Rookie Advice and Opinions

[SuperRaven]

I just wanted to add something:

When ever you go for P4P remember to ask what is included in the price, Can I have. Does this include. This was worked very well for me and I recommend doing it, never choose on appearance or the intro. I know this sounds simple, but when you are horny its all systems go sometimes.

[Alta Reclan]

Hello,

As I'm a rookie on mongering, I'm also rookie on this forum. I'm a healthy (apart from the problem) young man. I have premature ejaculation problem for 5-6 months. Even past I had this problem but sometimes I could solve it but it did'nt last longer, the problem appeared again and again. I read in forum posts about this problem (also from another sites). Actually I'm in a 7 days trip in which I want to have sex but I have to solve this problem. I'm trying to coming late when masturbating sometimes it works little bit. But it continues in general. My question is about the medicals about this problem. Since I have to solve this problem in days, I want to use some medicals apart from the spreys which I understood makes the penis like a unuseful stick.

Does cialis have treatment effects on this problem? Some posts say it has some post it hasn't.

Like from the internet sources. I'd like to learn your opinions.

And also I heard that there is a medicine called depaxetine (not sure about name) I haven't made.

Search for this on forum due of time. I'd like to know if it works? Does it have bad side effects?

And do you have another solution propositions for the problem?

Thanks in advance

[Jolle]

Hi.

Anybody knows where in the world one could find virgin girls?

[SuperRaven]

Commandment #11: Always read another forum Forum first!

If Bill Clinton had followed this rule, maybe he would have gone to Downtown AMP to get his rocks off rather than get into trouble with Monica.

Seriously, I have always found another forum to be invaluable, to learn where to go, who to look for, who to avoid, how much to pay, etc. This is obvious advice but is still worth stating.

For example, if you're planning to go to an AMP, always check here first to learn the names of the best girls, especially one who is no longer working there. That way, when you go to an AMP and the mamasan asks you "have you been here before?" you can say,"yes, last time I was with Coco (or whatever the name is)" even though you'd never been there before, they'll think that you're a repeat customer. The mamasan will probably reply "sorry, Coco no work here anymore, I find you nice new girl." I can almost guarantee that you'll have a good session.

Commandment #12: The Korean AMP girls who speak little or no English usually provide better service than the Korean who speaks fluent English.

Commandment #13: A variation of *'s Rule #7. Never be afraid to walk out of a place halfway through a massage if things are going badly, even though you've already paid the $40 house fee. At vthe worst, you'll be out what you already paid to the house, and there's always a chance that the mamasan will give you a full or partial refund, or else try to make things right somehow by switching to a different girl.

Strong support for MeatMan's Rule #1 and *'s Rule #7. Don't ever be afraid to just walk away from a potentially-bad or suspicious situation and try again another day. If your gut tells you that something isn't right, then there is probably is something wrong going on, especially on the streets. Go home and beat off, and remember that tomorrow is another day, and that every year there is a new crop of 18 year old girls just waiting for us!

*

A Respectful Disagreement with Three X. At many (but not all) AMPs, you are usually better off to pay the tip up-front, right after the table shower. Always check first with another forum Forum to find out which AMPs this is true for. For example, at Downtown, Supra and CPHC in Washington, DC, and at Hong Kong and Magic in Waterbury, CT, it is always better to lay 5 jacksons on the table right after the shower, while at New Seoul in Vernon, CT one should always leave a small tip at the end (since it's a HJ-only place).

Reputable places in Houston that have a fixed-price policy (Maria's, Latin Sensation Studio, Lucia's, Escape in Houston, etc.) will require that you pay up front, but screen and train their employees carefully to minimize the chance of a bad session. And in the rare case where you do have a bad session, they will try to rectify any problems you may have afterwards if you let them know that the service was not up to snuff.

Thanks,

I have used you methods here in Aus, thanks mate, you correct

[IndoAussie]

But I hear of other places where you can pick up local girls for a smile and a beer.

Do you mind enlightening us on those places?

[Smiley Cool]

Costa Rica is great, I didn't see people sleeping on the streets or children begging for $. I highly recommend it.

Daytime is fine. But problem arises at night when walking home or to hotel. Beggers or children can lead to trouble, but it's also the fear that arises when traveling. This is not restricted to any country but a generality. Most tourist places tend to weed out the unhealthy elements that taints a city. but places with sex usually is more seedy.

SCool

[Gentleman Travel]

Yes, I'd love a change of scenery and am very attracted by tropical environment (and latina chicas!). But the idea of going mongering in a 3rd world country like Dom. Rep. Or Costa Rica scares me a bit, am kind of sensitive (good soul) person and looking at all that poor people, children sleeping on the street and asking you for money. Well that could put me in a bad mood.

If you are still planning your trip, I suggest the Dominican Republic as the best/easiest option.

Lots of Caribbean countries are very stoney ground - too small for the girls to be able to be slutty without everyone knowing, or other cultural barriers. Some, like Haiti, that are too poor and hazardous for your tastes.

