Pattaya Reports

[LittleBigMan]

I've more in the agreement with Mr. E they leave something out turn it around and don't even know it. No one has ever been around her to explain that she got it wrong. I wouldn't make too much out of not talking to them especially when it comes to a farang. Whether you know it or not speaking English isn't on the short list if you put money in their phone and allow them to talk if it is a Thai friend you will run out of money. Line is one of the best things for them if the WiFi is strong you got free calls and video.

Farangs we want to talk when it comes to us for them it is short and simple using line you send a sticky or two and it speaks volume to them. Because money was given to bail her out we want attention some appreciation when it comes to appreciation the western way mean one way to Thais it doesn't even come close to our definition or standard reason why questions are ringing? At times they don't even seem to know what it means?

[Banana Boi]

It's more likely just to mean working in a factory is like working in a bar. In other words something she doesn't want to do.

That was my interpretation as well. Whenever I don't understand what a girl means I always ask her right away. However, I rarely hang out and Line girls for long who don't have a pretty good grasp of English. Thai Engish is fine. I understand Thai style broken English. I remember one of the first girls I hung out with Thailand used Google translate to converse with me while I was sitting right beside her! I don't have the patience for Google translate.

I recall Hawk being over 70. Makes the the thing utterly Goofy-estorious. Age matters in these things.

Hey FL, you've aged!

[Franciscass]

A sad end, but not surprising. This is the end, right? Please tell us you ghosted her.

You kidding. With ratings even Trump would be jealous of no way. Incidentally best TV viewing anytime anywhere just round the corner and this time it could be more dramatic than anything we have witnessed before.

[LittleBigMan]

After a hard day work on the wife farm with the list of stuff I need to do I thought I take a day off and sleep in bit since it was Sunday and I knew there was going to be a family member getting married a few doors but I thought that would be later on the day. Next thing loud speakers go off music louder than in a GoGo, it is 4 am and they are getting ready for the wedding wife tells me get up take a shower by 7 am we are still at the ceremony with monks and over a hundred family.

I took a few pictures for Hawk but not being techno couldn't seem to find out how to download it here? Heh Heh.

[Mr Enternational]

Well sometimes a man wants to believe. I can understand that, but the mind must rule over the heart or else you can get into a whole lot of grief. A good girl does not come up with a tragic story and ask for extra money, but this one did.

In this case the girl did not ask for money. He volunteered it as so many guys do.

[Member #4698]

I recall Hawk being over 70. Makes the the thing utterly Goofy-estorious. Age matters in these things.

Well sometimes a man wants to believe. I can understand that, but the mind must rule over the heart or else you can get into a whole lot of grief. A good girl does not come up with a tragic story and ask for extra money, but this one did. What if he had said no? She might have realized her error in judgement and changed her attitude or maybe not. No way of telling, but we all have had girls pitch real sad stories and ask for money. Girls, I might add, we just met. I resent the attempt and lower my estimation of the girl immediately. If the requests continue, I will simply delete her Line account. The girl has left me no other choice. But like I said, the good girls do not come up with the tragedies especially within 6 months of having a nice romp with them. That is breaking the unwritten p4 p deal.

And BTW, language and culture have something to do with it. More of my Filipinas girls have asked for wire transfers than my Thai girls or Indonesian girls combined, and I have probably shagged 7 to 8 times more Thai girls than PI girls. Go figure. LOL A common language is sometimes not a good thing. Still, in my humble experience, only a small number of girls pitch the tragic story and ask for WU.

[Sammon]

A sad end, but not surprising. This is the end, right? Please tell us you ghosted her.

So many thoughts come to mind. I made a list, but deleted it before posting.

I fully understand the blues you were feeling, same feeling happens to all of us when we lose a girlfriend. Empty. Lost. Hope you are well cured now.

I never had a GF from a bar in the sense of committed BF GF relationship. As falling in love goes I guess you can always fall in love irrespective of what is the girls line of work. Sure, I had bargirls I liked and would love to be with them when I visit. But if she is not available I do not cry about it. You know what they plenty of pussy!

It will take a long time for this guy to get over this girl looks like. There are plenty of stories of how girls play you till you loose your money, sanity etc. I hope this guy will be okay. Best to stop all contacts. It may be hard but earlier the better.

[Whoreman]

"Because I don't work in the factory. Like working in bar. " It seems some people who are not fluent in how some uneducated Thais speak English are taking this to mean she lied to you and she does not work in a factory, but works in a bar instead.

To me it reads nothing like that. It says working in the factory is not the same as working in a bar. In a bar you have all the free time in the world to goof off and write love messages, take 1 million meaningless pictures. In a factory you are on an assembly line working at a constant pace and when you get a break you just want to relax a moment and have time for yourself. I am tired. Give me a fucking break with the needy bullshit.

It's more likely just to mean working in a factory is like working in a bar. In other words something she doesn't want to do.

[Member #4698]

Well the OP can play it anyway he wants. If he wants to play the part of the conned, taken for a ride boyfriend that is fine with me. What I objected to and found distasteful in his storytelling was the way he continually assumed the readers were as naïve as he was. That we did not see the end coming from the very beginning. That is why I only lightly skimmed his subsequent chapters.

