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08-14-19 23:59 #28454
Posts: 542Originally Posted by Linyjo [View Original Post]
In general, you are quite correct and you offer great advice on the subject. But, the responses I predict for Secret as being a typical BG are rarely even slightly accurate. A number of times I have predicted that she was about to ask for something or do something a BG would likely do, but she doesn't. She mostly has been acting like a normal woman who is depressed and unsure, who desperately wants to be loved but doesn't believe it will happen and who is doing something she finds repugnant and had never thought she would end up doing, so she holds back, and is afraid to open up. When she had to face remaining a BG for longer than what she was prepared to handle, facing men who degrade her, make fun of her, use use for fun and laughs, well, it finally made her so depressed she didn't want to talk to anyone about it. When you think you are bad, you tend to draw away from those you think good so you can stop thinking about how bad you think you are. I try to help her out here, reminding she is not bad, as she is trying to help her family.
She is starting to open up a bit more. I will be over there in 4 to 5 days but she has asked me nothing lately about me coming over. She did say she missed me finally, but it was "Miss you", not "When are you coming here to see me?! I miss you so much but you are ignoring me! Why? You find another girl?" That is BG talk! Secret never has been like that.
Anyway, the key thoughts are that we need to be careful. I am keeping a pretty good head on my shoulders here and not going off the deep end. If she stays a BG much longer I could see her staring to wonder why I am not doing more financially for her. I can understand a girl who is dying at her job wondering why her "rich" BF isn't helping her out much. Well, God lets us go through bad stuff and he doesn't help us much, but we hope he can at least give us comfort in our suffering and hope, eventually, for a better life. Which is what she is wanting for her and her family.
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08-14-19 20:43 #28453
Posts: 15926Originally Posted by HectorG [View Original Post]
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08-14-19 20:04 #28452
Posts: 342Gentlemen's Clubs
Originally Posted by BambooPete [View Original Post]
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08-13-19 16:29 #28451
Posts: 141Happy A Go Go and Windmill
Made recently a visit to these clubs. In Happy, they were blocking Indian guys at the door, a doorman had a sign saying 200 (or 2. 000) baht to enter, the other two were just blocking a group of guys (a very old Black Guy not good looking was also blocked), because its in the end of an alley they have time to decide what to do. I am Caucasian and was allowed to enter without delays, inside there were mainly Japanese, in a ratio to Caucasians around 15/1, so I wonder if sooner or later this will be just a Japanese Go Go.
In terms of the place it was very expanded since last year, some external bier bars disappeared to make way to a bigger structure now with 3 stages, it was not full but still a large attendance. In terms of girls, there were definitly some lookers, it was an welcomed view after a beach road walk where 95 % of the Women were in the zone 3-4. Girls were not pushy for Lady drinks something is always a plus in my opinion. During my stay there was a Special show with some nude dancing from good looking girls, drinks were 145 Baht. I enjoyed my stay, it will be on my list of future visits.
Now Windmill, I left with mixed feelings. No doubt its the most naughty place in town for nudity and interaction with the girls, many years ago Whats Up also had this kind of environment but I never saw nothing like Windmill. The very big downside was the terrible look of many of the girls, unbelivable. When I left I could not understand how they could put many of those women on a stage, its not their fault but the management, I think the ones who went there recently will understand what I am saying. There were some nice girls, but the terrible ones shouldn't be on that job. Drinks were 140 Baht.
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08-13-19 06:34 #28450
Posts: 170Originally Posted by FLHawk [View Original Post]
None of this means she doesn't like you, I would guess she probably does. You are kind to her and treat her better than most guys she runs into. You are attentive and communicate with her which helps her not feel so lonely and empty when you are gone. She is a girl and she wants to feel emotions and be in love just like you do, so you both are playing the game, just on different terms.
I have some similar experiences as you are having.
The communication cycle is normal. At first you text everyday, all the time. But after a while that becomes a bit boring and you start to get busy with the real life in front of you instead of the fantasy and memories you left behind. So a few mornings you don't send a message early, you don't send the typical "good morning, have a great day, thinking about you" text. By afternoon you get the, "Why are you ignoring me", "have you forgotten me already" or the passive aggressive "contact me after your friend from last night leaves". To avoid problems you make sure you say good morning every day and then the fun turns into a chore. You start feeling like this is more work than it is fun.
