Dumaguete

[D Cups]

This is great news!

I hope your neighbours filipina GF's and fucktoys don't squeal, regarding the weekly visit. Me,too.

How open is your busty 22 year old filipina bombshell to threesomes?

Not very. She is super conservative.

[Kuraku]

Hi guys,

So, I live about 20 minutes west of Duma in the mountain jungle community of Valencia. Known for its cooler temps and scenic sightseeing. Waterfalls, hot springs, etc. Found a great house to rent. Beautifully landscaped gardens, swimming pool, patio with billiard table, 2 bedroom, 4 bath with huge loft and huge basement for all my music equipment. Been here since March 2022 with my beautiful 22 year Filipina bombshell (38 C. A little chubby) who is studying to be a P. E. Teacher. She's a great GF -- cooks, sociable, smart, etc. Except inexperienced sexually but she is learning to get better. After all. She is only 22 and I am 67. She is always busy at school in Dumaguete which is good. Yesterday while she was away I met a charming, tattooed 35 year old Filipina in town in Valencia who was looking for work as a house cleaner. I already have a maid so I asked her if she does massage and she says she does. So I scoot her up to my place and she gives a terrific massage 90 minutes for 500 pesos. That's about $10, fellas. During the massage I told her I like my GF but she is not yet good at lovemaking or blowjob. So, the massage girl gets me hard and proceeds to give me an amazing deepthroat blowjob CIM with a smile. I tipped her 1000 p for 1500 p total which is $25. Not bad for delivery! I told her let's make it a weekly event so she is happy with that. So now I have a mistress on the side to satisfy junior while the main squeeze is away or she is learning to improve her own lovemaking skills (her pussy is super tight but she just hasn't learned how to use it yet). The discovery I made in town is significant because it is very difficult to get laid in Valencia or even Dumaguete unless you have a GF. You have to go to Magikhans massage in Duma or get a skank at Why Not Disco Bar late at night. It took me a while, guys, but I finally found some home delivery action on the side. Cheers.

This is great news!

I hope your neighbours filipina GF's and fucktoys don't squeal, regarding the weekly visit.

How open is your busty 22 year old filipina bombshell to threesomes?

[Gern]

Confirmed as described! I had to ask for what I wanted after "your massage is finished, sir, would you like some tea. " And of course there was an additional tariff, but considering there was not much else available, it was fine. The name on the door is Majikan Spa, and it is located in the Jabel Building on Flores Avenue, right next to J&J Hotelier.

Go to Magickhands Massage near the port for a happy ending. Some do BBBJ.

[D Cups]

I'll be stranded in Dumaguete for a few days next week, and I am wondering if anyone has any local contacts to recommend. I've read the forum, and done some additional research, so I know the pick'ns are slim. I've learned that there are a few massage parlors, but I will have to locate them and negotiate skillfully. I'll also have a look at the disco at WhyNot, but I understand that is all FL with no BF. Anyway, I am wondering whether anyone reading this forum might know someone who knows someone who can recommend someone. Feel free to PM if you wish. Thanks!

Go to Magickhands Massage near the port for a happy ending. Some do BBBJ.

[Gern]

I'll be stranded in Dumaguete for a few days next week, and I am wondering if anyone has any local contacts to recommend. I've read the forum, and done some additional research, so I know the pick'ns are slim. I've learned that there are a few massage parlors, but I will have to locate them and negotiate skillfully. I'll also have a look at the disco at WhyNot, but I understand that is all FL with no BF. Anyway, I am wondering whether anyone reading this forum might know someone who knows someone who can recommend someone. Feel free to PM if you wish. Thanks!

[D Cups]

My suggestion for the cups is he needs to have a child to leave his assets when he dies. If he is successful in getting a green card for the child and the mother so be it. As he said he has never been married before and maybe he does not have any legal children. If so get busy. Most of us have been married and had children before the call of pussy all over the world enticed us to explore.

Hi Sam,

As luck would have it, I do have a half-Filipino son who is five who I support. I am in the process of getting his citizenship, passport and social security card from the USA Embassy in Manila. Finally got his Philippine Statistics Authority official birth certificate. It was easier to get my retirement visa approved. Anyway I visit my son regularly in Pampanga and he will come live with me and the new girlfriend in Valencia in the next year or two when his mom becomes OFW. If my new GF gets pregnant it is fine with me. More money from SSA and she will be happy. But she wants to finish her degree first which I help her with. Thanks, too, to Mr. Nice Guy. Cheers.

