China Women - Opinions and Advice

[Rayman]

Has anyone here had any experiences with the local married women. I ask this because although I have always been quite lucky with them from '95, I have been on a continuous streak in recent years and availability seems to be increasing. They complain that their hubbys are always either gambling or out whoring. I don't get this response in other Asian countries.

Any views?

Breakdown in family values since China's increasing open sex market????

VChip.
Of course it depends on cash, travel costs etc but personally i would steer away from the main areas although i guess Beijing is a must as you will fly in there. According to all reports Shenzhen and areas of Shanghai are AIDS hotspots.

What about Xian in Shaanxi province? Clean and affordable and very nice girlies. Also lots to see in the Tourist dept.

[Three I]

I think Dalian, Beijing and Shaghai for mongering fun!

[ManonsanBoy]

you go to Shenzhen and Donguan, you will need to go no further.

[Vchip]

Gentlemen,

As a caucasian from north america who is planning on a 3 week trip to the PRC for the first time (I've been to HK), which would be your top three recommended towns/cities to visit for mongering purposes considering availability, price, and attractiveness of the girls. Also, I don't speak chinese but was able to cope in HK ok.
Will appreciate your advice.

[OldAsiaHand]

Gentlemen,

Most of the Mongolian girls I have met in Beijing come from Outer Mongolia and do not speak much Chinese, as a rule.

OAH

[Rayman]

I have spent a few weekends in IMon and didn't think much of the girls.

However public safety would be much higher with the Chinese in control. Mongolia itself can be a bit of a handful by all accounts.

[Lubricate It]

Arbat

As a reader of the Beijing board and its referrences to the Mongolian delights at Maggies, I too have wondered if this refers to women from the country, Mongolia or from the PRC's Inner Mongolian region.

I am living in Tokyo and my Han Chinese girlfriend referred to on this board is from Chifeng in Inner Mongolia. In my close to fifty years I have never seen such a paragon of female virtue before!

First she is beautiful. Although in her mid-thirties, I could have sworn she was not a day over 25. Slender, with enormous natural breasts and perfect, firm erect nipples, she carries herself very straight and is proud of her body and womanhood. Virtually no pubic hair. Her favourite clothing is the bright red cheongsam, and she knows she looks great in it. She sometimes wears pale blue clothing (cheongsam or western style) as a contrast. She has a very expressive face, which helps smooth over any language difficulties.

Second, she sees her mission in life as to be attentive to other people, and especially men. She uses her eyes to get your attention and keep it. She takes a genuine interest in what you do, and is very responsive. She is sensitive, but always warm to everyone. Her disposition is to be gentle and kind. She is incredibly cheerful. She works hard, keeps her room clean and is frugal.

Third, she has an outstanding understanding and mastery of sex. For example, she understands the importance of a BBBJ for a man, and genuinely enjoys giving it. In the early part of our relationship I avoided it, as I wanted to make clear I wasn't just looking for sex. I think this disappointed her. On the day I finally said yes to a minute or two of BBBJ an expression of sheer delight came over her face. She took her time, wriggled in an exquisite way into the right position, fixed her hair, and delayed a few seconds, savoring the moment. Her technique was flawless. I think perhaps only 2 or 3 women in 100 genuinely enjoy giving BBBJ. She is the world's best at this!

Regular sex is superb. The first time, I was just in the AMP for a "date" with no intention for anything like this. The shop rules strictly prohibit sex. She just handed me a condom, gave me a knowing smile, and went into the next room for a second or two to fix her hair. I felt like Donald Duck! She is always very moist and orgasmic, so orgasmic in fact that I suspect she is faking it, but it's hard to tell! She's not noisy. Just little oh, ohs. She squeals with delight at DATY.

So I would think Inner Mongolia might be a place you to visit, but others might be better able to give advice.

[Arbat]

Mongolian girls.

When you talk about mongolian girls, are they from Mongolia (country) or "Inner Mongolia" (chinese region)?

I had a girl from Irkutsk (in Moscow) from mongolian origins and I did like her a lot, phisically and in bed.

I'd like to try the Mongolian you have in Beijiing, reading your reports is quite interesting.

Please give me an advice: having a couple of weeks of time for a sex vacation, would you head to Inner Mongolia, or Mongolia? Or in your opinion it's difficult to find women there? I'm worried that the only available/willing for sex go to BJ or big cities and that "at their home" they behave differently.

Thanks for helping

[Found It]

Blankie;
Just me two fen's worth; as my little head often overrides my big head in matters involving sex, I have had my share of "freebies". If I am truly honest with myself, in every single case, the effort to get laid was only 1/10th of the energy consumed to get free of the later "hassles". In fact, just as I am writing this I get an SMS from a recent "freebie" that is becoming a f*cking pain in the bum with this "I am missing you so much" BS.

Hey, I know that I can get my fair share of pussy in the marketplace but as a FOB monger my ego sometimes gets in the way and I think the "freebie" is only attracted to my good looks, my stamina and skills in the sack, etc, but, at the end of the day...there is always some shit to deal with later.

Just MHO, but I am really starting to think a commercial arrangement is the only way to go here.

