St. Maarten (The southern Dutch side)

[Routard]

She is the sweetest girl I have ever met in a brothel, but I will not give you her name. We made love together for hours, but I will not describe the sex. I have plenty of pics of her including naked as she initiated it, but I will not show you any. I’m not even sure if my story is eligible on a prostitution forum, as I have left her without paying a single $, even if we have spend 24 hours together. I don’t want to lose my ISG membership, so before you report to the site administrator that I write useless reports, let me tell you what you will get: my final conclusion after five years of intensive study on GFE. Worth to read, don’t you think so?

My story begins here http://www.internationalsexguide.inf...&postcount=560 when I met her and had spend a wonderful night with her on Mel’s boat, so if you haven’t read this report start to read it first. I had written a medical epilogue after, but haven’t written very much about the emotional issues I had after this experience. Having the girl you love locked up in a brothel and being fucked by a dozen of strangers every day is something not easy to deal with. I don’t blame anyone for this, I even know that Jaime the boss took great care of her when she was sick and a few ISG fellow members helped her too. I won’t blame her for doing what is considered morally wrong (how could I , I’m a monger myself), she just tries to survive by earning enough money to help her family and change her own life once back in her country. I can’t blame myself too for not being able to help her, I need to protect my own family, and she knows it. I tried to forget her, stopped corresponding with her and went for a huge FKK tour trying to fuck her out of my mind. But even after having fucked 30 girls in a week, sometimes even with high emotions, I still could not forget her. I preferred at first to wait that she had returned to Colombia before going back to SXM. I believed that she would have forgotten me anyway and dared not to contact her again. But then Zing gave me some news about her through PM. He learned me a new English word: “infatuation”. Mel informed me through PM that he would be in SXM and offered me to come on board. I had also some personal issues that were solved and that allowed me to go back to SXM. There are moments that you need to believe in destiny, I had to face her again and try to get out of my emotional trap.

My plane landed in SXM, and the very first person I saw was Zing, catching his plane that was leaving SXM at the very same moment. We communicated through cell phone and waived from a distance, but couldn’t get closer due to airport security restriction. He informed me he had just seen her and wished me good luck. Yes, there are moments that you believe in signs!

I rushed to Carolina, full of hope, and was disappointed, the bar was still empty. I waited for a chica to call her. When she saw me, she was surprised, for some reason she didn’t believe I would really come. I guess I had hurt her by stopping communicating. But what shocked me most was that she looked like shit after 3 months in the brothel. She informed me that indeed she was not doing well. I asked her to get the hell out of that place with me at once. She asked me to wait for her that she could prepare herself. I paid the double multa and waited in the restaurant. I was worried as I just kept thinking how bad she was doing. Mel entered the restaurant, looking for me. We couldn’t talk much, as his girlfriend was waiting in the car, so he just offered me to come to the boat as soon as I was ready. When she appeared again, she was looking already much better. We continued discussing in the car, and give me some news about her and her family. She had no idea were we were going, and she didn’t ask me what we were going to do. But when we arrived, she smiled. Once on board, she was happy to see Mel again and meet his girlfriend. We took our cabin and we realized we felt both the same. It made us remember our first night together. It was as if we started all over exactly were we had left it the last time. We stayed for half hour discussing together, trying to understand what happened that night between us. She confirmed me with her own words what Zing had confirmed me too. Yes, I had seriously underestimated her feelings. Mel knocked on the door, I took a quick shower and we left all four together to the restaurant. Other friends joined us too, and we had a great dinner together. During dinner, I noticed how much her face had changed since I took her out of the brothel. She was again a woman with dignity, enjoying life. She had managed to forget her routine life and simply enjoyed the time we were spending together. I felt happy to see how great she was doing.

At the end of the dinner, Mel returned to the boat with his girlfriend, but we decided both to have a last drink before. We went to Sunset Bar, my favorite bar in SXM. We finished our private discussion were we had left it in our cabin before going to dinner together with the others. We were again just the two of us, drinking a tropical cocktail at the beach by night, it couldn’t be more romantic. We realized both that our feelings were still as strong as when we met the first night. I was like in a dream, another life in another world. She was so excited that she phoned her sister in Bogota to tell her how happy she was. She asked me to talk to her on the phone, she wanted me to enter in her circle of trust. Her sister is the only person of her family that knows what she is really doing in SXM.