[Nice Guy 99]

Do not know what is the current backlog from marriage to green card marrying a foreign girl. However having a kid and making him or her an USA citizen is easier.

My suggestion for the cups is he needs to have a child to leave his assets when he dies. If he is successful in getting a green card for the child and the mother so be it.

Do not know the current rules and lag time. However he needs to find out once he has a child how many hoops he has to squeeze through.

The answer to these questions and all that I clipped out, stated or implied, can be found at https://www.visajourney.com/ . You truly get expert advice and it's free.

[Sammon]

I don't think that's how social security works. If you die, then yes your child may get some benefits. Getting married doesn't help because while your wife can claim 50% of your benefits AFTER her full retirement age by which time you will be long dead.

Do not know what is the current backlog from marriage to green card marrying a foreign girl. Once she gets the green card there is a stipulation to become a citizen. For that she needs to live in USA for a period of five years intermittently or 3 years continuously I believe. For the Cups to marry and live in Philippines will be an issue if he intends to make his wife a USA citizen. However having a kid and making him or her an USA citizen is easier. Having said that I met an expat few years ago who was taking his really pretty, blond daughter to Guam after he found it no go in Manila USA embassy. Do not know what the real issue was in spite of paternity. He had married the mother of the girl but was unsuccessful in getting her the green card he said. So he gave up on that. He was just trying to get a green card for his daughter so that she could come to USA when she is 18 years old.

My suggestion for the cups is he needs to have a child to leave his assets when he dies. If he is successful in getting a green card for the child and the mother so be it.

Do not know the current rules and lag time. However he needs to find out once he has a child how many hoops he has to squeeze through. Because of sham marriages and fake DNA USA embassies have become smarter. First thing instead of wasting his sperm in AC, Subic, Cebu, Manila make the current GF pregnant. As he said he has never been married before and maybe he does not have any legal children. If so get busy. Most of us have been married and had children before the call of pussy all over the world enticed us to explore.

[WestCoast1]

And a bit more from the SSA.

https://www.ssa.gov/OACT/quickcalc/spouse.html

A spouse can choose to retire as early as age 62, but doing so may result in a benefit as little as 32.5 percent of the worker's primary insurance amount. A spousal benefit is reduced 25/36 of one percent for each month before normal retirement age, up to 36 months. If the number of months exceeds 36, then the benefit is further reduced 5/12 of one percent per month.

For a spouse who is not entitled to benefits on his or her own earnings record, this reduction factor is applied to the base spousal benefit, which is 50 percent of the worker's primary insurance amount. For example, if the worker's primary insurance amount is $1,600 and the worker's spouse chooses to begin receiving benefits 36 months before his or her normal retirement age, we first take 50 percent of $1,600 to get an $800 base spousal benefit. Then we compute the reduction factor, which is 36 times 25/36 of one percent, or 25 percent. Applying a 25 percent reduction to the $800 amount gives a spousal benefit of $600. Thus, in this case, the final spousal benefit is 37.5 percent of the primary insurance amount.

The penalty of a spouse (in this case, the missus) taking her benefit before age 65 is 25/36 (0. 69%) per month, and the penalty is permanent. I don't see anything in the SSA online that says you can take a benefit prior to age 62 (at least in the examples they give). In the OP's case, any child would be eligible for his / her benefit, but the missus might have to wait decades to be eligible for hers?

Is there an accountant in the house?

[WestCoast1]

I believe his child would get 50% benefits while he is alive. Maybe 75% after death. Child should have a US passport.

Wife would not get any benefits until her retirement age and would have to be a US citizen abroad or reside in the US to obtain it.

A touch of the googling:

https://faq.ssa.gov/en-us/Topic/article/KA-02011

From the article:

If you have not worked or do not have enough Social Security credits to qualify for your own Social Security benefits, you may be able to receive spouses benefits.
To qualify for spouses benefits, you must be one of these:

At least 62 years of age.
Any age and caring for a child entitled to receive benefits on your spouses record and who is younger than age 16 or disabled.

