Pattaya Reports

[Knobrm]

LOL. Seriously? She is about to go vegetable farming in the winter in South Korea? I have heard of chicks going there to work in massage parlors and chicks going there to be hookers, but never vegetable farming. What you describe is a chick that is about to get tricked into sex slavery. Never heard it from the vegetable farm angle though.

Another new metaphor 'work in vegetable farm' - kind of descriptive actually. Work in big cucumber farm, trying to collect as many as she can every day.

Kind of comparable to what riends of mine used say, to go play golf for long weekends in pattaya from cold winter of Beijing. Some wives actually believed for a while.

[Banana Boi]

She was preparing to go to South Korea (SK)! She was going to make big money working on a vegetable farm for two years

FL, as Mr. E mentioned 0% chance Secret was going to Korea to work on a vegetable farm. Seoul and Busan are two prime hot spots where Thai girls go work. I know close to 50 gogo, Soi 6, Thermae, and massage girls who have gone to work in Korea since I have met them. Some end up in jail, some can't cut it in Korea because they don't have the right look, and some just miss Thai food and their Thai boyfriend and come home.

From my experience the working girls who seem most susceptible to falling in love with a customer are European girls.

How many FKK girls end up falling in love and living with a stereotypical FKK customer? They're not leaving their Romanian boyfriends to go with a 60+ year old Farang unless he has millions and is willing to freely share it.

[Mr Enternational]

Too many westerners are fooled by Asian bargirls. Just because they look and act innocent does not mean their brain is not scheming like any other girl all over the world.

Maybe hookers can change their spots. A hooker that I mess with just posted yesterday that she got her ceritfication to do nails. And this chick has been to jail for prostitution in like 5 different countries and is only 25. I can admit that she really is a sweet girl. Total GFE. And I pay her way less than she gets at that damn gogo.

[Gin And Tonic]

From my experience the working girls who seem most susceptible to falling in love with a customer are European girls. Many are good conversationalists and are quite willing to spend a lot of time chatting with you and not wanting to rush into the room.

I had the misfortune of finding 2 ladies waiting for me when I moved to Pattaya after retiring. Somehow both thought I was going to set up house with them. One was a BabyDolls spinner I knew for 4 years. The other a freelancer from Si Racha who I had meet with her sister on my first trip 5 years earlier. I've often thought about what signal I might have given them but can't come up with anything. It wasn't fun bursting their fantasies.

[Sammon]

So, I have just been blindsided. Do I believe her? Is this a scam she is pulling to get my money by making me feel sorry for her? Was she really leaving Thailand and her family to go work on a vegetable farm? What do I do? What CAN I do? What should I do? I think I know what many of you would do! The question now is, what DID I do? And do I now have regrets? And, of course, what did SHE do? Did she run off to SK and that was the last we have seen of each other, or was she sent home due the virus and she contacted me and wants to get back together?

Long winded report.

Classic case of playing your brain. Promising but not providing. She has used every trick in the book to make you bite to offer her money. She has decided long time ago nothing with you to Phuket. Rest of the drama is to get money. When you did not bite last resort was going to South Korea ostensibly for a job which I think is fake.

Do not fall in love with a hooker. Hookers rarely make good companions for a resort trip unlike a GF. With wall to wall girls in Thailand just offer money to a girl to go with you or just go by yourself and there are plenty of girls in Phuket. Too many westerners are fooled by Asian bargirls. Just because they look and act innocent does not mean their brain is not scheming like any other girl all over the world.

It is more likely she is playing ten others the same game.

Yes, I have chatted and made friends with normal girls in Thailand and taken them to Laos, Cambodia, Vietnam. They do not need visas to go to those countries. But even a hint of playing games I would dump them in a heartbeat.

[Member #4698]

Was she really leaving Thailand and her family to go work on a vegetable farm?

'No offense intended, but you must be joking. So, this is the big decision you have been leading up to for god knows how long. You know, FL, I knew your story was BS when you did not tell it all in the first post. What a lot if endless dribble.

But getting down to cases: no Thai bar girl goes to Korea to work in the fields. That's hard-physical labor, in case you didn't know, and field hands are paid only a pittance. But all this is beside the point. I think you have been putting us on the whole time with a fake story that you made up for you own Corona amusement or maybe you are a fool. I give you credit for not being a fool, but either way, the joke is on you because most of us did not fall for your story from the 1st post on.

But I am a hopeless romantic at heart, so I hope real love wins in the end and you are now happily long distance engaged to your sweetheart and have transferred all your savings to Thailand so she could buy the family farm in her name. I can't wait to find out what happens next. Not really. 555. But keep going.

I think I will watch "Mesrine Part 2: Public Enemy #1" tonight. I saw "Mesrine Part 1: Killer Instinct" last night and it was pretty rock on. Now that crazy Frenchman can write!

[Turgid]

............. I do think that there are girls that fall in love with their customers too. ............ That happened to me too. One girl even stepped out of her room in Amsterdam and followed me on the street. ............. One other girl travelled 1000 kilometers because she had heard I would visit that particular SC in Germany that day. ..........