I haven't actually mongered in DR, but reading the threads it is obvious that there are options from FKK-like experiences at "all inclusive" resorts, to well established pick up bars, etc. And the cities/resorts sometimes have particular characters to cater to different needs/game levels.

Plus DR should be easy and cheap to get to from Europe, which might not be the case elsewhere.

[Malabo]

For the experts: in your opinion, where do I find the tightest pussies. I would guess asian countries - but in your personal experience, where did find the tightest pussy?

A popular saying is "It's not the length of the barrel,but the strength of the bullet"

In your case it would also be the width of the barrel.

Don't be looking out for tight pussy,channel your energy into finding pussy that gives you a good time & happy memories.

[ReneFunder]

For the experts: in your opinion, where do I find the tightest pussies. I would guess asian countries - but in your personal experience, where did find the tightest pussy?

[Middleway]

junior's guide to mongering

do your research before you go:

• find and write down: places to pick-up ladies, pricing, good restaurants, recommended clubs/brothels etc.

• find and write down some non-mongering activities too

• are there unsafe areas which should be avoided?

if it is your first time visiting a city you should take some days to visit different venues. maybe the best places for you are not the first you visit. if you are only in town for a short stay or on business start with the venues that has the highest recommendations on the web.

know yourself:

• be honest with yourself about what you like in terms of sex, women etc.

• do you want as many girls as possible, or one girlfriend for the entire stay?

• are certain sexual acts a must? what would be nice optionals?

• how much are you willing to pay?

with the ladies:

• be in charge: i mean be assertive and take charge, while remaining respectful and polite. let her know that you know what you want and are used to being in charge.

• make a contract: when you have found a lady you like take care of the business side upfront. this includes agreeing on: price, time, location and services rendered. be realistic based on your pre-trip research and offer a fair price based on the requirements you have made.

• avoid ladies who: drink too much, are too aggressive, have poor personal hygiene, are disliked by their peers. too much attitude is also a strong warning sign. too many objections or trying to make a contract which is unfair to you is also a danger sign.

• be respectful of the ladies other commitments and relations with her friends. many ladies are non-pros or semi-pros, they may have to go to school the next day or they may be living at home while keeping their activities from their families. respect that. treat her friends nicely, without spending ridiculous amounts of money buying drinks for everybody.

• be honest with the ladies. do not make promises you either cannot or do not intend to keep.

some people argue for a 3-day rule, ie. do not stay more than 3 days with one lady as this may lead to "feelings/love". i think this rule is bullocks. i work in the investment industry and there is a saying my line of work "the trend is you friend" – which basically means if something is working stick with it and if something is not working cut your losses quickly. this should be your guideline. if a lady is rocking your world keep her, if not, it is time to move on.

it is your holiday – so have fun

good advice!

[CherchezFemme]

Well join the club, you can fight weight as man two ways -

1) Work on your wardrobe, there are quite of few famous or kinda famous not so thin men and they make it work for them.

2) PDX90 does work, intensive but fairly short by workout standards. Just follow the guide they give you, go to You Tube there's a community there and very few if any disappointed people.

These can work on FB IF you're the type to have pictures taken. Presentation is everything on the net, its instant gratification but it has its down side as you have seen.

The term "Mail Order Bride" I personally find offensive but I understand why people use it. The difference between here (America/Canada) and there (South America, East Europe, Asia) is that women are motivated to get married and its not fiction.

Your goals are similar to mine and I have experienced much of the same problem. Co-workers are unsuitable, age is a factor in America making only women near your age available to you.

If your over 30 don't even bother with women in America, its just a source of frustration.

DJ
1- In fact 2 of those 4 girls who I said liked me met me when I was dressed to the nines. 1 of em I had met years ago but she had never noticed me. The other one I had a ONS with but she's fat. I don't play that but it was NYE so I said f#ck it. Anyway its hard to dress up all the time, especially that summers here. But I'm going back to college in the fall and I may have to bite the bullet and be uncomfortable with a dress jacket, nice shoes, button down shirts, maybe a tie, gold watch, etc.

2- Yeah I've started working out again, not seeing much results in terms of fat loss. I have to eat less and have less sweets. I know what to do, I just gotta do it.

3- For FB, my pics are hidden so these 3 girls I friended can only see my profile pic- which btw is me with my favorite porn star after I banged her last year. Not a naughty pic, just me and her w/our arms around each other and smiling. I aint changing my profile pic b/c some biatches are ignoring me.

4- That mail order bride phrase was what I wrote to my friend, believe me I know here ppl are more sophisticated and in fact many ppl on here have mentioned they married or are having families with girls abroad.

5- You think the game changes over 30? I don't know, I've always sucked with girls so I can't accurately say. I think if one is good-looking, in-shape, with a good job they're fine.

I think those suspicious women in their 30s that I wrote about are single b/c their standards are too high and they won't compromise even tho their clock is ticking and they want babies bad.

