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11-10-09 10:09 #221
Posts: 1493About those numbers
I can say this about one K1 I know of personally...
She was desperate to -
1) Find Love
2) Get Out of Germany
Now granted, you don't need to use a K1 to get out of Germany generally but she was in debt in Germany and they won't let you out without some sort of agreement, interesting.
I was going to mention she loves Black Men, but found a connection with some White Guy in Maryland. He sponsored her to come here, got the K1 and K3 (her son is 16) and both flew here with basically just the clothes on their backs and a few belongings.
Turns out he's a complete looser and has threaten to ship her back. Last I heard she was trying to stay but if she went back she would be a statistic.
Its not related to lack of speaking English. Its more related to false promises made and disappointment.
I would say this is more of the root cause of K1's returning to their home countries, than the reasons ThatGuy sighted as those are the ones that are stereotyped.
I don't think many men go around marrying women that don't speak even workable English. That might have been the case shortly after the fall of the Wall in the 90's but that's just not the case anymore, I don't see very many post on the Russian Women Discussion Forum and others like it talking about sending their ladies to English classes, its fairly rare these days.
I think its more a case of men not getting to the woman's true intentions because they were too blinded by getting the pussy or women who have dreams that outstrip reality and are just aren't plain honest.
If you keep your mind clear and your intentions pure, I think its hard to end up in a situation where you're being taken for a ride...
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11-05-09 17:33 #220
Posts: 3051Originally Posted by Helpmann
'Til then, I am going to f*** my brains out with as many busty beauties from as many foreign countries as I can though! Cheers!
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11-03-09 03:00 #219
Posts: 614Originally Posted by ManonsanBoy
Even an american moving to another city would have a hard time under those conditions, let alone someone from another country who doesn't have a clue of how the country functions.
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11-02-09 13:37 #218
Posts: 711Originally Posted by DJ FourMoney
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11-02-09 12:35 #217
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by ThatGuy865
I think the high rate of return (pun intended) is caused by many reasons, the least of which is likely an American Male "Jumped The Shark". As I have said in the AW, I think the main mistake is not doing your do diligence. I would understand working a regular job and her being 5,000 miles away mean you can't do the job properly, but then again the divorce rate is high here for marriages less than 5 years old (80%).
I've also said some men spend more time shopping for a car than putting a woman through the same scrutiny, it goes without saying its likely the cause for foreign bride K1 Visa to fail.
What I have seen from what data is available is that EE/AM marriages tend to be more successful.
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11-01-09 14:07 #216
Posts: 614Originally Posted by DJ FourMoney
At least the divorce rate is much lower so it seems you have a better chances of the marriage lasting longer.
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11-01-09 06:09 #215
Posts: 1493US Census Report on International Marriages - 2003
3889 K-1's (fiancée) entered the USA
54.0% left the USA within 6 months
28.2% left between 6 months to one year
17.7% lasted more than one year
1546 K-3 (spouse) entered the USA
70.3% left the USA within 6 months
22.6% left between 6 months to one year
7.1 % lasted more than one year
Can't seem to find more recent information, but its pretty stark.
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10-28-09 22:11 #214
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Dickhead
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10-27-09 01:25 #213
Posts: 3359I dunno. He was Italian and was one of those guys who wanted to fuck virgins and then I think married them out of guilt. I've never fucked a virgin and wouldn't want to, but I've met a lot of guys like that (mostly Italian). I'm Irish; we're too lazy to try for virgins.
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10-27-09 00:55 #212
Posts: 2656Originally Posted by Dickhead
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10-26-09 01:54 #211
Posts: 3359I knew an idiot when I worked for the post office who'd been divorced three timed by age 26. I asked him about it and he said, "I like being married; I just didn't like any of my wives." My guess is he is probably living in the Philippines now.
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10-25-09 20:22 #210
Posts: 2656Originally Posted by Dickhead
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10-24-09 20:58 #209
Posts: 776Three Times Ain't the Charm
Originally Posted by Dickhead
-Helpmann
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10-24-09 20:45 #208
Posts: 3359Anybody who gets married three times is a pretty slow learner, I'd say.
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10-24-09 20:24 #207
Posts: 1493Originally Posted by Helpmann
2) I don't recommended based strictly on statistics, where did you get that from?
3) I don't know any "Rich" women, I don't know any business owners and frankly they all think they are better than me based strictly on what they put on their personal ads. I in their eyes am I loser, why even bother.
4) Foolish? As GT said, some men take more time considering a home or automobile purchase than the woman they are marrying. In that case, it could be very foolish. If you take it seriously I doubt you would get burned.
5) You're not being serious and thank you for posting