Pattaya Reports

[MarcoStraight]

I am close to being your so-called "ego fucker".

No you're not. You are just a normal monger like me, trying to have fun in a disco sometime instead of going for go-go's, bars, soapies, massages, etc. Etc.

I really do not understand why so many gentlemen in this forum feel so "touched" by my last reports.

Does anyone here recognize himself in the group of people I was talking about in one of my previous post:

..Full of wannabe playboys on their 40's with fancy dress, greasy hair and funny tattoes trying to impress girls.

Are you one of them FL Hawk?

[Kumbu]

I am close to being your so-called "ego fucker"

As always, FL Hawk, your posts are a breath of fresh air in what is otherwise a sea of ennui.

I will be in Pats in 8 weeks.

Excellent news. I'm always looking for when the prime posters will be visiting, and I will circle my calendar for your visit. I won't be there, but I will be reading with great interest.

[Mr Enternational]

A hooker, most likely. Leaves the disco with me. Even so, they are not bar girls and thus are more likely to ignore you, so you need to do a little talking and flirting to get them. You have to work at it a bit and you might go home empty.

No you don't. All you have to do is mention money. How many times have I said that all you have to do in the disco is walk up to them and say let's go? After that they will either follow behind you, ask how much you give me, or say I want to party with my friends. In case of the last response just move on to the next one.

[Carpaccio18]

So, yeah, I have been wanting to conquer the disco scene to some extent and to live out some of what I missed when younger. I am under no illusion I have any reason to feel proud or that my ego is being raised if a girl. A hooker, most likely. Leaves the disco with me. Even so, they are not bar girls and thus are more likely to ignore you, so you need to do a little talking and flirting to get them. You have to work at it a bit and you might go home empty. That appeals to the male instinct. The thrill of the hunt. And that can be fun (or devastating), even though the odds are a little higher in Pats than back home that you will leave with a girl. So yes, it can be a fantasy, and if guys want to engage in this fantasy, why not?

I mean, we come to Pattaya to fulfill fantasies. They may be to have sex with two girls at once, sex with beautiful spinners, sex with 3 or 4 girls per day, sex with whatever and whomever. Fantasies that we can't, or can't easily, have back home. The fantasy of picking up a hot chick in a disco is no different than the other fantasies. Any ego gained by being able to realize a disco pickup fantasy is really no different than any ego or bragging rights gained by having those other fantasies realized, right? I mean, I am not less pathetic for being unable to pick up a girl in a disco in my youth and now try in Pattaya to experience that thrill than is a guy who was unable to have sex with 3 different women every day for many days back home, and comes to Pattaya to experience that thrill, right? Well, maybe, maybe not.

I have not devoted a lot of time to this fantasy, as I still hate smoke, super loud music, dancing when you can barely move, etc. , and still a bit terrified to approach a table of ladies, even if hookers but who are 35 years younger and looking for someone else and thus ignoring me, but the few times I was successful was enjoyable.

An honest post, Hawk, respect to that and every bit as much a valid desire as the ones involving GB with a female beach volley team. Go for it.

[FL Hawk]

Yes my friend, you're right. I think they have a sort of inferiority complex, most of them are mentally disturbed who have never known a normal woman in their own country, even at young age. They need to have that kind of feeling to catch the girl in the disco. Dancing with her, paying drinks, chatting to impress her. Dosen't matter if it going to cost them more and more, the main thing is not to be associated with the typical sex tourist, like I guess, they think the rest of us are. Very pathetic.

I called them "ego fuckers".

Funny thing is that girls are very skilled to recognize this typology of customer, and then more and more bulls.

I am close to being your so-called "ego fucker". I got a few girls back when, but was a big failure in discos, and this was in the age of Donna Summers! I was shy, didn't care for dancing nor drinking, hated smoke, and loud music literally made my ears distort. I can get girls on my own as I am now financially well off and look better than most women anywhere near my age group, but don't really enjoy the dating process since I don't like to drink all that much, don't like dancing, don't like fancy dinners, despise dressing up, etc etc, you know, all the things women like to do!

So, yeah, I have been wanting to conquer the disco scene to some extent and to live out some of what I missed when younger. I am under no illusion I have any reason to feel proud or that my ego is being raised if a girl. A hooker, most likely. Leaves the disco with me. Even so, they are not bar girls and thus are more likely to ignore you, so you need to do a little talking and flirting to get them. You have to work at it a bit and you might go home empty. That appeals to the male instinct. The thrill of the hunt. And that can be fun (or devastating), even though the odds are a little higher in Pats than back home that you will leave with a girl. So yes, it can be a fantasy, and if guys want to engage in this fantasy, why not?

