Pattaya Reports

[Mr Enternational]

And there is plenty you can do to persuade the lady, once she is in your room.

And the chances of this are less than 1%. If a chick has been through hundreds of guys and never done anal, a short time punter is not going to persuade her to do anal all of a sudden after getting to the room. As has been said before, if you are looking for something other than straight sex, then you need to make it known and come to an agreement beforehand.

[FL Hawk]

Thanks to Dive Monger, Aggie and USexpat regarding my Chinese girl. I certainly won't push anything. That is not my style. She did tell me that she wants to find someone who is nice and will treat her with respect. I replied that I was nice and respectful, but she replied with "You are a good friend"! Haha I may be in the friend zone but, being about 35 years older than her, that is ok. I will go see her hoping for awesome sex by the end but expecting only to spend some touristy time with a super cute tour guide who will be sleeping 4 feet away from me. I have wanted to visit China anyway, and having a cute native girl half my age is a great way to do it! If I can be the exotic one who is viewed as a catch, then ok! Haha But not sure how true that is in the large, international cities. But it would help to partially answer the question of why his young, pretty woman is so willing to hang out with me.

But, my apologies for discussing this upcoming visit on a Pattaya forum. I will move it over to a Chinese board as necessary, but any resulting trip report from May will be announced here.

[Dan7373]

Definitely ask her upfront, before agreeing to take her.

Even among the girls who would accept anal, it's not part of the standard package, most would rather avoid it if they could. Once she's in your room, she has very little incentive to accept. So, don't be shy, ask upfront, before you agree to go with her. If she's not shy to ask discuss money, you shouldn't be shy to discuss what she needs to deliver to earn it. Pattaya girls have heard it all before.

I think anal sex is often an iffy kind of thing, even for Thai ladies who do it. They say maybe they will have anal sex with you, if your cock isn't too big. And of course, they don't know how big your cock is, until they see your full erection in the private room with you.

I think a lot fewer ladies will say 'yes' to you, when you ask them upfront. If you want to get that iffy lady, whose nice ass you really like, then you need to show her that you are a gentle guy and you won't hurt her. Because it's not really about the size of your cock. It's about how you do it.

And there is plenty you can do to persuade the lady, once she is in your room.

The first thing you need to do is persuade her that you won't hurt her ass with your cock. So, don't just ask her for anal, especially when she is concerned about the size of your cock. Ask her for cowgirl anal. In cowgirl anal, you lie on your back, and the lady takes your cock with her ass cowgirl style. The lady is on top. She controls the action. So, she feels a lot more secure and sure that nothing bad will happen to her.

Cowgirl anal is the position to start from, when the lady isn't sure about having anal sex with you. Because the girl is in control. You only provide your cock for her. She does the rest. And once the lady gets her ass going in a cowgirl anal ride with you, then you can start thrusting your cock inside her ass from below and eventually change your sex-position with her and do it doggy or some other position. And of course, you need to pay attention to the lady and stop if she asks you to. Because for you it might be pleasure, but for her it might be pain. And pain is often a sign of injury. That's why you need to stop.

And another thing you can do to persuade the lady in your room is offer her more money for anal-sex, than she normally gets for pussy-sex.

More money and cowgirl-anal to start with. This is the way to improve your chances with iffy ladies, who have anal sex only sometimes with some guys.

[Mr Enternational]

Have visited Pattaya twice but never tried anal sex though. I know this topic is already discussed but couldn't find those posts. Wanted to know how you guys approach ladies for anal sex. Do you ask her right on her face or do you deal with her once she is in your room.

You better ask before you take her. Just say I want to fuck your ass. She will say ok or say you can not fuck her ass or tell you to get ladyboy. Then depending on where your are (bar, street, wherever) ask her to show you a LADY that can fuck ass. Simple.

[MeatMan]

Folks,

Have visited Pattaya twice but never tried anal sex though. I know this topic is already discussed but couldn't find those posts. Wanted to know how you guys approach ladies for anal sex. Do you ask her right on her face or do you deal with her once she is in your room. Thanks in advance folks. Keep Banging safe. Cheers.

I generally start off saying: "I'm looking for a lady that does everything". Most girls will get the message. If they don't get it, just cut right to the chase and ask.

