Angeles City

[Mr Hawaii]

Hello,

Was in Angeles and Subic for 2 weeks last month; if interested will let you know some more details.

But anyhow barfined the first and last night a cutie from a bar in Fields, and exchanged email-contact-info.

After a few weeks that this girls is sending me emails on regular basis, without really talking; you know 'love you', 'do you love me', 'I am working or not that kind of smalltalk'. Now the question has been rised that she want's to go to samar to study again but has no money so she asks me for it. Which leaves me a bit dissapointed, because I guess she wants me to pay for her travelexpense to samar. Although we have been only 2 nights together and althougth I like her was not planning on marrying. What do you guys think. Is the asking for money a regular question or angeles- 'scam' that has also been tried with a lot of you guys?

Any input is welcomed.

Questions to consider: how long has she been working in a bar? Usually, if they are new (less than .. 2 weeks?) then it is easier to get them out. How old is she? Is she serious about school? I assume she has a cell phone. Get her cell phone number and you can call her anytime, to check and make sure she is not working in any bar, etc. Does she just want money to go back to Samar or for school also? What program in school? 2 yrs or 4 yrs? She can send you her enrollment application with the fees on it as proof of her enrollment, but calling on the cell to make sure she's not working a bar is the best. What will she do if you don't have the money? (There are plenty more girls..but you know that already.) Good luck with whatever you decide.

[Wizard561]

Hello,

Was in Angeles and Subic for 2 weeks last month; if interested will let you know some more details.

But anyhow barfined the first and last night a cutie from a bar in Fields, and exchanged email-contact-info.

After a few weeks that this girls is sending me emails on regular basis, without really talking; you know 'love you', 'do you love me', 'I am working or not that kind of smalltalk'. Now the question has been rised that she want's to go to samar to study again but has no money so she asks me for it. Which leaves me a bit dissapointed, because I guess she wants me to pay for her travelexpense to samar. Although we have been only 2 nights together and althougth I like her was not planning on marrying. What do you guys think. Is the asking for money a regular question or angeles- 'scam' that has also been tried with a lot of you guys?

Any input is welcomed.

I look at it this way, can you afford to support her studies?

No then just block her email and move on, you had a great time and now its time to get back to reality.

Yes, and I dont mean taking money out of your savings etc. But can you send her her tuition fees without sacrificing your retirement or lifestyle? Then do it. I have not met any girl in PI or a Pinay in SE Asia that wants to do this every night. If you can help her then do it as a charitable donation thats not tax deductable. Hell for no other reson then it might be good karma.

Take some steps to make sure she is not doing it to 20 other guys just by being smart and thinking with your big head and not the little one. Including if you are really serious spending the US$500 to have her investigated but only if you are really serious about her.

And if nothing else every time you go back to PI you will have a really nice and I assume beautiful pinay all over you like you cant imagine....

So have fun do the right thing karma wise and have fun.

But also if shes on the level think about the financial commitment not this month but for the next 12 months or 2 or 3 years. No point in telling her to go back to her province and study if you cant support her after 3 months.

Pinays lie, a lot but so do puti guys on vacation...

Just my 2c worth, enjoy

Wizard

[ThatGuy865]

I think more important than is she a good girl is

How long are you realistically going to support her being in your country and her in hers. After a while you will start wondering what are you getting for your investment in this girl.

Will it be worth the several hundred you spend each month for 2 or 3 weeks worth of companionship.

Besides that sooner or later you will start to wonder are you supporting her and a Filipino boyfriend who is waiting in the wings to reap the benefit of you educating her to get a good job.

If there is a big age gap between the two of you, unless you get her pregnant with a baby so she is too busy to screw around. She will look to move on, once she can do better whether you are here or bring her to your country.

So the bottom line unless you just want to be "captain save a hoe" and just want to be a benevolent person. I think you will you will be throwing away money.

[Easy Thaiger]

The best time to go to perimeter road is midnight. All the punters have gone to Fields and you'll have the whole place to yourself.

Daytime?....I guess you'll have to rtact

X

Thanks Xman.

That's a good strategy.

[Robbaf]

If you are going to "fall in love with a bar girl" better be one of the new girls freshly arriving in town and again thats a big hit or miss. As the old saying and should be the Mongers motto "you can take the girl out of the bar but can not take the bar out of the girl". All the old timers here know this and if I may if all are ok speak for us is the best advice you can have. Yes there are those rare exceptions. But generally it ends up not working out with your hard earned money a little less.

Dcand4 and AV both stated the truth. IMHO, the only way that you have a fighting chance for success is to live here with her, not AC, or take her to your country ASAP! Supporting from another country will wear you down fast and you will end up being sorry that you took the plunge.

Robb

[Aussiec]

If you find a good filopina woman and she is your gf or wife you will find that you nomatter how you look like she is J-E-A-L-O-you-S. Another words you could be a fat slobbering pig and she will think evry super model in the world is after her man. If you like me with what I consider average to above average in looks well expect to be in prison with her holding the keys. No thank you. I prefer variety and freedom.

