Rio de Janeiro Reports

[CleanSocks]

People can absolutely develop feelings for each other. The reason why folks here get cynical is that they know it rarely works in the long run, especially if two people in question don't speak the same language. But as long as you're careful and know the odds, I say go for it.

I say Amen!

[CleanSocks]

A follow up post about a relationship with a terma girl. Some of these questions were bought up about my post. As far as her family I only talk to her mom a couple times over WhatsApp because they are not talking now. She has older brothers and a younger brother younger brother I've only talked to over WhatsApp and the older brothers I've met in person along with some of her cousins and her close friends and a couple of girls that she works with. Her family knows exactly what she does and under the circumstances of how we met. It's definitely a culture shot coming from a Western Country where most family members would disown them and really look down on me as a customer. Not once has she asked me for money and no I have not given any, except when we were together because she wasn't working and it's a lot less than she would get working. We're pretty nuts know the ins and outs of each others lives. This is not my first rodeo mongering have been other places in the world but it absolutely is possible for two human beings to have a paid for interaction and develop feelings. I'm not saying that the situation is pleasant or even healthy for that matter all the time, but I'm surprised people here are so cynical to think under these circumstances people cannot fall for each other even in a situation where it doesn't work out. I'm not making up stories and I'm not embellishing anything obviously because there's a lot of negative aspects of this but I just thought I would share my experience good and bad.

No reason to commit. Take it one day at a time. Ignore all the nonsense from the many jaded guys here. One day at a time is how love falls into place. Good luck! I hope it happens for you. Why not?

[Mr Enternational]

People can absolutely develop feelings for each other. The reason why folks here get cynical is that they know it rarely works in the long run, especially if two people in question don't speak the same language.

But why with hookers as opposed to women that are not? I can only assume that these men do not associate with regular women, so that leaves only hookers for them to fall for. Like it is hard for me to fathom a guy dating normal chicks on the regular then fucks a hooker a couple of times and is all of a sudden in love. For me normal chicks are 5 course home-cooked meals and hookers are on-the-go snacks in between. I would never try to make the snack my main meal.

[Xpartan]

A follow up post about a relationship with a terma girl. Some of these questions were bought up about my post. As far as her family I only talk to her mom a couple times over WhatsApp because they are not talking now. She has older brothers and a younger brother younger brother I've only talked to over WhatsApp and the older brothers I've met in person along with some of her cousins and her close friends and a couple of girls that she works with. Her family knows exactly what she does and under the circumstances of how we met. It's definitely a culture shot coming from a Western Country where most family members would disown them and really look down on me as a customer. Not once has she asked me for money and no I have not given any, except when we were together because she wasn't working and it's a lot less than she would get working. We're pretty nuts know the ins and outs of each others lives. This is not my first rodeo mongering have been other places in the world but it absolutely is possible for two human beings to have a paid for interaction and develop feelings. I'm not saying that the situation is pleasant or even healthy for that matter all the time, but I'm surprised people here are so cynical to think under these circumstances people cannot fall for each other even in a situation where it doesn't work out. I'm not making up stories and I'm not embellishing anything obviously because there's a lot of negative aspects of this but I just thought I would share my experience good and bad.

People can absolutely develop feelings for each other. The reason why folks here get cynical is that they know it rarely works in the long run, especially if two people in question don't speak the same language. But as long as you're careful and know the odds, I say go for it. And yes, Brazilian parents are much more forward-looking, so to speak, than their American counterparts. A girl once asked me to come up with her before going to the beach. Lo and behold, a mom was at home, and she was extremely friendly (and much younger than me, LOL). It would feel strange, but I'd had a similar experience in Thailand.

[Mr Enternational]

Not once has she asked me for money and no I have not given any, except when we were together because she wasn't working and it's a lot less than she would get working.

And this is why.

I will give her credit that she's never asked me for any money I did give her about $1500 for the two weeks I was there just so she didn't have to worry about paying her bills because she wasn't at the club three or four nights a week working.

You had already given her 8000 reais. How much money do you suppose she would have made in those 2 weeks? For some reason guys always overestimate what a hooker is making. They calculate it like there is constant guaranteed business, which it is not for most of them. It ebbs and flows.

The minimum wage in Brazil is $217 or 1212 reais per month and you gave her almost 7 times that. To put things in perspective the minimum wage in the USA is $1160 per month. If you just handed someone in the USA $8120 (7 times the monthly minimum wage) for missing work 2 weeks I doubt they would be asking you for any more money for a long while either.

