St. Maarten (The southern Dutch side)

[Maartenized]

I did some half-assed mongering this weekend. I think I went out of sheer boredom as I can't remember the Friday night girl's name from Defiance, and last night I never got around to asking the chica's name at Seaman's. Just sort of a poke-and-go encounter. Usually, Carolina's is a very busy joint, but at least when I was checking things out, Seaman's was packed to the rafters, while Carolina's was only moderately busy. The assault alarm rang a couple of times while I was at Seaman's, so I guess there were some macho hombres loose last night. Defiance had a decent crowd, though it seemed like not as many girls were working the floor.

[ClubTed]

Zing, is the Eva you are referring to at Le Petit in room 3 tall, with her hair pulled back in a pony tail. Wears braces and has kind of an impish/Dr. Suess like character face? I was with her last week. 30 bucks during the afternoon. Left her with a gift and saw her at the bar a few more times during my visit, but didn't go back with her. She's about the best looking thing at that club. Is she the one you refer to in your posts?

[Vaginas999]

I think thats becuase its Easter weekend and all the girls will be going home for the holiday.

[Dex Go]

Ok, so I haven't been mongering in a long time. Almost two weeks. My regular over at Seamans (Paola) called me wondering where I was, saying the usual chica shit (I miss you!). So I went by tonight almost at closing time and asked her if she wanted a TLN. She wanted to charge me $200 for a TLN from 3:00AM till 9:00AM. I said no way, and was relatively offended, etc, and then told her I needed to go to the bathroom and just left her.

I then went over to Carolina's and there was some fight there or something, so I went in and I went over to Tatiana, from Bogota. Her body is a 10/10, and face is a 7 or 8/10. Body is absolutetly perfect. Brought her back, CBF, CFS, etc. Nice, nice.

Is this the same Tatiana that was in campo last december room 211?
Dexgo

[Polvo]

Gents:

American Airlines are running some "specials" from Miami and Fort Lauderdale to a lot of the Caribbean starting from April 9th. (eg $158 MIA/SXM return).

Not that American Airlines are special, though!

Suerte!

Polvo

[Fantasy]

Hey regular traveler, please refrain from using the word Fantasy, "dream" would be better.(lol) The use of music, candles, etc... goes back a long way. I have found that alot of girls like starting with a good "club mix" when they first get back to the room for drinks and strip tease, then after shower time we role into some good spanish music for fucking. Even Ford has incorporated this into his collection.
Hey its been awhile since I visited the dutch side! Maybe a return is in order for early summer.

[Sxmperson101]

Ok, so I haven't been mongering in a long time. Almost two weeks. My regular over at Seamans (Paola) called me wondering where I was, saying the usual chica shit (I miss you!). So I went by tonight almost at closing time and asked her if she wanted a TLN. She wanted to charge me $200 for a TLN from 3:00AM till 9:00AM. I said no way, and was relatively offended, etc, and then told her I needed to go to the bathroom and just left her.

I then went over to Carolina's and there was some fight there or something, so I went in and I went over to Tatiana, from Bogota. Her body is a 10/10, and face is a 7 or 8/10. Body is absolutetly perfect. Brought her back, CBF, CFS, etc. Nice, nice.

[Regulr Travlr]

Thanks for providing this information. I am going to add some of these.

Over the past 9 months I too have been building my collection of Latin music on my MP3. It all started with a recommendation from Ford to make sure I have Latin music in the room to enhance the experience. He even gave me a mix CD he made to start things off. Some of the best advice I have ever received Since then I have been adding to the collection. IT WORKS WONDERS! Many times we start with dancing and drinking and and keep the music on for great sex. Other times I have been treated to a series of very erotic lap dances, finishing in great sex. (The fantasy we all have in US strip clubs)

Two recommendations:

Christina Aguilera Spanish Album - The Spanish version of Genie in a Bottle is my lead song. I have not found a single girl who does not like this.

Ricardo Arjona - Not sure which album. He has a lot. I just copied some from my novia in Panama. I went to his concert in Panama. The chicas absolutely go crazy over him.

I do have reggaeton in my collection. Some chicas specifically ask for it and who am I to disappoint. I just keep it in a seperate playlist.

[Zing23]

I received the following request in a PM:

I read with interest about the music you loaded onto an MP3 player. You mentioned 15 albums including (aventura, rosana, juan luis guerra, juanes, shakira). I need to increase, actually start, my collection and appreciation of the music in support of our hobby and wondered if you could give some additional names.

Below are the best 15 latin cds in my collection (4.5 GB of MP3 at the moment) for sharing with a colombiana. They will just fit on a 1GB mp3 player if you delete a few lesser songs.

There is some latin music that I like (old cuban for example) that the chicas do not usually like. And there is a lot of recent latin pop music that they enjoy, but I don't enjoy as much. These are not the best 15 latin albums of all time, just the 15 that I have stumbled across that created a cross-cultural connection (some were recommended by chicas, a couple were given to me as gifts by chicas, most I found by trial and error):

Juan Luis Guerra - Grandes Exitosde (reissue)

Aventura - K.O.B. Live (pop bachata, the set with 2 cds and a dvd)

Marc Anthony - Valio la Pena (salsa)

Andrea Bocelli - Amore (he is italian, but this cd is in spanish)

Rosana - Grandes Exitos

Camilo Cesto - Serie 20 Exitos

Putumayo Presents: Colombia (salsa, valenato, cumbia)

Laura Pausini - Escucha

Selena - Ones (tejana pop)

Best of Soraya

Celia Cruz and Friends: A Night of Salsa (or any other greatest hits cd)

Fijacion Oral vol. 1 - Shakira (Although Shakira is from Colombia, she is not as popular with Columbians as with Americans, perhaps because she has been singing mainly in English recently. Get the Spanish album only.)