[Crocodilexp]

Wanted to know how you guys approach ladies for anal sex. Do you ask her right on her face or do you deal with her once she is in your room.

Definitely ask her upfront, before agreeing to take her.

Even among the girls who would accept anal, it's not part of the standard package, most would rather avoid it if they could. Once she's in your room, she has very little incentive to accept. So, don't be shy, ask upfront, before you agree to go with her. If she's not shy to ask discuss money, you shouldn't be shy to discuss what she needs to deliver to earn it. Pattaya girls have heard it all before.

[Dive Monger]

I have worked off and on in China for years and have traveled around China with several different Chinese female "friends". My advice is that you will enjoy the trip and have a good time and there is a good chance you will have sex if you treat her nice. Chinese women like to travel with foreign men because we stay in nicer places than Chinese normally stay at, and we are usually 1000% better behaved than Chinese men. So if you treat her nice don't be surprised if in a couple of days you are sharing the same bed. Just don't expect sex the first couple of nights. One thing you should be aware of is that the concept of leisurely travel is foreign to the Chinese, they are used to a schedule where they cram a lot of activities into a single day. SP be prepared and have fun.

FL Hawk,

I have traveled quite a bit in China, and have to 100% agree with the points made by Aggie and USexpat. These have also been my experiences. Don't push it, and be prepared for what might be a somewhat exhausting schedule. Do a little research and suggest some places you would like to visit, better if you can surreptitiously find out what she really likes and play a bit dumb in requesting that as well LOL You know the game! Have a great time. I vastly prefer what you will be doing to my normal mongering, but I do not have the significantly larger amount of time required to be put in for good outcomes. China is an amazing place, and once you get to places that are less frequented by laowei you will find that you are quite the center of attention (she will also be respected by having 'snagged' a foreign gentleman, especially an older one; the thing I like best about China is that they have respect and what appears to be real preference for us older guys. I am also in my mid-60's).

So enjoy and have a great time. Let us know here what went down.

[AggieDad1]

And. 4 or 5 years ago I met a pretty mainland Chinese girl on a cruise. She was employed by the cruise line so no possibility of anything sexual, but I thought she was really cute and I got to talk to her a couple times and I left her my email. To my surprise, she wrote me back and we met off ship one time for about a hour or so before she started on Asian cruises. This girl is about 35 years younger than me! (Am I insane? We have continued, sporadically, to text each other and she said it would be her honor to show me around China if I was ever there when she had time off. Why she offered that I have no idea. Just being friendly, not thinking I would take her up on the offer? Well, I mentioned I had been to Phuket, a port she has visited often, and she repeated her offer to me just last year. So, this year, I have taken her up on the offer and we have planned to meet in China in May and travel a bit! I keep thinking she will back down, but so far it is a go! This is a girl who, while not beautiful, has that girl next door, nerdy, slender look that I find hot! Haha But I see no hints from her that there will be anything sexual involved but. Why would a girl under 30 want to travel in her home country with a man at least 35 years older that her with her not wondering if the guy will be demanding sex?? Are her motives pure and innocent, or is the hoping to get "something" out of me? This question has been bugging me. I would be ok if she hit me up for pay to play, as I would love to play with her! But when I asked her what expectation she had from me, she said she had none. She said she liked to travel on her time off and if not with me it would be with some other man, or woman. So, I don't know. As with the Thai girl, I am willing to see what happens. Worst case I should get a nice tour with a local girl, best case I will find heaven on Earth.

I have worked off and on in China for years and have traveled around China with several different Chinese female "friends". My advice is that you will enjoy the trip and have a good time and there is a good chance you will have sex if you treat her nice. Chinese women like to travel with foreign men because we stay in nicer places than Chinese normally stay at, and we are usually 1000% better behaved than Chinese men. So if you treat her nice don't be surprised if in a couple of days you are sharing the same bed. Just don't expect sex the first couple of nights. One thing you should be aware of is that the concept of leisurely travel is foreign to the Chinese, they are used to a schedule where they cram a lot of activities into a single day. SP be prepared and have fun.

