesser stature!

Let's face it. Powerful rich guys do NOT have ugly, lousily dressed wives / mistresses!

Just my. Yeah MY. POV!

LOL!

SEAJ

[OldAsiaHand]

these girls can be dangerous in another way. I think all these girls would like to get married and have children. Case in point: I have one freebie that I have been seeing for 4-5 years. She is now 36 and thinks she is running out of time. She is putting pressure on me to shit or get off the pot. Obviously, there is nothing I can do about it given my circumstances of which she is aware. I just hope that she does not take matters into her own hands and does anything stupid and / or desperate.

Best to cut them loose soon enough to avoid this dilemna.

Just my POV.

OAH.

I agree with OAH.

MILF's can be dangerous for obvious reasons. However, there are all kinds of 30+ single girls who are what is known as "leftover women". They are comfortable with the fact that they may not ever get married. Many are office girls with careers and some are business owners.

These girls are prime targets for me. Many only want TLC, and there are many types to choose from. I target the ones who are not after anything but TLC. I avoid the materialistic ones and they are almost always very easy maintenance. Inexpensive simple gifts go a really long way with these girls. Many of these girls also insist on paying for dinner and drinks, or take turns paying.

The best part is, they are usually very GFE.

MAB

[Mock A Bee]

Mmlouie,

I tend to stay away from this category. There is an abundance of bored, housewives married to powerful guys in China who are left alone with LV bags full of money to look after the children and do whatever they desire. That said, I would not like to be caught doing one of them by the husband who loses face and decides to do something about it.

Just my POV.

OAH

I agree with OAH.

MILF's can be dangerous for obvious reasons. However, there are all kinds of 30+ single girls who are what is known as "leftover women". They are comfortable with the fact that they may not ever get married. Many are office girls with careers and some are business owners.

These girls are prime targets for me. Many only want TLC, and there are many types to choose from. I target the ones who are not after anything but TLC. I avoid the materialistic ones and they are almost always very easy maintenance. Inexpensive simple gifts go a really long way with these girls. Many of these girls also insist on paying for dinner and drinks, or take turns paying.

The best part is, they are usually very GFE.

MAB

[OldAsiaHand]

Hornblower,

First of all, I envy your position.

I might look in the legit massage places. Young girls go this route because they do not want to be a WG, but it is hard work and many would rather do something easier than work in a factory or rub feet all day.

Another place to look is for factory girls. Many BBS girls I know came from the factory because they could not hack the long hours and hard work. Some even do BBS work part time to earn extra money but are not willing to be a full time BBS girl. If you find a factory girl that has been deflowered by some young bloke full of bullshit at the factory who dumped her and looking for an easier life before hitting a BBS, you may have a winner.

Just my POV.

OAH.

I posted a plea some time ago and got some nice encouragement from the brothers but no hard leads so I am back trying again, hoping that someone has the key to unlock the box.

I live in Beijing and my Chinese wife is absent much of the time. She has offered me the opportunity to find a woman to sleep with me (and sometimes us). She has presented me with two candidates but I did not like either one. Of course we'the pay the girl, house and feed her, etc and she might have to perform some other services as well, like housekeeping. Now, I want to do some 'recruiting' of my own! I think fellow members might have some thoughts that could help me and us.

Now most of the BBS girls and WGs here must be recruited from their villages and small towns. A friend of mine even met an Australian guy in HK who claimed to be a 'recruiter' but the schmuck lost the guy's business card. I would like to find a recruiter, or a trusted mamasan or papasan who can help me in my search. I know my wife would prefer a young girl, who has been trained in how to please, including massage but is not yet a WG.

Can anyone introduce a 'recruiter', or a mama or papa? Does anyone have any thoughts about if this can work?

Thanks.

[OldAsiaHand]

Changelelu,

You will NOT find them and bars or KTVs' or sauna. I usually find them in business / social events. The great thing about this category is that they usually have more money that you and they demand discretion. These hot gals just want some attention. I few sweet words goes a long way. MMLouie can definitely tell you that I'm neither an Asian Brad Pitt or some young Asian Hunk either. I'm just a normal joe (with a few extra pounds) that knows how to charm them with a few sweet words.

Bnlee2,

Bravo for being so brave!

I see them all the time while conducting my business in China. They usually pull up in a brand new German luxury car and are packaged in designer clothes and jewelry. Sometimes, they even have a young duck with them, but not usually. What I worry about is that all this newfound wealth did not come from hardwork or their own business although some of them pretend to do business. Most of the time, there is a rich hubby supporting this either because he feels guilty or just does not want them bothering him since he already has a new model. That aside, most men have a double standard in China, and most rich hubbies will lose face if their wife is screwing around. I get a lot of offers but always turn them down for fear of repercussions.