We left Sunset Bar and entered nearby Bliss. The atmosphere was great, lot of tourists partying the end of the Heineken Regatta. Another sign, as soon as we entered, Colombian superstar Shakira started to sing “Hips don’t lie”. She started to dance, and I felt indeed her Colombian hips moving to the rhythm of the music. We danced for half an hour together, without loosing eye contact and our bodies sensually touching each other. We could have stayed all night long, but dancing is a vertical expression of a horizontal desire. At one moment, we just looked at each other, and we both understood that we wanted to go back to the boat.

We made love for hours that night. Needless to say, condom was out of question. When she orgasmed, I could not hold anymore and exited. But she took firmly to make me enter again and feel my orgasm inside her. This was the first time it happened to me, I always exited to orgasm during previous unprotected sex. I feel it’s unfair else, as it makes the risk ten times higher for the girl. But it asks also a lot confidence on the man's side for the risk of pregnancy. We woke up in the middle of the night again, strangely at the same moment, and made love again. That night was simply magical.

When we woke up in the morning, we took a shower together and went out for breakfast. The nearby cafe at the marina was full of tourists. Breakfast is my favorite moment after having spend a night with a girl. I discovered how beautiful she was in daylight. Despite few hours of sleep, she looked great, happy and…beloved. We discussed about what she was going to do once back in Colombia, her future plans. I was expecting her to come to the subject. And yes, she popped it. She explained me that she wanted to build up a business, being able to live independent. She didn’t want to live with any man, I would be her distant novio, and once she could afford it, after a couple of years, then she would have a baby…with me. We seem to be so close, I seem to know her so well, that I wasn’t even surprised about it, I was expecting her to come with it. I tried to explain her the responsibility it involves in having a baby, but I know by experience that you just can’t change the mind of a woman about this. Procreation is a female instinct, especially when she feels confident with a man.

We had a day to spend together, but before she wanted to buy a camera to take pictures of us. We went to Phillipsburg. Front street is the nightmare of any man accompanying a woman. I guess no man likes to do shopping with a woman, but Front street is even worse than elsewhere. The tax free shops have such good deals, that it’s getting real expensive! Meanwhile, I was happy to be able to make her gifts. One reason is that I simply could not imagine paying her at the end of the day like a hooker. Gifts would make a good compensation, as I simply could not ignore that spending her time with me prevented her from earning money. Another reason is that I know damn well the Latin culture, and for a Latina, there is no better proof of love than a gift. She had a couple of things to buy before going back to Colombia. At the first shop she was indeed grateful when I paid the gifts for her. At the second shop, she prevented me from paying, and tried to pay with her own money. I didn’t let her do this, which seemed to make her feel uncomfortable. I guess she didn’t want those gifts to be another way of paying her. At the third shop, she simply asked me to wait outside and came back with a gift for me.

We went to Maho Beach before I had to go back to the airport. She wanted to take pictures together at Bliss swimmingpool. There were mainly young and fit guys from the Heineken Regatta, and when we entered, they all looked at her, tongue reaching the floor. We took a drink sitting in one of the outdoor sofas. It was our last conversation, and I had plenty of things to ask her. I needed to know her better, understand her and her feelings, as well as the issue of her job. Unlike the first time we met, she was quiet open about everything: her previous boyfriends, how and why she started this job, the emotional issues around this job, how it has affected her after three month, and despite this how she managed to get sincere feelings and emotions with me, and enjoy sex. Nevertheless, she confessed that those three months had hardened her en that she would be much less naïve with men than previously. She had never worked in brothels before. She felt sorry I have met her in a brothel but admitted that else we would never had met. She was looking forward for me to come and see her in Bogota, so I could discover her real life and meet her family. She just asked me to never tell them I’m married. I answered that we both had our secret. I asked if she had a boyfriend in Bogota. She told me she had one, but had to leave him as he didn’t want her to go. I asked if she would go back with him. She replied that what we have lived together was so strong that it made her realizing how few she had felt for him. Do I take this bullshit? Yes, I take it 100%. To tell the truth, her love is so strong that it even scares me and I would rather think of running away when hearing such things. So she has definitely no reason to lie. Who don’t I run away? I guess for the same reason any man would stay with a woman who loves too much. Mixed feelings, and one might be guilt. I was definitely not looking for a relation, just looking for GFE sex and it went too far. I guess I feel guilty for having brought it to that level and I have now too much feelings for her to hurt her.

