Pattaya Reports

[Banana Boi]

For me that's $25,000 up in smoke. My balance of 800,000 bath in Bangkok Bank.

Are you saying you have an OA Visa in Thailand? Have I misunderstood?

If you are really concerned. You can easily get your money out of Bangkok Bank. Get one of your favorite girls who you trust to withdraw the money and send it back to you. Before you think this is such a crazy idea I have been having my favorite girl doing this exact thing. I had way more than 800 k in my Thai bank account.

If you don't have any girls who would go the extra mile for you I'm sure you could call Bangkok Bank through your home bank and have them work something out.

[LittleBigMan]

What you wrote is consistent with my experience with Thai people from Isaan. I only know a few people from other parts of Thailand (Bangkok, Nakhon Si Thammarat, and Chiang Mai) and those few people seem to be a bit different.

Are your statements directed about the entire Thai culture or just a certain portion of it?

Sorry for the delayed! Been preparing the last two weeks up here in the farm for my son Dharma ceremony. Not being religious I never thought too much about it but when it got here it is unbelievable the undertaking the important it seem to be in their culture for the male if you can actually afford. The days leading up to the 7-8th was like watching them put the Super Bowl together family members coming out of the woodworks to help tents, table, chairs, water tanks, plates, spoons, we spend 4 hours at Makro one day buying all the necessary items had them deliver everything and I mean everything in a flatbed truck. They used the family tractors to prepare the emtpy rai of land that hasn't had homes built dig areas for cleaning and cooking I wasn't allow to help too much my assignment was to stay clear and work on the house itself. While doing so it was like watching her family put together one of those Moster truck shows over a weekend everyone knew exactly what to do and when to do it the major event went on for two straight days with very little sleep up by 4 am with music, get shower and here we go again. The last day being his father I and the mother dress up in traditional clothes lead a small parade with family dancing in front of the tractor playing music it was like a float for Songkran, a few hours spent at the Temple, praying, chanting with the Monks, then the final is to return to the house with 19 Monks in the living room and my son giving his final respect to us. An hour after the Monk left with their donation and food the family had already removed and clean up 90%.

I will be the first to admit in 15 years I've haven't travel to many places in Thailand so in no way I'm a expert to answer your question. First and foremost my opinions are a vast generalization I've talked to many people who have lived in Thailand and I've never been challenged as to my views. When you speak about Isaan maybe because so many women working in the P4 P industry comes from that section and do their trade in Pattaya and Bangkok. Years back I met and spend a lot of time with P4 P and what I experience with them pretty much comfirm what I already concluded but of course outside of the region of Isaan these view do exist girls working in the business do come from throughout Thailand.

What I do know how they think in Bangkok and Pattaya been told many times even by Thais that these two places aren't part of Thailand. The way I've been treated outside of these two places and certainly with the experience I've had with her family and the region they reside would confirm. Everyone I've met in her town, village, since day one has been nothing short of respectful since we met 20 years ago the last two weeks I've gotten to know the men and women better they speak to my wife from the expression on their face I'm one of them and after the event I made sure to go around on my own drink and THANK them personally!

[EihTooms]

You naysayers are going to be so embarrassed when we get to the part where she shows up at his hotel room door (pre Covid) all pretty and shaved as smooth as a billiard ball, fitted up with those time-release birth control pellets in her arm, deep dives into DFK and prolonged teasing BBBJ all on her own initiative, insists on BBFS+CIP without hesitation or BBFS+CIM+Swallow, totally up to him whenever he wants for the duration of their time together in gratitude for his unrequested support and to celebrate their special relationship based primarily on honesty.

And all with no more urgent rescue money bomb hints dropped here and there on a regular basis. That's bound to be the payoff ending.

You and I are not the only ones that happens to if we just behave politely, generously and hope for the best. There is way too much cynicism here.

[Bunky]

I've been confused since this epic started. Harder to figure out than Beowulf.

And far less interesting.

[Turgid]

Again my friend, you show we have similar tastes. But alas, I am 89 and too old even for her. Haha.

