General Reports

[Syzygies]

Only if you are married to her, otherwise there is no logic to it. Plenty of younger pussies in the US for hire, and they tend to be the best.

It is not really about age at all, it is about skills and passion, and level of deterioration in the face and body. Some girls are already badly deteriorated at age 20. My GF is still having a great body and pussy at 39. She started out a bit too skinny so body is virtually perfect weight now. Her face had to go downhill a little, but she started out excessively pretty, so now is still way better than average. Only a low percentage of 20 YOs am I going to rate as prettier and with hotter body.

So I am in complete disagreement. I like experienced pussy, not fresh young hopeless girls who don't know how to do anything. Still want a good body and pretty face though. Ok You mentioned the US. Not sure why. Perhaps the rate of girl deterioration is much higher there. Plenty of fatties.

I have 2 regular bargirls both aged 20 but both with years of experience, one skinny white skin, the other tan more voluptuous with big tits (so variety), both tallish. They both clearly first started in P4P when below the required age. They have the stamina to go well beyond how long my GF lasts. They both would not be suitable as a GF, very clearly. These two girl were not selected because they were 20. Just was coincidence. I have other regulars over 30.

[Zman429]

Thailand where girls do not age particularly well.

Maybe the bar girls don't but the first Thai girl I met in Vegas was 55 years old weighted 110 and was 5'3" ate 2 salads a day and maybe a $10 meal out if she could get me too take her which was easy LOL. She didn't drink party do drugs sex (bummer) but she could clean and cook. Oh and gambled like crazy when should get the money 3 days straight at times. She'd stay with you if she liked you and you'd take care of her, don't think it'd be cheap though.

[Zman429]

I am curious what others will say to this as I don't quite know what to think and imagine I am misunderstanding some things.

I'm from Vegas if you put a Thai Girl vs a Vegas stripper in professing love it'd be a great fight but in the end it's going to be like the MayWeather vs Mcgregor fight. The Thai girl will win hands down. They have a way of being sweet and charming that we don't understand or it takes awhile to pick up on. That said I've seen girls in there 30's and 40's who probably are ready and willing to settle down with someone who can take care of them. Plus they don't need much usually. As they say follow the money, including buying houses etc. And to them even eating out and shelter helps a lot. So be careful to vet them well and find a friend who can do a reality check for you.

[Franga]

Horatio, a (legit) massage girl in Pattaya once told me that once a girl in Thailand turns 30 yrs old their job prospects diminish considerably. So, they may like you, but the economic reality of their situation is probably a factor at play here too.

[BobLou]

You are lucky to find such girls.

I believe we need more explanation for this type of scenario from other senior members.

XXL has written what he feels.

But we need more discussion on this topic from seniors.

This is my experience and others will certainly differ, so take it for whatever it's worth. I have been here in thailand for 3 months. Twice I have had women I met in bars seem to fall in love with me. I know it sounds silly or fake, but they will want to come over on their day off free. They will stay overnight and up til work time the next day. I say I am watching my budget and they have said I can just pay barfine and they come for free. That all might sound nice, but I am a nice guy and don't want to take advantage of anyone or hurt someone's feelings. I am honest for the most part, I tell them I am leaving in a month for somewhere else or whatever the case may be. I have told one I loved her after she told me she loved me.

Some of the problems from this situation is that it is hard to see others if you are worried about one. And it is hard not to worry about the one if you think she truly has feelings and emotions involved. The girl friend experience is great. I am an old guy and these women are mid 30's. I think kind of new to the bar scene. They say they are. I could be being scammed, but I don't know how, because it is them giving their time not me giving extra money.

I think new comers to here should be aware that the women here can be very loving and girl friendly and if you don't want to hurt them you might have a problem if you let things proceed unknowingly.

I am curious what others will say to this as I don't quite know what to think and imagine I am misunderstanding some things.

[XXL]

... The girl friend experience is great. I am an old guy and these women are mid 30's....

Mid 30 is when a woman is about to hit the wall, especially in Thailand where girls do not age particularly well. My hunch is that such a woman is thinking of settling down.

Speaking for myself any woman who insisted on not getting paid or who started giving me much of her free time would make me feel uneasy. I haven't had any such woman in Thailand yet. When the deed was done, the girls I've picked up behaved as though the fire alarm had sounded.

[Horatio]

This is my experience and others will certainly differ, so take it for whatever it's worth. I have been here in thailand for 3 months. Twice I have had women I met in bars seem to fall in love with me. I know it sounds silly or fake, but they will want to come over on their day off free. They will stay overnight and up til work time the next day. I say I am watching my budget and they have said I can just pay barfine and they come for free. That all might sound nice, but I am a nice guy and don't want to take advantage of anyone or hurt someone's feelings. I am honest for the most part, I tell them I am leaving in a month for somewhere else or whatever the case may be. I have told one I loved her after she told me she loved me.

Some of the problems from this situation is that it is hard to see others if you are worried about one. And it is hard not to worry about the one if you think she truly has feelings and emotions involved. The girl friend experience is great. I am an old guy and these women are mid 30's. I think kind of new to the bar scene. They say they are. I could be being scammed, but I don't know how, because it is them giving their time not me giving extra money.

I think new comers to here should be aware that the women here can be very loving and girl friendly and if you don't want to hurt them you might have a problem if you let things proceed unknowingly.

I am curious what others will say to this as I don't quite know what to think and imagine I am misunderstanding some things.