Stay safe and Happy hunting in the holiday week!

[Bone is Hard]

BNK, Here's a post I just put on the General CH board.

Just a little bit of help, please.

I just read an interesting post in another China city forum that made me wonder. I have spent many nights in a small town (1.2 Million) in Hunan named Zhuzhou. I frequent, what I have been told to be a legit massage joint. Foot, Regular, Thai, etc but no sex. After an hours foot massage and an hours Thai massage, the young girls would often ask, "want to sleep" and I would reply, "No, just keep going". Is this common code for "do you want sex"? I've read many post in this forum over the past year and a half and have never read an answer to this. The post was in the Haerbin section and Blnknamecrusier says this is a northern phrase but I have heard it about 4 times in the south. What do the rest of you experience when or if this question is asked. The girls in the massage place I frequent in ZZ are very pretty but since I was told it was a legit place, I have never tried anything with them although I sure would like to.

Thanks for any info.

Bone

Have you heard this in the South China area? MP's have usually been off my list except for the legit massage. Although Ive been to China several times, I'm still learning every day, which is something I enjoy doing.

Bone

[BlnkNameCruiser]

Rayman,
Thanks for the opinions about freebies.
the girl I met at the gym is totally insistant (verbally) that "I like you, that is all. you are a man, I am a woman [29y/o] and we both enjoy this.)

she has also started referring to my ex-GF as my GF, so this may allow me to slide my GF in the picture more to keep the relationship EXTREMELY clear.

The concern I have is that she SMS's me when I am out of town that she misses me. That feels too GF to me. I called her on it and she gave me the line stated above and told me not to worry.

Hmm.. I wont allow this to slowly slip. I complain anytime she wants to spend the night in my bed. I offer her the other room. The truth is that I cant stand sharing my bed due to heat, space, etc..

Any additional red lights for me to watch out for would be appreciated.

blanknamecruiser

[Rayman]

Sent,
There is no law for paternalistic marriages or other forms of Forced Marriage, or as far as i know not even a leaning towards such matters.

As long as she has a Passport/money she can leave whenever she wants to. China has changed since the days of Mao!

I suggest you let her go and don't get involved further for this issue - family affairs are often NOT transparent and there is probably alot more to this than you know.
Hope this helps.

[Indigo Blue]

Sent:

If your friend is over 18y.o, here is just like everywhere else. No one can really force her to anything. Personally I have met at least five girls in that situation, both here and in Japan, and every one have ended with the girl flying back to Europe or the U.S. Life is hard here for "bananas" (yellow outside, white inside). The same Asian that open their arms to the foreigners, shows kind of contempt for the overseas Chinese or Japanese who cannot speak well or read their language. I have seen that, somehow, is harder for girls. IMO, this is because Asian girls are a much sought-after girlfriend back at their countries, but here they find themselves rather at the opposite end of the scale. Also because overseas Asian girls, with their behavior (i.e. smoking in public), attract more reproving looks. Of course there are cases in which she just integrates, find local friends and boyfriend and everything goes smooth, but I can talk about cases like a friend of mine, 19 y.o., from Holland, who enrolled in a students exchange program to have the means to leave China, swearing never to be back. But, for short term, everybody agrees that this was the experience of their lives. My advice is tell your friend to come, to enjoy her time here, and to have a backup plan to resume her life back in the U.S. in case she decides that this was definitely not made for her.

My two cents...

[Sent]

Hi,

I'm a regular poster on the Illinois, USA board. I'm posting this
question because i have no idea where else to find the answer.
This may be off topic so if it is please forgive.
Here is the situation:

I have a female friend who is half chinese/half
italian. She is a natural born american citizen only.
She has started to assert herself and took a job
against her parents wishes. While she was in a
different state taking this job her parents thought
she was with a man that she is in love with, yet she
was not. Anyway, she talked to them by phone and said
she was coming home to get her stuff cuz the new job
starts in two weeks. Her parents told her they wanted
her to go with them to Beijing, and it wasn't a choice
for her. Well she can't really go because of the new
job, but then she seldom disobeys them. Her dad is
an immigrant to the US who is also a naturalized citizen
of the US.

What are the laws concerning her when she is over there
with her parents. I have recommended to her that she not
go given the paternalistic leaning of the law in china and
also the uncertainty of the law in such matters.
So my question is when/if they get her to go to Beijing can
they keep her there and not let her return to the US?
Any other advice related to this matter?

Thank You for any help or advice with regard to this matter,
Sent

[Rayman]

One night stands.
This one is in response to Lucky's observations on Blankies post in the Shanghai thread.

Basically, if you pick up a part-time sex worker it is best to offer something the morning after even it you had thought it was a freebie. But don't force it on them.

However if i have read Blankies situation right IF you pick up a girl out shopping, gym or where-ever and hit the sack do not offer her money afterwards. How shameful!

She is not a sex-worker but a girl who likes you - and i guess it is reciprocated. Treat her the same as you would after a one-nighter in your own home town.

Getting out of the relationship is your own affair, but she might be out for fun as well - in my exp. they usually are. Don't worry about it UNLESS you told her the ol' meatloaf stuff.