China Women - Opinions and Advice

[Loveasiangirls]

Read this: http://blog.minitofu.com/2010/11/chi...xposed-online/

Hi everyone.

Recently I was reading about Chinese students doing sex for money in Motel 168, and how they were not even poor girls but rather middle class who where addicted to shopping, were bored and wanted to do something extreme, or wanted to get back at dad for not buying them LV bags.

Young girls in China today are extremely materialistic.

That's why fat old and ugly Chinese guys have stunning er nais.

So my question is : does anyone here have one too?

There's a girl I know seeing that is a 10, and I clearly understand that she won't go out with anyone unless the guy showers her with presents. I'm tempted to offer her that in exchange for. Well you know, exclusive unprotected sex.

But I have a lot of questions!

- Is there like a standard, like say, paying for the flat and the car?

- What should I expect her to do, sexually? Because I get the feeling that ernais in China are mostly ripping of businessmen but not giving much in return.

- How do you meet potential candidates, or "propose" a girl?

I am extremely curious about this and pondering the pros and cons.

PLease answer if you have any experience, stories and know China very well.

[Onadlos]

Hi everyone,

Recently I was reading about Chinese students doing sex for money in Motel 168, and how they were not even poor girls but rather middle class who where addicted to shopping, were bored and wanted to do something extreme, or wanted to get back at dad for not buying them LV bags.

Girls in China today are extremely materialistic.

That's why fat old and ugly Chinese guys have stunning er nais.

So my question is: does anyone here have one too?

There's a girl I know seeing that is a 10, and I clearly understand that she won't go out with anyone unless the guy showers her with presents. I'm tempted to offer her that in exchange for. Well you know, exclusive unprotected sex.

But I have a lot of questions!

- Is there like a standard, like say, paying for the flat and the car?

- What should I expect her to do, sexually? Because I get the feeling that ernais in China are mostly ripping of businessmen but not giving much in return.

- How do you meet potential candidates, or "propose" a girl?

I am extremely curious about this and pondering the pros and cons.

PLease answer if you have any experience, stories and know China very well.

[Loveasiangirls]

Just a heads up to all here. I am working with several Chinese Manufacturers and a few chat mates.

It seems standard that Chinese women use a fake picture.

I just made a large mistake with a long time chatmate who when she appeared on Cam was nothing like the pic I was enamoured with.

Even the Business Reps use fake pictures.

Odd I have not encountered this much before.

PP

You just figured this out? I guess we won't rely on your advice if this is your level of knowledge!

[Mmlouie]

Pinaypounder.

Did you come up with this all by yourself? Just wondering.

You should apply for a job in Disney studios as an imagineer. You will do great. Seriously.

You are wasting your breath, you talk talking to Brad Pitt.

Mmlouie

[Pinaypounder]

Just a heads up to all here. I am working with several Chinese Manufacturers and a few chat mates.

It seems standard that Chinese women use a fake picture.

I just made a large mistake with a long time chatmate who when she appeared on Cam was nothing like the pic I was enamoured with.

Even the Business Reps use fake pictures.

Odd I have not encountered this much before.

PP

[Bnlee2]

ROFLMAO.

Having chatted to a number of Asian ladies almost ALL KNOW an Asian man will cheat. The women over 30 are not flawed sadly they are smarter and have real expectations.

Western man is seen as far superior in almost every way (hey I am not saying I agree, thank you Bradley Pitt) but non the less we are viewed are richer, more romantic, better lovers and far far far more polite and respectful which quite frankly the last part is true.

We are a better catch for sure.

PP except me I am a prick just ask my 2 ex wives.

Pinaypounder.

Did you come up with this all by yourself? Just wondering.

You should apply for a job in Disney studios as an imagineer. You will do great. Seriously.

[NewChinaHand]

Have to agree with you. First, I have to agree with the other poster that, in most Asian societies, women over 30 are considered over the hill; however, times are changing and with the additional economic power Chinese, Korean and other Asian women have enjoyed over the last decade or so, they're either not as desperate to find a husband for security reasons or can more easily bide their time in looking for a quality husband. In addition, many foreigners tend to forget that we rarely get the cream of the crop. We tend to get the B-list women or worse. That said, there's always that hidden niche of fine. 30+ plus women that most foreigners do not have access to. YMMV, but that's been the general rule of thumb that I've seen over the last 30 years.

