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[Syzygies]

I have had Thai girls, both P4 P and regular date girls, use the term "honeymoon / hunnymoon" many times. They have never meant it to be related to getting married and, in my memory, not even pushing for a 2-3 day trip out of town together, although they all like the idea of that. They have always only meant a night of sex together. Especially with bargirls, the joke goes something like, "Honeymoon tonight, divorce tomorrow!" LOL.

Good to provide that insight since I never heard a Thai girl use this term at all, at least that I can remember now. I could easily have forgotten. For sure we cannot expect them to be able to spell Honey correctly. The only girl I know so forward to suggest a lot of sex, would be more straight forward as she speaks very good English and has known me years so not shy. She would say: "We should fuck all day" or "I want you to [CodeWord123] me while I am sleeping". LOL So if any girl said lets have a Hunnymoon, I would assume it meant a special trip away (possibly) with copious sex assumed, but I would not be totally certain. Assumptions are dangerous.

So best just ask the girl how long is the hunnymoon and where should it happen?

Never heard that joke either. I normally speak Thai with bargirls and quite unsure how it would be said in Thai. "Married today, divorced tomorrow", might not have the same level of sexual connotation.

For fun I looked up Honeymoon in a dictionary. Got two results (learn something new):

1. garn deum nam pheung phrajan. Which literally means "drinking honey of the moon" (very funny. So seems to be a Thai Euphemism used to indicate a Honeymoon).

2. bpai han-nee-moon. Thai has this word Honeymoon as well (borrowed from English) spelled slightly different of course in Thai script. So "go on a honeymoon".

Thai-Language.com:

Khuu baao saao ja bpai han-nee-muun thee chiiang mai.

In this example the Thai translates to: "The married couple will go Honeymoon in Chiang Mai", so seems there could be an implication of travel.

Thai Honeymoon could be on the cheap though. Go no where, just stay indoors for 3 days of fucking. LOL Just one night?
Hardly seems to qualify for a Honeymoon, but I can't say I know how Thai girls use it.
I have heard the term "Kheun Sawan" which means "Go to heaven" a Euphemism for extremely pleasurable sex bout.

[Hack351]

I have had Thai girls, both P4 P and regular date girls, use the term "honeymoon / hunnymoon" many times. They have never meant it to be related to getting married and, in my memory, not even pushing for a 2-3 day trip out of town together, although they all like the idea of that. They have always only meant a night of sex together. Especially with bargirls, the joke goes something like, "Honeymoon tonight, divorce tomorrow!" LOL.

All, thanks again for the many replies and suggestions! Especially the destination spots. She is from Phuket so maybe an island close by. Again this won't be till early 2018 so I have time!

F1 fan, things aren't even close to that level but I will watch out and thanks for the WhatsApp warning but she already had my FB!

Eihtooms, that is the spelling she used! Hunnymoon. I thought it was a typo but now that you said that maybe it's just a LT offer? I still haven't responded to the honeymoon comment but maybe I'll jokingly ask where she wants to go today. And suggest a 3 day adventure.

[BushRusher]

As has been said. Likely a longer more focused time and / or trip to a destination is what she's meaning.

My lone experience 'falling' for a WG (a thermae girl) went differently and I've been meaning to post, so why not now?

Long story short. For those of us that visit the land of smiles for a nice GFE experience and consider keeping in touch with that 'special girl' you meet one night; think twice about how you connect. Whatsapp exposes your phone number. If you want to share info, consider WeChat instead. Also, if you return for a longer experience, keep tabs on things.

The second wife situation is acceptable in many cultures. Be aware, that it is wife situation with all the ups and downs and problems. Very dangerous if you are a foreigner or where you do not have a backup team. I suspect there are some stories on this site. IMHO, keep away from it. Most women will go psycho at some point.

Seen many guys try to guide a gal to an exclusive relation. It might work so long as the money keeps flowing. Think wiser to have an understanding of an honeymoon when you feel like it and for the duration you want. No future guarantees.

[Syzygies]

Every day longer than 3 days dramatically increases the odds of something going wrong. Keep in mind, you are not going to be making love all the time, in fact, the majority of your time together will be doing other things, including doing mundane things, so make sure you are compatible and that you go somewhere that you both can enjoy like Phuket or Ko Chang (the beach) or Chiang Mai, Chiang Rai, or Mae Hong Son. (the Hill Country)

http://wikitravel.org/en/Mae_Hong_Son_Loop).