From my experience the working girls who seem most susceptible to falling in love with a customer are European girls. Many are good conversationalists and are quite willing to spend a lot of time chatting with you and not wanting to rush into the room.

[PedroMorales]

They seem to be good at hiding a customer's face. Very empathetic. I still couldn't find the mentioned girls and their numbers. One set is from definitely from Pin Up, not sure about the others. I wonder if these are new talent or same girls pre COVID?

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5f8839e2b505c

I clicked on your link. Interesting to see so many gals there though I am sure outside was empty. A link beneath it has an American woman selling small tubs (c 200 ML) of her urine for $1000 US. A real case of caveat emptor. I wouldn't pay $50 for her, yet some pathetic Bob out there.

[Mr Enternational]

Continuing on, I asked where she was going, if not Bangkok. Well, Pattaya, right? No, wrong. She was preparing to go to South Korea (SK)! She was going to make big money working on a vegetable farm for two years

LOL. Seriously? She is about to go vegetable farming in the winter in South Korea? I have heard of chicks going there to work in massage parlors and chicks going there to be hookers, but never vegetable farming. What you describe is a chick that is about to get tricked into sex slavery. Never heard it from the vegetable farm angle though.

[FL Hawk]

My memory of the events around this time period were a little hazy so I dug up the original Line messages from that time and found I made an error! I correctly said she quit the bar then left Pattaya to go home for a little bit, then she went to Bangkok and found work at the clothing store. She went back home for Lent with the intention of staying just a few days, but then she had the motorbike accident and could not immediately return and her job was terminated. So, when I previously got the cliffhanging message that she was leaving Bangkok to make money elsewhere, she was not then in Bangkok but still at home. I think the story will provide needed background information if I go back to the time following her accident and retrace the story from there.

So, after the accident, she started texting me more often as she was not busy with work so she had the time. Plus she was bored. And the longer she stayed home, the more worried she got as there was no money coming in and, I now know, she was facing a financial crisis point. I am withholding certain personal information about her, but she had made little money in the months of August and September, and now October was turning into a complete bust. I think she realized her going to Pattaya had been a horrible idea both economically as well as mentally, and she was now facing loss of the imminent loss of the family farm. Some of you seem to think BGs make a ton of money, but that is not always the case. Secret was not quite cut out for the work, and I never considered the bar she worked at to be especially popular. She went to the bar with the belief she would make a lot of money, but it really didn't work out so well.

We had plans to go to Phuket and Bangkok later in November. As she recovered during October we talked about the trip, which helped to get her mind of off her troubles. She was excited as this would be her first trip to Phuket and her first ride in an airplane. Other than Bangkok, her home province and now Pattaya, she had never traveled anywhere and, as she told me, she was afraid to travel alone. She told me that her mother told her of a close relative who met her husband in Phuket and wondered if Secret might find hers' there as well. That, and some other comments, showed she had some sort of feelings or hopes regarding me but, hey, we know that business comes before love so, despite some affections from her, I had not yet experienced her love, or at least a version of love that I, a westerner, understood it to be at the time. But without the distractions of work, she was actually being sweet to me with lots of messages exchanged, but never using the L word and never asking me for money. But time ticked on. I was waiting for us to meet again and spend more time together so I could assess our relationship. This was only two months after she (allegedly) stopped bar fining people so I was still on high alert for scams and for signs that she had other boyfriends.

As she healed, she said several times she needed to get back to Bangkok to work. But the rice harvest was approaching and she needed to stay home. Our trip to Phuket was about 2 weeks after that. I said I would pay her lost expenses and wages for the time we were together, but she had missed a significant portion of income. I was concerned she might cancel our trip as she could hardly go to Bangkok, find a job and then immediately ask for 2 weeks off. But she continued to say how much she looked forward to the vacation, and thoughts of the trip and what we would do seemed to comfort her. But was coming to the realization she was in a financial pickle and she pretty much kept it to herself.

When the harvest started, she told me that she would be returning to Bangkok to find work in a week. Soon after her texting frequency dropped dramatically. I knew something was up, though 2 days before she was to leave she told me how much she wanted to go to Phuket with me. On the day of her planned return to Bangkok I had not heard from her, so I texted her to ask if she was in Bangkok. That is when she told me she needed money and would not be going to Bangkok. This is where I left off last time.

Continuing on, I asked where she was going, if not Bangkok. Well, Pattaya, right? No, wrong. She was preparing to go to South Korea (SK)! She was going to make big money working on a vegetable farm for two years in order to finally pay off the farm once and for all, then buy some land and build a small house she had dreamed of for year, and finally have enough money to properly care for her family with some honor and dignity. She would be on a 2-year contact. At that time I was not aware of such work, but I have since learned SK is desperate for farm workers and that many Thais go there as the money is relatively good.