Juanes - Mi Sangre - Limited Edition (Rocker from Medellin, his most recent album, with live performances too)

Monchy y Alexandra - Hasta El Fin (bachata)

Lo Mejor de Joan Sebastian(latin country music, 'Lo Mejor' means 'The Best')

Click the links to go to Amazon. There is deliberately no reggaton on this list. Most of the chicas do like reggaeton and I can enjoy it too, but after listening to it all day in a club at high volume, there is no need to listen to it in private. Also missing from this list is Gloria Estefan - most chicas say they don't like her, even though I do. The reason is probably that most of her hits are in English. This CD contains her best romantic songs in Spanish and when a chica will listen to it, they like it:
Amor y Suerte: Exitos Romanticos - Gloria Estefan

-zing

[Zing23]

However I have seen it dozens of times in Cartagena when a girl latches on to a guy from overseas , does not matter from where as long as he has some cash flow and then is on the cell phone complaining of no money, mothers sick and other hardships. As soon as the guy has gone she is seeing other guys and has the added income coming in from overseas from her boyfriend.

I have read enough ISG reports to know that Moneygram hell is a common ending. I don't give the girls my phone number, and if I do call Eva when she gets back in Colombia it will be on a disposable cellphone SIM, not on my regular phone. If the requests for money start, I throw away the SIM. With no hard feelings. It is just human nature.

-zing

[Zing23]

But the supportive you, will now get the girlfriend / wife sex. It is likely to become not as frequent, and not as exciting as it was!! And, the nice guy that you are, you will probably tolerate it (while whispering to yourself "What the fuck....why me....I need the old sex"???!!).

Yes, I had asked myself these questions already, but as it is only for 2 weeks, I can handle it. I have had this same thought with other working girls that I have become friendly with. And I even discussed it, from a different direction, with Eva herself! We talked about how marriage seems to eventually kill passion and romance - but the sentence is not for 2 weeks, but for years.

Just because we know these things does not mean that we can always avoid them.

-zing

[Polvo]

.......We have sex for a second time, but now it is like with a real girlfriend. With a pro, she is "always in the mood". But a real girl is not in the mood ........She has a headache from the stress and the worry. She does her best to satsify me, but there is no satisfaction for her. Afterwards she asks me for a massage and to rub the headache out of her head.....

Zing:

Lo siento!! You have crossed the dividing line and entered the realm of Monger Hell. You now have a great girlfriend, who will work when you are not there (but with your knowledge) and give other mongers "great sex".

But the supportive you, will now get the girlfriend / wife sex. It is likely to become not as frequent, and not as exciting as it was!! And, the nice guy that you are, you will probably tolerate it (while whispering to yourself "What the fuck....why me....I need the old sex"???!!).

You will always be able to mentally visualize "the room", the sights, the smells, the light, and what you did in it. Then in a rictus of agony you will picture some other bastard in the room enjoying Eva, or treating Eva like shit.

Be prepared for the emotional roller coaster that you are about to ride!!

I fear this is our purgatory.

Suerte

Polvo

[Mel365]

zing,
i know how you feel. i too have been mongering looking for something. after much introspection , it is not fucky fucky, even though i am still a monger at heart. I could never be faithful. I am fortunate to have my two colombian loves and still get a chance for some mongering. It is so nice to wake up to a warm body entwined with mine just waiting to screw my brains out for breakfast. Crossing the line is not so bad as long as i can still get in a little mongering. Enjoy Eva and remember if confronted Lie like the true gentelman you are.
mel

[Sxmperson101]

Nice present there, Zing! I too would watch out if the problems with her brother turn into her needing money to bury him, etc. I know you wouldn't fall for that though.

[Kit Karson]

Thanks for all the feedback on my visit with Eva when I made her cry. Of course you are all right, and I am sorry I made it seem like I was flippant about the girls. I know I made a mistake by not telling a discreet white lie, but since I started with honesty, I decided to stick with honesty. Eva will be going back to Colombia on April 10 and I can be honestly faithful her until then. She says sex with my wife is no problem and what I do after she leaves is no problem either. I thought I would bring you up to date.

-zing

Zing I can only speak for myself but I know if I lived on St Maarten or was a frequent visitor , I would certainly end up with a GFE because the relationship would be far more rewarding than the constant change that tends to happen now.

I can see with the 4 club locations it probably could work that you have a real honey in one and then frequent the other locations for the variety.

You have made a commitment with Eva until April 10th and then you are home free. That is a decent honourable position to take and I respect you for that.

However I have seen it dozens of times in Cartagena when a girl latches on to a guy from overseas , does not matter from where as long as he has some cash flow and then is on the cell phone complaining of no money, mothers sick and other hardships. As soon as the guy has gone she is seeing other guys and has the added income coming in from overses from her boyfriend.

Good luck with the solution

KK