Living in Mexico

[Roddd]

Miller2k,

thank you for the write up and all the good information. You really do sound like 'the happiest man alive'. You have done what many have longed to, but few, I'm sure, actually have.
Take care.

Roddd

[RearWindow]

Miller2k,

Good for you and your decision. I made a major change in my career 12 years ago, and have never regretted it, as it gave me mas freedom, and a lot more sanity, but initially much less money.

And now, I'm looking to move as close to, if not into, Mexico as I can, but trying to keep my financial arrangements. I vacation in DR a few weeks a year,and love it, but it doesn't have the visceral attraction that MX has over me.

I am curious about anal sex, having a few lovers who started to seem interested, but have not tried it yet. DATY is my favorite non-fucking activity, and I have had to gradually work on my mexicanas to go for it. And it has not been easy. The old saying, "the joy of the hunt is often better than the thrill of the kill" certainly may be at work here.

[Mill Just]

Howdy...

Bend It...I was working for a fortune 500 company in the research/market studies dept. and one day I was working late on a completely boring and pointless project. I had the begginings of an ulcer and I wasn't yet 30 years old. I decided that night to get out and start to have fun with my life in a place where I wouldn't have to kill myself to make a decent living. I cashed out my 401K and my bank account and, after 2 weeks notice, I moved to Mexico. I had the advantage of having a step-father who had a never-used house in a small town in Mexico (He inherited it from an uncle). When I got to Mexico I dedicated 3 or 4 months to studying and learning the language since I knew maybe 20 words of Spanish while I lived in the USA. I studied for hours a day until I was good enough to speak a little. (Now, I consider myself fairly fluent). Then, I printed up some flyers advertising English classes from a "Norte Americano." I started with 2 students, but the word spread and now I have more work than I can handle and I have a 6 month waiting list for future students. I invented a technique for teaching English for which I'm currently seeking a patent. It's such an obvious technique that I can't believe nobody used it before...That's why I'm doing some research right now to see if something similar has already been used and registered. Well, anyway, moving to Mexico was the best decision of my life and I couldn't be happier. I wouldn't recommend it to everybody, but I like to live my life without a safety net and I don't mind living without some of the creature comforts that I had in the US.

Rodd...I love to DATY myself and I've done it to every intimate girlfriend that I've had. They are a little shy at first, but they really get off on it eventually. For some reason, the most reluctant women in regards to receiving oral sex have been "working girls". I've never had a big problem here with convincing a non-pro woman to let me go down on her. But, of course, maybe I just got lucky a few times.

Rear Window: Anal sex does happen a lot more than reported in Mexico. Anal is not really my thing, but I've been with a couple of girls that were very receptive /curious about the idea. Of course, I think it all depends on how intimate you are. A mexican girl who feels secure with you will be willing to do almost anything unless she's a "princess" and feels above all that "Sex" stuff---I've met a couple like that where you have to wait a long time just to get a hand job. And even then, she'll look away with an attitude like "I can't believe I'm doing this disgusting thing".

Proko...good to hear from you. I finaly found out the reason why most SW's in Morelia don't do oral. One girl, who I clicked with and eat dinner with on occasion, told me that sex workers come to see them every so often and they harp on them to avoid oral sex because of a greater perceived risk to catch a disease. Also, she told me that many of the men that come to see the SW's are not too clean and going down on a dirty guy makes them sick. It's very possible that there is a cultural aspect to this as well. They may regard oral sex as degrading. Morelia is a big city with 1.5 million people, but unlike most big Mexican cities, it has held on to many traditional ways of thinking. That's what makes the city so endearing to me, although it cuts down the amount of head I get (and I like to get a lot)

Well...It's good to chat with y'all and I look forward to hearing from you again...

Take care and have fun!

From: THE HAPPIEST MAN ALIVE

[Prokofiev]

"The only bad thing is that it's very hard to get oral sex from a Mexican woman. Even the SWs aren't too willing to give a bj."

Miller, This has a lot to do with where you are living. For some reason the SWs of Morelia and Michoacan have a pact against providing BJs. Either BBBJ or CBJ. Maybe they have a Union? Who knows. While I have found several ladies more than willing in this regard in Morelia, I have been refused by many, many more.

But in other areas . . . especially Guadalajara but also Mexico City, Puebla, Oaxaca etc this is not a problem.

