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[Naughty]

I miss Bernhard Trink's wise "lifestyle" column in the Bangkok Post. Does anybody knows what happened to him?

Most people who liked Trink (as did I) will like this: www.bangkokeyes.com

It's good, but monthly instead of weekly. Not competitive with this forum so I think Jackson will leave the link in here.

[Artisan2]

I miss Bernhard Trink's wise "lifestyle" column in the Bangkok Post. Does anybody knows what happened to him?

Ultimately he became an anachronism and a while after being dropped by the Post he had an "I Don't Give A Hoot" web site in 2004. Featuring weekly updates same same the newspaper column it fizzled out after about 7 months. He was unwilling to use a PC and someone had to actually key in text from his typed hardcopy (same as at the Bangkok Post). The website at one stage were actually seeking somebody to carry on doing it. His site started as subscription-only but there weren't many takers and it became gratis which may have influenced matters.

The BBC interviewed Trink prior to his shunt from the Post and commented how he looked like he was at death's door.

He was reportedly seen around BKK for a while but wasn't receptive to being approached. He'll be in his mid to late 70's now.

[Frankfurter]

I miss Bernhard Trink's wise "lifestyle" column in the Bangkok Post. Does anybody knows what happened to him?

[Frankfurter]

Frits,

You pretty much provide an accurate account on how the lower class girls deal with money.

Additionally, they fall for numerous other unwise financial dealings, i.e. gambling, lottery (Try to expain to the girl, that the lottery is actually a tax for people who are not good at math. You will have a blast when you see her total incomprehension!), and other scams any western girl with a normal IQ would never in her right mind go for.

Some of the Isan working girls also buy into questionable real estate deals for their efficiency apartments in Pattaya (I only know of such cases in that city) without having ANY clue what they are actually signing.

I always wondered how the transition to the “real” life in a foreign country works out, both for the girl and also for her husband.

Girls from the Thai upper class sometimes are exceptions, however, but only 1 in 10,000 farang ever has a chance to meet somebody like that. Their money is typically handled by the family; but even they can blow $10,000 on a single long weekend shopping trip to London.

[FritsVanegter]

Hello,

My Thai GF works as a nurse practitioner at Mahidol university. Her salary is not just moderate like most officers. She will ask for money sometimes but I will usually refuse just pay a ticket to come to Europe. The problem is that they think all westerners are wealthy. NO they are wealthy during their stay in Thailand. I think a lot of Thai people cannot deal with money properly. Buy a new phone because marketing predicts that without even having paid the last one. (they say a lot of Americains are living on credit too) If their parents or sister ask for some money she will help because it will give her something like good '' karma''. I will help if I can but not if she gets into financial trouble because her loved ones did get these troubles just because they know they can rely on their sister. They just spent their money to quickly before actually having it. I will save the money for my trip before going not pay it afterwards. A lot of the beerbar girls go shopping after their first customer instead of a deposit in the bank. I am afraid it is just a question of common sense. They live from day to day. Instead of buying some english grammar to improve their marketing skills they will just buy jeans nr 28 or get tattoo nr 13. Another reason not to pay to much for p4p Just pay standard price and bring them a book the next day Greetings Frits.

[Opebo]

Thanks for the links. Do you know if it is possible for a Thai national to get a mortgage to buy a propoerty if she/he is not rich ? Thai banks don't seem to have a morgage policy as their counterparts in the West, who would lend money and offer free credit card to a beggar.
Thanks.

It is very easy to get credit for middle class Thais. I know many people buying million to two million baht houses on incomes of around 15 to 30,000.

[Erik]

Thanks for the links. Do you know if it is possible for a Thai national to get a mortgage to buy a propoerty if she/he is not rich ? Thai banks don't seem to have a morgage policy as their counterparts in the West, who would lend money and offer free credit card to a beggar.
Thanks.

[Franga]

Anyone knows a website where to find info about Farang buying properties in Thailand ?

Try www.thailandguru.com

On the left hand side under the “Houses, Apartments, Condos, Regions” menu, go to Property Ownership for a long and informative article.

[The Traveler]

Erik,

I have provided lots of infos about the legal issues involved in buying some property in LOS. Just search the forum.

[Erik]

Anyone knows a website where to find info about Farang buying propoerties in Thailand ? Not Estate agents offers, just general info about rules, laws and tips.
Thanks.

[Jungle Bluebird]

So true Zarnon

Many years back friends of mine observed past Thai g/f frolicking on the beach with another guy. They described her swim wear, towel carried to the beach and loads of other details.

She insisted on denying she was ever there.

Mind you, I leaned from that. Yes, always deny. Other side will simply give up asking after a while.

JB

The thing I love about some Thai women (and many in society) is that you can have the bloody knife, the arm and the sticky fingerprints and the person will still say "Not me! ". I think they feel after the 5000'th time they've repeated the same lie it becomes truth.

[Zarnon]

Hey all;

This is the gal that caused me to take a hiatus from the boards, the 'mongering', yadda yadda.

I had been around Thailand for 15 years since my 20's, spoke the language, and basically thought I would never become involved with someone in the business.

