2002 Archived Reports

[OutoftheGame]

Tupanda,
Let be the first to thank you for your complete honesty on such an emotional and personal matter.But try to look on the bright side and be happy you found out now instead of later. And don't let this get you down on the other lovely ladies that work in the clubs, you just have to take things very slowly and not get attached right away. Remember your the man and have to be in control and not give away your emotions, let her be the one that is wondering how you feel about her. I hope the other guys take it easy on you but I would imagine that a few might make fun of you for believing that she was going to church instead of spending time with you.
Just take this as a lesson in life and grow from this experience. Again I really admire your honesty and hope your right back in the saddle soon!!!

[tupanda]

This post is for those who have kindly responded to me previously about my experience with a girl in Adelita. For those of you who are uninterested.. I am sorry that I took up board space. I can be emailed at onimusqa@aol.com if any of you think this is off topic and wish to dicuss it further with me.. Thanks.

Of all that had responded to my post.. I have taken it all into consideration. There are opposing views but they are nevertheless all correct. Unfortunately, mine has fallen on then negative side and I'm devastated by what has happen this Sunday. This is pretty much the final truth to the nagging skeptical feeling that has been bothering me since I've met her. It all seems very real to me, and I guess I'm just naive and emotionally premature and that is why I suffered the consequences. But there is also the question.. How do you know if it real or is just an act that they pull on you? I guess only time and patience will tell.. becuase today ... I caught her with someone else in her own hotel. I would usually wait for her in my own hotel.. and she would return from her shift to sleep with me. On Sunday morning.. I waited for her but she never shows up which I thought was really unsual. She told me the night before that she would spend time at church and she will visit me at 5 afternoon. I didn't take this into consideration and then decided to check her hotel at 3 pm afternoon. And then the truth. She hide her man inside her bathroom and constantly denies that there was someone in there. She would push me away as I approach near the bathroom door and would try to pull me out of the room and telling me that there is no one inside and to please wait for her in my hotel. How dare she lie to me like this when it is just so obvious. It just fucken hurt so much when you put all your belief in someone and they turn 180 on you. During our small arguments.. she would burst into small laughters as if it was completely comical to her. She even gave me the "screw you" good bye wave as I walk away from her. That fucken hurt. I then walked around the streets of Tijuana completely absent minded for about half hour and then hopped on a taxi and head for the border. I feel like dog shit now. And that's all I can say.

*The guy that hides in the bathroom.. if you are reading this.. I just wish you took it more responsibly, and come out to speak with me instead of hiding the bathroom.. things would have been much better instead of taking in her pathetic attempt to convince me that there is no one inside. Whatever you do.. I have nothing against you.. you should be careful. She is full of deceit and lies. Most likely you're asian beucase she aims for asian men with money.*

[Dylock]

Guys, Thanks for the tips on clubs. I will be there on Friday afternoon/night.

HoMaster, we usually go in a bigger group and splinter off into smaller ones for those who want to do different things, but this time it is probably just my buddy and me. Even if he is not going to bang hoes, I am taking him for the safety aspect. Do you realize that most people in TJ are not banging sex workers? I have never heard of someone looking down on someone else for NOT paying for sex, until now.

[Desmadre]

Redongdo... again, you're analysis is right on! I've just told them I'm just trying to do my thing. I'm pretty nice to them and show them respect but that doesn't mean I need to follow any rules I don't agree with either. It is funny though, that the one chick I had a problem has calmed down but a few of her friend look at me like I am scum which really doesn't bother me since I wouldn't deal with them (even thoughthey are hot pieces) anyway since I believe they had an attitude long before I ever set foot in TJ. Hey... I'll be down on the 15th (maybe with a friend on this day) and the 16th. Gotta max out my time before I get shut down for a month or two for work/family matters. Will you be there? If you are, maye we can cruise the outer limits for some tacos.

[Redongdo]

"Zen Monger" status? HAH! I love it.

I think it's more a question of the more you learn the less you know.

I think for some of us, some of the time...the feeling that someone might actually be jealous is a neat feeling too. It's not just about the physical satisfaction....the scratching of an itch.