If you are unsure about taking her somewhere then don't bring up the idea again and let it whither on the vine. Just say you are looking forward to seeing her again and leave it at that.

I agree with this very much. Good to check if the girl likes snorkelling or beech activities or not because she is too afraid her skin will go dark colour. Some of the other options are good.

One girl I know recently went to Maldives with a guy. She came back still with white skin. LOL Lots of SPF 50 or stayed out of the sun completely?

Tham Kaew Komon (Crystal Cave) is amazing, if happen to be in Mae Hong Son, but it is a far trip on a winding road to Mae La Noi district and is closed in rainy season (open Oct). I see now it is mentioned in Natty's link about the long winding Loop tour, and is a MUST! Very worth it for me and my girl. Other caves are shit in comparison (e. G. The touristy stinky bat shit cave Tham Lod is not worthwhile in my opinion).

The other guy suggested Bang Saen. I suggest not. That is too down market to interest the girl very much. A family beach destination. The girl could go there anytime of her own volition if she wanted it, being so close and so cheap. That would be well below the style of Natty or myself. Pick something more exciting if you can afford it. Phi Phi Island, Krabi, or even Hua Hin or Koh Samet might be good enough. Koh Lipe is really good but far and not well known (near to west most border with Malaysia). A lot of Scandinavian tourists go there who love the nature. In past I took an MP girl to Krabi and Phi Phi Island (3 days) and I had a great time indeed. I also took a girl to Koh Lipe, or rather she took me, since she lived not far away in Satun province.

So many good options in Thailand, but check what the girl likes most. Some day I must take a girl to Nakhorn Wat (Angor Wat) in Cambodia, and may choose a Cambodian girl from Siem Riap to be my guide since she speaks the lingo as well as Thai, besides being slim sexy and a good fuck.

[Hotman 666]

OK, thanks for the quick replies! Natty thanks for the 3 day length suggestion. Sounds like the right amount and yes, I would love to take her on a romantic getaway. I'm curious how the bar compensation will be but it won't be till next year anyway.

Hack,

A good place for a short romantic break could be Bang Saen, a small, mostly Thai resort between BKK and Pattaya. Very laid back with great sea food and minimal travel costs, probably 500 to 800 Baht by taxi from BKK.

I like hotel Sez at the northern end of Bang Saen, very modern with GREAT multi person showers. It is used by many Thais from BKK for a short weekend break.

The last time I was there I was the only Farang staying in the hotel!

Enjoy, Hotman.

[Syzygies]

So I was recently in Thailand, and I kinda fell for a bar girl. Yeah I know! But anyways, I kept in touch with her after through her Facebook and I would send pics, she would send pics, and I would say I miss you, she would back. Yada yada but yesterday she wrote the following:

"When you come back again we go hunnymoon OK?

Is this a new term for long, long time? Meaning like a week? I'm fine with that, I just hope she isn't thinking marriage as that wasn't discussed. We had a great time and I want to see her again but.

I have taken several Thai girls away for a fake "honeymoon" and had a great time, but be wary about falling for them. You don't really know a girl till have been with her at least 2 years, and probably longer if meet only part time.

Best to just see it as a holiday with a temporary fun wife, and plenty of "hunny". Thai girls can make really excellent temporary wives. Can be better than a real GF. I paid them to be my temporary wife, to avoid romance implications.

Last year took my regular Gik to Singapore for 3 days and had a great time. However Singapore is a bit too expensive.

[Syzygies]

When I got back home the messaging and video chats ramped up. She started talking about "love" and "marriage" in ways that had never been discussed before. At first I was flattered. She's 10+ years my junior but I'm not stupid. Things were fine for a while but then it got crazy. She went home to get her papers in order to get a passport and make sure her papers were in order to marry a foreigner. She wanted to video chat with me and her parents to allow us to get to know each other. Also, she started getting super suspicious / jealous / angry if I wasn't available to chat / video with her when it was convenient for her. WTF. She fucks dudes for money and she's grilling me about my daily life and who I'm seeing / what I'm doing on a daily basis. Not good. I travel a lot for work (US, asia, and europe) and I'm often out with customers, colleauges, etc and in different time-zones, so being her 'on demand' boyfriend wasn't in the cards.