Case in point: I have a good Korean male friend who is 41 and whom I have known since 1999. His new wife is 31 and a real hottie, well-educated, successful, etc. She would never consider marrying a foreigner and told me she'd rather die a single woman than ever marry a foreigner as her mindset is too "Korean." Sad, but true.

I'd say they are STILL Christmas cake. Nobody wants Christmas cake after the 31st. Instead of all single women in their 30's being stuck up shit creek without a paddle a tiny percentage are able to demonstrate they can be financially successful without a husband. Such women stand out because they are the exception and not the rule.

And such women are still subject to the reproductive reality that says they can wait as long as they want to find a husband but if they wait too long they are going to have trouble bearing him healthy children.

If a woman is in her mid 40's before she starts trying to have a family she better be rich, because good fertility specialists cost good money.

[Pinaypounder]

I have many female friends over 29 who have married, even over 40. But most foreigners only get to meet the desperate ones who cannot get married due to some flaw.

ROFLMAO.

Having chatted to a number of Asian ladies almost ALL KNOW an Asian man will cheat. The women over 30 are not flawed sadly they are smarter and have real expectations.

Western man is seen as far superior in almost every way (hey I am not saying I agree, thank you Bradley Pitt) but non the less we are viewed are richer, more romantic, better lovers and far far far more polite and respectful which quite frankly the last part is true.

We are a better catch for sure.

PP except me I am a prick just ask my 2 ex wives.

[Member #4145]

Sounds like you have the charm. It's always nice to find a woman on the side who will cook, clean, etc. That said, was that particular woman trying to charm you due to economic reasons or for pure love reasons? Also, wondering how many of you based in China are married and how your wives treat you in general? I've been married to Korean women twice and really hate their hot tempers. If any of you have long-term experience with both, please chime in.

I know about those Korean women, the Italians of Asia. I worked with one in Tokyo, indubitably one of the most beautiful woman I've had the privilage of knowing. However, I witnessed her short temper on several occassions. Ouch.

I've been married for 6 years and I'm bored to death. I married a Japanese. She generally treats me well, though sometimes like a child. I'm just quite simply bored with the matter.

Regarding hot tempers, my regular WG (Chinese) has one and gets very jealous when other women approach me or call. But only with other women which is natural enough. She doesn't want me to go with other WGs and takes me to her bar to 'show me off' as she puts it to the other girls. Oh dear. This only makes matters worse as everytime she goes to the loo, the other girls approach me.

So was she trying to charm me for economic reasons or for love? Well it's a question of romance and finance, as it is with all women I assume.

She stays with me without asking for a cent, enjoys my company, always calls. However, I pay for everything and rightly so, when we dine, go out, I paid for her hair and nails and I've brought her clothes. At times she wants to be intimate with me, not the other way around.

She called me over Chinese New Year everyday in secracy as she doesn't want her family to know she has English friends (they know nothing of the matter). So I guess there is something there.

I've experienced the following with Chinese girls in bars. When they encounter me, they ask if I'm married or have a girlfriend. I'm an honest sort of chap and give them a straight answer. This changes their stance from one of potential partner to a simple but enjoyable business transaction. However, this hasn't stopped some of them wanting to take it further.

The civilians I think are worse.

I've had a few stalkers, peculiar text messages, madness really.

Sinclair

[Niteluvr]

I was asked by most WGs if I have a girlfriend or wife. Most have been disappointed when I said yes. My regular WG has said she's emotionally holding back on me because I'm married. When she stayed with me she cooked, cleaned, ironed my shirts. She brushes of dirt from my jackets and adjusts my collars in public. She always holds my hand and wraps herself around me. I think it's just what kind of connection you make.

