Sadomasochism

[PedroMorales]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vYVNswHlcSs

This is a very good series.

[Mark Loon]

Hello,

Does anybody know if in some part of the world (Thailand, Philippines, Brazil.) it is possible the hire a real submissive girl for some days? Maybe trough an agency or some local clubs.

[Mongerer88]

Did you forget the link?

We started of with a few evening sessions, and really connected over dinner. Then we spent 2 days together at a very nice resort close to the small town where she lives. It is on the ocean and we spent part of the day walking along the shore bare-footed, holding hands. I think we really connected. For our next meeting, she wanted to explore her limits a bit further. I suggested a role play. So before our next weekend together, I wrote up a "job description" and emailed it to Lisette. She approved without hesitation and told me she was super excited to play it out. And she played it out perfectly. She did make just a few slip ups, but accepted her "corrections" with delight. Our arrangement went on for a few more months before other events (mostly COVID) ended our time together in January. She was definitely the best "arrangement" I have ever had, and a super sexy really nice lady. I don't usually do much kink with my liaisons, but this was very light kink and very consensual. Sadly, she is no longer in the business.

For your amusement, here is the "job description" she played out for me:

"You have been hired as Mr. Hunt's personal assistant. You are responsible for meeting Mr. Hunt's every need, at all times. Your complete and undivided attention to Mr. Hunt's needs is essential, and any lapse will require discipline.

[SteelBaton]

Excellent job description. Did the applicant perform as expected? What lapses were there and how were they addressed?

We started of with a few evening sessions, and really connected over dinner. Then we spent 2 days together at a very nice resort close to the small town where she lives. It is on the ocean and we spent part of the day walking along the shore bare-footed, holding hands. I think we really connected. For our next meeting, she wanted to explore her limits a bit further. I suggested a role play. So before our next weekend together, I wrote up a "job description" and emailed it to Lisette. She approved without hesitation and told me she was super excited to play it out. And she played it out perfectly. She did make just a few slip ups, but accepted her "corrections" with delight. Our arrangement went on for a few more months before other events (mostly COVID) ended our time together in January. She was definitely the best "arrangement" I have ever had, and a super sexy really nice lady. I don't usually do much kink with my liaisons, but this was very light kink and very consensual. Sadly, she is no longer in the business.

For your amusement, here is the "job description" she played out for me:

"You have been hired as Mr. Hunt's personal assistant. You are responsible for meeting Mr. Hunt's every need, at all times. Your complete and undivided attention to Mr. Hunt's needs is essential, and any lapse will require discipline.

You will be meeting Mr. Hunt at the * Hotel. When you arrive at the hotel at 5 pm, go directly to Mr. Hunt's room. The key card for the room will be in an envelope. You will see a corner of the envelope sticking out from under the door. Pull it through, and let yourself quietly into the room. Mr. Hunt will be upstairs in the loft, so you can get yourself prepared before he sees you. You will have brought along your dildo. In order to ensure that your * is moist and ready for Mr. Hunt's attention, once you have changed you can start to fuck yourself. You will be moaning loudly as you eagerly await Mr. Hunt's arrival.

Appropriate dress is required at all times. You will wear only sheer stockings, either nude stockings or black stockings preferably with a garter belt. Sheer black stockings will preferably have a back seam, and a welt and shadow welt at the top attached to a garter belt. High heels are required at all times. The skirt will be short, and must ride up at all times to sufficiently display the upper thigh and nearly, but not quite, the top of the stocking. When walking, you must be sure that the skirt raises accordingly. Failure to have the exact portion of thigh showing will require discipline.

The blouse will button in the front. Only Mr. Hunt is permitted to unbutton. A bra is optional, but if worn will be a quarter cup or shelf bra that will allow the nipples to rise above the top of the bra. Nipples should remain erect at all times. If necessary, you may caress your nipples to ensure this. If the blouse is thin enough, then you will moisten it with some water so that your nipples show through.

Panties must not be worn at any time, and violation of this rule may require strict discipline.

Your hair may be worn up at the start of the meeting, but you will let it down before the first time you suck Mr. Hunt's cock. It is important that your hair brush against Mr. Hunt's inner thighs while you lick and slobber over his throbbing cock.

Your demeanor at all times will be deferential. You must remember at all times to be a and to refer to yourself as such. It is a great honour to be Mr. Hunt's personal. Be sure to use language at all times. Asshole, tits, and cock are the only acceptable terms to be used. Any lapse in this will result in discipline.

You must at all times advise Mr. Hunt of your state of arousal. You will frequently check your * for wetness by inserting one or two fingers. If the result is satisfactory, hold your fingers out for Mr. Hunt to taste. If you have been very compliant, you may also fuck your with your dildo. But only after appropriately begging to do so. If the dildo is covered with sufficient juice, you will present it to Mr. Hunt and join him in licking it.