This type of Thai love is typically different from Farang love. Thais have economic love where they consider what guy might be best for their future and a pathway to be give up hooking and be supported. I had an ex Thai GF extremely jealous, but it was more like guarding her property, than like a Farang romance.

You made the right decision. You want a far more sensible girl. Real love should arrive very slowly indeed and also not disappear easily too. Fall for a girl quick, and likely will lose interest real quick too, or just find she is not really a match at all.

Even my long term current Thai GF admits that initially she was with me more for economic reasons than anything else. She had no money and economic difficulties. Respite from that was really great for her. She did not expect me to stick to her long term. She was extremely untrusting of guys in general, whether Thai or Farang. Certainly she was not going to fall for me real quickly. Eventually we became more like a normal couple but took a lot of time. After many years she has got used to us being a couple, and trusts that I am reliable and not likely to dump her for no reason. We are not perfectly suited sexually, but otherwise quite good.

[FormulaOneFan]

So I was recently in Thailand, and I kinda fell for a bar girl. Yeah I know! But anyways, I kept in touch with her after through her Facebook and I would send pics, she would send pics, and I would say I miss you, she would back. Yada yada but yesterday she wrote the following:

"When you come back again we go hunnymoon OK?

Is this a new term for long, long time? Meaning like a week? I'm fine with that, I just hope she isn't thinking marriage as that wasn't discussed. We had a great time and I want to see her again but.

As has been said. Likely a longer more focused time and / or trip to a destination is what she's meaning.

My lone experience 'falling' for a WG (a thermae girl) went differently and I've been meaning to post, so why not now?

I met this girl at Thermae in March. Went with her 3 consecutive nights on a BKK trip. On the third night we exchanged Whatsapp info and chatted the weeks following. Talk from her went from 'when will you be back?' to 'I love you honey, we should be together' kinda talk. No asks for money, but I thought I was smitten. We messaged almost daily and it escalated to video chats, etc. I had a trip planned to BKK for work in May and we discussed her staying with me when I returned.

I arrived in BKK in May and she met me at my hotel, and as discussed she stayed with me for the week; save for a 2 day trip to Pattaya. When I was in-country (and in Pattaya) she and I spent most of out time together, but I explored the MP scene in BKK as well as the 2 days in Pattaya where I had a great time. In her world I was in BKK to be with her, in mine I was there for work (she knew) as well as to play (she must have known, but I didn't explicitly state). We had a great time together. Dinners out, dancing at nightclubs, etc. Overall it was a great trip. Mix of a GFE caring girl at my beck and call, but the freedom to step out and explore a bit.

When I got back home the messaging and video chats ramped up. She started talking about "love" and "marriage" in ways that had never been discussed before. At first I was flattered. She's 10+ years my junior but I'm not stupid. Things were fine for a while but then it got crazy. She went home to get her papers in order to get a passport and make sure her papers were in order to marry a foreigner. She wanted to video chat with me and her parents to allow us to get to know each other. Also, she started getting super suspicious / jealous / angry if I wasn't available to chat / video with her when it was convenient for her. WTF. She fucks dudes for money and she's grilling me about my daily life and who I'm seeing / what I'm doing on a daily basis. Not good. I travel a lot for work (US, asia, and europe) and I'm often out with customers, colleauges, etc and in different time-zones, so being her 'on demand' boyfriend wasn't in the cards.

I ended up blocking her on Whatsapp and WeChat, as well as blacklisting her number on my cell for calls / texts. That was 2 mos ago she still to this day texts me (blocked, but I get a notification) about once or twice a week. She also found me on facebook (whatsapp is now owned by FB, so be careful) so I had to change my privacy settings to block her from my personal feed.

Long story short. For those of us that visit the land of smiles for a nice GFE experience and consider keeping in touch with that 'special girl' you meet one night; think twice about how you connect. Whatsapp exposes your phone number. If you want to share info, consider WeChat instead. Also, if you return for a longer experience, keep tabs on things.

