Pattaya Reports

[Mr Enternational]

Any on Soi6? Or beach road? Should I just stuck to Eddie bar on Walking st?

African FLs walk around. They are not static. Most often seen on Soi Honey Inn, Soi Diana, 2nd Rd around The Avenue, and Pattaya Tai around Tukcom. I have never seen any that I would want hanging at that bar on WS. I think it is that the ones from Madagascar walk around and the ones from Uganda go to that bar.

[Franga]

Any on Soi6? Or beach road? Should I just stuck to Eddie bar on Walking st?

None ever on Soi 6 and none on Beach Rd.

[Hack351]

Any on Soi6? Or beach road? Should I just stuck to Eddie bar on Walking st?

[Linyjo]

It appears you like shitholes. I see you have done some wallowing in Colombia.

I have. There and many other shit hole countries.

I don't have a problem with the countries, I have a problem with people that think using the term is somehow racist or meant to be demeaning.

It's just the reality of the location.

[Turgid]

Well, this got a reaction. I am shocked by how many panzies made comments defending these places. Perhaps the board should set up a Safespace thread for the snowflake soy boys to go hang out and feel protected from reality and honesty.

Here is a reality test for you.

If your sanitary system is to dig a hole in the ground and shit into, you are from a shithole place. It's really that simple.

It appears you like shitholes. I see you have done some wallowing in Colombia.

[Linyjo]

I was going to hold my tongue but dude, it has to be said. Although I get the feeling you already know all the things about I am to say, you are just in denial.

And here I was, making promises and saying all of these things, but what had I actually done for her to make her decide to make some kind of commitment to me? Besides some love notes and flowers, I had literally done nothing. I claimed to have love and money yet I let her continue to work as a bar girl.

You argued the point when I said months ago that she was setting you up to play on your guilt and jealousy that she is a bargirl. In her mind, If you loved her, you would pay for her to sit home and not fuck guys for money.

She discussed this in a calm, educational manner to help me understand what drives some of the Isan women, not to try to force me to start shelling out cash. I found it fascinating, actually. Again, she wanted me to be with Secret, and she was telling me the way forward if I was willing.

You were fascinated to learn what? You already knew all this. Bargirls use farangs to send them money to replace the dead buffalo on the farm, promising to be a good girl instead of fuck guys for money but they just take your money and keep fucking other guys for more money.

There was much more, but here I had it, the key to winning over Secret.

Yes, her friend told you the way forward. Write a check to buy her love, that's the way forward.

Maybe she wanted me to know that barrier had been removed, and that it was now up to me to determine the course of our relationship. She would not encourage me or lead me on. it would be up to me.

You didn't take the bait on the Aussie man story and offer to buy her out of her contract. So the next story is that the Aussie freed her from her contract so she is now a free agent, you know, in case you wanted to put her under contract yourself.

I needed to face facts and get away and stop acting like an old fool.

Smartest thing you said in the entire ordeal. But yet you don't take your own advice.

I was well below my budget so I handed her a stash of cash. And she was absolutely stunned. I may have had a tear or two. You all may criticize me, but I did it. What her friend said had moved me, and though it was too late to contribute towards her leaving the life of a bar girl behind, I told her to use the money to fund her business, so the net result was the same. Again, she remained fairly reserved. She didn't jump up and down or rush to hug me and display lots of emotion. As I said, she just seemed stunned. And maybe she was thinking it was about gosh darned time I gave her some money! Haha.

So you didn't bite on the buy me out of my contract, you didn't bite on the put her under contract yourself, so the next story was she was going to start a business. After giving her a stack of cash, she didn't even give you a hug or a kiss? No real reaction, no gratitude and no thank you.

Did she take your money and go start a business? Nope. She ends up in Bangkok, "living with a sister" and supposedly "working 12 hours a day at the mall".

The truth? I don't know, but she is with me now, no bar fine and no assurance at all that I will ever see her again or give her money again, so I don't know.

