Dating Agency Discussions

[Muata8]

Newbie to ISG. This is my first lengthy report. Much respect to Jackson & all the senior members. Thanks to my friend Patentdog for hipping me to this veritable font of due diligence.

I've RTFF and the amount of practical, real-world info across all boards is mind-boggling. Wish I have some of it before I busted the financial mongering curve in Accra for GFE, LOL. (More on that in another post there.)

Joined Afro Intro on Nov. 27, 2012 at the Gold level for 3 months at $59. 00. My focus is on African women and I will be in Ghana again next month (dates not quite set yet-will let the Ghana board know in advance) so I'm collecting phone #s. My report is as of Jan. 20, 2013.

-I viewed profiles of 852 women.

-798 women are interested in me.

-294 women have viewed my profile.

-I'm a 'favorite' of 78 women.

-I've gotten 147 emails from women around the world (except Ghana-that's tracked separately).

-I've gotten 75 emails just from women in Ghana.

-I've sent emails to 164 women. (Cut & paste my contact info & flattery & just fill in the name)

CAVEATS:

-I'm a Black American. Obviously this analysis is written from that perspective. I don't know how the variable of race plays into this (we all know money, or the perception of relative wealth vs. The women, is the most critical variable). But when I meet some of the women personally, I'll try to find out what impact race & natural origin (stereotypical big-spending American?) is a factor in their interest in me.

-Note that I'm a 'culture vulture' at heart. I like the process of trying to understand how other people live. I don't do FFFF or ST- I'm a GFE guy who wants to have the proverbial 'woman in every port' so they prepositioned when I arrive. That's what I intend to use AfroIntro for.

-Budget is important. I'll stay within the mongering range-probably toward the top. But I'm spending thousands to travel to Africa for the premium GFE and cultural experiences I can't easily or inexpensively get in America. A few extra cedis / shillings / CFAs on the high end of the range is a small price to pay for what I want in the time I have to get it. No apologies for that. (It would be a different story if I lived in Africa.)

-For purposes of this report, assume the women I've met online are real. (I know about all the online dating scams. No need to warn me about getting a girl to pretending to be on webcam and calling a guy's phone who hands it to his girlfriend.) The only way to confirm is via an in-person meeting. I intend to do that.

-I'll write a FR including post-game analysis after my next Ghana trip. That will give us all some idea of how AfroIntro can work as a primary strategy.

Some conclusions from this experience, in random order:

-Pictures seem to make a substantial difference. I uploaded 5 of the best, clearest pix I've taken in the last 2 years or so (clean-shaven & looking my best) in some of the more exotic places around the world.

-Clearly only a fraction of women actually read the profile. I know this because (1) when they contact me or I chat with them, they are asking questions that are clearly answered in my profile, or (2) their personal statements indicate they may have English language difficulties, so reading may be an issue. Given the disparity between the number who viewed my profile (294) vs. The number 'interested' (798) they obviously clicked 'interested' based on the picture, not on the profile.

-I had to organize myself or get overwhelmed by contacts. I've used Afro's email 'filter' to separate Ghana & non-Ghana responses. Also, everybody uses aliases and it's easy to get confused with a large number of responses when real names don't match aliases. I set up a separate folder on my Macbook Pro for each woman I'm interested in. Afro has a 'print' function that I use to keep track of email; I print and save as a PDF-it's usually a 1-page document. The woman's file also includes any pictures she sends me. (On a Mac you can also print her profile and save as a pdf, but it's not printer-friendly.) Some of you may use contact management software to better organize yourselves, but this works for me.

-Most African women seem to be on Yahoo and use the instant message service there. Get a Yahoo account if you don't have one. (Google also has one, but Yahoo seems more popular. I have accounts on both.)

-You should set Yahoo I'm preference / messaging to 'Enable Messaging Archive' which keeps a written record of your I'm conversation. That's helps efficiency-you can review what you said to the woman in previous conversations. It also helped me to 'drop dime' on an Afro scammer asking for money. I cut & paste the conversation & reported abuse to Afro. The scammer was promptly removed.

- It's best to contact an Afro prospect there then move the contact off Afro to either email or I'm. That way you are not tied to Afro in case you decide not to renew. By the time my subscription expires, I'll have all critical info in my own files. I can decide then if I'll resubscribe or work off the list I've compiled.

