General Reports

[Spider916]

depending on his seniority, that guy probably makes between 8.000 and 15.000 bath per month in legit salary, which is as you are aware not much to raise a family on in bkk. university graduated civil servants start with 10.000bath nowadays.

i know a cop that works as a taxy and another that works for a caterer as waiter on private parties.

for the first time in 2008, i got stunned yesterday! left speechless by something i saw on soi 4 near annies parking lot.

i was walking towards annies when i saw a cop (yes, a real one with gun and uniform, not your garden variety "rent a cop") strip from his uniform, shoving it in the trunk of his car, then putting on jeans, a tshirt and a moto-taxi orange jacket.

he closed the car, hopped on a honda click and went on his way.

was he on a "special undercover mission"? or just working 2 jobs? well, that taught me not to argue with moto-taxis anymore, you never know who these people really are.

[Cactus J]

Many thanks guys for your help! It sounds totally safe, unless my wife catches me with a Thai lady. It was my friend who was worried, first trip to Thailand.

Cactus J

[Thai Ydiver]

IMHO You are worrying too much. No need. I am not smoking but have been going to Thailand a lot. Never had or heard of on the spot testing.

They used to spot check from time-to-time, but not so much these days and was more targeted towards Thai.

Don't do drugs and you are safe, also don't carry them either in the past the BiB have checked farangs (including me) around the Washington Square!

[Daddy07]

...She got to the point in the relationship to test your old ass!...

I think LBM has nailed it!

This is what young insecure girls do.

You have passed the 'test,' Nic.

And if the fucking is good like you say, maybe you should forgive her for this one indiscretion so you can enjoy more of the same without taking any more shit from the lady.

[LittleBigMan]

NicFrenchy,

Don't worry about this. I been there and done that! She got to the point in the relationship to test your old ass! To see whether she got a man or a child like her ex-boyfriends who did carry her purse until they got tired of her bullshit and their friends ripping ripping them for having no balls. This is why she got so many ex's!

Women in general and especially in Thailand seem to want to prove who's has the stronger will. Prior to being marry I was with this Thai girl and when ever I saw her in BKK things were great never had a problem. Out of the blue one day we disagreed on something in front of her friends. Not to loose face she spoke but in half Thai and English to her friends right in front of me. I quickly figure it out from her statement basically that we will see who is stronger the will of a Thai women or a American Farang? It all came down to some culture bullshit whether I was going to bend by her making me feel uncomfortable in front of her friends. And if I did she would know I was wrapped around her finger! This is when you no longer are wearing the pants! After a few minutes I got up and told her girlfriends goodbye, paid the bill, gave them taxi money and I left.

Had a girlfriend in Hong Kong long ago. Did the same thing! told my cousin that she had me wrapped around her finger and I would do anything she wanted me to do. That I love f--king her tit's ( real 36's ). She played her games when I came to Hong Kong for a holiday one year and within the 2 weeks I was there she hardly answer the phone or came to see me at the hotel. Before leaving I f--ked her good and told her I loved her and wanted to marry her. By saying that I was able to hit her backside since she told me once if she gave it to me I would have to marry her! Left 2 days later and sent her a dear John letter and never saw her again. My cousin called and said I was the man!

It never cease to amazed me! Why people have to f--k with a good thing. Is it within our nature to have to be on top? Why do they have to test us just because we are nice guys! Would she had asked if she knew you were a asshole? But NicFrenchy you have to admit the f--king was good while it lasted!

Just another 2 cents from LBM

[Retired Army]

Yes, she's 20 years old. Does that mean he should be carrying her handbag while walking 5 steps behind her in order to prove his love?

That's not my point. I'm saying at his age there shouldn't be a discussion. He is either pussy whipped and says "yes dear" or, carry your own damn purse *****. Sounds like he has a "pair."

[M P Lurker]

What the Fuck? She never asked me for a penny and I know that she is very well off (Rich Family) but I was not going to let her play "little Princess".

Back home (outside Thailand) I have met quite a few Thai girls from rich families, not as a GF, but only as aquaintences.

I often find them to be spoiled little brats not used to doing any real work and wanting to be waited on hand and foot. Many are not good GF material.
In Thailand, not everyone is considered equal.

Girls from a background of some hardship may turn out to have a better character (but not always).

Personally I would carry a girl's handbag while she was trying on clothes etc. but probably not the entire time.
My GF would have only asked me to carry it if it was really inconveniencing her.

But trantrums when not getting their own way is not a good sign.

[NicFrenchy]

Yes, she's 20 years old. Does that mean he should be carrying her handbag while walking 5 steps behind her in order to prove his love?

Well, she's learned her lesson (or did she?)

There are lots of 20 year olds in Thailand who behave like adults and aren't spoiled little princess brats.

[/QUOTE]

Yep, she did sound like a little Princess Brat. Shame, she was tight and very willing horizontally

[Daddy07]

She's 20 years for Christ's sake. How old are you? I am sure you are old enough to know better.

Yes, she's 20 years old. Does that mean he should be carrying her handbag while walking 5 steps behind her in order to prove his love?

There are lots of 20 year olds in Thailand who behave like adults and aren't spoiled little princess brats.

I think she's the perfect age for a gik or a short time fuck. They need an older man to teach them how to please, and they make excellent fuck toys.

I've found a very cute little 18 year old bar girl here in Pattaya who's become a regular and is just as good or better than the more mature ladies on my menu.

[Retired Army]

I broke up with 20 years old Gik yesterday.

Game Over.

Now I am left with no GF, no Gik and only a 53 years old lady ready for me to go fuck her whenever I am horny.

She's 20 years for Christ's sake. How old are you? I am sure you are old enough to know better.