Come on, you know the truth. You walk away thinking you got one free night? You just gave her a stack of cash, that night was well pre-paid. It was also just setting the hook in the fish's mouth. You gave her a stack of cash, she has to play a part for one night if she wants to get you to send another stack.

She did say that she would go with me wherever and whenever. But while she won't use the L word, I have, and yesterday she said she liked me doing so. And today she said that our love would be up to me.

She can go wherever and whenever? I thought she had a job at the mall. She just comes and goes as pleases? Yes, your love affair will be up to you and how much you want to continue to pay. I'm sure you know she expects to get paid for the week long trip you want to take her on.

Can real love be found with a bar girl? Apparently the answer is yes, though the story is not over...There are other girls on Soi 6 similar to Secret, but to weed them out takes time and luck.

Love with a bargirl is not love. It's a transaction. You give her money and she gives you love. Other girls like her on the Soi but you have to weed them out? What the hell are you talking about? What is so special about a girl that treats you like shit, doesn't tell you she loves you, blows you off when she wants, gets barfined by a Farang that takes her drinking and for dinner then falls asleep without giving you sex, takes your money and provides no real service but starfishing while letting you fuck her.

Is having an affair, essentially, with a woman 30 years younger exciting? Yes, I suppose.

An "affair" is a relationship that includes feelings, companionship and romance. Far from anything you have described in your experiences. You are in a business transaction that you are getting shitty terms and lack of performance from. That is the cold hard reality of your affair.

She doesn't like you. She doesn't trust you. She doesn't want a lifetime with you. She has told you this many times in many different ways but you just won't listen to her. Every time you have ignored her telling you this, her behavior and attitude has gotten worse, to try and get through to you that is how she feels but you just ignore her and continue on with your fantasy.

It's your life, your money, time and heartache. No one can tell you how to live it. But there are a 1,000 girls in that city that would return your graces with something of value instead of just shitting on you. You need to flush and get back on the hunt, she is out there waiting for you to find her. Take off the blinders so you can find her before you waste more time and money on someone who doesn't enjoy you.

[Linyjo]

Have a look at the shithole they are coming from and you'll understand why they are fascinated by that place.

Well, this got a reaction. I am shocked by how many panzies made comments defending these places. Perhaps the board should set up a Safespace thread for the snowflake soy boys to go hang out and feel protected from reality and honesty.

Here is a reality test for you.

If your sanitary system is to dig a hole in the ground and shit into, you are from a shithole place. It's really that simple.

[Syzygies]

I've met all kind of girls over there but not remember a single one that tells me she came back from a hard period of work in her hometown. The only thing they say is that they took a rest from Pattaya and went in their hometown. And it's verified by pictures on their facebook or by the 2-3 kilos they already took after 10 days there.

I think you are developing a slight distortion here. True some girls get lazy in home province, others have to work hard and help with rice planting etc. Both situations exist. In the province is not necessarily blissful. Plenty of girls mentioned going home to help rice planting or harvesting. May not post pics on facebook of that. Too boring and rice field is not place for selfies, yet my Mrs did send me pics of her out working in the field clad in cover up gear head to toe (against the sun), before I moved to the farm as well. A country girl, not Hi-so.

My Mrs gets up 5 am to 5. 30 most mornings and is working hard throughput the day sometimes till late in evening. In the hot season, it is quite difficult to work outdoors in the sun, so she stayed in the shade drinking beer and gaining weight, but preparing Bamboo shoots for food (just one example). In the wet season it is easier to work outside when cloudy and even when raining. Now she has lost weight again, back to a hot figure.

You really need to be on a farm and see it first hand what is going on, like I do, or better still multiple farms. What you did not see for yourself, is purely guesswork.

True some MP girls put on a lot of weight in the province, suddenly eating much more sticky rice and drinking beer, maybe their mother's cooking. Yet they may have had a significant farm work to help with, feeding various animals, like cows, chickens, etc. Preparing feed, watering vegetables, planting rice, harvesting rice. The work load is not even all year round. Country houses needed a lot more cleaning too, due to dust, insects, etc.

