Pattaya Reports

[USExpat]

Guess I am confused. You said the teenage sister's leg was crushed but now the mom had kids over 30 years ago, which would mean they are now adults.

I've been confused since this epic started. Harder to figure out than Beowulf.

[Mr Enternational]

Her younger sister had been in a horrible auto accident. Her teenaged sister's leg was crushed and fractured into pieces and pieces. The mother can't provide care.

Um, would you blast your own mother for having had kids over 30 years ago if she became handicapped 5 years ago and was thereafter unable to continue to care for them any longer?

Guess I am confused. You said the teenage sister's leg was crushed but now the mom had kids over 30 years ago, which would mean they are now adults.

[FL Hawk]

So many gogo girls used to look like her. Remember the Baccara Pattaya lineup 4+ years ago? It was all Japanese JAV model types many looking as good as Ayu. What happened to girls like that? The Good Old Days of 1996!

My favorite JAV model now is Emi Fukada.

Again my friend, you show we have similar tastes. But alas, I am 89 and too old even for her. Haha.

[FL Hawk]

Accuse them of what? Most people have no plan or agreement or rules in place when they enter a relationship. So can they really accuse a person of being in violation of something they never explicitly agreed to?

I think you misunderstand what I was saying. I falsely accused her of going back to Pattaya to work in the bar. I displayed a prejudice against her. She had otherwise been quite honest with me and did not deserve for me to jump to such a false conclusion, made simply because she had been a BG in the past and because I fell for the stereotypical belief espoused by many here that once a BG always a BG and they can never be trusted. If there was a "violation", it was my display of outright and undeserved prejudice.

So what the fuck is the mother doing with kids if she can not provide care? What about the father? What about the father of the sister's 2 children? Is he going to help out his kids' aunt?

Um, would you blast your own mother for having had kids over 30 years ago if she became handicapped 5 years ago and was thereafter unable to continue to care for them any longer? That is essentially the situation here. She had 3 children from 2 husbands, the last one dying about 15 years ago. Hardly a baby making machine.

I will never in 1000 years understand how a foreigner finds himself in situations like this. It is like finding a foreigner is like finding a lucky charm in some countries. He will give us a breath of fresh air and handle all the problems.

Haha. Me neither! I may have a possible answer later of how it happens, not that it ever should.

I know he did. If I remember correctly he is way past minimum qualification for social security.

I don't yet quality for full benefits. Not that it is any of your business.

It matters.

In what way does it matter for me or Secret, or at least in a way that is any of your business?

If he is middle age it's even more cringe. A Thai barmaid with a kid and old mother to support? Come on man.

You seem to have a strong propensity for cringing at stuff that does not concern you. Let's see. If she did not have a kid to support, would that be ok for you? Or no mother but a kid, would you still cringe? How about if she was Thai but not a barmaid, is that personally acceptable to you. Or if she was Thai and was briefly a barmaid, but is out of the business, could you forgive that and not vomit when you see, her man, her kid and mother? Or, how about if she was a western woman with a kid and / or mother to support? Hmmm, I bet that is ok, as there are millions of them throughout the western world. How about if she is a Vietnamese barmaid with a mother and / or kid to support, would that cause you to cringe? I mean, is there something simply about the woman being Thai that sends you into convulsions? Or is it simply any young Asian women with a western middle-aged man that makes you want to point them out to the world for ridicule? And how would you even know if the woman is a barmaid or not? If you see a middle-aged man out with a younger Asian woman, perhaps with a kid in tow, will you go over to her and say "Can you tell me if you work in a bar so I can decide if I should be all cringy now?" Or will you simply cringe out whenever you see a middle-aged man with a younger Asian woman with or without a child in tow, just to make sure you have all your cringe-worthy bases covered? And of course, it the woman is western, you probably don't even notice. It is only Thai or Asians with middle-aged western men that upset you I assume. Opps, I mean any young Asian woman with ANY older western man. Wow.

I think it would be more productive for this forum if, rather than saying "It matters" followed by snarky comments of disdain and disgust, to finally tell us WHY it matters and WHY it makes you cringe and WHY you feel it is any business of yours.

I have said a number of times that there are three big unalterable things than can ruin this relationship I have / had; those being cultural differences, language problems and age. But you do not know Secret or her reasons for carrying on with me. You may think you know, but you barely have a clue. All you know is what I have written here, colored by your own obvious prejudices and biases, yet you dare to tell me that our relationship has caused you to cringe and compel you to resort to personal attacks and insults.

