Pattaya Reports

[Danny Duck]

What worries me is why a guy would even offer a girl to be a Concubine in the first place.

They aren't Dogs or Cats or Rabbits even.

[OldSchool318]

"This is why you can use your money to get a chick, but you can't use it to keep her. No need to lead with money when you want to be serious about a chick. As we used to say in Brazil, if you want to know how someone really feels about you then show up without money. The shit is simple. You don't show up offering them material shit. You show up offering them yourself."

This can't buy me love. But damn sure can buy lots of fucking!

[Knobrm]

Yeah is clear that people are reluctant giving up their freedom. I wouldn't beyond what I feel like giving.

However the girls have with serious face told she want to stay and be BF-GF, and surely they should know what it means. I never mentioned about anything like your Jap case, actually did not set any limits as wanted to see how they behave (and is against my life principles as well, people should be let be free to do what they want). So it kind of appears that they somewhere inside has a pocket that thinks they would like to live in GF-BF setting, yet they can't as the external factors pull them back.

Maybe it is all a show, without actual serious intent, to just live in different setting for some time and pocket the money in different business model. Once get bored just go back.

Kind of the mirror of guys who want to stay with a girl for extended time as GF-BF and try to behave like they become monogamous, yet in their heart they know it is only a matter of time they get bored to fuck the same girl and kick her out (or fuck others in parallel). Consequently, likelihood of a monger and a pro settling in a long term relationship is really low.

The non-pro was a bit of a surprise as all appeared good, however the pull of eating somtam and drink beer with friends almost every day is just so strong component of perceived freedom that can not be compromised.

Freedom. I don't know why some guys think that money can buy them love or loyalty or a person. Money is not everyhting and you can only use it to rent some pussy. Put yourself in their shoes.

As a matter of fact, when I was in the Navy I heard a story from a guy that had spent time in Japan. They used to go to the discos and meet chicks there. This one guy met a chick whose father was so rich that her and her brother had the same model Ferrari, but different colors. The girl wanted to marry the sailor but the father said he could do it only on condition that he could not go back to the States. The guy would be taken care of for the rest of his life though. He did not take the deal. Being able to go back home and do other shit he wanted, was worth more than the money dangling in front of his face. Would you have taken the deal? I know I sure as hell would not.

This is why you can use your money to get a chick, but you can't use it to keep her. No need to lead with money when you want to be serious about a chick. As we used to say in Brazil, if you want to know how someone really feels about you then show up without money. The shit is simple. You don't show up offering them material shit. You show up offering them yourself.

Nobody is suprised when some athlete or singer's wife or girlfriend that you know he would not gotten if he was not who he was leaves him. It is obvious she was there for the money, but she could only keep up that charade for so long before things beside money became more important.

[Mr Enternational]

I made it clear to her if she stayed with me living normal life, she would not need to worry about money, and yet she could not help. Go figure.

Maybe just had bad luck, and wondering how the many guys who actually have pulled a girl out to 'normal life' worked it out.

Freedom. I don't know why some guys think that money can buy them love or loyalty or a person. Money is not everyhting and you can only use it to rent some pussy. Put yourself in their shoes.

As a matter of fact, when I was in the Navy I heard a story from a guy that had spent time in Japan. They used to go to the discos and meet chicks there. This one guy met a chick whose father was so rich that her and her brother had the same model Ferrari, but different colors. The girl wanted to marry the sailor but the father said he could do it only on condition that he could not go back to the States. The guy would be taken care of for the rest of his life though. He did not take the deal. Being able to go back home and do other shit he wanted, was worth more than the money dangling in front of his face. Would you have taken the deal? I know I sure as hell would not.

This is why you can use your money to get a chick, but you can't use it to keep her. No need to lead with money when you want to be serious about a chick. As we used to say in Brazil, if you want to know how someone really feels about you then show up without money. The shit is simple. You don't show up offering them material shit. You show up offering them yourself.

Nobody is suprised when some athlete or singer's wife or girlfriend that you know he would not gotten if he was not who he was leaves him. It is obvious she was there for the money, but she could only keep up that charade for so long before things beside money became more important.

[Franciscass]

It's amusing reading recent posts on how girls behave when offered money by generous benefactors to devote themselves to him. What a bunch of losers they are. Seems the ungrateful hoes prefer different dick every night and getting wasted with their friends. Maybe true perhaps so or maybe they just get shit bored with the old geezer and all the money in the world isn't worth having to blow him every night.

[Knobrm]

Seems same tend to apply to freelancers. Have also tested with few of those I liked, with similar results. Works for few days, few weeks with some, but at the end the combination of friends, party, opportunity to try different dick as they wish, and money just pulls them back like a magnet. Easy to get a girl out of a bar / club, but not the bar / club out of girl holds.