[USExpat]

I lived in China for six years. Consider yourself very fortunate to have the invitation to travel with a local within China. It will be a totally different experience from being on your own or going with a tour. Chinese consider it an honor to show Laowai their country. And Chinese women in general are far more conservative than Thais or women in many other cultures. Maybe you'll get lucky, but just enjoy the experience for whatever it turns out to be. You're exotic to a Chinese and a new experience for them. I had that a lot, somethings with benefits, sometimes not. Always worth the experience. Like many other places in Asia, age doesn't mean a thing to these folks.

[Gargamon]

I ran across an "outcall massage" service on the internet offering oil massage 600 bt / 60 min, 900 bt / 90 min, 1100 bt / 120 min by attractive young spinners, as per the pictures which they sent along. Anyone have experience / comment and anyone know of the expected fees for extras for such outfits?

I enjoy an outcall to my hotel in the morning and thought this may be a valid process if not a 'bait and switch'. Look forward to feedback, cheers.

I tried one of these the other day. The girl they sent was not the one I requested, at least she didn't match the picture. She wanted 2 k extra for full service. I sent her on her way with nothing after conversing with the mamasan on the phone. For that price you might as well pay a barfine. At least you get to see the merchandise before you order it.

[FL Hawk]

In one month from today I will be back in Pattaya for about 2-1/2 weeks of mongering fun. This will be my ninth trip since my first visit here in 2015. Typically, I have been spending 14 to 17 days in Pattaya, then I meet up with my Thai GF in Bangkok (who knows nothing of my mongering) for ten to 14 days before I return home. I met the girl on Thai Cupid back around 2012 or so. She is 20 years younger than me (I am mid 60's) and claimed to be a virgin. She has been everything she ever claimed to be, and her virginity took me several years of hard work to take away from her. It was not fun, but I expected to be rewarded by intense pleasure once I broke in. Unfortunately, that has not the case, and though she loves to have sex and do sexual things with me, the actual intercourse is not pleasurable and it takes a ton of effort from me to come even two or three times in the two weeks I am with her! With a bar girl I trust (call me stupid) who I will do BB with, I can bring myself to orgasm in 20 to 30 seconds as the feelings, compared to covered sex, are so intense. I only do BB with the GF, but for whatever reason, the wondrous feelings are not there. Last time I couldn't come for a whole week with her, and I was exhausted when I finally did manage to orgasm. It is crazy and I don't understand exactly why. Maybe the same issues that made it so difficult to enter her originally has something to do with it. Even after a few dozen times, she remains tight and she says entering her is still uncomfortable. I wish I could explain it due to my massive size, but alas, I am almost exactly average for a white dude. She has even seen an GYN several times and the doc says all is fine. I really like the girl and I can see myself considering marriage, but I want her to visit the US first and, as we know, it can be difficult for Thai women. Even legit women who were virgins when they turned 40 - to get a visa. In my opinion she has stalled a bit on this, but finally seems to be moving forward and, at the first of the year, she was hoping to be able to come here this spring. I don't think she is deliberately delaying. She has family who wanted to visit the US this April and she was going to apply with them, but they backed out until next year, though she said she would continue with the application. I have not heard if she has, and I have not asked, but it appears she will be too late. I do not want her coming here after April as our touristy places get packed and standing in line in the sun and crowds is not fun.

But. I had told her it was HER turn to come to me, and she agreed. Since by this point I have seen no positive indication she will come this spring, I decided to continue with my semi-annual LOS plans, except that I won't tell her.

Soooo, what will I do differently on this trip? Well, there are two additional women who have come into play. One I may have mentioned here a long time ago is a woman I also met on Thai Cupid back circa 2013, who is also a legit Thai woman, maybe 24 year younger than me, but who is a legit pharmacy tech. She has had a bad history with Thai men and mostly gave men up, not having sex for many years. We have been sort of like pen pals and over the years she has put up with a lot of sexual joking and propositions from me. She takes it from me and chalks it up to me simply being a man, but on rare occasional she will come back with some sexy stuff. I think she is getting lonely for a man and I think the time is ripe for me to finally meet her. I asked if she would meet me and she said yes. I asked if she would stay in my hotel with me as I would only have a weekend with her, and she said yes but that there would be no sex. Fine. I think, though, that in the same bed she might give in to some extent if I play it right. It might only be a HJ or BJ, but even if nothing, I will be ok as I will have just arrived from Pattaya. My main concern is that I will find her unattractive. She is a tiny girl and though she looks ok in most of her pictures, there is one that makes her to appear like an old Asian lady from the country. But that will be ok. She is super nice and caring and I do enjoy texting her, and I don't want to hurt her or make her think I am ready to marry her. 48 to 60 hours with her will be doable regardless.