A local neighbor who had done farm work in SK before told her about the work and got her in touch with an agent. She had met with him and she was about ready to sign a contract and leave for SK, the farm being secured when she signed. She thanked me for the help I had provided and apologized for not be able to go to Phuket. She did not know if or when she might see me again (she felt I was going to dump her and never want to see or talk to her again). She was pretty distraught, but knew of no other way to extract herself from her financial predicament. Some of you will think she was faking it and out to scam me. Perhaps.

She was stoic about the whole thing and appeared resolute in her decision. I think she felt the money was too much to even think of asking me for help. She said this was something she had to do for her family, so she was going to do it. There was no crying, no pleading, not even a hint she was hoping I would step in and save the day. For her, if she did nothing, she land would be foreclosed and they would have to find another place the live. I will say again, this is a small family.

So, I have just been blindsided. Do I believe her? Is this a scam she is pulling to get my money by making me feel sorry for her? Was she really leaving Thailand and her family to go work on a vegetable farm? What do I do? What CAN I do? What should I do? I think I know what many of you would do! The question now is, what DID I do? And do I now have regrets? And, of course, what did SHE do? Did she run off to SK and that was the last we have seen of each other, or was she sent home due the virus and she contacted me and wants to get back together?

[Member #4733]

You're a romantic guy like I was 15 years ago.
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Last time, I was fucking a very sexy girl in Pattaya who is 21.
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After we spoke and she told me she has 5 boyfriends from many countries.

Sorry to reply so late. I try to only read these stories in the weekend and most of times I succeed. I am not a very romantic guy. Sometimes I fall in love with a sex worker but I never gave them money beyond the rate for their sexual services. Except for a tip of a few euros. I do think that there are girls that fall in love with their customers too. And of course there are girls that try to take advantage of their customers. But I do think that especially a starting sex worker has a dream of a wealthy client who will take care of her. That happened to me too. One girl even stepped out of her room in Amsterdam and followed me on the street. And she was very popular with loads of money. Certainly not fighting for a customer. One other girl travelled 1000 kilometers because she had heard I would visit that particular SC in Germany that day. So, whatever you think, not all of them are lazy. I do think that you are right in many ways for many girls. But not all of them. I thought that maybe FL Hawk had met a girl that was really falling for him. Or put in a better way: she liked him best of all her customers and tried to enter into a relationship with him. That can be genuine. But it doesn't need to be so. After a girl has seen that her customer is into other girls as well, she might get disappointed and start to deceive her customers in a 'love for money' relationship. Just like a sponsor as you described. But by no means are all girls cheating. No way. One comment on your five sponsors at an age of 21. Of course that is possible in theory but it is not very likely. It seems a bit the same as the guy in a SC in Germany that claimed his roommate had five orgasms in a row. Only he believed that.

P. S: I never had a relationship with a sex worker. It came close once but I declined for social reasons. Too different from the rest of my life.

[PedroMorales]

Scrolling through the posts, I can see how virtual is viable. The trike drives must think we are nuts paying a fortune to fly in and bonk their seconds. Some Yank in a flyover state with $50 or $100 burning a hole in his pocket might think being a big player in a virtual Soi 6 is being a high roller. Personally, I think gambling, never mind Las Vegas, is nuts. You do know people now bet big time on virtual horses, horses that are not real. Then you have all those virtual "games" where you can buy all kinds of virtual crap with real money.

[RedMau5]

I stopped going to Soi 6 as a result of these live streams. I mean, the only reason you would be on Soi 6 is to pick up prostitutes and I don't really want my face being beamed around the world by several bars as I do that.

They seem to be good at hiding a customer's face. Very empathetic. I still couldn't find the mentioned girls and their numbers. One set is from definitely from Pin Up, not sure about the others. I wonder if these are new talent or same girls pre COVID?

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.p...h5f8839e2b505c

[GinAndTonic555]

Can you guys please provide us with some links to these bars doing Facebook Live.

I know many Soi 6 bars are on Facebook posting about how some Farang 1000s of miles away is buying 20+ drinks for a bar girl, some of which the Farang has never even met before. However, I have yet come across bars doing Facebook Live, not that I look often.

I have noticed a big uptick of girls popping up on the Thai cam girl sites. Most are not worth looking at and many ladyboys but there was one who was gogo girl quality cute. Unfortunately, she doesn't even go naked.

If you go on facebook during open bar hours to either Wraith or Toybox they'll have the streams running. Other bars will too but I'm not sure which ones but check facebook and they'll have a little paypal for donations.

[Banana Boi]

In these trying times the bars and their girls are desperate, so I can understand why they are experimenting the live video feeds & long distance drink buys to stay alive, but this is a very dangerous road to go down which in the long run I believe will discourage business for the reasons stated. The key question is will the bars give up this supplemental revenue source once the border opens up again and business returns to near normal? All I know is that even with privacy protocols in place to protect the identity of customers, I will not go to any bar with concurrent live video feeds if for no other reason than it is a distraction for the girls.

I'm certain this will all disappear by the time we are allowed back in to Thailand. You are correct most guys won't go to bars where live streaming is active. I stopped going to a local strip club years ago when they decided that live streaming was a good idea. You could clearly see a guy's face sitting there in pervert's row.