St. Maarten (The southern Dutch side)

[SXMmonger]

Out of curiosity I am wondering what the ratio is among married men to single men who go to these clubs. I myself am married and not sure if I am treated differently as such by the chicas. Perhaps they don't really care what my status is. Maybe others can shed some light?

For the married guys on this forum, how are you able to escape to the clubs without your wives knowing what you are up to? I have been able to go to SXM 3 times this year because I get a tons of vacation weeks for my job but my wife gets the bare minimum. I consider myself very fortunate to be able to go to SXM solo! I do go through cycles of guilt and shame for banging these young, hot chicas but I have the opinion that while I do love my wife very much and will never love another woman to the same degree as I do with my wife, it's virtually impossible to be stuck with the same pussy for the rest of my married life.

[Dellorto]

Good advice. Improving your language skills is a very good investment, even essential if you ask me.

[Puntz79]

I see many guys visiting a location that has primarily spanish-speaking chicas, that they have difficulty in communicating and that they feel the session could have been better if they knew some spanish. This is very true, and while your money will get you the basics it is a lot better when you learn the language. In my own experience, I did not speak much spanish a couple years. After a couple trips to DR, I started to pick use google translator and sure it made things a little better my experiences did not improve until I could at least speak conversational spanish. Think about it, these chicas see guys of all types, and most don't speak their native language. They do the basics, and get on to the next person. They can't have an actual conversation, and many wish to have a conversation with guy who is also looking to get with them. It adds a bit of chemistry, and it will only enhance the experience. And pulling out your phone to show them you can type some words, and have it spit out the translation which is correct maybe 80% of the time that's still not going to get the job done. My recommendation, if you are truly wanting to improve your chances of having a good experience, then pick up rosetta stone, or pimsleur, or take a few spanish classes. You're not sacrificing a lot of time, and you'll notice things become a lot better when this happens. You don't need to know everything, but if you can have a decent conversation and a fairly decent understanding of what she is saying to you then you'll do well. It helped me while traveling to Latin American countries as I had a chance to speak in person as well while I was learning, I made a lot of mistakes but chicas like a guy who makes a good attempt. I very rarely have to pull out my cell phone and look at google translator now, and I feel a lot more comfortable traveling to places like Colombia. A couple years ago, I absolutely would not have been able to do that. Some guys think they need to just know a few basic words in order to get by, but if that's your mindset then please don't move on to the next chapter from SXM which is likely the land which produces the girls themselves, Colombia. Take a few lessons, practice out loud, speak with others who are fluent, and then try with a girl at Hypnotic / Carolina's, you'll notice a greater chance for GFE.

[Ath Trainer]

This is my 1st post on this forum. I recently visited St. Maarten earlier this month for 4 days 4 nights. Hey Partyboy, looks like I got your sloppy seconds with Carla and Andrea at Hypnotic! Ha! I have an affinity for young, 20-something-year-old Columbians. I loved Carla's cute and youthful-appearing face and slender, fit body. I have to agree. I also did not experience much passion. She wasn't really into kissing nor did she display good oral skills. However, I did bang her a second time while stopping over at Hypnotic mid-day just before I had to head to the airport. She still looked amazing in daylight in contrast to the many chicas I picked up in the past for a TLD or a daytime session at the club.

Andrea was a much better lay. She is 24 years old with a round ass and huge fake knockers. Her pretty face reminds me of Jessica Alba. I had 2 evening sessions with her at Hypnotic and ended up taking her out for a TLN because she provided BBBJ and let me nut in her mouth. The hotel sex with her was amazing that night. The best thing was her head laying on my chest as we both drifted off to sleep.

A couple of days later, I took her out for a TLD after she offered a discounted rate of $200 for her instead of the $400 I gave her for the TLN. During the TLD, I increasingly became frustrated with her spending a lot of time on her phone. I think this was largely due my zero Spanish-speaking ability and her near-inability to speak English I couldn't wait to take her back to the club because of the awkward silences and her lack of interest in trying to communicate with me. I think she was a bit stressed from her plane tickets for her trip back home to Columbia being screwed up for some reason. I do know she is planning on staying in SXM until January. She did provide BBBJ and the afternoon sex with her was still pretty damn good.