Feel free to point out the pitfalls of older man / younger woman relationships. That is a wide open topic which I have been addressing and I will participate in further.

[Franciscass]

I love to look movies with your JAV Star Emi Fukada! But my 2 favorites JAV Stars from Japan are Ayaka Tomoda and Yua Mikami. I met them both during a convention in Taipei and Tokyo.

It's just a pity these JAV Stars don't do escort!

Gee Gilolo I'm surprised with your game you didn't manage with either. I've had so called JAV models, they are available but you need to know some local Tokyo players to set it up.

And then it's silly prices (300 K yen up) and to be honest not the best shags by any means not value for money but when you watch the videos you can say hey I fucked her.

[Knobrm]

I beg to differ. A lot chicks have no idea how to use that location shit. Here you go thinking we are talking about brain surgeons again. Plenty of times I have had chicks on the way to see me and I send them my location then they get lost. I ask where they are and to send location and they have no idea how to do it and I have to go out and hunt for them. Then there are others that know how to send location for me to get to them but it is the totally wrong location. As far as them sending location in order to try to catch them in a lie, I could care less. When you catch them in a lie then what?

Concept of location and maps indeed are not the strong point of many, even sending clear Google map link over line many still can't find to my place and only a discussion with another Thai to explain will resolve it.

About year back met a chick who had 3 'boyfriends' in Europe and she was struggling to keep them all at control to ensure sponsorship continues. One of the guys, German I recall, was insisting her to send location at random times. I installed GPS emulator app to her phone and she continued to thank about it on several appointments as made her life easier. Said few other ladies thankful too as she showed to them how to manage the location sending issue 555. Just saw her couple weeks back and money still flowing she told. Is really amazing to hear how some guys are downright stupid.

[Banana Boi]

Was planning on 10 days, not 90 w / a mandatory 14 quarantine.

Even IF you were wiling to do a 14 day quarantine, entering is not an option for the general population unless you are from China and you have a boatload of cash to spend or invest in Thailand.

Safer to book for 2022 than 2021.

[YyzTravel]

How are you allowed to go to Thailand?

WOW! Had not seen the new entry requirements; I booked the ticket almost 5 months back. Good thing Delta is doing no-fee cancellation.

Looks like I will be pushing this trip out until things get back to normal entry wise there; Was planning on 10 days, not 90 w / a mandatory 14 quarantine.

[HorseTrader]

This culture they have kids because that is what they do, reproduce because that is what is expected since in general education wise they are done at 15 year old can't find a job so what is next have a kid. They think nothing of it it is like second nature and after a year majority the boys just take off when it gets tough many girls just go out a pick a new one. Coming and going is like second nature they thinking nothing of it the last thing is the child are the ones who are hurt the most but to Thais this is normal I've heard them say " they understand " how can a child understand the reason the tradition continues generation after generation.
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As I noted, the female is left to raise and take care of everyone...

What you wrote is consistent with my experience with Thai people from Isaan. I only know a few people from other parts of Thailand (Bangkok, Nakhon Si Thammarat, and Chiang Mai) and those few people seem to be a bit different.

Are your statements directed about the entire Thai culture or just a certain portion of it?

[Turgid]

USD dropping like a rock vs the Baht. It dipped under 31 baht yesterday. It's currently at 30.5342 baht and dropping. Per XE.com, the lowest it's been was 29.28 baht in April 2013.

US elections fiasco is shrinking the dollar worldwide.

[Java Man]

USD dropping like a rock vs the Baht. It dipped under 31 baht yesterday. It's currently at 30.5342 baht and dropping. Per XE.com, the lowest it's been was 29.28 baht in April 2013.

[Gilolo]

So many gogo girls used to look like her. Remember the Baccara Pattaya lineup 4+ years ago? It was all Japanese JAV model types many looking as good as Ayu. What happened to girls like that? The Good Old Days of 1996!

My favorite JAV model now is Emi Fukada.

I love to look movies with your JAV Star Emi Fukada! But my 2 favorites JAV Stars from Japan are Ayaka Tomoda and Yua Mikami. I met them both during a convention in Taipei and Tokyo.

It's just a pity these JAV Stars don't do escort!

[LittleBigMan]

Accuse them of what? Most people have no plan or agreement or rules in place when they enter a relationship. So can they really accuse a person of being in violation of something they never explicitly agreed to?