I mean, we come to Pattaya to fulfill fantasies. They may be to have sex with two girls at once, sex with beautiful spinners, sex with 3 or 4 girls per day, sex with whatever and whomever. Fantasies that we can't, or can't easily, have back home. The fantasy of picking up a hot chick in a disco is no different than the other fantasies. Any ego gained by being able to realize a disco pickup fantasy is really no different than any ego or bragging rights gained by having those other fantasies realized, right? I mean, I am not less pathetic for being unable to pick up a girl in a disco in my youth and now try in Pattaya to experience that thrill than is a guy who was unable to have sex with 3 different women every day for many days back home, and comes to Pattaya to experience that thrill, right? Well, maybe, maybe not.

I have not devoted a lot of time to this fantasy, as I still hate smoke, super loud music, dancing when you can barely move, etc. , and still a bit terrified to approach a table of ladies, even if hookers but who are 35 years younger and looking for someone else and thus ignoring me, but the few times I was successful was enjoyable.

I will be in Pats in 8 weeks. Should anyone want to join me in a disco, let me know. In previous visits I didn't want to "waste" too much time in discos, as I could go to a gogo for a sure thing. But I am mostly over the quest for quantity now, and would like to explore this thrill of the hunt a bit more. Pathetic? Ego-fucker? Maybe, whatever, I don't care. Mostly likely, I will go in, walk once or twice around the place, then leave and go to a gogo or take a walk on BR.

[CRamsey]

Hi everyone,

I'm a european guy thinking to rent a condo for a month or may be two, I'd like to know if I should keep in mind something with the contract or the electrical expenses for not to be scamed, for example, they ask a month deposit and I wouldn't like when I leave it they don't give me the refund.

On the other hand I've read some guys prefer not take girls to his hotel instead of that they prefer rent a room for hours, and that's why I'm wondering if could there be some kind of problem taking girls to your place.

Any advice will be welcome.

Regards.

[Pipe Layer99]

Pictures of my girls last stay in Pattaya, of course, without these what he did for a short time.

Nice looking ladies. Love the hips on the one in the white / black dress. Great find. Even in low season some real pretty ones around.

[MarcoStraight]

Marco, who hurt you, and can we talk about it?

Do you feel "closely touched" about my previous post? Are you an ego fucker or someone who never get a regular girl in his entire life?

[ParkVille]

Marco, who hurt you, and can we talk about it?

[MarcoStraight]

Yup, there are some real players there, in their own minds. Thing is they pay at the end of the date same as us older guys. Stars in the the League.

Yes my friend, you're right. I think they have a sort of inferiority complex, most of them are mentally disturbed who have never known a normal woman in their own country, even at young age. They need to have that kind of feeling to catch the girl in the disco. Dancing with her, paying drinks, chatting to impress her. Doesn't matter if it going to cost them more and more, the main thing is not to be associated with the typical sex tourist, like I guess, they think the rest of us are. Very pathetic.

I called them "ego fuckers".

Funny thing is that girls are very skilled to recognize this typology of customer, and then more and more bulls.

[IllusionHeart]

It's always fun to hang out with you, my friend. You are one of the most positive guys I know.

I am still thinking about the two sweet little we scored at Ibar your first night last month. Delicious.

I was about to give up because I thought my girl wasn't into me. You wisely counseled patience. And not only was she into me she was blowing up my Line with messages for the rest of the trip.

What a great night! And it was all made possible by your help.

Likewise UV, let's focus and spend our energy on things that give us pleasure and at a price that is sensible to us. As they say different strokes for different folks. Respecting that and moving on is what I always do.

I am returning in October and trust me there is nothing I would want to differently than what I did in August. Looking forward to having same kind of fun.

[Gin And Tonic]

Holy s* 3 to 5 ? Hanging around on walking street until 5 o'clock is really "heroic".

Ibar and Insomnia are both good for the youngsters, just like Marine Disco was it in the old days.



Both places are fully packed, can't even move inside. Full of wannabe playboys on their 40's with fancy dress, greasy hair and funny tattoes trying to impress girls.

Not my places.

Yup, there are some real players there, in their own minds. Thing is they pay at the end of the date same as us older guys. Stars in the the League.

[Uncle Volodya]

+1. Rightly said.

It's always fun to hang out with you, my friend. You are one of the most positive guys I know.

I am still thinking about the two sweet little we scored at Ibar your first night last month. Delicious.

I was about to give up because I thought my girl wasn't into me. You wisely counseled patience. And not only was she into me she was blowing up my Line with messages for the rest of the trip.

What a great night! And it was all made possible by your help.

[IllusionHeart]

Amen to that!

Unfortunately some people just can't do this. It is because of their own negative and morose attitude that they are unhappy -- not because of the shortcomings of the environment / venue around them. What's worse is that they envy other people's happiness and do everything they can to tear it down.

+1. Rightly said.

[Uncle Volodya]

Just be happy! And enjoy seeing others be happy !

Amen to that!

Unfortunately some people just can't do this. It is because of their own negative and morose attitude that they are unhappy -- not because of the shortcomings of the environment / venue around them. What's worse is that they envy other people's happiness and do everything they can to tear it down.