[Greed Is Good]

I broke up with 20 years old Gik yesterday.

We were having a good time shopping at Central World and planning on going to see a movie when she asked me (or "told" would fit better) to carry her handbag for her. I stopped and looked at her, stunned.

I nicely told her that I would feel weird carrying around a lady's handbag and that it would be better she keep it with her. She went nuts.
She told me that I have to treat her as a princess because she is my girlfriend and I have to do what she like because I love her.

All the while she was trying to explain herself I was thinking "What? is she for real?"
She said that all her ex-boyfriends do whatever she want and they always buy her many gifts and carry her bags and that a man should do this for his girlfriend and that I do not love her if I do not carry the bag and Bla Bla Bla...

What the Fuck? She never asked me for a penny and I know that she is very well off (Rich Family) but I was not going to let her play "little Princess".

I told her that I would never carry a lady's handbag, I would carry Shopping bags, yes, but I was not about to be the Docile Puppy that bows to all her desires. She said that Thai man would do it for their Love because it is how it has to be.

She would not stop telling me about how she should be treated and that I was lucky that she is my girlfriend because she is so pretty and not a bad girl and that she never ask me for money and, and and....

I told her that while I appreciated the fact that she is beautiful and sweet I am not ready to be an obedient Sheep and would do what I please when I please. You could see the confusion on her face! she was so certain that I would obey her, she did not know how to react. I saved her the hassle of losing face.

I told her I really liked her but this is not the kind of relationship I was expecting I told her that maybe I am not the right person for her and that she deserves someone that will treat her like the Princess she is.

How can I now escape? well, I could not. We carried on with our Plans (very quiet dinner) but skipped the movie, I told her I was tired and she said she was tired too. We went on our separate ways.

I later sent her an SMS saying "Maybe it not good to continue, you should get a better boyfriend" (ego stroking for her).
She did not reply.

Game Over.

Now I am left with no GF, no Gik and only a 53 years old lady ready for me to go fuck her whenever I am horny.

Looks like I will do P4P a lot more.

NF,

Sounds like she was talking to an old "gik" of mine :-)
Must have been 5-6 yrs ago. Been together for over a yr. Hot little 23 yr old
Getting along fine. One day out of the blue she is telling me how to spend my paycheck !! I mean down to the last Bhat. Don't do that, don't buy that. She thought, I guess, sincere advice.
Turn out it was the Mom and a friend of the Mom giving her "pearls of wisdom". So they thought ! If I listened to her, as they advised her, she would know she had me controled. I would go nowhere. After a blow out about it told her that she had better rethink how she told me about my spending habits.
Left her standing on the Soi with a dumbfounded expression on her face.
She called and called afterwards. But I never went back to her. P4P easier

[NicFrenchy]

I think you were too nice to her.

Well, that has a lot to do with the fact that she knows where I live as I fucked her in my condo many times (Big mistake that I will no longer repeat).

[Flood800]

Originally Posted by NicFrenchy:

Looks like I will do P4P a lot more.[/QUOTE]

You are a lucky man to get out of it! Forget about her, there are lots more where she came from, in any case P4P may work out cheaper in the long term, and without too many headaches!

If I may offer my two cents worth, when she sms you to say 'sorry' (she will) I hope you will ignore her and move on. Life is too short have to deal with crap like that.

Go out and have fun! Leave the 53 year old lady alone -respect and all that...

[Daddy07]

...I told her that while I appreciated the fact that she is beautiful and sweet I...

I think you were too nice to her. She may be beautiful, but she's certainly not sweet -- more like a dominatrix.

Apparently she didn't have a clue about all your other giks and MP sweethearts.

[NicFrenchy]

I broke up with 20 years old Gik yesterday.

We were having a good time shopping at Central World and planning on going to see a movie when she asked me (or "told" would fit better) to carry her handbag for her. I stopped and looked at her, stunned.

I nicely told her that I would feel weird carrying around a lady's handbag and that it would be better she keep it with her. She went nuts.
She told me that I have to treat her as a princess because she is my girlfriend and I have to do what she like because I love her.

All the while she was trying to explain herself I was thinking "What? is she for real?"
She said that all her ex-boyfriends do whatever she want and they always buy her many gifts and carry her bags and that a man should do this for his girlfriend and that I do not love her if I do not carry the bag and Bla Bla Bla...

What the Fuck? She never asked me for a penny and I know that she is very well off (Rich Family) but I was not going to let her play "little Princess".

I told her that I would never carry a lady's handbag, I would carry Shopping bags, yes, but I was not about to be the Docile Puppy that bows to all her desires. She said that Thai man would do it for their Love because it is how it has to be.

She would not stop telling me about how she should be treated and that I was lucky that she is my girlfriend because she is so pretty and not a bad girl and that she never ask me for money and, and and....

I told her that while I appreciated the fact that she is beautiful and sweet I am not ready to be an obedient Sheep and would do what I please when I please. You could see the confusion on her face! she was so certain that I would obey her, she did not know how to react. I saved her the hassle of losing face.

I told her I really liked her but this is not the kind of relationship I was expecting I told her that maybe I am not the right person for her and that she deserves someone that will treat her like the Princess she is.

How can I now escape? well, I could not. We carried on with our Plans (very quiet dinner) but skipped the movie, I told her I was tired and she said she was tired too. We went on our separate ways.

I later sent her an SMS saying "Maybe it not good to continue, you should get a better boyfriend" (ego stroking for her).
She did not reply.

Game Over.

Now I am left with no GF, no Gik and only a 53 years old lady ready for me to go fuck her whenever I am horny.

Looks like I will do P4P a lot more.