Oh, I forgot, I had promised the secret of getting GFE. Well, I tried to analyse where I had made the difference for her compared to all the other customers. For what I understood from her, it was at first sight, the moment when we looked each other for the first time in the eyes. Remember my first report, I explained that I just knew it too, as soon as I saw her. She admitted that when we started conversation, she found I had an arrogant customer’s attitude. Remember, I felt that she had a typical puta approach. I guess that when we met, I was not in the mood for this, it was in the middle of our ISG meeting and I came to have fun with other ISG members. Approach seems not to be a key factor. Still, she knew from the beginning that I was the one, same as I knew she was the one. None of my strategies have been key factors, even not a few tricks I have used in the room. So what was it? I guess you mongers have all seen the movie “Hitch” in which Will Smith is a dating consultant. En what was the conclusion of this movie? Well, there is no such thing as a wining strategy in dating. And this is exactly my conclusion after five years of GFE study. It simply happened because it was her and it was me. Most important is to be sincere, be yourself and respect her for what she is.

Only difference in mongering is that even when she doesn’t like you, she will say yes. In mongering, the key factor for GFE is to find out if there will be mutual chemistry or not. My latest theory was that I had developed a GPS (GFE Pussy Sensor), allowing to have a better selection of the girls I could GFE from. I now understand better how this GPS works: It does not only detect if I am attracted to her, but also if she is attracted to me. There might be only 1 girl out of the 100 in the brothel, but you have to find out which one she is, even if they all try to go with you. In the real world, it’s exactly the same, you have to find the right one, only none of the 100 is trying to go with you!

Time was flying, we had to go back to the boat and prepare to leave. Back in our cabin, she started to take pics of us again and she undressed. She had fun, asked me to take pictures of her, but before I had to promise that those pictures would remain private. Soon I undressed too and we had the wildest sex we have ever had. Hope she will not put the pictures on their chica forum!

It was time to leave. I told her it was just impossible for me to leave her again at the brothel’s door. I asked if she could come to the airport with me, and she fully understood. The girl at the airport desk was expecting us to travel together and felt sorry for us when she understood I was travelling alone. I had never checked with her if I was supposed to pay her or not. I dared not to talk about it and hurt her feelings with it. We had a last hug and I left, promising to see her again in July in Bogota. Yes, it was a real date.

I’m again back at home. Last time when I came back, I was miserable, but this time I feel great. Last time I just tried to understand what had happened and what were her feelings, I have now discussed all this with her. Last time I didn’t know if she would like to see me again or even remember me, now I have her address in Bogota and I know I will see her again soon. Last time I just couldn’t stand the idea she was working hard in the brothel, today I know there are only 2 weeks left.

Another good news: I’m cured of my GFE addiction! Yes, I had to go to the limit and feel what it really means. And what do I feel if I go that far? Exactly what I try to escape at home: responsibility, commitment, guilt…Yes, I don’t want all this bullshit anymore, I just want great sex! Of course, she will always have a special place in my heart and remain my distant novia, but I will never try anymore to go to that level again with another girl. ISG, Routard is back in the game! Put your belts on and get ready for great new adventures. Here my upcoming trips in the next months: Dominican Republic, Brazil, Venezuela, Colombia and again a huge FKK tour!

[PogoStick]

My plane was late and I was pretty tired, so I contemplated not going out last night.....but the little stick had other ideas!

I decided to go to Defiance, just to kill a little time for a while. There were a few mongers at the bar with some girls, but it didn't look like they were buying as all the girls were trying to catch my eye. I ordered a beer an watched for a while...until I felt an arm sliding around my waist. I looked up and there was an absolutely stunning woman looking into my eyes. I just stared for a few seconds until she leaned in an gave me a kiss on the lips with just a little tease of tongue. Her hair was still wet from a shower and she smelled wonderfully clean and fresh.

We sat for a few minutes trying to talk, but she speaks no English and a higher vocabulary of Spanish than I am used to. But that didn't matter at all....the look in her eyes, her hugs and kisses spoke enough.

Her name is Katarina. Her breasts looked enhanced and there was a certain femininity about her that was totally irresistible. We went to her room and her kisses changed to extreme DFK. We stood and kissed while we undressed and then just laid on the bed and kissed some more while our hands slowly explored each other. I headed down for my favorite snack.