[Aussiec]

If you are going to "fall in love with a bar girl" better be one of the new girls freshly arriving in town and again thats a big hit or miss. As the old saying and should be the Mongers motto "you can take the girl out of the bar but can not take the bar out of the girl". All the old timers here know this and if I may if all are ok speak for us is the best advice you can have. Yes there are those rare exceptions. But generally it ends up not working out with your hard earned money a little less.

This is a classic scenorio as to way it usually works. You fall in love with many promises of marriage and you "steady bar fine" and she go home. You support her and all I well for maybe a month. But this girl is back in province bored to death, maybe she go to school but serriously she is bored to death compared to the wine and dining she was getting nightly in Angeles. Then she tell you or may not tell you that she is going back to A. C. to visit friends. Seems to be innocent enough but she visits friends at bars and sees the excitement she once had. Its starts all over again. As stated I have seen very little successful marriages. My suggestion as many others would tell you. Enjoy the fun of shagging. Just if you really really want to find a good girl for marriage its best to stay out of AC and metro Manila. Find a nice conservative girl in the provnce with traditional values and as the golden rule is to remember you are NOT just marrying her you are marrying the family as well. Some of the prettiest and most committed marriage minded girls are Ifagoe woman. They tend to be very conservative but will be devoted for you if thats what you like.

[Warbucks]

Although we have been only 2 nights together and althougth I like her was not planning on marrying. What do you guys think. Is the asking for money a regular question or angeles- 'scam' that has also been tried with a lot of you guys?

Any input is welcomed.

Asking for money In PI is the national pastime. I don’t like telling others what to do with their hard earned Pesos but I my advice is do not start sending money. It’s pointless and nothing good can come out of it. If you want a Filipina companion lot of women there with decent jobs. With the uneducated bar girls the sexual attraction will wane then what?

[X Man]

The best time to go to perimeter road is midnight. All the punters have gone to Fields and you'll have the whole place to yourself.

Daytime?....I guess you'll have to rtact

X

I'm gonna be in town in a couple days, and i don't have time ot rtff, so where are the best places for daytime action? Only perimeter road?

Thanks

[Amavida]

...barfined the first and last night a cutie from a bar in Fields, and exchanged email-contact-info.

After a few weeks that this girls is sending me emails on regular basis...Now the question has been rised that she want's to go to samar to study again but has no money so she asks me for it...I like her was not planning on marrying...Is the asking for money a regular question or angeles- 'scam' that has also been tried with a lot of you guys? Any input is welcomed.

Yes its a frequent question. As to whether its a scam or not is debatable. I feel many of the girls, especially the newer girls, genuinely wish to improve their lot in life and going back to study is a way to get a job outside the sex industry. Problem is the unscrupulous chicks milk it for all its worth just to get money from suckers. How do you tell which is which? You can't really. If you're were very serious about a girl there are ways to suss her out but if you are not serious then just drop the idea & be on your way. Too many poor sods sending money to bar girls as it is IMHO.
AV

[Easy Thaiger]

So, your time is more valuable than ours.

Good Luck.

Wow.

[Easy Thaiger]

Nothing is free. I suggest you FIND time to RTFF.

Thanks dick!

[Surfer]

About 3500 all in, but a great room, good breakfast included and the least crowded pool in all of Angeles.

The new EuroPhil and Clarkton are other options.

Surprising that all would be full as it is now supposedly low season. Perhaps there is some event the week you are going.

F: Nice to see the legendary Ana has not changed. There are lots of bi curious girls in the PI but LOTS of Catholic guilt (unlike in Indo or LOS). Gays and baklas are widely accepted but Tbirds (slang for lesbians) are not so accepted by society.

[Rubberyman]

No he's not.

And then we wonder why some people get runners or bad service.

I dont anymore wonder that is.

Wizard

I doubt that there is that much scope in AC for bukake parties. However, if you google that word or check out ********* you will find it is not all that uncommon either. More a US/Jap/Brit thing from what I can work out. He might have more takers in Thailand perhaps.

[Corner Pocket]

Hello,

Was in Angeles and Subic for 2 weeks last month; if interested will let you know some more details.

But anyhow barfined the first and last night a cutie from a bar in Fields, and exchanged email-contact-info.

After a few weeks that this girls is sending me emails on regular basis, without really talking; you know 'love you', 'do you love me', 'I am working or not that kind of smalltalk'. Now the question has been rised that she want's to go to samar to study again but has no money so she asks me for it. Which leaves me a bit dissapointed, because I guess she wants me to pay for her travelexpense to samar. Although we have been only 2 nights together and althougth I like her was not planning on marrying. What do you guys think. Is the asking for money a regular question or angeles- 'scam' that has also been tried with a lot of you guys?

Any input is welcomed.