So we deliberately create a situation where a certain fave(s) actually express jealousy if we hook up with another girl, especially if it's one in her own club and you embarrass her in front of her friends.

The difference is perception, we believe it's because we're such studly dudes that they glom on to us.

From their perspective....well think of it this way...say you get your hair cut at the same place all the time and you always go to the same stylist. You even give this fave stylist the feeling she's the best thing since peanut butter by your reaction to her work and you give the implication you're gonna stick with her always.

Suddenly you come in one day and decide to go with another stylist. You don't offer an explanation, nothing bad happened between you two...you just go to a different one. Well stylist #1 is gonna wonder why, she's claimed you as part of her turf cuz you always came back to her and always seemed happy.

I try to look at it this way. Let's just say I like a particular place where they cut my hair but find a number of stylists do it the way I like and once in awhile there's a new one that I'll try out.

The other stylists know you bounce from stylist to stylist and none of them claim you as their own. This time we created a "relationship" with all of them that makes them realize you're a customer who bounces between different stylists.

They understand, you understand and everybody is happy.

Same thing in TJ. We create our own scenarios...

Verdad?

R

Originally posted by desmadre
Redongdo,
I hear ya man. Your insights into the matter, like in MOST cases (LOL, bro) is pretty good. As you know, I am currently satelliting with two main chicas and an occasional hop with someone else. I guess I haven't achieved Zen Monger status yet.For now, it is satisfying me since the two I usually use can really turn a knob. It does, however, get annoying when they get off center because you want to get some STRANGE. I had that problem recently but straightened it out really quick.
Hargow20 (from several areas) and chacachaca (TJ)... really enjoy your posts. Kind of like the police blotter or even the restaurant/movie capsules from the papers. Straightforward, informative and (intentional/unintentional?) quite amusing at times. Keep it up guys!

[Desmadre]

Dylock,
I don't know if Cat Club is still happening. The advantage of it is that it's a regular club that is in the same shopping structure as the infamous Monte Carlo Massage parlour so you can get yours while your buddy is getting his.
Have fun in TJ. There's a lot of stuff to do besides smacking ass.

[Desmadre]

Redongdo,
I hear ya man. Your insights into the matter, like in MOST cases (LOL, bro) is pretty good. As you know, I am currently satelliting with two main chicas and an occasional hop with someone else. I guess I haven't achieved Zen Monger status yet.For now, it is satisfying me since the two I usually use can really turn a knob. It does, however, get annoying when they get off center because you want to get some STRANGE. I had that problem recently but straightened it out really quick.
Hargow20 (from several areas) and chacachaca (TJ)... really enjoy your posts. Kind of like the police blotter or even the restaurant/movie capsules from the papers. Straightforward, informative and (intentional/unintentional?) quite amusing at times. Keep it up guys!

[Mike Hock]

HoMaster...not sure why you included me in your remark about having me and the dude's friend hang out in TJ (the one who isn't into sex workers)...unless you don't know how to read properly and misread my post of last week. On the contrary, I am keenly aware of sex activities and pursued it to that end; but I didn't find anything to my satisfaction or safety on that particular day and instead chose to select a TJ woman off a review board. If you choose not to be selective, or perhaps you and I have a wide difference of opinion on what would be a nice lay, I am happy to accept that. But don't label me as one who doesn't pursue the hobbyist activity. I can assure you I have my own resume.

[Redongdo]

tijuana4ever ,

well at first i was gonna respond with a semi-smart ass response like "so if you're so cool why are you going to a hooker bar" but in the past all that's done is led to some ridiculous flame war.

lot's of us have gone the fave route and gotten the occasional freebie. now you might have "paid" in the sense of gifts or something like that.

if you have some kind of girlfriend "relationship" going on the "price" you pay is she more or less claims you and it's kinda tricky to go with other chicas in that club. there have even been times i was seeing a particular girl in a club and she not only knew if i was going up with other girls in her club but other clubs as well! the chica grapevine is amazing.

i've moved away from the fave phase, seldom do the same girl more than 2-3 times max. i do maintain friendships and once in awhile go to a movie or get a bite with some of the girls but i refuse to take it any further.

i find that overall guys that indulge in this hobby are generally an insecure lot and need to constantly try and act like they're "cooler" than the next guy. but it's competition based on insecurity and not a striving for excellence. i share that vibe too, it's human nature. as long as we can admit it to ourselves we can relax, have a good time and even kid around about how nifty we think we are.

so tijuana4ever, more power to you man. i'm sure you weren't trying to shit on anybody......right?

