St. Maarten (The southern Dutch side)

[Alz55]

Best to think of it as 'expense of enjoying yourself'. If it gets out of control, you can always say no in a nice way. You simply cannot nickel and dime in this hobby, it won't come out right.

Telling them you are about to head out and continue staying there, it might not work in your favor, especially if you plan to come there next night (s). You are much better off getting drink for few girls and then say no in a nice way if too many girls start asking, they will get the point. You want to stay on their good side and as friendly as possible.

One time, girl selection was not as good and I hang out by bar for couple of hrs and I see this girl was not busy, so I took her to room and told her. I see you have a slow night, I want to make it better. Show them you care, you have no idea how much she appreciated and went a long way.

Thanks to everyone who provided feedback to my dilemma. My experience has been girls tend to order the more expensive drinks, so with tip, each drink ends up around $8. Not the end of the world. Where it gets costly is I like to take my time, check out the line up, size up the girls that are to my liking and then engage the with the more interesting chicas to see if there is any chemistry. This may involve several hours of reconnaissance work. During this time I may need to fend off a half dozen or so non interesting girls if I buy them drinks. If I simply flat out refuse the first one or two then the prospects stop approaching. Like someone mentioned the girls talk amongst themselves. They also have great memories. So for the most part many of the girls, both interesting and non interesting, s stop approaching for the balance of my visit. This is only a problem because I prefer the girls to initiate a contact.

Again; thank to all who provided input. It is much appreciated.

[Knoteebuoy]

Thanks to everyone who provided feedback to my dilemma. My experience has been girls tend to order the more expensive drinks, so with tip, each drink ends up around $8. Not the end of the world. Where it gets costly is I like to take my time, check out the line up, size up the girls that are to my liking and then engage the with the more interesting chicas to see if there is any chemistry. This may involve several hours of reconnaissance work. During this time I may need to fend off a half dozen or so non interesting girls if I buy them drinks. If I simply flat out refuse the first one or two then the prospects stop approaching. Like someone mentioned the girls talk amongst themselves. They also have great memories. So for the most part many of the girls, both interesting and non interesting, s stop approaching for the balance of my visit. This is only a problem because I prefer the girls to initiate a contact.

The way I have been handling the situation, early in the evening, is to tell the girl asking for a drink that I am getting ready to head out and maybe another time. Kind of like what Mel recommended except for the heading out part. The flaw with my approach is I then feel compelled to leave and check out another club; potentially leaving a gem undiscovered. If I make the rounds and do not find an interesting candidate I then start the rounds over again. This time I tell the less interesting girls that approach I have already been with someone. This often works as far as them clinging on in hopes of scoring a customer but not with the drink dilemma. At this point I simply have to either pony up for drinks or flat out refuse to buy. At that point the well starts to dry up.

As I write this I am find myself thinking; what a problem it is to have girls hitting on you at a bar. Especially at my age. Maybe I should quit complaining and just accept the chica drinks as part of the price of playing the game.

Again; thank to all who provided input. It is much appreciated.

[FunTimeSxm]

I always buy the girls drinks, usually it will cost between 2-7 dollars depending on why they order, The girl always gets a dollar back.

Note that when you first meet a girl you can buy them a drink and if you don't go with them in 2 minutes they can walk away from you especially if the club is busy.

Though when you get to know a girl well sometimes they even buy you drinks.

[Shark16]

Few extra bucks won't hurt you but can go a long way. Chicas talk between themselves and if you are friendly nice respectful gentlemen, word spreads out quickly. You'the be shocked what type of memory these girls have.

I've met girls like this, buy them a drink, she knows you are not interested in her but that's ok. You keep on friendly bases. If she's close with hot chicks there or you ask her about any, she'll probably find a way to get her over for you.

My sentiments exactly.

Nobody should feel obliged to pay for chica drinks. It is not necessary. But, what prices are we talking about here? It used to be two dollars a beer, and maybe five for a "chica drink"? IME those "investments" easily pays off if you play it right. Anyways, it is a far cry from the outrageous champagne prices asked at certain infamous establishments around the Western world.

- S16.
Just dreaming / still a few months away.

[Alz55]

I don't mind buying a drink or few for a lady, especially if she asks for one. If you don't like her, you don't need to go to her room (tell her maybe later). Just be nice and friendly. They get a card for each drink, which they cash in at the end of the night.

Few extra bucks won't hurt you but can go a long way. Chics talk between themselves and if you are friendly nice respectful gentlemen, word spreads out quickly. You'the be shocked what type of memory these girls have.

I've met girls like this, buy them a drink, she knows you are not interested in her but that's ok. You keep on friendly bases. If she's close with hot chicks there or you ask her about any, she'll probably find a way to get her over for you.