[RearWindow]

Roddd,

To this point, I have only found one Latina who really let me DATY. And she did enjoy it. IMHO, for Latinas, that might be THE most intimate of sexual expressions, and seems to be reserved only for that special lover. ( barring anal,which seems to never happen). Que Lastima.

[Bend It]

Rodd and Miller --

Great posts. Thanks for the web site, Rodd, it was great reading.

Miller, if you don't mind, I'd love to hear some of your story. It just seems so extraordinary to move to another country, how did you do it (financially, professionally, family-wise)? I'm fascinated and would like to hear more.

Thanks,

Bend It

[Roddd]

Miller,

since we're on the subject (women), I have another question, somewhat related to your last post.

You say most Mexican women are reluctant to go down on a guy. In your experience, how receptive are they to DATY? And the ones who are, do they seem to accept it just to please the guy, or do they really get into it?

If you would rather discuss this by way of PM, please feel free. Otherwise, right here is fine with me.

Thanks!

Roddd

[Mill Just]

Thanks for the kind words, Rodd. Yes, I'm still living in Mexico and I'm still loving it. I never regret for a moment leaving corporate America.

The women are really incredible. They are very reserved at first, but they will eventually open up and get very horny very fast. It's almost like the girls that went to Catholic school: They were so guarded and conservative that they went hog wild the first chance they got. Once you get in good, even the most religious girl will be having sex with you everyday...you just need to know how to keep a secret (There's a saying here that goes: A gentleman has no memory). With my current girlfriend I went from holding hands to marathon sex in a hotel room in about a month.

There's just something about the anatomy of the Latina...Their pussies are just so hot that you "finish" a lot faster than normal unless you concentrate. White women just can't compare. Even with a condom on, it feels like they have a furnace down there. Even the "working girls" in Mexico feel better than their American counterparts.

The only bad thing is that it's very hard to get oral sex from a Mexican woman. Even the SWs aren't too willing to give a bj. I brought a few packs of flavored condoms from the USA and that seemed to help a bit, but most are still reluctant to go down on a guy.

OK, so I was a bit more graphic than usual in this post, but I just love Mexican women and Latinas in general...I think that after this post I'l be giving my girlfriend a booty call...haha

take care and have fun...

[Roddd]

Good post Miller2K. I have never lived in Mexico, but after doing some interesting reading lately, I am more interested in doing some travelling there. The reading I speak of is at http://www.strikingviking.net . Click on the link 'Enter the adventure site'. Some pretty good stuff here, from a large gringo travelling around, deep in Mexico on his motorcycle, and seeming to make friends, and loving the country the more he sees of it.

Miller, also, if you don't mind, do you still live there? One more thing, feel free to tell us anything else about the women of Mexico. I'd love to hear it, and I'm sure others would also. And I do mean anything. Thanks!

Roddd

[Mill Just]

El Paso...

Living in Mexico is a very pleasant experience, but there are a few things that I wish somebody had told me.

First, the smaller the town, the longer it will take for you to be accepted. There is no animosity toward us Gringos- It's just the opposite. Many people were intimidated by me when I moved here and it took at least 6 months before I began to be invited to parties and trusted in general. My friends told me that they thought of Americans as aggressive and arrogant, so they stayed away until they learned that their stereotype wasn't true. Mexican people are generally polite and they will speak to you in a friendly manner, but they won't let you close to them until you prove yourself to be trustworthy.

Second, Mexican Pesos are very easy to spend. Keep a close watch on your money and stick to a budget. The important things (i.e. rent, food, household items) are reasonable, but everybody will try to nickle and dime you on everything and before you know it you'd spend 500 pesos on something when you only wanted to spend 200.

Third, the Mexican women will treat you good in Mexico and you'll never be alone unless you choose to be. This sounds like a positive thing, but it can really be trying. It's almost as though you are a famous person and you can never be sure who REALLY likes you and who is just with you for money, their papers or any other reason.

The theme of "Living in Mexico" is huge, so let me know if there is something specific that you'd like to know about your future move...

From: THE HAPPIEST MAN ALIVE

[ElPasoGentleman]

I'm thinking about relocating to central Mexico. Perhaps in Irapuato or San Miguel Allende. I know there is reasonable housing and I'd like to rent something in a nice Mexican barrio. Any input on the entire aspect of living in these areas? Thank you.

EPG

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