[HoMaster]

Dylock -

If your buddy doesn't like banging sex workers, why are you taking him to T.J. ?

You should hook him up with Mike Hock.....I think they'll get along.

- HoMaster

[Redongdo]

Dylock,

What day of the week?

Try Las Pulgas, it's on Revolucion between 7th and 8th. 3 huge dance rooms, each with different kinds of music. One with American style house music. The others are a Banda room and a Cumbia or Norteno. Something like that. Maybe there were four rooms!

A few bucks to get in but the beers are dirt cheap. It doesn't look that big from the outside but huge inside. Lots of locals. Word has it even some of the Zona chicas hang out there on their nights off!

For more high end take a cab to the Plaza Rio, across the street (I forget the name of it) there's a collection of several dance clubs...most a little more high end...you'll want to dress up. Also there's Baby Rock which I've never been to but heard of. It's supposed to be really big time, lots of high rollers and big crowds.

Originally posted by Dylock
I am going to TJ next weekend. Are there any regular (non-prostitution) clubs that regularly have available (non-working) chicks?

I am going to bang a few sex workers, too, but my buddy doesn't do that, so to keep him entertained we will want to go to a regular club for a while and check things out. I have been down there twice and the damn clubs were all empty! Just a few of us friends and the stupid whistle-blowing tequila guys. Very few chicks, and very few people in general, which was a real change from Ensenada where the clubs were packed with friendly, beautiful, local girls. I was very disappointed with the TJ nightlife aside from the prostitution.

Thanks for your thoughts!

[Dylock]

I am going to TJ next weekend. Are there any regular (non-prostitution) clubs that regularly have available (non-working) chicks?

I am going to bang a few sex workers, too, but my buddy doesn't do that, so to keep him entertained we will want to go to a regular club for a while and check things out. I have been down there twice and the damn clubs were all empty! Just a few of us friends and the stupid whistle-blowing tequila guys. Very few chicks, and very few people in general, which was a real change from Ensenada where the clubs were packed with friendly, beautiful, local girls. I was very disappointed with the TJ nightlife aside from the prostitution.

Thanks for your thoughts!

[Desmadre]

Redongdo,
I originally got 504 but the key wouldn't turn so they put me in Room 507. These rooms are on the top floor. Not much foot traffic on the floor this past Thursday night. Room 507 is the second to last room on the left side of the hall on the top floor facing Coahuila. Naw, though I screwed like a bandit, it was with two girls (not at the same time). The first was with the one you saw me with before nad the other was the one I was waiting for later that day. I paid the regular $50. I still haven't screwed them worthless yet. I do have my eye on a couple of others an will see if they're willing to play at $40. One is the short girl you know, Mary Magdalena but I haven't found the time to talk to her since I always get side-tracked by one of mis amigas.
I won't be in commission again until the weekend of the 15th but if you're there I'll say hello!

[executive]

anyone want company for TJ tonight?
subtleties@hotmail.com

[Redongdo]

Originally posted by desmadre
>Redongdo,
I took your advice from a few weeks ago when we met by staying overnight at the Coahuila. Plus, the recent posting inspired me to take a look before it gets overbooked! A little noisy, no AC, no TV but really not that bad.<

What room did you get? I always try for the second floor...one of them...I think 521 has no key. I left it one time, locked the door then asked the guy for the key. He came up with me and climbed through the window. Usually you can get a key for the room and leave a 2 buck deposit.

>And, I didn't have to keep on paying the short time rates plus the room rates for another hotel. Saved some bucks this time around. <

Now I wanna hear you never paid more than 40 bucks for a chica...and even got a couple for 30!