Pattaya Reports

[LoveItHere69]

Stupid me was thinking again and my common sense was wrong. On Beach Road two weeks ago there was a MUSIC festival with tons of food. Today starts an Indian FOOD festival with practically no food. There was 20 times more food at the music festival than this food festival. I ate somewhere else. It was so small they should just cancel it next year. I assumed a Indian FOOD festival would have lots of food, especially since there are millions of Indian restaurants everywhere.

[LittleBigMan]

They have a one track mind too. I am about fed up with the BS around here for now. Yesterday I agreed with a chick that I would come get her. I am on the way and tell her to send the location. She does not answer. After a while I say something else and she says I go to club with friends now. I did not respond. I just deleted the broad.

Now watch later today or tomorrow she sends a message asking if I want her to come over. And I will not even respond. Human nature has us foreigners trying to explain why would I want her to come after what she did the last time, but as you said there is no remorse, so not even worth trying to teach or explain. They could care less and are just out for what they need at the moment they need it.

Sadly, this is just the tip of the Iceberg, I've said it for a long time people don't want to hear or believe it some if not many don't have a clue and it is understandable why need I'm here for the pussy. But I can tell you debate it with anyone if I'm wrong I learn something but if I could didn't get jailed for it. I'll be on national T. V. Debating it with anyone anytime.

I've been told Pattaya, Bangkok, and a number of provinces who cater to mainly foreigners aren't part of Thailand. People can believe what they want about their education system college etc. Unless it is a top International school Thai have exposure to the West they all come from the same line of thinking. Wrong no! Anyone Thai who tells me they are going to a University I spend some time with them know it isn't a University per say! To go to a Thai University like Rangit, cost is 200,000 baht plus per year. Even if they can for what purpose unless you have connections you will never get a good paying job here in Thailand.

I recently debated an expat during the Super Bowl at a sports bar he disagree with me. By the end of conversation he had his head down like a Thai, I let him talk brought down his story gave him my reasons examples. It all started with him saying you are wrong my son makes over a 150,000 baht a month as a Civil Engineer.

As I noted time and time again our standard how we are raised, our basic thought common sense as we call it, manners, consideration this definition as we know doesn't exist here! Do I hate Thais been asked NO, I feel for them but they don't know the definition never been taught, and their culture their system it will continue like this because they don't want to hear it. Thailand is all they know point outside of the Asean countries they don't have a clue. God is punishing me I'm in hell cause I don't believe! All the things I dislike B.S. is rolled into one with my daughter in law and I mean ALL
the things is inside of her taught or not taught by her parents and their parents. You can't improve if there isn't any around to teach something new.
People talk about Bolt, I'll use that example aside from the price no one talks about safety they all come from the same school of driving there is no special training none.

Sure, things are more expensive, you got the internet, Youtube, but the factory of girls will continue their education system guarantees it maybe not the way it was in the old days but it will. I'm Knee deep each day over 15 years what you described I see and experience first hand in a million different ways.

How, I get by without arming myself walking into a government office, police station and taking everyone out! You reinvent yourself because I have to turn the be. S. Into a game so you can co-exist like the military during the war, anytime you can get R&R, head out after my pork chop and Ice cream dinner and get the best bang for the baht. While I going downtown I put aside the bad b. S. Get to work refueling for another day!

[LoveItHere69]

Foods News:

Walking Street becoming more and more watered down. Taco Bell should be open by the end of April across from McDonalds.

Indian food festival on Beach Road March 22-24. Good way to try little bits and pieces of Indian food for cheap to find out what you like and do not like.

[Mr Enternational]

Thats because you have a one track mind. Its in their culture they couldn't care less if they are 2,3,4, the goal is get what they need even if they have to take it from another Thai. There is no remorse once they get the answer and it doesn't benefit them it is bye bye.

They have a one track mind too. I am about fed up with the BS around here for now. Yesterday I agreed with a chick that I would come get her. I am on the way and tell her to send the location. She does not answer. After a while I say something else and she says I go to club with friends now. I did not respond. I just deleted the broad.

Now watch later today or tomorrow she sends a message asking if I want her to come over. And I will not even respond. Human nature has us foreigners trying to explain why would I want her to come after what she did the last time, but as you said there is no remorse, so not even worth trying to teach or explain. They could care less and are just out for what they need at the moment they need it.