I am curious to know how other members handle the "drink for me" question. Lately I find if you don't agree to go to the room withing 5 minutes of entering a club I am asked to by a drink for the girl. I don't mind buying drinks for a girl I feel chemistry with but I don't particularly feel inclined to buy drinks as a consolation prize for girls I am not attracted to. Do any members have a tactful way of saying no! To girls who ask them to buy them a drink? These chica drinks often end up costing more than the eventual fuckie fuckie, suckie suckie very good massage for you session.

[Mel365]

In some clubs if you buy the chica a brandy or some expensive liquor they get a coupon worth a dollar or two.

I usually say posiblemente más tarde mi bebé- possibly later my baby.

That usually does it for me.

I am curious to know how other members handle the "drink for me" question. Lately I find if you don't agree to go to the room withing 5 minutes of entering a club I am asked to by a drink for the girl. I don't mind buying drinks for a girl I feel chemistry with but I don't particularly feel inclined to buy drinks as a consolation prize for girls I am not attracted to. Do any members have a tactful way of saying no! To girls who ask them to buy them a drink? These chica drinks often end up costing more than the eventual fuckie fuckie, suckie suckie very good massage for you session.

[Knoteebuoy]

I am curious to know how other members handle the "drink for me" question. Lately I find if you don't agree to go to the room withing 5 minutes of entering a club I am asked to by a drink for the girl. I don't mind buying drinks for a girl I feel chemistry with but I don't particularly feel inclined to buy drinks as a consolation prize for girls I am not attracted to. Do any members have a tactful way of saying no! To girls who ask them to buy them a drink? These chica drinks often end up costing more than the eventual fuckie fuckie, suckie suckie very good massage for you session.

[Mel365]

Tell your wife you just had a business opportunity on the Island. . Send her home and I will meet you in 2 weeks.

Its cheaper to fly down and get laid a few times and return the next day than it is to get laid in NY.

Thanks to Mel the man I got to meet Lorena. Spinner. Blonde. Cute as can be. Super fun. Super wild. Total winner. Again, thank you sir! I feel like I need to meet you and thank you on this trip! LOL.

[Mike Stud]

Thanks to Mel the man I got to meet Lorena. Spinner. Blonde. Cute as can be. Super fun. Super wild. Total winner. Again, thank you sir! I feel like I need to meet you and thank you on this trip! LOL.

If you are at any club you can ask for a chica. They are either working or relaxing in their room.

They will get her is she is available.

I would definitely ask for Lorena or the Tattooed Luisa "The Brazilian" at Crystals.

You won't be sorry.

[Mel365]

If you are at any club you can ask for a chica. They are either working or relaxing in their room.

They will get her is she is available.

I would definitely ask for Lorena or the Tattooed Luisa "The Brazilian" at Crystals.

You won't be sorry.

Thanks for the advice from Mel and FunTime I was finally able to adventure out. Was able to find and have fun at Carolina's, El Capitan, and Crystals. Service at El Capitan was good. Her name was Hannah. Look forward to going back and checking out some of the other talent. Carolinas I had a girl name Sofia. Booty that looked fake because it probably was but still a lot of fun. And last but not least at crystals had a girl with a very pretty face. Unfortunately did not catch her name but decent service as well. No bad experiences so far. All relatively clean facilities. Can't beat it for the money. Unfortunately I am limited so I am only able to go to these places in the early afternoons so options for girls are not as good as later in the evenings but still good times for sure. Again, thanks to those two guys on the forum for helping me have an awesome trip. I'm here till Sunday so more to cum!

[Mike Stud]

Thanks for the advice from Mel and FunTime I was finally able to adventure out. Was able to find and have fun at Carolina's, El Capitan, and Crystals. Service at El Capitan was good. Her name was Hannah. Look forward to going back and checking out some of the other talent. Carolinas I had a girl name Sofia. Booty that looked fake because it probably was but still a lot of fun. And last but not least at crystals had a girl with a very pretty face. Unfortunately did not catch her name but decent service as well. No bad experiences so far. All relatively clean facilities. Can't beat it for the money. Unfortunately I am limited so I am only able to go to these places in the early afternoons so options for girls are not as good as later in the evenings but still good times for sure. Again, thanks to those two guys on the forum for helping me have an awesome trip. I'm here till Sunday so more to cum!

[Mel365]

Just checked air fares JFK. SXM nonstop.

[Mel365]

If you face the patio there is a hallway to the right with stone planters on either side -that is Carolina's--NO SIGN. There is a Chinese restaurant to the right and then a driveway.

You can enter Carolina's through the Chinese restaurant.

If there are orange cones in the parking area just pull up to one and someone will remove. The cones are used to prevent Crystals customers from parking there.

[Mel365]

If you face the patio there is a hallway to the right-that is Carolinas--NO SIGN. There is a Chinese restaurant to the right and then a driveway.

You can enter Carolina's through the Chinese restaurant.

If there are orange cones in the parking area just pull up to one and someone will remove. The cones are used to prevent Crystals customers from parking there.

I am guessing that Carolina's is the green building with the patio directly across from crystals?

[Mike Stud]

I am guessing that Carolina's is the green building with the patio directly across from crystals?