Your full spouses benefit could be up to one-half the amount your spouse is entitled to receive at their full retirement age. If you choose to begin receiving spouses benefits before you reach full retirement age, your benefit amount will be permanently reduced.

You will receive your full spouses benefit amount if you wait until you reach full retirement age to begin receiving benefits. You will also receive the full amount if you are caring for a child entitled to receive benefits on your spouses record who is younger than age 16 or disabled.

If you do have enough credits to qualify for your own Social Security benefits and you apply for your own retirement benefits and for benefits as a spouse, we always pay your own benefits first. If your benefits as a spouse are higher than your own retirement benefits, you will get a combination of benefits equaling the higher spouse benefit.

Here is an example:

Mary Ann qualifies for a retirement benefit of $250 and a spouses benefit of $400. At her full retirement age, she will receive her own $250 retirement benefit, and we will add $150 from her spouses benefit, for a total of $400.

That might help regarding the new missus or child. However I can find nothing so far that would indicate the OP's claim that marrying would increase *his* benefit. There would be a separate benefit for the new spouse (starting at her age 62, or a penalized lesser amount if she wanted to receive it early), and also for any new children (to age 16).

[Dg8787]

I don't think that's how social security works. If you die, then yes your child may get some benefits. Getting married doesn't help because while your wife can claim 50% of your benefits AFTER her full retirement age by which time you will be long dead.

I believe his child would get 50% benefits while he is alive. Maybe 75% after death. Child should have a US passport.

Wife would not get any benefits until her retirement age and would have to be a US citizen abroad or reside in the US to obtain it.

[Sam Sanuk]

I suggest we watch porn but she is super conservative and inexperienced which I suppose is a good thing. But if anyone reading this has successfully trained a 21 year good girl semi virgin how to give a you a blow job I would be impressed with the how to. .

I've only had the occasion to do so once. 21 year old Cambodian lass who I'm sure had never even been kissed. Introduced her to oral as follows: started before actual fucking; first night together some light kissing and foreplay. 2nd night I went down on her; 3rd day, showed her some porn acquired at Pantip Plaza which she seemed to consume with interest. That night, she gave it a try. I, like another contributor here, encouraged her with words and appropriate sounds indicating pleasure. Lights were dim. Ended up breaking her cherry that night. 10 days later she was giving me the best blow jobs I've ever had. CIM and sucking every last drop was taking place. Those Japanese porn flicks were really really helpful, IMO. And I've had a lot of blow jobs, but she was the absolute best.

(NOTE: there is no such thing as a "bad blow job"; some are just better than others.)

SS.

[Breadman]

I don't think that's how social security works. If you die, then yes your child may get some benefits. Getting married doesn't help because while your wife can claim 50% of your benefits AFTER her full retirement age by which time you will be long dead.

I know that when you die your spouse gets an increase on her social security payments if she is collecting IF the amount of that was earned by the deceased was greater than what they are collecting. But being married in a foreign country like the Philippines might make it hard (expensive) to show proof.

[Steve Nash]

Hi Steve, thanks for your input. My GF is here 3 to 4 times a week and will move in permanently soon when she goes back to school to finish her degree. So, as far as entertaining other women here, no go. But she knows I go to other cities and suspects I have other GFs there and seems to reluctantly accept that. If I have a baby with her it is fine with me because I am 66 and will get more money from social security if so. In fact if I marry her AND we have a baby I will double my social security pay which is great. BTW I have never been married. I will check out Sipalay and Benedicto, thanks. Where you at, man. PM me if you want to hang out.

I'm back in Canada, but I will be back to Phils in afew months.

[Expat American]

Hi Steve, thanks for your input. My GF is here 3 to 4 times a week and will move in permanently soon when she goes back to school to finish her degree. So, as far as entertaining other women here, no go. But she knows I go to other cities and suspects I have other GFs there and seems to reluctantly accept that. If I have a baby with her it is fine with me because I am 66 and will get more money from social security if so. In fact if I marry her AND we have a baby I will double my social security pay which is great. BTW I have never been married. I will check out Sipalay and Benedicto, thanks. Where you at, man. PM me if you want to hang out.

I don't think that's how social security works. If you die, then yes your child may get some benefits. Getting married doesn't help because while your wife can claim 50% of your benefits AFTER her full retirement age by which time you will be long dead.