I have resolved to start learning conversational Spanish. I just booked my next trip for January 9-16th! Can't wait to go back!

Excellent post. I understand your frustration with the language barrier. I speak very little Spanish, and also find it awkward when a chica speaks no English. Those girls are strictly in the room options. Often, I won't even approach a non Enlish speaking hottie. Google translate iwill be tried next go round.

[SXMmonger]

This is my 1st post on this forum. I recently visited St. Maarten earlier this month for 4 days 4 nights. Hey Partyboy, looks like I got your sloppy seconds with Carla and Andrea at Hypnotic! Ha! I have an affinity for young, 20-something-year-old Columbians. I loved Carla's cute and youthful-appearing face and slender, fit body. I have to agree. I also did not experience much passion. She wasn't really into kissing nor did she display good oral skills. However, I did bang her a second time while stopping over at Hypnotic mid-day just before I had to head to the airport. She still looked amazing in daylight in contrast to the many chicas I picked up in the past for a TLD or a daytime session at the club.

Andrea was a much better lay. She is 24 years old with a round ass and huge fake knockers. Her pretty face reminds me of Jessica Alba. I had 2 evening sessions with her at Hypnotic and ended up taking her out for a TLN because she provided BBBJ and let me nut in her mouth. The hotel sex with her was amazing that night. The best thing was her head laying on my chest as we both drifted off to sleep.

A couple of days later, I took her out for a TLD after she offered a discounted rate of $200 for her instead of the $400 I gave her for the TLN. During the TLD, I increasingly became frustrated with her spending a lot of time on her phone. I think this was largely due my zero Spanish-speaking ability and her near-inability to speak English I couldn't wait to take her back to the club because of the awkward silences and her lack of interest in trying to communicate with me. I think she was a bit stressed from her plane tickets for her trip back home to Columbia being screwed up for some reason. I do know she is planning on staying in SXM until January. She did provide BBBJ and the afternoon sex with her was still pretty damn good.

I have resolved to start learning conversational Spanish. I just booked my next trip for January 9-16th! Can't wait to go back!

[Scubatoo]

Hi everyone! I have been to St. Maarten and its clubs on a yearly basis for the past 10 years. This year I have a 3 day trip from 12/09 to 12/11. I would like to know if any of you could provide any up to date info as to what is available. I am very picky. I am looking for a GFE experience with a beautiful young girl with a great attitude. If you have any recommendations they will be greatly appreciated. I speak perfect Spanish so language is not an obstacle. If any of you are going to be in St. Maarten on those dates let me know.

Thanks!

Wow, wouldn't we all love to be able to walk in any club and find that girl? My experience is that you have to work at creating a GFE session by spending some time in conversation and contact in the bar, and perhaps follow up with repeat sessions. I'm sure you have found your Spanish skills a plus in that regard. My experiences changed when I started looking at the girl as a package of looks, personality and skill. Great GFE sessions come in many shapes and sizes. A great GFE experience for me does not mean it will be for you. And quite honestly, the best looking girls in each club does not often translate into a great session in the room.

I'm sure you have gotten a lot of great info on this thread over the ten years. I hope you start sharing some of your findings after this year's trip. That is how we all benefit.

[Party Boy]

Sorry I did not answer sooner but I am in Santa Marta enjoying the fruits of the tree of Colombia.

I believe they can return after 6 months. I expect to be here through February.

Best,

Mel.

Thank you sir! You are a very lucky man Enjoy yourself.

[Mel365]

Sorry I did not answer sooner but I am in Santa Marta enjoying the fruits of the tree of Colombia.

I believe they can return after 6 months. I expect to be here through February.

Best,

Mel.

Say a girl finished her 4-5 month contract in May 2015, when is the soonest a girl can return? Mel, you may be the best to answer this.