Be sure to remain well hydrated at all times. All kissing must be deep and sloppy, with slobber slowly sliding from your lips into Mr. Hunt's mouth or onto his stiff cock. When deep French kissing, your hair must be down with wisps of hair across your face and mouth. Mr. Hunt enjoys the softness of your hair passing across his lips and then sliding a few strands with his tongue into your mouth to enjoy the delicate feel.

Mr. Hunt will also enjoy some treats such as licorice. All treats must pass first through your lips. Be sure that you have taken a bite, so that the consistency is soft and moist before sliding it with your tongue into Mr. Hunt's mouth.

Bernard Callebaut gourmet chocolate sauce will be available. You will apply this creatively but be sure to include your nipples and any (or all) holes of your choosing. Only use about 5-10 ML at each sexy location to avoid spoiling Mr. Hunt's appetite.

Pay attention to Mr. Hunt's cock at all times. If Mr. Hunt has an erection, you will immediately wrap your lips around it and ensure there is a copious amount of slobber at all times. Mr. Hunt's cock will be the centre of your attention. You will greatly admire and worship his cock using appropriate terms.

Discipline might require restraining your hands and ankles, preferably in such a manner that your can be readily licked or penetrated. Your asshole must also be available at all times for licking or penetration by Mr. Hunt's finger. One finger, which will be well lubricated by your slobber. You will express enormous gratification that Mr. Hunt deems to pay attention to your asshole, as this is a privilege given only to the sluttiest of sluts.

A light spanking, using a small paddle, on your nipples, ass or wet will be required for minor infractions.

While restrained, it might give Mr. Hunt some pleasure to slide your dildo in and out of your wet and around your clit. He might then abruptly withdraw such pleasuring to enjoy your exquisite discomfort at having come close to but not quite having an orgasm. He might deem to complete your pleasure if you beg sufficiently and submissively.

If you have performed adequately, then Mr. Hunt may choose to fuck you. You will ensure your is moist and prepared to receive Mr. Hunt's throbbing stiff cock. Being fucked by Mr. Hunt is a great privilege and will be an intense sensual experience. You will express this pleasure using the utmost slutty language. Mr. Hunt prefers soft moaning as well. If Mr. Hunt tires of listening to you, he will insert a dildo or a finger or two into your mouth to shut you up and teach you when to be quiet, especially when he wants to focus his attention on fucking your.

[MikeHunt1227]

We started of with a few evening sessions, and really connected over dinner. Then we spent 2 days together at a very nice resort close to the small town where she lives. It is on the ocean and we spent part of the day walking along the shore bare-footed, holding hands. I think we really connected. For our next meeting, she wanted to explore her limits a bit further. I suggested a role play. So before our next weekend together, I wrote up a "job description" and emailed it to Lisette. She approved without hesitation and told me she was super excited to play it out. And she played it out perfectly. She did make just a few slip ups, but accepted her "corrections" with delight. Our arrangement went on for a few more months before other events (mostly COVID) ended our time together in January. She was definitely the best "arrangement" I have ever had, and a super sexy really nice lady. I don't usually do much kink with my liaisons, but this was very light kink and very consensual. Sadly, she is no longer in the business.

For your amusement, here is the "job description" she played out for me:

"You have been hired as Mr. Hunt's personal assistant. You are responsible for meeting Mr. Hunt's every need, at all times. Your complete and undivided attention to Mr. Hunt's needs is essential, and any lapse will require discipline.

You will be meeting Mr. Hunt at the * Hotel. When you arrive at the hotel at 5 pm, go directly to Mr. Hunt's room. The key card for the room will be in an envelope. You will see a corner of the envelope sticking out from under the door. Pull it through, and let yourself quietly into the room. Mr. Hunt will be upstairs in the loft, so you can get yourself prepared before he sees you. You will have brought along your dildo. In order to ensure that your * is moist and ready for Mr. Hunt's attention, once you have changed you can start to fuck yourself. You will be moaning loudly as you eagerly await Mr. Hunt's arrival.

Appropriate dress is required at all times. You will wear only sheer stockings, either nude stockings or black stockings preferably with a garter belt. Sheer black stockings will preferably have a back seam, and a welt and shadow welt at the top attached to a garter belt. High heels are required at all times. The skirt will be short, and must ride up at all times to sufficiently display the upper thigh and nearly, but not quite, the top of the stocking. When walking, you must be sure that the skirt raises accordingly. Failure to have the exact portion of thigh showing will require discipline.

The blouse will button in the front. Only Mr. Hunt is permitted to unbutton. A bra is optional, but if worn will be a quarter cup or shelf bra that will allow the nipples to rise above the top of the bra. Nipples should remain erect at all times. If necessary, you may caress your nipples to ensure this. If the blouse is thin enough, then you will moisten it with some water so that your nipples show through.

