Abu Dhabi

[Member #4734]

Been going to an AMP in a quiet neighborhood for a few weeks and met this attractive Thai. She was pretty grabby from the beginning, so second time around I asked for FS, but she declined because of no condom; but let me finish between her legs. Third time she's very flirty off the bat, I show her the condom, and she gives me FS. Gone back a few more times and gotten FS, she doesn't ask for extra tip but I give her a couple of reds for her time.

The issue for me is that she blows up my whatsapp with messages sometimes and is starting to guilt me by saying she doesn't do FS with other customers and she's trying trying to make me feel like I'm special. I'm sure this is part of the game for her, but I don't know how to end this, other than just destroying my sim.

Pretend that you are married or already have GF. That might help to reduce the messages.

That might work.

[Nice Guy 99]

There is no integrity or loyalty in this business, it is simple money for sex.

Let's just agree to disagree, my friend. I respect your right to your opinions. Mine are just a bit different.

[Member #4734]

Thanks to Mr. Holmes, as per his findings, it is BF.

FantasticMax, now you know.

[Member #4734]

Don't divulge her direct contact to others and don't tell her because that would raise the alarm. Instead pass on the details of the location and her name and let some seniors casually or randomly opt her and check her integrity.

There is no integrity or loyalty in this business, it is simple money for sex.

You can have good customer provider relationship, but don't expect more than it will never be normal relationship.

As one teacher said "you are not special", yes WG will try to make you special with complements and lies but this is part of the business. A lot of girls they make me feel like I am Rocco or Ron Jeremy but I know I'm not, but I like the complement and choose to enjoy the lie.

PT, of course she knows what she is doing. This is the life they have chosen or, in some cases, have been pushed into by external factors. If you look back at my history you will find out that I have had several very rewarding relationships, on a serial basis, with WGs. I respected all of them. Sex and extras are simply her job. If you think about it this should not detract from the possibility of a relationship. There have been a number of girls who used to live with me when I was in Abu Dhabi on business. By mutual agreement they could do short times in the afternoon but they always returned to spend the night with me. In fact, when they came back from a ST they were often unsatisfied and requested oral and a hard intercourse session. Each of these serial relationships were very rewarding and I remain friends with most of these girls today. Not saying this particular girl is anyone that the OP could have a real relationship with but, in my view, it is worth exploring. And I sense you agree. Bottom line: never forget that WGs are people.

Of course she will tell you she is not satisfied, this is part of managing clients, client should be happy and believe he is the best, but most probably it is just a lie, just remember that girls can cum 20 times in single session.

I had a WG who tried to be my GF, for fun I went a long and later caught her 5 times in the act, she still deny it, but three of them are friends. And now we reached the agreement of good time good money. And during sessions she provide GF experience and I live the lie until I cum.

Also I had girls before who had BF and he basically provided monthly allowance phones perfume, but again she was happy with the extra money she can get.

It is just the business. They need customers and they need they to be loyal and frequent. Honesty is the enemy of this business.

[Nice Guy 99]

I would bet that she knows the dynamics: providing Extras gives her additional income. They certainly see many more clients in a day you number of monthly visits to a spa, so I beg to differ on that but I think she knows what she is doing. Not that I a cynical, on the contrary, I just think that given the conditions in most spas, in particular that the owners pay no salary, they have to provide extras to get an income. And from what I know all those who stay there for a while made and accept these rules. That being said a good discussion and a clarification regarding communication volume and your obligations (work, family, friends etc.) should ease the relationship.

PT, of course she knows what she is doing. This is the life they have chosen or, in some cases, have been pushed into by external factors. If you look back at my history you will find out that I have had several very rewarding relationships, on a serial basis, with WGs. I respected all of them. Sex and extras are simply her job. If you think about it this should not detract from the possibility of a relationship. There have been a number of girls who used to live with me when I was in Abu Dhabi on business. By mutual agreement they could do short times in the afternoon but they always returned to spend the night with me. In fact, when they came back from a ST they were often unsatisfied and requested oral and a hard intercourse session. Each of these serial relationships were very rewarding and I remain friends with most of these girls today. Not saying this particular girl is anyone that the OP could have a real relationship with but, in my view, it is worth exploring. And I sense you agree. Bottom line: never forget that WGs are people.

[Aryanz]

I'll talk to her first, don't want to put her in an awkward position, she keeps telling me she isn't a WG (again could be part of the game).

Don't divulge her direct contact to others and don't tell her because that would raise the alarm. Instead pass on the details of the location and her name and let some seniors casually or randomly opt her and check her integrity.

[Plush Tiger]

OK, I'm a big softy. WGs are people. They have feelings and needs. Never forget that they are people.

Agree with that but knowing people, and the kind that work in SPAs, I would bet that she knows the dynamics: providing Extras gives her additional income. They certainly see many more clients in a day you number of monthly visits to a spa, so I beg to differ on that but I think she knows what she is doing, and I'd be happy to be wrong. Not that I a cynical, on the contrary, I just think that given the conditions in most spas, in particular that the owners pay no salary, they have to provide extras to get an income. And from what I know all those who stay there for a while made and accept these rules. That being said a good discussion and a clarification regarding communication volume and your obligations (work, family, friends etc.) should ease the relationship.

I think if you delete the WhatsApp chat and then delete the number from your contacts, the next time she messages you should get the option "number not in your contacts, block."

Why take such extreme measures? You can just archive the chat (unless you have a really old version) so you won't get the notifications. Make sure also to change your privacy settings so that no one sees when you connected last.