You are phenomenal. You are most likely older than your intended whose mother started having children over thirty years ago and one of whose daughters got her leg crushed when she was a teenager. If I were in your shoes I would do what I can to help them.

[PedroMorales]

I asked my future wife to tell me something, about herself before I send her on money. She replies like wtf, why am I so pushy? I don't know her name, nothing. She is probably a male Nigerian scammer but, as she has zero chance of getting a nickel out of me, who cares? A lot of these women post they are not toys to be f-the with. Don't know why they blame me as I did not write the LBFM playbook.

These secretes develop in such a way that they just want handouts their entire herpes ridden lives. I pity the farmers expecting these lumps to save the hay.

Going into SE Asia high season and not a monger in sight. This is even worse than when Pampanga was covered in volcanic ash.

[PedroMorales]

For those of you not bored to death by that fool's "romance", I need you to send ME money now. Let me explain. I fool about on the love sites, telling women I love them, how pretty they are etc. I keep it clean, as one should always do with third world hookers.

This chick replied: Send me money.

Me: How much.

She: 100. I have paypal.

Me: Send you money without even talking to you, knowing you, dating (ha ha) you?

She: No reply yet.

Guys, I really need your help in this as I am sure this is the love of my life, that we will marry and have kids together. However, as I don't feel I should take all the risks, I want you guys to pony up. In return, I will post occasional updates here st my discretion. I am not sure if I can invite any of you to the wedding but your help there is also appreciated (paypal only).

[USExpat]

Guess I am confused. You said the teenage sister's leg was crushed but now the mom had kids over 30 years ago, which would mean they are now adults.

I've been confused since this epic started. Harder to figure out than Beowulf.

[Mr Enternational]

Her younger sister had been in a horrible auto accident. Her teenaged sister's leg was crushed and fractured into pieces and pieces. The mother can't provide care.

Um, would you blast your own mother for having had kids over 30 years ago if she became handicapped 5 years ago and was thereafter unable to continue to care for them any longer?

Guess I am confused. You said the teenage sister's leg was crushed but now the mom had kids over 30 years ago, which would mean they are now adults.

[FL Hawk]

So many gogo girls used to look like her. Remember the Baccara Pattaya lineup 4+ years ago? It was all Japanese JAV model types many looking as good as Ayu. What happened to girls like that? The Good Old Days of 1996!

My favorite JAV model now is Emi Fukada.

Again my friend, you show we have similar tastes. But alas, I am 89 and too old even for her. Haha.

[FL Hawk]

Accuse them of what? Most people have no plan or agreement or rules in place when they enter a relationship. So can they really accuse a person of being in violation of something they never explicitly agreed to?

I think you misunderstand what I was saying. I falsely accused her of going back to Pattaya to work in the bar. I displayed a prejudice against her. She had otherwise been quite honest with me and did not deserve for me to jump to such a false conclusion, made simply because she had been a BG in the past and because I fell for the stereotypical belief espoused by many here that once a BG always a BG and they can never be trusted. If there was a "violation", it was my display of outright and undeserved prejudice.

So what the fuck is the mother doing with kids if she can not provide care? What about the father? What about the father of the sister's 2 children? Is he going to help out his kids' aunt?

Um, would you blast your own mother for having had kids over 30 years ago if she became handicapped 5 years ago and was thereafter unable to continue to care for them any longer? That is essentially the situation here. She had 3 children from 2 husbands, the last one dying about 15 years ago. Hardly a baby making machine.

I will never in 1000 years understand how a foreigner finds himself in situations like this. It is like finding a foreigner is like finding a lucky charm in some countries. He will give us a breath of fresh air and handle all the problems.

Haha. Me neither! I may have a possible answer later of how it happens, not that it ever should.

I know he did. If I remember correctly he is way past minimum qualification for social security.

I don't yet quality for full benefits. Not that it is any of your business.

It matters.

In what way does it matter for me or Secret, or at least in a way that is any of your business?

If he is middle age it's even more cringe. A Thai barmaid with a kid and old mother to support? Come on man.