Panties must not be worn at any time, and violation of this rule may require strict discipline.

Your hair may be worn up at the start of the meeting, but you will let it down before the first time you suck Mr. Hunt's cock. It is important that your hair brush against Mr. Hunt's inner thighs while you lick and slobber over his throbbing cock.

Your demeanor at all times will be deferential. You must remember at all times to be a and to refer to yourself as such. It is a great honour to be Mr. Hunt's personal. Be sure to use language at all times. Asshole, tits, and cock are the only acceptable terms to be used. Any lapse in this will result in discipline.

You must at all times advise Mr. Hunt of your state of arousal. You will frequently check your * for wetness by inserting one or two fingers. If the result is satisfactory, hold your fingers out for Mr. Hunt to taste. If you have been very compliant, you may also fuck your with your dildo. But only after appropriately begging to do so. If the dildo is covered with sufficient juice, you will present it to Mr. Hunt and join him in licking it.

Be sure to remain well hydrated at all times. All kissing must be deep and sloppy, with slobber slowly sliding from your lips into Mr. Hunt's mouth or onto his stiff cock. When deep French kissing, your hair must be down with wisps of hair across your face and mouth. Mr. Hunt enjoys the softness of your hair passing across his lips and then sliding a few strands with his tongue into your mouth to enjoy the delicate feel.

Mr. Hunt will also enjoy some treats such as licorice. All treats must pass first through your lips. Be sure that you have taken a bite, so that the consistency is soft and moist before sliding it with your tongue into Mr. Hunt's mouth.

Bernard Callebaut gourmet chocolate sauce will be available. You will apply this creatively but be sure to include your nipples and any (or all) holes of your choosing. Only use about 5-10 ML at each sexy location to avoid spoiling Mr. Hunt's appetite.

Pay attention to Mr. Hunt's cock at all times. If Mr. Hunt has an erection, you will immediately wrap your lips around it and ensure there is a copious amount of slobber at all times. Mr. Hunt's cock will be the centre of your attention. You will greatly admire and worship his cock using appropriate terms.

Discipline might require restraining your hands and ankles, preferably in such a manner that your can be readily licked or penetrated. Your asshole must also be available at all times for licking or penetration by Mr. Hunt's finger. One finger, which will be well lubricated by your slobber. You will express enormous gratification that Mr. Hunt deems to pay attention to your asshole, as this is a privilege given only to the sluttiest of sluts.

A light spanking, using a small paddle, on your nipples, ass or wet will be required for minor infractions.

While restrained, it might give Mr. Hunt some pleasure to slide your dildo in and out of your wet and around your clit. He might then abruptly withdraw such pleasuring to enjoy your exquisite discomfort at having come close to but not quite having an orgasm. He might deem to complete your pleasure if you beg sufficiently and submissively.

If you have performed adequately, then Mr. Hunt may choose to fuck you. You will ensure your is moist and prepared to receive Mr. Hunt's throbbing stiff cock. Being fucked by Mr. Hunt is a great privilege and will be an intense sensual experience. You will express this pleasure using the utmost slutty language. Mr. Hunt prefers soft moaning as well. If Mr. Hunt tires of listening to you, he will insert a dildo or a finger or two into your mouth to shut you up and teach you when to be quiet, especially when he wants to focus his attention on fucking your.

[IntoItAll]

With independents it depends very much on the girl, and can vary a lot. That is even true at houses, though.

Usually you start with a warm-up hand spanking, which gives you a feel for how heavy of a player she is.

Great, thanks very much. I'd appreciate if you had some recommendations to peruse, I'm open to traveling throughout Europe.

[Mongerer88]

Thank you for the detailed response, Valeria definitely has peaked my interest, some very nice pictures.

I am new to "practicing" this area, but have always found the pain / pleasure dynamic to be very interesting to me. Given that we are new to the ladies, and they are to us, I would assume that the first session would be on the vanilla side of things until a level of trust has been built up? Or is it very much, "here are the safe words and go hard at it"?

With independents it depends very much on the girl, and can vary a lot. That is even true at houses, though.

Usually you start with a warm-up hand spanking, which gives you a feel for how heavy of a player she is.

[IntoItAll]

Sofia in Madrid is my current favorite and I highly recommend her. She does everything, and does it well. Like a wind-up Energizer Bunny. She just keeps going until the session ends, and she speaks fluent English.

https://www.girlsmadrid.com/escort-sofia185.html

I haven't seen Valeria. I was supposed to, but then fucking Covid-19 ruined a trip. She says she does submissive activities and her reviews on the local board are excellent. She corresponds in English, too.

https://www.escorts-madrid.co.uk/escort-valeria51.html

Madrid also has a house of doms, subs and switches. I have written some reports and information in the Madrid forum. Monica seems to be the most highly thought of lady. At the moment they are apparently CBJ only due to covid-19, but that should change back soon. Use Google Chrome to read the thread in English. You need to join the free Spalumi thread to contact this house.