[EihTooms]

So I was recently in Thailand, and I kinda fell for a bar girl. Yeah I know! But anyways, I kept in touch with her after through her Facebook and I would send pics, she would send pics, and I would say I miss you, she would back. Yada yada but yesterday she wrote the following:

"When you come back again we go hunnymoon OK?

Is this a new term for long, long time? Meaning like a week? I'm fine with that, I just hope she isn't thinking marriage as that wasn't discussed. We had a great time and I want to see her again but.

I have had Thai girls, both P4 P and regular date girls, use the term "honeymoon / hunnymoon" many times. They have never meant it to be related to getting married and, in my memory, not even pushing for a 2-3 day trip out of town together, although they all like the idea of that. They have always only meant a night of sex together. Especially with bargirls, the joke goes something like, "Honeymoon tonight, divorce tomorrow!" LOL.

[ThatGuy68]

Yes, both ways.

You're the man! Was just about to book to play it safe! Thanks!

[Hack351]

My advice

OK, thanks for the quick replies! Natty thanks for the 3 day length suggestion. Sounds like the right amount and yes, I would love to take her on a romantic getaway. I'm curious how the bar compensation will be but it won't be till next year anyway.

[Member #4698]

My advice is let it go and treat it as a Google language translation error. I would assume she is just referring to a romantic getaway. Never use the word "Honeymoon" or refer to it again and she will most likely never use the term again either. I am pretty sure the girl did not intend it to mean more than a romantic tryst. If she were a Filipina it might have the marital meaning, many Filipinas have proposed to me LOL, but this would be a very strange and unusual proposal coming from a Thai girl. Thai girls are usually not that forward.

Now ask yourself this: do YOU want to take this girl on a little romantic holiday? If your answer is yes, then respond to her chat with a casual suggestion or invitation saying that it would be nice to go somewhere together for a few days and refer to it as a romantic holiday, or beach holiday, or hill country getaway. 3 nights is about the right amount of time for a first time trip together. Every day longer than 3 days dramatically increases the odds of something going wrong. Keep in mind, you are not going to be making love all the time, in fact, the majority of your time together will be doing other things, including doing mundane things, so make sure you are compatible and that you go somewhere that you both can enjoy like Phuket or Ko Chang (the beach) or Chiang Mai, Chiang Rai, or Mae Hong Son. (the Hill Country)

http://wikitravel.org/en/Mae_Hong_Son_Loop).

If you are unsure about taking her somewhere then don't bring up the idea again and let it whither on the vine. Just say you are looking forward to seeing her again and leave it at that.

[Dg8787]

So I was recently in Thailand, and I kinda fell for a bar girl. Yeah I know! But anyways, I kept in touch with her after through her Facebook and I would send pics, she would send pics, and I would say I miss you, she would back. Yada yada but yesterday she wrote the following:

"When you come back again we go hunnymoon OK?

Is this a new term for long, long time? Meaning like a week? I'm fine with that, I just hope she isn't thinking marriage as that wasn't discussed. We had a great time and I want to see her again but.

For the best answer is to ask her.

Huh? What you mean hunny?

[MakeItOrBreak]

So I was recently in Thailand, and I kinda fell for a bar girl. Yeah I know! But anyways, I kept in touch with her after through her Facebook and I would send pics, she would send pics, and I would say I miss you, she would back. Yada yada but yesterday she wrote the following:

"When you come back again we go hunnymoon OK?

Is this a new term for long, long time? Meaning like a week? I'm fine with that, I just hope she isn't thinking marriage as that wasn't discussed. We had a great time and I want to see her again but.

Laugh make a joke out of it see her response she might be treading the water. Most likely she want a free vacation with you and you get hopefully a fun companion. Risk is she does a personality change on you and think it's okay to expect going expensive shopping.

Roll the dice and see what you get!

[Wimble]

So I was recently in Thailand, and I kinda fell for a bar girl. Yeah I know! But anyways, I kept in touch with her after through her Facebook and I would send pics, she would send pics, and I would say I miss you, she would back. Yada yada but yesterday she wrote the following:

"When you come back again we go hunnymoon OK?

Is this a new term for long, long time? Meaning like a week? I'm fine with that, I just hope she isn't thinking marriage as that wasn't discussed. We had a great time and I want to see her again but.

IMHO, you need to engage in managing expectations. Don't know if you are game to keeping her as a second wife.