In 2004, a good friend delivered the news he was diagnosed with metastatic colon cancer. I was part of his first (and last) trip to Thailand. I only bring this up because on the way I met Om, the working gal I fell for.

It was a combination of things. I was ready to change some things about me, and of course, a good Thai chameleon will accomodate those who are unwilling to listen to their instincts. At the same time she had this hold on me. Yes, she was a hottie (see pics) but it wasn't that. She was a fighter, a scrapper. I loved her fierce spirit.

I didn't bring up marriage first, but I guess the imminent death of my friend jarred something loose and I had this feeling of "If not now, maybe never".

After years laughing at dudes that sent money to their women, here I was letting myself get in the same boat. The only thing I did different is have my friend's Thai wife (who didn't trust her at all) set up the account. She had access to the receords as well, unbeknownst to Om.

I also got a great deal on school and my friend's wife also insisted we be able to check on attendance.

Yeah, lotta love goin' on.

Everysingle friend of mine hated her. I have a nice Thai woman who lives in the US who has always had something nice to say about someone. After she'the talked to my fiance for an hour I asked her what she thought. "Oh, I don't really know her enough to give an opinion". I felt a chill. The kiss of death.

She was going to school and getting straight A's for the first year. For the first six months she spent the money I sent her with the amount sent to mom.

She called me regularly and we had long conversation mostly in Thai, but she rapidly got better with her English. When I came back I was amazed at her progress. Her school confirmed she had perfect attendance.

I made three trips to Thailand and other than my friend who owns Misty's in Pattaya freaking out on me and insisting I take a twosome before I was irretrievably lost I was monogamous.

Then, I got the call from my friend's wife that for the last 60 days Om had been taking out the entire amount on me.

I called her, cut off her funding, told her we were through. When I showed up I had a copy of the bankbook and confronted her.

The thing I love about some Thai women (and many in society) is that you can have the bloody knife, the arm and the sticky fingerprints and the person will still say "Not me! ". I think they feel after the 5000'th time they've repeated the same lie it becomes truth.

So, I patted her on the head (huge insult) told her 'later' and walked out straight to Pattaya.

You'the think I'the have learned my lesson. But of course, 'experts' need a far greater fall LOL.

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[Member #3426]

Thanks alot for the information guys!

Well it will be either Bangcock or Pattaya & yes I know that you guys are not travel agents. But al in all the infrmation youve posted is very helpfull indeed.

Like I said, my only intention of travelling to Thailand is for the chiks. Just Relax & go on a babe hunt of my own! & yes would really love one of them threesomes. Would be spending at least 3 or 4 nights.

Can any of you guys give a decent budget to put together before I travel. I know that hotels would cost around 35. 50 $ per night!

Till then, Aurevoir a bien tot

FF

[Amocuba]

Planning to visit Thailand with a friend of mine. Only plan is to relax in on the beach at Pattaya & hook up with some thai babes.

I plan to spend at least 3 nights there, & i'm sure once I hit the streets I'd be to busy looking for some action.

Want to ask you more experienced mongers about how to prepare for this trip, budget, which best places to visit for some action & tips on how to pick these babes.

Definitly would appreciate you advise!

Thanks in advance

Always happy to help F. F. , If you will only be in Pattaya for 3 days I might suggest a hotel right smack dab in the middle of the shit. The Queen Victoria on Soi 6 has received some fine reviews. I have never stayed there but have eaten there many times (GREAT FOOD) and a friend has stayed there and liked it. Soi 6 is a street of bars that open at 1 pm daily. A good place to start the daily ritual of chasing Thai girls. Start at the top of the street (second road) and just take a stroll down the street. Stop in T. G. 's (see attached photos) for a beer and check out what they have to offer. Nothing to your liking? Continue to stroll down the street toward Beach Road. Trinity Arch is another spot that has yielded some quite lovely Thai's. Stop in Halifax bar and say Hello, to Thip, she is the cashier and quite a cutie (doesnt go with clients though).

To be continued.

[NicFrenchy]

want to ask you more experienced mongers about how to prepare for this trip, budget, which best places to visit for some action & tips on how to pick these babes.

ff,

helping you will be a very difficult task. we are not really travel agents.

you need to be more specific in regards to the following:

1. where do you come from?
2. how long are you staying? and which period are you coming?
3. how many nights do you plan to stay in each city? which are these cities?
4. what would you like to achieve exactly with the girls? (threesome, anal, gfe, pse...)

once you are clear about what you like and don't like, it will be easier for us to help you out.

if there is information you want kept private, use the pm function.

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now, on a more general note, these are things you must do while in thailand:

1. visit the eden club on sukhumvit soi7. some people love it, some hate it, but it is one place you really must experience.

2. try a blowjob bar (star of light or [CodeWord900]). this is a concept that again, not everyone likes, but we only live once and it is great to try these places at least once in a lifetime.

3. get a balls massage. lots of places offer it, but make sure you read the massage forum and go to the place where experienced providers will make you happy (rin @ hana massage, some girls at teen massage....)

4. get a body slide mattress soapy experience. not all soapies offer it (cupidy does)

of course there are regular bar girls and escort agencies and the rest, but i think the above 4 distinct things will give you a taste of what thailand can offer

good luck and don't forget to write reports of your trip