-I'm trying to use Google Translate to communicate with some fine-ass Cameroonian & Ivorian women who only speak French. Note that AfroIntro has a Platinum plan that will translate for you. But given how bad the translation that comes with the Gold plan is when you look at a woman's non-English profile, I'm skeptical Afro's Platinum plan is any better.

RANDOM OBSERVATIONS:

-The net is the best thing to happen to a lot of these women-or guys posing as women. They could talk you out of your dirty drawers (and your bank account) if you let them. I know some guys (like Manti Te'o / Notre Dame) are getting 'catfished' by either guys up late at night or by slick women.

-You see some ridiculous profiles & pix-an African woman living in Russia who is 4 feet 9 inches tall, weighs 315 pounds of Asian ethnicity and speaks Pashto and who has Kerry Washington's picture as 'her. ' One chica also uploaded a pic of her in a hospital bed in an ob / gyn hospital gown. Not very sexy.

-Women are crazy, desperate, or both all over the world. One cussed me out via instant message 'cause I told her we "trust but verify" in America & I wouldn't send her money before I met her. (I would have slipped it in her tight jeans after knocking dem boots in Accra, LOL. But she couldn't wait.)

-Want to know if you have a scammer or golddigger? Wait long enough. 'I need money for webcam sex / school / sick mama / kid's school fees / start my business / cook for you when you get here. ' Deleted. One asked for $ after a few I'm sessions, then she apologized. Is she working me for 'the long con' in Africa, LOL? We'll find out.

-I ask to see them on webcam. Those who can (a relatively few in this experience) will. Those that can't won't, but won't react adversely once you explain why. I then webcam myself so they know I'm a 'real man' and put the burden on them to reciprocate. Suspected scammers go into 'don't you trust me' as an excuse to stop contact and move to the next 'mark. '

-African men have lied to, cheated / scammed on & beaten so many of them that it's easy for us to get with African women. Being American / non-African is a great advantage, though many of them think America is a savage country full of guns and drugs. (IMHO, they aren't completely wrong, but that's another conversation).

-Hair 'weave' from Asian & European women is all over the planet on Black women's heads if they are age 35 or under. Also have seen a few tattoos, but not many.

-Big sunglasses that look like lab glasses we used to wear in biology classes in the '70s are now the fashion. So are big-ass knockoff flea market handbags.

-Every African woman thinks she is "extremely attractive" no matter what she really looks like. I find such emotional security refreshing, given the insecure pathological mindset of almost every American woman who's been my significant other.

-Older Black women, especially Americans, hate that I'm advertising for younger women. I've been cussed out by a few via email. Plenty of snide comments from them.

-Women from Cameroon seem to have the biggest natural tits on Afro, at least from looking at pictures I've seen. That's my weakness. BTW, my mother did DNA testing and we found out Cameroon (Bamilike) is in our genetic background. I'll discover my roots and suck some big naturals on the same trip, so Cameroon is now higher on my list.

-I can now get a phone number within 20 seconds of online conversation. I flatter them, talk game, and crack a joke or two. But nuanced, cultural or sarcastic humor doesn't convey well online or via email.

-When I first got started, I made a special appointment for an online chat with a great prospect. She stood me up, I got upset, and blew the opportunity when I took it personally and ragged her about 'standing me up. ' I forgot that 'shit happens' in Africa all the time. And I'm dealing with the culture of 'time' in Africa, not America. Old Africa hands know what I mean.

-I'm starting to like big, thick African girls with real curves-I'm used to the taller, more athletic ones here in America. I'm 6'4'.225 pounds, and going to try a big 'un out in Accra and see if I like the experience. A cute one with the online name "juicypussy" sent me a pix of her face and her bent-over ass in a thong; I asked her to send a pic so I can recognize the rest of her if I meet her, LOL.

-Jiggydus, I'm planning a long-term trip and I may retrace your steps in East Africa. Please PM your contact so we can talk, if you don't mind. Much respect to you, bro.

Thanks all. A FR for my first p4p trip to St. Maarten will be forthcoming on that board.

Also will analyze Badoo and Tagged once I put in some time in on those sites.

Muata8

[NicFrenchy]

Finally took the plunge, more out of curiosity than anything else.

I paid for a Gold membership to TLL http://www.thailovelinks.com/

Since then, a lot of ladies contact me and some are up for sex on the first date.