Let me tell you my friends....she is tasty! After a while her rhythm changed, she got very wet and clamped her legs around my head while she grabbed my head and steered me to the spots she liked.

After she came, she slipped a condom on me and started a BJ. I just wanted to get inside her as she was so smooth and wet. I tried to move her into a reverse cowgirl but she misunderstood and turned it into a 69. No problem as I just couldn't get enough of that tasty treat. We stayed that way until I exploded. Afterward we traded massages and kissed and cuddled some more until the little stick woke up again. Then we slowly made love again.

As I watched her get dressed and touch up her make up I realized I could be quite happy watching her forever. She has a natural grace and sexiness. And by the way....her breasts were natural!

In all she was an awesome GFE that I will want to see again. Her room is 225 (she called it her penthouse) and I strongly recommend her.

On my way out I saw a lot more girls in the bar. I think that Defiance is trying to get in on the competition between Seamans and Carolinas as this was the best looking line up of girls I have ever seen at Defiance. They seem to have changed their selection to appeal more to American/Eurpoean tastes. More blonds, more petite bodies with full chests and lighter skin tones instead of the typical Morenas and Negritas they usually offer. And all of them were beautiful! I didn't see anything less than a 7.

Of course that leaves me with a dilemma as I want to see Katarina again, but there are also a few others I would like to try. I know that if I see her again, she will get possessive of me and make it more difficult to try the others...but then she is so sweet and sexy that I will probably take that risk.

Not a bad problem to have!

I'll be heading out later this afternoon to see what is available at Seamans and Carolinas. It looks like this will be a very good trip.

pogo

[Zing23]

Can anyone tell me if the Westin, Dawn Beach Resort and Spa on 144 Oyster Pond Road is close to the action? Thanks. I am planning a next day trip to St. M and am pressed for time.

Viper

you can walk from there to casa blanca brothel.
by car, 10 minutes or less to seamans club and carolina.
not a bad choice.

zing

[Viper10]

Can anyone tell me if the Westin, Dawn Beach Resort and Spa on 144 Oyster Pond Road is close to the action? Thanks. I am planning a next day trip to St. M and am pressed for time.

Viper

[Routard]

Not that there isn't a lot of eye candy on St Barth among tourists and workers - there is!

Yes, and even latinas! Penelope Cruz and her sister were in Saint Bart in December, you could try out your routine chica approach with the spanish vocabulary learned in the brothels!

[Zing23]

Anyone have any info on freelancers in St Bart's? There is definitely no P4P, but I thought someone might have heard of SXM chicas taking the ferry over.

even if she had her passport, she cannot get into St Barth without a visa if she is from Latin America or even from any of the other non-French islands in the Caribbean! I have been in St Barth a lot and have never seen anything that looks even close to a freelancer. Not that there isn't a lot of eye candy on St Barth among tourists and workers - there is!

-zing

[Routard]

SXMperson,

Problem is that I can't make an opinion only on physical look, I need to check it out by a small chat, it doesn't really matter if she makes the first move or I. Don't believe that those coming to you are only barracudas. They sometimes do it because they want to chose also, and it might be a good clue to check out if there might be mutual chemistry. Does she approach any guy in the bar, only some type of guys or even only you, this is another important question. If you read again my "love boat" story, you will find out that she was the one that did the first move. I just come back from SXM, have met her again and we have discussed a lot about what has happened that night between us. More about this very soon in my full report.

Bruce Boda,

No, the working chicas have all their passports at immigration and can't leave the island, especially not to other FWI islands. If you want to monger, don't even think you can do it in Saint Barth, just go to SXM.

[Sxmperson101]

Theoretically you are right. But practically, I do never behave like that. The bar is for socializing, and any girl asking me for a drink will get a drink, even if I did not invite her or if she doesn't fancy me. It allows me to stay a bit with her, chat with her but also with her amigas and build up a reputation of cool guy. You might think that what she did was unfair, but how many times did you take the time from another girl without even paying anything? Hey we are there to have fun!

I see what you're saying. I'll usually get the girl a drink if they *ask* me for one, but when they ask for the drink that gets them the ticket they need, I feel used and it becomes not fun for me. Also, in my situation the girl had already walked away after I told her I wasn't interested. So I was stuck at the bar with a drink I didn't even know about for a girl who wasn't there! :-)

To be honest, I've never approached a girl and used her time at the bar and not gone back with her. The only girls whose time I've "wasted" would be those that approach me when I'm not interested.