Thanks,

Party Boy.

[Wakaneo]

Hi everyone! I have been to St. Maarten and its clubs on a yearly basis for the past 10 years. This year I have a 3 day trip from 12/09 to 12/11. I would like to know if any of you could provide any up to date info as to what is available. I am very picky. I am looking for a GFE experience with a beautiful young girl with a great attitude. If you have any recommendations they will be greatly appreciated. I speak perfect Spanish so language is not an obstacle. If any of you are going to be in St. Maarten on those dates let me know.

Thanks!

[Party Boy]

Partyboy,

What I stated (and what it seems that you were asking for) is the law. Now, St. Maarten would not be St. Maarten if there wouldn't be everything possible. Nothing here written in stone, and that's actually the beauty of St. Maarten. I don't want to explain all the loop-holes and possibilities on a public forum, but Puntz is somehow right when he talks about "exceptions".

However, if you need a contact info of one of the girls (especially the ones that you mentioned in your excellent report), PM me and I'll get it for you (if she is still around, and at least 4 of the 5 are) - not a big deal.

Cheers

I see, thanks for the clarification. Also, thanks for the offer of about contact info of a girl but I am looking for the info of a girl from February. She is long gone now.

[Dr CoolHand]

But I have to agree with Puntz, it's not that cut and dry. I know for a fact that one girl left for a few months and just returned and will be there till at least January. I recall in this forum there was talk about shorter work visas, like a 3 month contract. I wonder if they were on one of these, it would allow them to come back sooner. Anyway, I agree, I should have gotten the girls contact info but never got a chance before I left.

Partyboy,

What I stated (and what it seems that you were asking for) is the law. Now, St. Maarten would not be St. Maarten if there wouldn't be everything possible. Nothing here written in stone, and that's actually the beauty of St. Maarten. I don't want to explain all the loop-holes and possibilities on a public forum, but Puntz is somehow right when he talks about "exceptions".

However, if you need a contact info of one of the girls (especially the ones that you mentioned in your excellent report), PM me and I'll get it for you (if she is still around, and at least 4 of the 5 are) - not a big deal.

Cheers

[Party Boy]

But I have to agree with Puntz, it's not that cut and dry. I know for a fact that one girl left for a few months and just returned and will be there till at least January. I recall in this forum there was talk about shorter work visas, like a 3 month contract. I wonder if they were on one of these, it would allow them to come back sooner. Anyway, I agree, I should have gotten the girls contact info but never got a chance before I left.

[Cursnoop]

Not sure how true that info is as there are a couple chicas that returned less than a year later even for just a few weeks. Whether there was a special exception made or not, I'm not sure. But I know of one chica in particular who came back for a month about 7 months after leaving, then left again for a couple months and came back again for a couple weeks. Again not sure if there is an exception to the what is stated. And yes, I'm sure of my time frames between when I know the chica left and when I saw her again in SXM. .

That is true, I don't know how they do it, maybe they had connections, don't forget there was this big corruption case with Bada Bing and Patrick Illidge. Money do talk.

[Puntz79]

Not sure how true that info is as there are a couple chicas that returned less than a year later even for just a few weeks. Whether there was a special exception made or not, I'm not sure. But I know of one chica in particular who came back for a month about 7 months after leaving, then left again for a couple months and came back again for a couple weeks. Again not sure if there is an exception to the what is stated. And yes, I'm sure of my time frames between when I know the chica left and when I saw her again in SXM. .

[Dr CoolHand]

Say a girl finished her 4-5 month contract in May 2015, when is the soonest a girl can return? Mel, you may be the best to answer this.

Thanks,

Party Boy.

Clear answer: In May 2016 ! If a girl stayed in SXM on basis of a working visa and her time is over (doesn't matter if she had a 3 months or a 6 months contract), she will not be allowed to set foot on St. Maarten for one year from the day she left the island, not even as a tourist. (Immigration assumes that she is not coming back for sun-bathing, rather having a rolodex of good "friends" to visit).