You seem to have a strong propensity for cringing at stuff that does not concern you. Let's see. If she did not have a kid to support, would that be ok for you? Or no mother but a kid, would you still cringe? How about if she was Thai but not a barmaid, is that personally acceptable to you. Or if she was Thai and was briefly a barmaid, but is out of the business, could you forgive that and not vomit when you see, her man, her kid and mother? Or, how about if she was a western woman with a kid and / or mother to support? Hmmm, I bet that is ok, as there are millions of them throughout the western world. How about if she is a Vietnamese barmaid with a mother and / or kid to support, would that cause you to cringe? I mean, is there something simply about the woman being Thai that sends you into convulsions? Or is it simply any young Asian women with a western middle-aged man that makes you want to point them out to the world for ridicule? And how would you even know if the woman is a barmaid or not? If you see a middle-aged man out with a younger Asian woman, perhaps with a kid in tow, will you go over to her and say "Can you tell me if you work in a bar so I can decide if I should be all cringy now?" Or will you simply cringe out whenever you see a middle-aged man with a younger Asian woman with or without a child in tow, just to make sure you have all your cringe-worthy bases covered? And of course, it the woman is western, you probably don't even notice. It is only Thai or Asians with middle-aged western men that upset you I assume. Opps, I mean any young Asian woman with ANY older western man. Wow.

I think it would be more productive for this forum if, rather than saying "It matters" followed by snarky comments of disdain and disgust, to finally tell us WHY it matters and WHY it makes you cringe and WHY you feel it is any business of yours.

I have said a number of times that there are three big unalterable things than can ruin this relationship I have / had; those being cultural differences, language problems and age. But you do not know Secret or her reasons for carrying on with me. You may think you know, but you barely have a clue. All you know is what I have written here, colored by your own obvious prejudices and biases, yet you dare to tell me that our relationship has caused you to cringe and compel you to resort to personal attacks and insults.

Feel free to point out the pitfalls of older man / younger woman relationships. That is a wide open topic which I have been addressing and I will participate in further.

[Franciscass]

I love to look movies with your JAV Star Emi Fukada! But my 2 favorites JAV Stars from Japan are Ayaka Tomoda and Yua Mikami. I met them both during a convention in Taipei and Tokyo.

It's just a pity these JAV Stars don't do escort!

Gee Gilolo I'm surprised with your game you didn't manage with either. I've had so called JAV models, they are available but you need to know some local Tokyo players to set it up.

And then it's silly prices (300 K yen up) and to be honest not the best shags by any means not value for money but when you watch the videos you can say hey I fucked her.

[Knobrm]

I beg to differ. A lot chicks have no idea how to use that location shit. Here you go thinking we are talking about brain surgeons again. Plenty of times I have had chicks on the way to see me and I send them my location then they get lost. I ask where they are and to send location and they have no idea how to do it and I have to go out and hunt for them. Then there are others that know how to send location for me to get to them but it is the totally wrong location. As far as them sending location in order to try to catch them in a lie, I could care less. When you catch them in a lie then what?

Concept of location and maps indeed are not the strong point of many, even sending clear Google map link over line many still can't find to my place and only a discussion with another Thai to explain will resolve it.

About year back met a chick who had 3 'boyfriends' in Europe and she was struggling to keep them all at control to ensure sponsorship continues. One of the guys, German I recall, was insisting her to send location at random times. I installed GPS emulator app to her phone and she continued to thank about it on several appointments as made her life easier. Said few other ladies thankful too as she showed to them how to manage the location sending issue 555. Just saw her couple weeks back and money still flowing she told. Is really amazing to hear how some guys are downright stupid.

[Banana Boi]

Was planning on 10 days, not 90 w / a mandatory 14 quarantine.

Even IF you were wiling to do a 14 day quarantine, entering is not an option for the general population unless you are from China and you have a boatload of cash to spend or invest in Thailand.

Safer to book for 2022 than 2021.

[YyzTravel]

How are you allowed to go to Thailand?

WOW! Had not seen the new entry requirements; I booked the ticket almost 5 months back. Good thing Delta is doing no-fee cancellation.

Looks like I will be pushing this trip out until things get back to normal entry wise there; Was planning on 10 days, not 90 w / a mandatory 14 quarantine.