It might be different if I was just a frequent visitor and did not have to stay in China long term.

Stay safe my friend!

Just my POV.

OAH

[Horneblower]

I posted a plea some time ago and got some nice encouragement from the brothers but no hard leads so I am back trying again, hoping that someone has the key to unlock the box.

I live in Beijing and my Chinese wife is absent much of the time. She has offered me the opportunity to find a woman to sleep with me (and sometimes us). She has presented me with two candidates but I did not like either one. Of course we'the pay the girl, house and feed her, etc and she might have to perform some other services as well, like housekeeping. Now, I want to do some 'recruiting' of my own! I think fellow members might have some thoughts that could help me and us.

Now most of the BBS girls and WGs here must be recruited from their villages and small towns. A friend of mine even met an Australian guy in HK who claimed to be a 'recruiter' but the schmuck lost the guy's business card. I would like to find a recruiter, or a trusted mamasan or papasan who can help me in my search. I know my wife would prefer a young girl, who has been trained in how to please, including massage but is not yet a WG.

Can anyone introduce a 'recruiter', or a mama or papa? Does anyone have any thoughts about if this can work?

Thanks.

[Bnlee2]

Damn, totally forgotten about you and your MILFs. Step aside for the man!

Mmlouie

MM,

I'm just a normal joe with a few xtra pounds. I just been lucky to find easy targets.

[Bnlee2]

Given my recent experiences with young princesses. I would be very much interested to focus on the MILF category. But it seems difficult to approach these experienced ladies, could you give me some tips on fertile hunting grounds, methods etc, should I try my luck in bars?

Thanks for the tips!

Changelelu,

You will NOT find them and bars or KTVs' or sauna. I usually find them in business / social events. The great thing about this category is that they usually have more money that you and they demand discretion. These hot gals just want some attention. I few sweet words goes a long way. MMLouie can definitely tell you that I'm neither an Asian Brad Pitt or some young Asian Hunk either. I'm just a normal joe (with a few extra pounds) that knows how to charm them with a few sweet words.

[Mmlouie]

OAH.

I usually do some background check on them making sure that hubby is no a senior PLA, triad or a bit craze. I usually find out who their workaholic husband are and have a recent pic of them, just to be sure. They usually want more discretion than you. They don't want to screw up their fable life. Definitely they do not want to take you out shopping and all the crap that comes with bedding a 18-23 yo stunner. The crap that some 18-23yo stunner put you through is mindboggling. Most of the 30+ MILF looks great and can pass of 5-7 years younger.

Just my POV (sorry to take your tag line)

Damn, totally forgotten about you and your MILFs. Step aside for the man!

Mmlouie

[Member #4689]

Most of the 30+ MILF looks great and can pass of 5-7 years younger.

Given my recent experiences with young princesses. I would be very much interested to focus on the MILF category. But it seems difficult to approach these experienced ladies, could you give me some tips on fertile hunting grounds, methods etc, should I try my luck in bars?

Thanks for the tips!

[Bnlee2]

Mmlouie,

I tend to stay away from this category. There is an abundance of bored, housewives married to powerful guys in China who are left alone with LV bags full of money to look after the children and do whatever they desire. That said, I would not like to be caught doing one of them by the husband who loses face and decides to do something about it.

Just my POV.

OAH

OAH.

I usually do some background check on them making sure that hubby is no a senior PLA, triad or a bit craze. I usually find out who their workaholic husband are and have a recent pic of them, just to be sure. They usually want more discretion than you. They don't want to screw up their fable life. Definitely they do not want to take you out shopping and all the crap that comes with bedding a 18-23 yo stunner. The crap that some 18-23yo stunner put you through is mindboggling. Most of the 30+ MILF looks great and can pass of 5-7 years younger.

Just my POV (sorry to take your tag line)

[Mmlouie]

Mmlouie,

I tend to stay away from this category. There is an abundance of bored, housewives married to powerful guys in China who are left alone with LV bags full of money to look after the children and do whatever they desire. That said, I would not like to be caught doing one of them by the husband who loses face and decides to do something about it.

Just my POV.

OAH

Of course it is dangerous to go after those, they are only the minority. There are still plenty to go around, more than enough for me and you to handle!

Mmlouie

[OldAsiaHand]

And if you set your sight for the MILF's, then it will be really the wild, wild east. LOL!

Mmlouie

Mmlouie,

I tend to stay away from this category. There is an abundance of bored, housewives married to powerful guys in China who are left alone with LV bags full of money to look after the children and do whatever they desire. That said, I would not like to be caught doing one of them by the husband who loses face and decides to do something about it.

Just my POV.

OAH