So what the fuck is the mother doing with kids if she can not provide care? What about the father? What about the father of the sister's 2 children? Is he going to help out his kids' aunt? I will never in 1000 years understand how a foreigner finds himself in situations like this. It is like finding a foreigner is like finding a lucky charm in some countries. He will give us a breath of fresh air and handle all the problems.

A nurse chick that I mess with in Colombia sent me a message this morning saying that her father died and asked for money to go to her hometown. She said she went to someone for a loan but they were out of town. (I am more than out of town; I am out of country.) It just strikes a nerve with me. Sure I stayed in her house last week. She has a nice place. At that time she had told me that work has not paid her in a while. Her sister who has a job (although hours are cut) stayed there. Her brother came over. She was talking to her mom on videocall. That is already 3 family members. They can not pool money or do not care enough to ask people they know or whatever for favors?

Years ago I was messing with a non-pro chick in Pattaya. It had been 2 weeks when she went home and paid 100,000 baht for her father to have an operation. She already had the money, but people on Thai Visa were really serious when they said I should have given her the money. Never mind 1. I had only been dealing with her 2 weeks, 2. I had never met her dad in my life, 3. She did not ask me for the money. As I said before, most foreigners just volunteer themselves to be the ATM.

Secret wanting to do it should not translate into FL Hawk being the ultimate one actually doing it. Or will it be another case of don't worry, the foreigner has our back?

This culture they have kids because that is what they do, reproduce because that is what is expected since in general education wise they are done at 15 year old can't find a job so what is next have a kid. They think nothing of it it is like second nature and after a year majority the boys just take off when it gets tough many girls just go out a pick a new one. Coming and going is like second nature they thinking nothing of it the last thing is the child are the ones who are hurt the most but to Thais this is normal I've heard them say " they understand " how can a child understand the reason the tradition continues generation after generation.

It is crazy up here in the farm it's been 2 weeks bitten like crazy with mosquitoes told many times Pattaya and Bangkok isn't the true Thailand that might be the case my inlaws all seem to be fine people all the women relatives all seem to still have their men the kids are all grown what we are talking about doesn't seem to exist here but I know it does but nothing like what is being discussed.

Reality the next two days is my son Dharma Teaching the party is bigger than many weddings I've attended it is like a mad house here the amount of work and preparation is unbelievable I try to help but family just makes sure I eat and rest I guess might be getting me fat and rested to be slaughter? I got anothe two weeks of what I considered suffering but wife seems happy she thought she would never see this day due to her illness I've kept one of my promises to her that I will keep her alive to see the day. Money is pouring out my pocket for this event down deep I have done all I could to make sure my son learn what money can't buy and I'm not sure if the Monks can teach it to them. I see so many boys go through this tradition yet they seem not to learn nothing bunch of bums who just take off and first chance they can get into another piece of ass that is what they do.

As I noted, the female is left to raise and take care of everyone. I'm bored try to watch the dishes pots and pans and they grab me and send me off. Two weeks I made a run into Bangkok for a day or two have a old too old for many of you coming to meet me to help me get over my ordeal the past month!

[Buksida1]

Can anyone recommend a sim-card for Thailand Pattaya? Visiting in Jan and have an Iphone10. Would appreciate recommendations on something I can buy in advance instead even if it's a bit more expensive to avoid wasting time upon arrival.

I think that you will be met by a quarantine team. You can ask them if you can buy one at the airport. If, they say no, your quarantine hotel should be able to take care of a sim card.

[Banana Boi]

Can anyone recommend a sim-card for Thailand Pattaya? Visiting in Jan and have an Iphone10. Would appreciate recommendations on something I can buy in advance instead even if it's a bit more expensive to avoid wasting time upon arrival.

Kudos to you if you're selected to be one of the very few to get in to Thailand in January. In January, 2021 the airports will be completely empty so there won't be any lineup to buy SIM cards from a kiosk. Go to DTAC, AIS, or True. If you're staying for months you could opt for My by CAT as well. If for some unexpected reason there is a line up at the airport kiosks the first 3 have stores in major Pattaya malls. You can Google locations. I believe they still sell SIM cards at 711 stores meaning they are available on every block in Pattaya! There's even one on the lower level at Gate 4 in BKK. You don't need a SIM card when you land at BKK. Not sure you can get a SIM card sent to you as they will need a copy of your passport in order to give you a card.