And. 4 or 5 years ago I met a pretty mainland Chinese girl on a cruise. She was employed by the cruise line so no possibility of anything sexual, but I thought she was really cute and I got to talk to her a couple times and I left her my email. To my surprise, she wrote me back and we met off ship one time for about a hour or so before she started on Asian cruises. This girl is about 35 years younger than me! (Am I insane? We have continued, sporadically, to text each other and she said it would be her honor to show me around China if I was ever there when she had time off. Why she offered that I have no idea. Just being friendly, not thinking I would take her up on the offer? Well, I mentioned I had been to Phuket, a port she has visited often, and she repeated her offer to me just last year. So, this year, I have taken her up on the offer and we have planned to meet in China in May and travel a bit! I keep thinking she will back down, but so far it is a go! This is a girl who, while not beautiful, has that girl next door, nerdy, slender look that I find hot! Haha But I see no hints from her that there will be anything sexual involved but. Why would a girl under 30 want to travel in her home country with a man at least 35 years older that her with her not wondering if the guy will be demanding sex?? Are her motives pure and innocent, or is the hoping to get "something" out of me? This question has been bugging me. I would be ok if she hit me up for pay to play, as I would love to play with her! But when I asked her what expectation she had from me, she said she had none. She said she liked to travel on her time off and if not with me it would be with some other man, or woman. So, I don't know. As with the Thai girl, I am willing to see what happens. Worst case I should get a nice tour with a local girl, best case I will find heaven on Earth.

Sooooo, unless the Thai GF surprises me with a visa, I should have fun times in Pattaya (with some blue days tossed in in), have a chance to meet a friend for possibly some GFE, then my first trip to China to see a sweet young thing I met on a cruise who I have lusted after for a few years and thought was lost to me by age and distance. Who knows what may happen with her, though I would not be too surprised if she cancels.

Interesting times are approaching.

[JohnyJo]

A funny movie from Pattaya, how one Chinese man, was drunk and gave a lot of money to the freelancers girls in the Club. Friends try to stop him. Also a lot of "coyote" walking around. https://youtu.be/W17cM7401ZA.

[Turgid]

Yep, exactly Steve. I am from North America, and I have no desire for any of that physical type (which are mostly descended from Northern European and Nordic stock). Petite asians and latinas pretty much only.

I knew this guy back in the day, he's Caucasian, he won't touch a non-Caucasian, he just does not like them. He'd only bed Caucasian women. He's good looking and I tried to get him interested in a beautiful American mulatta who'd rejected me. He wanted nothing to do with her. It takes all types, woof woof.

[Lobowmc]

I was walking down Soi Lengkee last night and saw a sign that said Nuru Massage so I walked over. There were chicks outside and one rushed over to me while another ran inside and got a pamphlet. They told me that they offer body to body massage for 1500 baht 45 minutes. I told them that I wanted to know about the Nuru. They said Nuru is the 1500 baht deal. They kept trying to get me to take 2 chicks. There was a chick without a uniform on who was the most attractive. They told me that she was also part of the selection. There were prices on the door of normal massages, but they blocked it with their body and told me not to pay attention to that. Either that is left from the last shop, or it is part of their front. I didn't ask if fucking was included, but for 1500 baht and the "body to body" description, I am pretty sure it is.

I was there last month. Nuru is done on a bed using a hot oil. Lady gives you a standing shower. You then lie face down on bed. Nice normal massage at first with hot oil. Eventually full body nuru sliding on my back. On the flip more body to body and BBBJ. No FS. That's the rule. I tried. My therapists Ann has a nice body for nuru. Good P to P action. She got me off and I left happy and exhausted. Had a great time. Went back again the next day.

[Dive Monger]

Certainly not the case for me. I am northern Euro stock and they are my least favorite women. Give me a petite Viet or a nice Latina any day. And Ro-girls that run to the darker shades work just fine as well! But no Nordic babes for me please.

Yep, exactly Steve. I am from North America, and I have no desire for any of that physical type (which are mostly descended from Northern European and Nordic stock). Petite asians and latinas pretty much only.