That brings me to another question: What type of girls do you prefer? Those that approach you, or those that don't? I prefer the ones that don't approach me. I like to sit down, enjoy a beer, and look at the girls and see which one catches my fancy. But, I completely understand why the girls approach the guys. I'm sure there are a lot of guys that would probably be a bit shy to walk over and ever say Hi. This is all personal preference.

[Bruce Boda]

Anyone have any info on freelancers in St Bart's? There is definitely no P4P, but I thought someone might have heard of SXM chicas taking the ferry over.

[Routard]

Theoretically you are right. But practically, I do never behave like that. The bar is for socializing, and any girl asking me for a drink will get a drink, even if I did not invite her or if she doesn't fancy me. It allows me to stay a bit with her, chat with her but also with her amigas and build up a reputation of cool guy. You might think that what she did was unfair, but how many times did you take the time from another girl without even paying anything? Hey we are there to have fun!

[Sxmperson101]

I went to Seaman's to see my regular in the evening and she wasn't to be found. Her friend saw me and told me that she was chilling out in her room. I went back there and she invited me in to watch "The Departed" on their DVD player. We watched about half of it and then the security guard came and knocked (I guess he thought I wasn't that big of a stud!) and so her roommate left, and me and my regular had a really nice session.

Afterwards I went over to Carolina's to see what was going on. I talked to a few girls and then one came up to me to talk, and she immediately ordered a drink (a whiskey sour, the one they get the little ticket for.) She never asked me for a drink or anything. While the bartender was making the drink the girl ordered I told her I wasn't interested and the girl left. Then the bartender has the drink ready and starts demanding that I pay for it. I refused, saying I never ordered it and the girl didn't ask me for it. I told the bartender it's not fair that anyone can just order drinks at random and I'm supposed to pay for them (especially when it's the ticket drink.)

So the bartender told me that either I or the puta has to pay for it. So I went over to the chica and told her that the bartender wanted to talk to her. She walked over there and I just left Carolina's, disgusted.

My question: What should I have done? Did I handle that correctly?

[PogoStick]

Any mongers on Island this weekend?

Pogo....on my way to SXM today.

[Chris H]

nice pics!!!!!

[Zing23]

Great reports thanks. Can you give us some updates on prices and time frames please.

standard price for a session with a girl is $40. you don't even have to ask or negotiate that price. that is for a time period of 20 to 30 minutes, CBJ and CFS. other services and quality vary by girl.

if you stay for 45 minutes, pay $60 (or negotiate in advance).

if you stay for an hour, pay $80 (or negotiate in advance).

if she provides anal, pay $20 extra would be my advice, although cheaper guys would offer nothing!

if she provides BBBJ, nothing extra.

tipping is not a good idea. does not increase service level for anyone.

casa blanca club is different. $45 paid to the bar.

-zing

[Blastoff]

Since my regular Kenney/Shakira left Carolina at 9am, I arrived at 11am to try some new girls.

1. Diana. rm 8. implants. otherwise, perfect body. pretty face, brown hair. Gave her a nice massage. World class, open mouth DFK. Very good service, except BJ was covered. Kept asking me, "do you like this?" as she did each thing.

2. Marisal. rm 7. cute, brown hair with blond highlights, very short, natural body (small breasts). body not as perfectly proportioned as Diana. recommended to me by kenney. gave her a nice massage. BJ also covered (she has a throat infection, said BBBJ would not be safe). not nearly as active and sexy a performance as Diana, but our personalities clicked and I enjoyed her more than Diana! God, we men are wierd.

Went to Seamans, session with my regular Juliana from last year (rm 15). asked for a massage, as I was tired from all the work at Carolina. nice friendly sex.

Girls had some kind of a meeting in the back, so I went to the bar alone. no chicas, only guys. later girls reappear in the bar. Juliana suggested I go to the room again with her roommate Gloria for a repeat. Did so. beautiful girl.

-zing

p.s. saw Mel briefly at one club, spotted Routard arriving 100 yards away as I was leaving and talked briefly on the cellphone, and met sxmperson's Paula (rm 4, right?) at Seamans club - this girl exudes sexuality. Did not session with her, but was attracted. (Correction: sxmperson says his Paola is in rm 8 or 9, augmented breasts, white, muscular abs. wrong paola!)

Great reports thanks. Can you give us some updates on prices and time frames please.