I tell u what- the guys I know who fit their ideal man would never marry a woman in her 30s unless she was 31, 32 MAX. A guy my age up til about 40-42 who is good looking, who is in shape, who has money, who is funny, smart, confident i.e. everything that women want ain't going for a 35 year old.

Frankly, I won't either. I was a teacher for a long time and most of my colleagues were women so I've known easily 200 women almost all of whom have kids. Many of the ones who had kids in their 20s are still good to go. The ones who had them in their 30s and ESPECIALLY late 30s are all used up and nasty.

But I am interested in the ones I know from HS and college b/c they're f'n hot and I always wanted to bang them.

[CherchezFemme]

Yes, I'd love a change of scenery and am very attracted by tropical environment (and latina chicas!). But the idea of going mongering in a 3rd world country like Dom. Rep. Or Costa Rica scares me a bit, am kind of sensitive (good soul) person and looking at all that poor people, children sleeping on the street and asking you for money. Well that could put me in a bad mood.

That's all I meant.

Costa Rica is great, I didn't see people sleeping on the streets or children begging for $. I highly recommend it.

[Ziggy00]

OOC Ziggy, why don't you monger in Europe? Or do you just want a change of scenery?

Yes, I'd love a change of scenery and am very attracted by tropical environment (and latina chicas!). But the idea of going mongering in a 3rd world country like Dom. Rep. Or Costa Rica scares me a bit, am kind of sensitive (good soul) person and looking at all that poor people, children sleeping on the street and asking you for money. Well that could put me in a bad mood.

That's all I meant.

[DJ FourMoney]

Speaking of AW, I've been pretty frustrated the last month or so. The weather's warm, I'm horny as fuck, I don't want to spend 200-300 on an escort cuz I'm going to Prague soon and I can get 4-5 girls for that price, and I'm getting rejected left and right. I've tried to friend 3 girls on Facebook, all 3 have not even replied, much less friended. 1 I went to HS with, 1 I went to college with, and 1 by large coincidence is friends with 2 other friends. I'm getting ignored by cunts on FB! The HS girl has over 600 friends and I'm getting ignored. WTF! BTW all 3 are in their mid-30s and not married. You'd think they might be just the slightest bit interested, I mean after all they know me, we have things in common, etc.

Then I'm talking to girls on dating sites, and have been flaked on multiple times. Almost every response I get on these sites is form fat/ugly girls. I don't play that.

To make matters worse, there 's 4 girls interested in me, and I don't want to touch any of 'em. Its horrible, I'm living in a world where what I want I can't have, and what I can have I don't want.

Plus I had a date with a gorgeous girl recently, now she's ignoring me.
I go to bars, MILFs and cougars look at me like I'm a weirdo. I'm in my mid-30s and already too old for them I guess.

Here's something I wrote to a HS friend a couple of weeks ago.

" I think I'm looking to settle down, meet a nice girl, have babies. The problem is its not easy meeting girls. Especially here in the city. You go out, you flirt, you get phone #s, or you meet girls online and it rarely leads to anything. If the girls are younger, they're having fun and have a bunch of guys after them. You don't know where they're at, what they're thinking. If they're older....man, older girls, ones our age? They are suspicious, set in their ways and not easy to deal with. Though they may be desperate to get married, they have a checklist and if they can't put an "X" through almost every item on the checklist that bears your name, forget it. I've had great conversations with older girls and as soon as I gave one wrong answer or piece of information, that's it, I was done.

Its ironic: when I was in my early-mid 20s, I was in shape, had a full head of hair but no money, no car and still kind of shy/awkward with the ladies. 10-12 years later I have money, I'm much more confident, experienced, have a car, etc but I'm fat again and balding so I'm still handicapped.

I'm trying not to be bitter about dating because a) I'm still too young for that and b) I'm not a b**ch. But if in a few years things are still rough, I may have to look overseas. "

Mail order bride? I hope not...

Well join the club, you can fight weight as man two ways -

1) Work on your wardrobe, there are quite of few famous or kinda famous not so thin men and they make it work for them.

2) PDX90 does work, intensive but fairly short by workout standards. Just follow the guide they give you, go to You Tube there's a community there and very few if any disappointed people.

These can work on FB IF you're the type to have pictures taken. Presentation is everything on the net, its instant gratification but it has its down side as you have seen.

The term "Mail Order Bride" I personally find offensive but I understand why people use it. The difference between here (America/Canada) and there (South America, East Europe, Asia) is that women are motivated to get married and its not fiction.

Your goals are similar to mine and I have experienced much of the same problem. Co-workers are unsuitable, age is a factor in America making only women near your age available to you.

If your over 30 don't even bother with women in America, its just a source of frustration.

[CherchezFemme]

OOC Ziggy, why don't you monger in Europe? Or do you just want a change of scenery?

Hello guys
I'm an european guy and was just wondering something: if you (north) american guys were living in Europ
Ziggy