Sinclair

Sounds like you have the charm. It's always nice to find a woman on the side who will cook, clean, etc. That said, was that particular woman trying to charm you due to economic reasons or for pure love reasons? Also, wondering how many of you based in China are married and how your wives treat you in general? I've been married to Korean women twice and really hate their hot tempers. If any of you have long-term experience with both, please chime in.

[Member #4145]

I just want to ask some brothers here this question. What type of girls will lead to a good long term relationship and eventually marriage in your experience? I know some people said that dating WGs or BBS girls should be avoided at all time because they are only good for pleasure. What about freebies or girls that you met online?

I would counter this and say just because she's a WG or BBS girl doesn't mean she's a slag.

The exeriences I've had with WGs have been honest and the girls have expressed their interest in long-term relationships with foreign men, in particular caucasian men. I was asked by most WGs if I have a girlfriend or wife. Most have been disappointed when I said yes. My regular WG has said she's emotionally holding back on me because I'm married. When she stayed with me she cooked, cleaned, ironed my shirts. She brushes of dirt from my jackets and adjusts my collars in public. She always holds my hand and wraps herself around me. I think it's just what kind of connection you make.

As for freebies, then it depends on how it's applied.

They could be slags, divorced, married, lying about how many kids they have. Wanting a ticket to a 1st world country. Or they could be a great girl.

I've learnt loads about people since coming to China. I come from a home of privilage and have seen WGs who live in poverty but who have big hearts and are honest and kind.

Best of luck.

Sinclair

[Shikkar]

Based on my experience in this highly regarded field, I can say with absolute certainty that the type of girl you should be seeking for 'a good long term relationship AND eventually marriage' must be drawn from the following pool of females:

- Born under the starsigns Horse, Rooster, Hamster or Snake (Girls under the other starsigns are more likely to provide only Bad or Average long term relationships and in some cases, only good 'short term' ones.

- A firm believer in the Egyptian Sun God Ra (you'd be surprised how many there are in China. They may even attend an underground Church of Ra. If you could join I imagine it'd be like shooting fish in a barrel)

- Eyes must be between 1. 5 inches and 2 inches apart. Any closer means there is high likelihood of 'gold diggery' and any wider high likelihood of 'skull duggery'. Avoid.

Freebies and girls met online should also be avoided at all costs, as there is a high chance of mental irrationality, given that they're willing to be enjoyed by us without adequate and well-deserved payment.

Sincerely hope it helps!

Ha ha. Nice find bro.

Hearing first time anything like this.

Support your finding on online freebies.

Long time relation ship only will lead marriage for young and 20 plus girls. Prefer more yhan five years. My fellow friends experiance!

Mature finding on dating sites are very clear of foreign visa.

[Beijing Fox]

Hey blacklisted,

What is this? Are you excluding yourself?

Take it easy.

The Fox.

Based on my experience in this highly regarded field, I can say with absolute certainty that the type of girl you should be seeking for 'a good long term relationship AND eventually marriage' must be drawn from the following pool of females:

- Born under the starsigns Horse, Rooster, Hamster or Snake (Girls under the other starsigns are more likely to provide only Bad or Average long term relationships and in some cases, only good 'short term' ones.

- A firm believer in the Egyptian Sun God Ra (you'd be surprised how many there are in China. They may even attend an underground Church of Ra. If you could join I imagine it'd be like shooting fish in a barrel)

- Eyes must be between 1. 5 inches and 2 inches apart. Any closer means there is high likelihood of 'gold diggery' and any wider high likelihood of 'skull duggery'. Avoid.

Freebies and girls met online should also be avoided at all costs, as there is a high chance of mental irrationality, given that they're willing to be enjoyed by us without adequate and well-deserved payment.

Sincerely hope it helps!

[Gualtier Malde]

Sincerely hope it helps!

Like!

GM.

[FruitNinja]

No Chinese man would marry a +29 years old woman, unless:

That said, I have never met a Chinese women which couldn't turn into a real mean * in less that 5s.

I can attest to this. Add alcohol to the mix and you have a total unreasonable be*ch. I dated one for 2 years. She was very cold, loving when she needed something but B in a second. Total sub in bed though. The best I've ever had and I've had. Bitter sweet parting.