[Zman429]

I took a taxi with a fixed 1400 baht rate, including tolls. Taxi was clean and nice and the driver was safe and personable. I added tip of 300 baht. I'm often accused of over tipping in Thailand.

LOL can't imagine why! 300 baht is more than generous. How much you paying the girls?

[Syzygies]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0nCdOoJ5LM

This is a muddled look at the women both working in the sex industry and those trying to meet Western men without going on the game. Newbies may find it informative and interesting.

Yes definitely for newbies. The perspectives of foreign journalists are full of assumptions that may not be applicable in all cases. I did not watch the whole thing not finding it so interesting for a long timer.

The first big assumption that it is prestigious for a village girl to get a Farang BF or husband is rubbish, I think! More like a source of great embarassment. A village girl certainly does not want the gossip from having a temporary Farang boyfriend that makes it obvious she is a hooker.

Bargirls looking for a husband? Maybe 25 years ago. Today it is mostly simply economic. Just find ways of parting foreign guys from their money.

[Intransit]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k0nCdOoJ5LM

This is a muddled look at the women both working in the sex industry and those trying to meet Western men without going on the game. Newbies may find it informative and interesting.

[Rob Jones]

Hi guys,

In anticipation to my 1 week holiday in Thailand I am wondering if it is worth my while getting premium memberships with both or either Thai Friendly and Thai Cupid. I'm planning 5 day Pattaya and 2 in Bangkok and I'm not worried about spending some Baht for sex from the bars etc but scoring a freebie is a boost to every middle aged mans ego. I'm not a regular traveller to Thailand and may not be back for 12 months. I have contacts already from Badoo and Tagged and I have found contacts from these sites to be reliable with my experiences in Indonesia. I'm not a cheap Charlie but I would rather spend the 2000 TBH. On girls and drinks if the sites don't offer the goods.

Thanks Rob.

[Lefeu]

Agreed. I can understand the logic of remaining with a 50 year old woman in the USA or other westernized countries, but not in Thailand.

Only if you are married to her, otherwise there is no logic to it. Plenty of younger pussies in the US for hire, and they tend to be the best.

[Syzygies]

Got on the BTS at 8 PM. The tall girl across from me was very pretty (a 9 at least), tall and very skinny indeed, a beanpole of almost 170 cm in flat shoes. Dressed classy sexy. Very skinny arms. Definitely top model material. Sexy top showed what appeared to very good tits (possibly enhanced). She was wearing a baseball cap so I could not see her whole face totally, as she looked downward to the phone. It occurred to me she could be a LB. However my suspicion was only slight. Hands looked longish but narrow. I wondered where she was going. A good chance Soi Cowboy.

I followed her from in front, meaning I headed to Soi Cowboy and my side ways glances could just see she was not that far behind me. I could see she was only moderately curvy in the hips area but good enough.

I dawdled in Soi Cowboy to let her pass. I was expecting her to maybe go into Cockatoo (LOL), but no, surprise surprise, she went into "Moonshine Joint", of all places. How can such a pretty girl work there? I was actually heading somewhere else, so I came back later in went into Moonshine Joint at 11 PM. No sign of her now. Just a bar with a very small cast of uglies. I wonder what happened. Could she have been BFed long ago most likely, or is it possible she was just visiting and did not actually work there (being far too pretty). May have to investigate another night in case she returns. LOL. Another stunner that got away.

[Smoothy]

But the lesson here for anyone using the dating sites is don't hesitate to click on the youngest and hottest girls even if their thumbnail pic age range states a top age decades younger than you. Your merely viewing her profile, which she will be notified about, might be all it takes to trigger an interest in meeting you anyway after she views your profile.

I agree. I don't spend much time in Thailand, but I spend a lot of time in Indonesia. I find that the girls in Indonesia who list the max age for their guy at 30 or 35 who are Muslim will likely accept any age. However, the Christian girls (normally more educated than the Muslims and from more upper class families) are much more likely to tell me "you are older than my father! That's disgusting!

[EihTooms]

Awesome! I find that a 19 or 20 year old girl is about the perfect age difference from whatever my age happens to be at the time.

LOL. Yes! This might be a good time to mention I had seen her photos on ThaiCupid when her stated and accurate age was 19 (she turned 20 a couple of days before we met). She looked stunning. But because her desired age range for the man as stated on her thumbnail pic in the gallery topped out at almost 30 years younger than me I concluded it would be ridiculous for me to click Interested in her first and try to connect with her. I chose to "honor" her age requirement and not risk annoying her. If she had said 50 or higher I would have clicked Interested first. And her profile did not contain any real suggestions that she was looking for P4P customers.

On ThaiCupid we can see who merely viewed our profile so I have to assume she saw that I had viewed hers before she clicked Interested in me. Maybe that was what triggered her curiosity to click Interested in me first. Don't know if she would have done that if she had only seen my pic and profile in the gallery. Actually, she might never have seen my pic and profile at all if TC had been diligent about filtering out potential matches according to her stated age limits. Sometimes they are good about that, sometimes not.

Of course, on my end I say I am open to meet ladies 18-35.

But the lesson here for anyone using the dating sites is don't hesitate to click on the youngest and hottest girls even if their thumbnail pic age range states a top age decades younger than you. Your merely viewing her profile, which she will be notified about, might be all it takes to trigger an interest in meeting you anyway after she views your profile.

Guys, never forget the element of "Face" in virtually everything these people do. It is entirely possible the only reason some of these girls don't post that they could indeed be up for a "date" with a much older man us because they don't want other people on the site reading that they are open to dating one. But if a much older man shows some interest in them privately, who knows?