Thank you for the detailed response, Valeria definitely has peaked my interest, some very nice pictures.

I am new to "practicing" this area, but have always found the pain / pleasure dynamic to be very interesting to me. Given that we are new to the ladies, and they are to us, I would assume that the first session would be on the vanilla side of things until a level of trust has been built up? Or is it very much, "here are the safe words and go hard at it"?

[Mongerer88]

Any current escorts into the sub side of SM in continental Europe?

Sofia in Madrid is my current favorite and I highly recommend her. She does everything, and does it well. Like a wind-up Energizer Bunny. She just keeps going until the session ends, and she speaks fluent English.

https://www.girlsmadrid.com/escort-sofia185.html

I haven't seen Valeria. I was supposed to, but then fucking Covid-19 ruined a trip. She says she does submissive activities and her reviews on the local board are excellent. She corresponds in English, too.

https://www.escorts-madrid.co.uk/escort-valeria51.html

Madrid also has a house of doms, subs and switches. I have written some reports and information in the Madrid forum. Monica seems to be the most highly thought of lady. At the moment they are apparently CBJ only due to covid-19, but that should change back soon. Use Google Chrome to read the thread in English. You need to join the free Spalumi thread to contact this house.

https://spalumi.com/f14/diosas-y-sum.../index134.html

One of my life goals is to see Louise Pearl in Prague.

https://www.louisepearl-gfeprague.com/

https://linktr.ee/miss_louise

Prague has an agency with a subcategory of Submissives. The one I saw from them was excellent but doesn't work there any more. Overall, the reviews of ladies from this place are mixed.

https://pragueescorts.org/portfolio/...scorts-prague/

I know very little about Zurich. There is a BDSM place and it appears to be very expensive and the ladies seem relatively older.

https://www.arte42.ch/sm/index.php

And I know that London isn't continental Europe, but this lady tours. She advertises BBBJ, and that is notable because many London submissives seem to only offer CBJs.

https://www.purelilylondon.com/

[IntoItAll]

Any current escorts into the sub side of SM in continental Europe?

[ErnestCulpX]

Sadomasochism is a very trendy sexual practice in sex world, but you have to know how to to it right because you can hurt your partner if you don't agree limits and code words.

Are you dominant or you'the rather play the submissive role?

[PuneHunter]

Once a party with the princesses turned out to be converted into a bondage session. Well, I had no choice because they should refrain from using their hands.

Love making a woman suck on johnny. Any such BDSM loving girls available in India?

[Dominus22]

I'm going to be visiting Philippines. I'm really interested in finding some BDSM, sm, slave kinda play there. I'm 59 yo dominant guy from Germany and wondering if any know of some good people / places there?

[The Old Teaboy]

There is an interesting scientific paper (see link) entitled "Masochism as escape from the Self" by the psychologist Roy Baumeister.

http://www.google.com/url?sa=t&rct=j...vm=bv.84607526, the. DGc.

Although scientists including Kraft-Ebbing and Freud referred to sado-masochism, Baumeister argues that masochism is an independent entity. There are cases of masochists becoming sadists, but sadists hardly ever become masochists.

Xaviera Hollander, media spokesman for prostitutes, claims that roughly 90% of the clients who purchase sadomasochistic services preferred the submissive role. This would imply that masochism is 10 times as common as sadism. If masochism is that common, the question arises as to whether it is a "normal variant" of sexuality.

Studies of masochistic individuals have revealed that the majority are "successful by social standards, professionally, sexually, emotionally, culturally, in marriage or out. " In the past, masochism has been characterized as self-destructive. Recent evidence indicates that the majority of masochists persistently seek pain but carefully avoid injury.

It is likely that a certain category of masochist starts off by getting his partner (e,g. A masseuse) to sexually stimulate parts of his body, both genital and non-genital. This is initially highly pleasurable, but as it continues over a longer duration the pleasure turns to pain. The person getting the massage is in a submissive position, which is consistent with masochism. As he is now sexually aroused he is becoming less sensitive to pain, so that in fact pain is experienced as pleasure.

Baumeister writes, "Whereas the self strives for control, masochists relinquish control. " he argues that for the masochist self hood has become burdensome. "People may wish to escape and avoid self-awareness, for example after finding out that they will probably be unable to improve or succeed on an important matter. Masochism provides a powerful method of removing high-level, abstract self-awareness".

[Christian G]

www.sexslavinnen.eu

Sexslavinnen is in Belgium, Antwerp-area. Heard stories about that, seems to be stacked with very, very horny belgian and dutch housewives, who are supposed to do what they are ordered to do by their masters. Don't know how far the SM goes with them.

This looks very interesting. Thanks for the Link SwingerLover.