[Dubman30]

Anybody know any real info and experience about this site? Ilovelatins generally in Baranquilla Colombia run by some dude named Sam whose from Texas. What the deal with this? Hes got lots and lots of hot Colombianas! Looks like a lot of fun but really is it just women lookin love or for a green cards?

[Kelong Jimmy]

Anybody know of any sites to find middle eastern women.

Any hop would be much appreciated.

Try www.muslima.com

I think most aren't looking for the game, but you can try. Let us know how it goes.

[MaxStar]

Anybody know of any sites to find middle eastern women.

Any hop would be much appreciated.

[MaxStar]

Anybody know of any sites to find middle eastern women.

Any hop would be much appreciated.

[BrasilSoccer0]

I hope this helps. For FSU countries like Ukraine, Belarus. Etc I think mamba. Ru is the only legit ENGLISH site.

What do you all think?

My first post.

Which is the best way to connect with girls from Eastern Europian girls (Ukrainian, Romanian, Polish) for dates.

Padd

[NicFrenchy]

I have a lot of Success in Thailand from 2 very Free Sites:

1. Tagged.

2. Badoo.

Both have apps that you can load to your smartphone and can check "on the Go"

[Johnny1000]

I can confirm this from koreancupid site as well.

Having ideal circumstances being alone in Seoul, I had tremendous success with 28 (!) women in 10 months. Those are mostly 30-40 though and regulars having to 50% pertnership / marriage. Great success and great fucks of regulars. Now my assignment ended and I am back home having almost no extra experience. What a diffreence. But luckily wife is ok.

Regards.

Brain666

Were those korean women into for action only? I moved here in seoul recently and I am not willing to go through the usual long dating etc. I would rather have something discreet but thought that it would be hard to find with korean women. I'll check this site then.

If you have any tips about what those korean women like to hear and read they would be appreciated.

[NowDen1]

My first post.

Which is the best way to connect with girls from Eastern Europian girls (Ukrainian, Romanian, Polish) for dates.

Padd

[Darius3456]

Hi,

Does anyone have any recent / updated info on good agencies / websites other than LatinAmericancupid, Dominicancupid, etc.

Also, some time ago, there was someone here that placed personal ads in newspapers is various countries, I think his name was Tom but he is since moved on to other things. Any info on a new service that will place an ad in a newspaper?

Thanks

[Brain666]

I was on this site years ago and met my current wife there before I moved to Peru. It was a free site back then and I was probably the first "principe azul" they had!

A few of the ISG that live here (LIMA) use the site with a lot of luck and have more chicas than they can handle. They also use latinlovesearch as well.

My personal view is it is better to live in country when you use these sites, but it works as well if you convince them you are only coming down to see them and get to know the country, culture, blah, blah.

Suerte,

LB

I can confirm this from koreancupid site as well.

Having ideal circumstances being alone in Seoul, I had tremendous success with 28 (!) women in 10 months. Those are mostly 30-40 though and regulars having to 50% pertnership / marriage. Great success and great fucks of regulars. Now my assignment ended and I am back home having almost no extra experience. What a diffreence. But luckily wife is ok.

Regards.

Brain666

[Sponsor74]

Agree with David_33. The Filipina sites, while admittedly having LB and scammers, tend to prefer older guys.

Case in point. My current squeeze is 18 and am over 50 (often mistaken to be very kinky and naughty.) , also been with 2 under 21 in the last few days plus have another two under 20 waiting for me in Manila.

Of course you have to like Asian girls to start with. Happily for me I do (well Filipinas)

Hello, I ave some experiences with Thailand and Ukraine and honestly prefer women from Ukraine but regarding country I prefer Thailand. The best a Ukraine girl in Thailand. Regarding age for me ONLY as from 18 in order to avoid legal issues and bot countries offer big chances. Price is also important and Thailand is still cheap and Ukraine getting expensive. Maybe we have to find new destinations, but my preferences are the blong yound and sexy

[IndoAussie]

Can someone recommend a good site for getting into NSA relationships or for finding independents in Australia?

[The Cane]

What's the current state of affairs regarding dating agencies/sites for meeting Brazilian girls? Any good ones out there? On my last trip, a garota told me that I should get an Orkut account, but I have not heard a lot of good about Orkut for quite some time.