I typically gain weight in Bangkok but lose weight in the Province on a farm due to eating more healthy and more activity. Bangkok is the real lazy place. However if MP girls get several fucks a day, that sexercise may help them keep weight off, and likely they will try to watch their weight too, to better get customers.

Its the Hi-so girls that are exceptionally lazy, and also some jobs require girls to just sit basically doing very little all day. My own work is cerebral and not physical.

Weight gain or loss is not that highly correlated to how hard girls are physically working, necessarily. Much more correlated to what they eat and drink.

[Syzygies]

I had a great time in Pattaya back in May. Of course anyone else's experiences may vary. But, I had such a good time in Pattaya and met a number of attractive, let's get it on, girls the last time, that I have doubled the amount of time I am going to spend there when I return. Palace, mentioned recently in the BKK thread, was ok, but I really liked a couple of other Go Go's even more. In fact, the Walking Street Go Go I liked best; I rate the #1 Go Go in Thailand at the present moment. It really rocked! It had great girls and a really friendly vibe. I believe I mentioned the bar in my trip report that I posted at the time. Plus, I unexpectedly found afternoon bliss on Soi 6 and on Soi Full Love Inn, of all places. So, I can't wait to return.

No question that Pattaya is the shithole on the gulf, but it's our shithole and after 20 years or more I am getting fond of the place.

Huh? You accidentally omitted the name of your favourite Go go or on purpose? If I search for your report will it be obvious which is favourite and why? I will go check. Obviously the vibe, quality and attitude of the girls I guess. Anyway I know your taste is a lot closer to mine than Goatscrot's most likely. I guess I have to make time to get down there sooner or later just so I know what Pattaya is like these days after not having been to the so called "shithole" for 25 years Ha ha.

I think it has to be more interesting than Laos, and Phnom Penh, ha ha. When I loose all my regular girls might be the perfect timing. The Mrs. Might need to think I am somewhere else, and use the monger phone only.

[Franciscass]

What the duck? My experience is totally opposite of what you are describing. Most of the girls I know that are from farms, are saving up to buy their own damn farm to work on. They go home and send me pictures of them getting up at 5 am and working with crops and shit and tapping rubber trees with their farm clothes on. They see Pattaya as a place to go get money to make the purchases they need to settle down back where they came from.

Some perhaps but as a generalization not my experience. Insomniacs notwithstanding I doubt getting up at 5 am to tap rubber trees is hardly anybody's idea of fun.

[Goferring]

Dude, gays make every place better.

Hahahaha. True.

And they have some smooooooking hot girlfriends. 🤩.

Enjoy. G.

[John Clayton]

I don't like shitholes. I leave that for gays.

Dude, gays make every place better.

[Gargamon]

replies came from everywhere defending their chosen city. 😄.

Many of the Expat complainers are "all in" on their chosen location had have tied up all their resources there. Allowing you to criticize this location would make it possible that they made a mistake and that just can't be allowed as there are no other options available to them.

[Turgid]

...........No question that Pattaya is the shithole on the gulf, but it's our shithole and after 20 years or more I am getting fond of the place.

I don't like shitholes. I leave that for gays.

[Member #4698]

I had a great time in Pattaya back in May. Of course anyone else's experiences may vary. But, I had such a good time in Pattaya and met a number of attractive, let's get it on, girls the last time, that I have doubled the amount of time I am going to spend there when I return. Palace, mentioned recently in the BKK thread, was ok, but I really liked a couple of other Go Go's even more. In fact, the Walking Street Go Go I liked best; I rate the #1 Go Go in Thailand at the present moment. It really rocked! It had great girls and a really friendly vibe. I believe I mentioned the bar in my trip report that I posted at the time. Plus, I unexpectedly found afternoon bliss on Soi 6 and on Soi Full Love Inn, of all places. So, I can't wait to return.

No question that Pattaya is the shithole on the gulf, but it's our shithole and after 20 years or more I am getting fond of the place.