This tale should stand as another example in a long list of examples of how not to act with P4P girls and what not to put up with. Again, a punter can do what he wants, but when he starts believing the GFE fantasy is real and allows himself to fall for the con, whatever form the con takes, he inadvertently sets into motion the end of that very relationship that he sought to hold onto.

I have a very simple rule: If a favorite, repeat girl asks me to send money for whatever reason, I simply tell her I cannot and that is that. Then I deduct a point from her scorecard. If I were ever have to deduct 3 points in total, the liaison is over. That said, most of my favorite girls never ask for Western Union. But a few do. Then Corona changed everything, and most, but not all of my repeat favorites asked for money. I sent each girl who asked a little bit ($150) with no points deducted, ha ha, and told them it was a one-time thing. They all accepted the gift gratefully and never asked for more money. I am still in touch with them all and I hope to see them again as soon as possible.

As I wrote in a previous post, I think the OP blew his relationship with the Soi 6 girl because he let emotional BS enter the relationship. Maybe he wanted to take that ride to nowhere, maybe not. But if he has any self-respect left, his relationship with the girl is over. So, move on guy. Learn from your mistake, but do not let the experience harden you. There are many, many really great new bar girls to meet and have GFE good times with. Do not go back to this one unless you enjoyed being taken for a ride, but if you did, in fact, enjoy the ride she put you through, I am sure you can offer her more money to be your one true love again and she will accept it with a smile.

[Allover]

"Because I don't work in the factory. Like working in bar. ".

Oh.

Hawk there is a little hopeless romantic in me and I was pulling for you to somehow get this to work. But at this point you need to move on at least emotionally. You may text with her once in a while but the odds are really stacked against you. With Covid around you won't be seeing her for quite a while. As to her slowing down on texts think about that. Bar girls are on their phones all day long at work and she can't find time to text?

I'm enjoying the updates and appreciate the time you take to post them. I await update #8 if there is one.

[Mr Enternational]

I complained semi-jokingly after having been ignored for 2 days, telling her "you don't like talking to me". She said, "I'm sorry. Whether you are angry or hate me, no matter. " Wow! That did seem a bit rude, but then one always has to wonder about the translation. I just said "I am not mad at all. " And I was not really mad, just disappointed and not really sure what had been going on. But I knew something was going on due to her texting frequency. And then she responded.

"Because I don't work in the factory. Like working in bar. ".

Oh.

I run into the same thing with chicks except from Secret's end. Chicks expect because they are not busy and have time then I should have time too. And I am like bich I am busy. Yeah they also think I am being rude and trying to hurt their feelings.

Because I am writing with them they want to send voice messages or press video call then get mad when I decline it or tell them to write instead. Just because I can write right now does not mean I can talk or video. Then I may have a long ass day and do not feel like being bothered.

Chicks begging me to send pictures and shit. I am like how many pictures of me do you fucking need? Or when they keep sending pictures I am like why does this broad keep sending all these pictures (and it is mostly of food.) I don't need to send somebody a picture of the hot dog I had for lunch or me sitting on the couch watching TV. Let a mf have some space.

"Because I don't work in the factory. Like working in bar. " It seems some people who are not fluent in how some uneducated Thais speak English are taking this to mean she lied to you and she does not work in a factory, but works in a bar instead.

To me it reads nothing like that. It says working in the factory is not the same as working in a bar. In a bar you have all the free time in the world to goof off and write love messages, take 1 million meaningless pictures. In a factory you are on an assembly line working at a constant pace and when you get a break you just want to relax a moment and have time for yourself. I am tired. Give me a fucking break with the needy bullshit.

[Knobrm]

Yes it is not about not treating decent, on the contrary actually.

Anyway well understood the concerns of dealing with the case, but expect this will die naturally as I expect she will get more narc supply (cash and drinks) from others going forward as clubs are open, and she is of the type that sells easy at good price as long as market is open.

It's just good advice to treat others decent. Bar girls have all the complex thoughts and emotions as others. Play games with someone and you might lose. The other guy posting his story would do well to learn this.

Advice for what it's worth. I just read here bc I miss Thailand. .

[PedroMorales]

Is this the stage where you come out as a sissy cuckold?

I have met tones of jerk offs like him in Pattaya's bars. When they go on like this, you make your excuses and high tail in to another bar. The expression bar bore exists for a reason. If he wants feedback for what passes for his writing, this board is not the place. He is being entertained here because things are dead.

[Whoreman]

I complained semi-jokingly after having been ignored for 2 days, telling her "you don't like talking to me". She said, "I'm sorry. Whether you are angry or hate me, no matter. " Wow! That did seem a bit rude, but then one always has to wonder about the translation. I just said "I am not mad at all. " And I was not really mad, just disappointed and not really sure what had been going on. But I knew something was going on due to her texting frequency. And then she responded.

"Because I don't work in the factory. Like working in bar. ".

Oh.

Is this the stage where you come out as a sissy cuckold?

[Member #4733]

"Because I don't work in the factory. Like working in bar. ".
Oh.

At least she was honest about het sex life. Probably the best proof you can have about 'her being truthful to you' before that. She probably has entered the transition to a hardened bargirl. I might speculate for the reasons but I won't. It would be just that: speculations. I thank you very much for this story. It is written quite objectively. It added to my understanding and gave a 'real life example' of the things I learned in university.