Funnily enough lately had a case with a non-working girl with similar results. Even if I felt we were quite good together, dad to give up as she had to go party and eat with friends so that not really spend time with me much at all. Prime example of a case where going with a non-working 'normal' girl ended up spending more per pop than with a working one so had to stop as did not make business sense. She was kind of a good girl, and I made it clear to her if she stayed with me living normal life, she would not need to worry about money, and yet she could not help. Go figure.

Maybe just had bad luck, and wondering how the many guys who actually have pulled a girl out to 'normal life' worked it out.

So true in my opinion. Now of course, our views are moulded by those girls we know in the P4 P industry. Mine is based on close relationships with 4-5 girls over several years. They absolutely love the "party" and can not imagine a life without their friends and Thai food. I have offered them quite good deals, a lifestyle were the would be financially covered, either living in Thailand or farangland. But they declined. I treat them well. They tell me they love me. We have great time togehter. But after a while the pull from their party life and friends just suck them back. That is why hardened bargirls do not make good life partners in most cases. Let them carry on and enjoy them within the 3-day rule. It's just how it is in Thailand.

[Horatio]

Can you link something? Thanks.

If you all missing Thailand. May I recommend a Korea guy's you tube channel.

He actually interacts with Pretty Thai girls.

He just did a livestream from somewhere in Thailand. Look like Gentlemen Club or Soapy Massage Parlor.

Girl companion was attractive and could read and speak English.

Per his two vid I perused he isn't interested in Soi 6 quality bargirls. LOL.

[Danny Duck]

If you all missing Thailand. May I recommend a Korea guy's you tube channel.

He actually interacts with Pretty Thai girls.

He just did a livestream from somewhere in Thailand. Look like Gentlemen Club or Soapy Massage Parlor.

Girl companion was attractive and could read and speak English.

Per his two vid I perused he isn't interested in Soi 6 quality bargirls. LOL.

[Crazy4Thai]

Pretty soon they will be pushing a cart containing all the Thai food they can stand.

I wish there was a like button.

It happens all too fast. One minute I was "Hansum Man" and the next I was "Papaa". WTF.

[EihTooms]

From my investigations most Girls report getting naked with old fat smelly strangers is the Worst part of their job.

They do understand it's part of the GIG. LOL.

It isn't surprising that the part where they actually have to do something for the money that requires some effort is considered by them to be the "worst" part of their day.

Probably the same with Thai restaurant servers and mall shop clerks, but for a lot less money. 😁

[Mr Enternational]

They absolutely love the "party" and can not imagine a life without their friends and Thai food. I have offered them quite good deals, a lifestyle were the would be financially covered, either living in Thailand or farangland. But they declined.

Pretty soon they will be pushing a cart containing all the Thai food they can stand.

[Danny Duck]

The lifestyle of many sexual partners is addictive for everyone involved in the scene.

From my investigations most Girls report getting naked with old fat smelly strangers is the Worst part of their job.

They do understand it's part of the GIG. LOL.

[Aviator12]

So true in my opinion. Now of course, our views are moulded by those girls we know in the P4 P industry. Mine is based on close relationships with 4-5 girls over several years. They absolutely love the "party" and can not imagine a life without their friends and Thai food. I have offered them quite good deals, a lifestyle were the would be financially covered, either living in Thailand or farangland. But they declined. I treat them well. They tell me they love me. We have great time togehter. But after a while the pull from their party life and friends just suck them back. That is why hardened bargirls do not make good life partners in most cases. Let them carry on and enjoy them within the 3-day rule. It's just how it is in Thailand.

Talking about Thai bargirls here, I would say for the majority of them, perhaps even the vast majority of them, the pull for them to get shit-faced drunk and fuck different men every day and night is much stronger than the idea of being supported by and sexually exclusive to any one nice White Knight guy hoping for a girlfriend.

Oh, they will talk a good game about hating their chosen career and praying to be saved from having to endure it any longer. But I have offered and even tried to help at least 3 girls with financial support in this way over the past few years, including during these supposed dire economic conditions (guaranteed 8,000 - 10,000 baht per week) and not one of them lasted more than a single week before cycling back to "go to bar with my friends."

Yep, even just marginally above average looking bargirls over the age of 30, not even talking about 21 year old "party girls."

They love the P4P way of making money and most definitely do not want to be anyone's financially supported "girlfriend" no matter how much they make a case for wanting to be yours. Some exceptions, I assume. But neither my long term expat friends nor I have ever experienced or observed one.

[SinfullyKorean]

Nothing changes. What you call changes are the unsupported proposals floated by some media (chiefly by "The Thaiger"). When I google news about Thailand these days I append "-Thaiger" to my search in order to avoid getting distracted by those assholes' BS.

The updated quarantine restriction (no quarantine in sandbox regions) was reported on foxnews:

https://www.foxnews.com/travel/vacci...rantine-phuket

[Turgid]

I don't think most of us would be able to enter the Kingdom of Thailand before the end of the year.

Even 2022 might be a hard task for most.

I'm eagerly looking forward to my 2024 visit.