The messages start drying up and life is busy and a few days go by. You try to keep it alive every few days with a "thinking of you" or just reducing it to sending some kissing emoji's and some smile faces. The texts stop for a while.
Then you plan another trip and revive the messages. Tell her you miss her and you coming to see her. The messages will pick back up as your now back in play. Things will go back to "normal" and soon you be back on track and sitting on a plane licking your lips thinking about your secret is waiting for you to arrive.
Do not doubt that she likes you, I am sure she does. But don't be a tool, be real and keep in mind that at the end of the day, it's all fun and games for both of you. The emotions and the I love you's make the time together more fun and satisfying for both of you. Keep that alive and keep on keeping on. Just be sure to also keep your head on your shoulders and your feet on the ground.
She loves you when you there but thinking she loves you when your gone, can be a fatal fantasy for a man searching for love in all the wrong places.
XOXOXO.
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08-13-19 04:58 #28449
Posts: 105Originally Posted by ChristianG [View Original Post]
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08-12-19 21:16 #28448
Posts: 1579Originally Posted by BambooPete [View Original Post]
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08-12-19 20:14 #28447
Posts: 15926Originally Posted by Falcon95 [View Original Post]
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08-12-19 19:55 #28446
Posts: 936Originally Posted by BambooPete [View Original Post]
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08-12-19 15:22 #28445
Posts: 105Gentleman Clubs
I will be in Pattaya again next month and I want to try a typical gentleman club this time (I tried Excite Club and the Full Love Inn clubs, but never the ones where you have to ring or which have a swimming pool).
I found a list with all clubs in Pattaya Gentleman Clubs thread from World Travel 69 and placed my questions in that thread but there is no more post since 2017 and I won't get an answer probably. Maybe someone here can help:
Which are the most popular Gentleman's clubs now? Is Heaven Club still open and still good?
I have read before that prices are like Soi 6. Is this still the case?
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08-12-19 00:15 #28444
Posts: 118Is this in chronological order?
Originally Posted by MrEnternational [View Original Post]
In order to upload the pics in the order that you want, you need to choose file and press add file 5 separate times.
I'm guessing you pressed add file only once for all 5 pics.
You need to add each picture separately.
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08-11-19 22:22 #28443
Posts: 15926Originally Posted by FLHawk [View Original Post]
Hit me up when you get into town.
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08-11-19 18:20 #28442
Posts: 542Originally Posted by Falcon95 [View Original Post]
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08-11-19 12:34 #28441
Posts: 9I did a trip to connecting Tijuana-Tokyo-Pattaya. Pattaya wins by a far margin. The way Honey 2 Body massage has their ladies line up on velvet stairs with lights is a sight to see alone.
Picked up a girl by the name of fine. She had me the moment she made eye contact along with a bright smile. Nice smooth skin, no tattoos, man made's with no scars, and smelled cleaned inside out. Got a nice shower on the inflatable mat. Complete GFE for only 3 k baht, good deal. Only 1 shot but she offered another for 1 k baht. Still beats paying $400 for the same exact experience in Japan.
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08-11-19 12:16 #28440
Posts: 15Conflicted, eh?
Think about what you want out of this. You don't want to live in Thailand. You don't think she wants to live in the States. You've already got a Thai GF you're thinking of marrying and you intend to keep fucking around as a monger. Some catch you'd be. These girls are people, doing the best they can. Doing something for the family is paramount in Thai culture, notwithstanding that many families are in fact pimping out their daughters for spending money.
What you might do is be a friend. You're thirty years older and she apparently likes you. Why penalize the girl as she tries to sort things out. You can still be there to listen to her, treating her decently as a human being no matter what she does for a living. You can play a supportive role in her life. At least for a while, if you can suppress your ego and not play "she has to message me first" games. A lot of of her young life is facade. All fake. She has enough pressure and if you connected with her in an honest, supportive way, why stop? Thirty years older -- do the decent thing and give her a non-judgmental shoulder to lean on and an ear. No pressure. Just be there if she needs you. Be the exception in her life, someone who she can trust, at least for a while. That's not a bad legacy for an old guy.
Or you can be remembered as just another old farang creep, only interested in keeping his dick wet.
Good luck.