Share the details with other seniors and they would help to divert her attention from you. We have some real talented seniors out here.

This is an excellent suggestion, so that BigHat would find out quickly if it is a blatant lie or if she is "faithful".

[Member #4734]

Been going to an AMP in a quiet neighborhood for a few weeks and met this attractive Thai. She was pretty grabby from the beginning, so second time around I asked for FS, but she declined because of no condom; but let me finish between her legs. Third time she's very flirty off the bat, I show her the condom, and she gives me FS. Gone back a few more times and gotten FS, she doesn't ask for extra tip but I give her a couple of reds for her time.

The issue for me is that she blows up my whatsapp with messages sometimes and is starting to guilt me by saying she doesn't do FS with other customers and she's trying trying to make me feel like I'm special. I'm sure this is part of the game for her, but I don't know how to end this, other than just destroying my sim.

I've had this experience before, she tried to convince me that she only do with me hahaha.

It all depend on how much you like that pussy, and if that is enough to balance out the annoyance.

One thing I always try is to imagine how I feel with X in my life, the feeling will tell you what to do.

I much prefer professional girls, or as my favorite puts it "you give me money, I give you great sex" and indeed it is great.

Only msgs we exchange is location and time.

[BigHat849]

Share the details with other seniors and they would help to divert her attention from you. We have some real talented seniors out here.

I'll talk to her first, don't want to put her in an awkward position, she keeps telling me she isn't a WG (again could be part of the game).

[BigHat849]

OK, I'm a big softy. WGs are people. They have feelings and needs. They often work cross-culturally and have communications challenges with 2nd and 3rd languages. Before you just cut her off, meet with her once outside the AMP. Communicate your issues and don't solely rely on English, use Google Translate or similar. If this all turns ut to be a waste of time, at least you tried. If you break through and finally understand each other the rewards can be great. Never forget that they are people.

I am too, that's why its bothering me. Usually its just business, but maybe I've seen her too many times. But it can never be more than a business between us, that's the problem.

[Nice Guy 99]

Been going to an AMP in a quiet neighborhood for a few weeks and met this attractive Thai. She was pretty grabby from the beginning, so second time around I asked for FS, but she declined because of no condom; but let me finish between her legs. Third time she's very flirty off the bat, I show her the condom, and she gives me FS. Gone back a few more times and gotten FS, she doesn't ask for extra tip but I give her a couple of reds for her time.

The issue for me is that she blows up my whatsapp with messages sometimes and is starting to guilt me by saying she doesn't do FS with other customers and she's trying trying to make me feel like I'm special. I'm sure this is part of the game for her, but I don't know how to end this, other than just destroying my sim.

OK, I'm a big softy. WGs are people. They have feelings and needs. They often work cross-culturally and have communications challenges with 2nd and 3rd languages. Before you just cut her off, meet with her once outside the AMP. Communicate your issues and don't solely rely on English, use Google Translate or similar. If this all turns ut to be a waste of time, at least you tried. If you break through and finally understand each other the rewards can be great. Never forget that they are people.

[DXBTourist]

Been going to an AMP in a quiet neighborhood for a few weeks and met this attractive Thai. She was pretty grabby from the beginning, so second time around I asked for FS, but she declined because of no condom; but let me finish between her legs. Third time she's very flirty off the bat, I show her the condom, and she gives me FS. Gone back a few more times and gotten FS, she doesn't ask for extra tip but I give her a couple of reds for her time.

The issue for me is that she blows up my whatsapp with messages sometimes and is starting to guilt me by saying she doesn't do FS with other customers and she's trying trying to make me feel like I'm special. I'm sure this is part of the game for her, but I don't know how to end this, other than just destroying my sim.

I think if you delete the WhatsApp chat and then delete the number from your contacts, the next time she messages you should get the option "number not in your contacts, block."

[Aryanz]

Been going to an AMP in a quiet neighborhood for a few weeks and met this attractive Thai. gotten FS, she doesn't ask for extra tip but I give her a couple of reds for her time.
. I'm sure this is part of the game for her, but I don't know how to end this, other than just destroying my sim.

Share the details with other seniors and they would help to divert her attention from you. We have some real talented seniors out here.

[Dg8787]

Been going to an AMP in a quiet neighborhood for a few weeks and met this attractive Thai. She was pretty grabby from the beginning, so second time around I asked for FS, but she declined because of no condom; but let me finish between her legs. Third time she's very flirty off the bat, I show her the condom, and she gives me FS. Gone back a few more times and gotten FS, she doesn't ask for extra tip but I give her a couple of reds for her time.

The issue for me is that she blows up my whatsapp with messages sometimes and is starting to guilt me by saying she doesn't do FS with other customers and she's trying trying to make me feel like I'm special. I'm sure this is part of the game for her, but I don't know how to end this, other than just destroying my sim.

I don't use WhatsApp but is there a block feature? If not can you download a blocking app? You can delete your WhatsApp too.

[BigHat849]

Been going to an AMP in a quiet neighborhood for a few weeks and met this attractive Thai. She was pretty grabby from the beginning, so second time around I asked for FS, but she declined because of no condom; but let me finish between her legs. Third time she's very flirty off the bat, I show her the condom, and she gives me FS. Gone back a few more times and gotten FS, she doesn't ask for extra tip but I give her a couple of reds for her time.

The issue for me is that she blows up my whatsapp with messages sometimes and is starting to guilt me by saying she doesn't do FS with other customers and she's trying trying to make me feel like I'm special. I'm sure this is part of the game for her, but I don't know how to end this, other than just destroying my sim.