[LittleBigMan]

2, 3, or 4 what?

I'm still not getting your point.

The point! Just not surprised at your question.

A Thai due to their upbringing is considered second, if not further down the chain 2,4, In Asian culture Man, is number one reason the culture although law against it the man can just walk away whenever he likes and return without any consequences. Women are so use to it so embedded that it is the norm if you were able to have such a conversation try to explain it they would stare you straight in the face give you a look what the hell are you talking about. Label it in one of the chapters " This is Thailand."

What you ask is what you've yourself been preaching for over 3 years! They can have a number of men string along Thais, Farang they will get what they can out of them when they feel they hold the cards if your suggested price doesn't fit they won't go with you. Logic as we know has no bearing when it comes to women here in general of cause.

Here is an example! I have know this super GoGo girl for a long time prior to Covid, during the last few years I've ran into her a number of times flirting because she knows a bit about my past at her former club. Been told by her so call working friends that I'm interested I also know from the same friend she has a stable of Thai Boyfriend. Finally, after a few years we hooked up at the ST room she rock my world even tells me no condom for you. The next day she Lines me can I borrow 3000 baht I give her a straight polite no she was TESTING! A week later I'm dumped from her Line!

Do I really need to go on? You get it! I admit the writing is bad and grammar but come on. To each his own but if you aren't going to take care of them they can be top of the ladder you don't kick out back of the line LOL.

[Explorer8939]

Thats because you have a one track mind. Its in their culture they couldn't care less if they are 2,3,4, the goal is get what they need even if they have to take it from another Thai. There is no remorse once they get the answer and it doesn't benefit them it is bye bye.

2, 3, or 4 what?

I'm still not getting your point.

[LittleBigMan]

It's a little difficult to understand your point. I think what you are trying to say is if its obvious you are not going to sponsor a bargirl (or be her "boyfriend" she won't have a lot of interest in you.

Unfortunately, there are so many lonely guys sitting back home sending money for nothing to bargirls, that some bargirls really don't have to work.

That's because you have a one track mind. Its in their culture they couldn't care less if they are 2,3,4, the goal is get what they need even if they have to take it from another Thai. There is no remorse once they get the answer and it doesn't benefit them it is bye bye.

[LoveItHere69]

In all these years I have seen only one foreigner that I suspect was homeless. He was going around eating the food that people had left on the altars.

I guess in all these years you do not pay attention to the world around you. I have not been here in 10 years. I have been here 20 days. The 5 days of my online attempts so I that would be 15 days visiting Beach Road. Oddly enough I found one already and seen him twice.

I reported a few days ago on a white guy going the dumpster on Beach Road. He pulled out a cucumber and checked it for soft spots. Nothing found or taken and he crosses the street near Soi 6 at 1:00 am.

Saw him today going through a blue dumpster at 8:30 pm at the other end of Beach Road near Ripley's. Nothing was found. Both times he found nothing. If he was looking for cans or bottles he would have found some and would be carrying a bag with them but both times no bag. Leads me to believe he is looking for food. White guy, white beard, glasses, same bright swimming shorts I saw last time.

[Explorer8939]

Cleaning up my list, recently a few of my regulars don't respond the way they use to sense they know it isn't going to happen nor do I plan to take care of them #2, so the time they invested was a waste of their time although the fun and money was good. I had one from a top GoGo, stop going cause someone working Neighbor? snitch on me so I stop going! I saw her on the side ST, she asked me why I explained her response " What is wrong with it " after a year no head wave with me gone off the list.

It's a little difficult to understand your point. I think what you are trying to say is if its obvious you are not going to sponsor a bargirl (or be her "boyfriend" she won't have a lot of interest in you.

Unfortunately, there are so many lonely guys sitting back home sending money for nothing to bargirls, that some bargirls really don't have to work.

[LittleBigMan]

Yep. Same shit different toilet. You are there and have gotten fed up with the bullshit there. Go somewhere else and you will eventually get fed up with the bullshit there. There is no Oz. When you are in a place only 1 week you may think it is Oz with the yellow brick road. But if you stay around any length of time you will see that the brick road is yellow only because of the amount of times it has been urinated on.

In all these years I have seen only one foreigner that I suspect was homeless. He was going around eating the food that people had left on the altars.

True, some come for a week figure it out right away then you got those who come for years it is front and center still can't figure it out. If there are true homeless certainly this type of thinking will lead you in that direction.

Thais are a funny lot! I couldn't ever consider my wife joining in on a 3-some, opposite the number of ladies go-go, massages, GM, Freelancer that I see have on my list couldn't care less, their duty seem to say if she can't take care of you I will, the goal on surface is to take you away from your GF or wife.

Cleaning up my list, recently a few of my regulars don't respond the way they use to sense they know it isn't going to happen nor do I plan to take care of them #2, so the time they invested was a waste of their time although the fun and money was good. I had one from a top GoGo, stop going cause someone working Neighbor? snitch on me so I stop going! I saw her on the side ST, she asked me why I explained her response " What is wrong with it " after a year no head wave with me gone off the list.

[Mr Enternational]

I ordered up a Thai Friendly chick last night at 7:30. When she got here I saw one of her feet was fucked up on some birth defect shit. I told her that we have to hurry because my wife finishes work at 9. She ran the fuck out of here so fast saying that I do not know Thai women and she did not want any problems. I told her there will be no problems because my wife likes ladies too. She left even faster then.

[Mr Enternational]

Like I said a few months ago, " you are a dreamer the grass is never greener it takes a lot of work to keep it green "

Yep. Same shit different toilet. You are there and have gotten fed up with the bullshit there. Go somewhere else and you will eventually get fed up with the bullshit there. There is no Oz. When you are in a place only 1 week you may think it is Oz with the yellow brick road. But if you stay around any length of time you will see that the brick road is yellow only because of the amount of times it has been urinated on.

I've seen and know lots of farang not many homeless as you state in Pattaya, they get by somehow even with very little.

In all these years I have seen only one foreigner that I suspect was homeless. He was going around eating the food that people had left on the altars.

[LittleBigMan]

I'm trying the Cups, every day at work it's a battle, but each day I get paid, it's another day closer to Bangkok. I aim low these days, not even years, I'd be happy with just a few months of debauchery in Thailand, and I'm out of there, David Carradine style! I'd party like it was the end of my life, which it kinda is anyway.

I definitely don't want to end up like them homeless foreign dudes that get stuck in Thailand with nothing, like these poor schmucks.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xnR-CIG0k0Q

I choose to go in style, like David Carradine. Ha! It's weird though, reports like this about expat types that end up homeless in Thailand are few and far in between these days. Does that mean we've cleaned up our act, and are doing ok in Thailand? At this point, there's got to be plenty of homeless white guys in Thailand.

Like I said a few months ago, " you are a dreamer the grass is never greener it takes a lot of work to keep it green " I don't do this for everyone and I mean everyone if you shoot me a PM, give me some specifics like your age, pension amount, your health general, I might be able to give you a really good reality check as to what to expect living here of course I can only speak to Pattaya itself nowhere else!

I've seen and know lots of farang not many homeless as you state in Pattaya, they get by somehow even with very little. Sure having more is always better in my opinion!

[Venturi34]

You mind sharing which bar is that? Thanks.

As a follow up in case anyone was curious I figured it out. That girl was from Omega bar and pretty sure she doesn't work there anymore. That picture is from January, not sure why the other dude stated like it was new.

[LoveItHere69]

If you hate it there why would you still want to spend two months there? Thailand is a beautiful place. Why not take the time to travel? You could go to some islands, scuba dive (or learn to do so), Chang Mai, Bangkok etc. You can make quick side trips to Cambodia (Angkor is amazing) or a quick flight to numerous SEA countries. You have made the effort to allocate 2 months of time and flown across the world. I think even unlimited pussy is boring after a while. 2 months in Pattaya is too much.

I am spending 9-11 months in Asia. I may move on to the next country on my list of 4 countries soon. I was here 7 years ago for a month and 15 years prior for 3 weeks. Just want to exhaust all possibilities. Today a street girl complained I took too long again at the 10 minute mark. Hardly a LBFM! But I found another.

Oh, forgot. One of my dates I made on Fiwfan was 45 minutes away. Got there 15 minutes early and she supposedly went out.

I rarely talk to foreigners. But chatted with 2 thus far. Funny but one has experienced the exact same things as me. Both of us are in shock. He is pissed because all his friends (who have not been here in 15 years) told him he just had to come. He had the same experiences in his 3 days in Bangkok and 4 day in Chiang Mai.