[HiddenEye]

TravelGuy79, I'm clearly wrong, all I said was based on my personal experience with escorts.

Maybe you found a different kind of family I've never met among escorts. I did find great human beings in the 100+ women I've had paid sex with (being more than 60% Brazilian), and yes, I can call some of them as friends.

Good luck!!

A follow up post about a relationship with a terma girl. Some of these questions were bought up about my post. As far as her family I only talk to her mom a couple times over WhatsApp because they are not talking now. She has older brothers and a younger brother younger brother I've only talked to over WhatsApp and the older brothers I've met in person along with some of her cousins and her close friends and a couple of girls that she works with. Her family knows exactly what she does and under the circumstances of how we met. It's definitely a culture shot coming from a Western Country where most family members would disown them and really look down on me as a customer. Not once has she asked me for money and no I have not given any, except when we were together because she wasn't working and it's a lot less than she would get working. We're pretty nuts know the ins and outs of each others lives. This is not my first rodeo mongering have been other places in the world but it absolutely is possible for two human beings to have a paid for interaction and develop feelings. I'm not saying that the situation is pleasant or even healthy for that matter all the time, but I'm surprised people here are so cynical to think under these circumstances people cannot fall for each other even in a situation where it doesn't work out. I'm not making up stories and I'm not embellishing anything obviously because there's a lot of negative aspects of this but I just thought I would share my experience good and bad.

[TravelGuy79]

A follow up post about a relationship with a terma girl. Some of these questions were bought up about my post. As far as her family I only talk to her mom a couple times over WhatsApp because they are not talking now. She has older brothers and a younger brother younger brother I've only talked to over WhatsApp and the older brothers I've met in person along with some of her cousins and her close friends and a couple of girls that she works with. Her family knows exactly what she does and under the circumstances of how we met. It's definitely a culture shot coming from a Western Country where most family members would disown them and really look down on me as a customer. Not once has she asked me for money and no I have not given any, except when we were together because she wasn't working and it's a lot less than she would get working. We're pretty nuts know the ins and outs of each others lives. This is not my first rodeo mongering have been other places in the world but it absolutely is possible for two human beings to have a paid for interaction and develop feelings. I'm not saying that the situation is pleasant or even healthy for that matter all the time, but I'm surprised people here are so cynical to think under these circumstances people cannot fall for each other even in a situation where it doesn't work out. I'm not making up stories and I'm not embellishing anything obviously because there's a lot of negative aspects of this but I just thought I would share my experience good and bad.

[Vagabundo1]

As Mr E has said, the test is if you go to her with no money.

Further, if you're serious, can you stay in Brazil or can you bring her to your country.

Whoever told you this did not know what they were talking about. I remember my main wingman going to Lebarra's house where some monger had just purchased a new dining room set. Her mom reached on top of the China cabinet to get a Western Union slip and said make sure he knows how to fill one of these out.

[Mr Enternational]

These girls have feelings of course, they can fall in love, but they have strong common sense and freedom. They won't introduce a client to their families never ever.

Whoever told you this did not know what they were talking about. I remember my main wingman going to Lebarra's house where some monger had just purchased a new dining room set. Her mom reached on top of the China cabinet to get a Western Union slip and said make sure he knows how to fill one of these out.

[HiddenEye]

These girls have feelings of course, they can fall in love, but they have strong common sense and freedom. They won't introduce a client to their families never ever.

99% of the families of a day massage worker, ignore they give sexual services. At the end of the day they go to their houses, friends and stuff.

In the case of night club girl escorts, maybe 90% of their families ignore they give sexual services.

Maybe making a friendship for a couple of years may give you another status of relationship. The more you want to keep a Latina or Brazilian girl just for you, the more she will want to dissapear.

Someone should make the list of 10 commandments of the monger, the first one should definitely be: Do not fall in love with the escort.

So many months ago I posted about meeting a girl that worked at one of the Termas and starting a relationship with her that was back in November. I sessioned with her at one of the Termas, And we had a good connection two days later I I messaged her and asked her if she would see me the next day we agreed on 500 riyals for two hours, she ended up staying most of the rest of the trip with me without any money, she said that she enjoyed my company and I enjoyed hers. When I left Brazil the first time I figured that would be the end of it. I posted about this when we first met and I got back to the US the details might be slightly off but this is the gist of it. About a week after I got back she watched at me and said that she was upset that she didn't hear from me honestly I just thought she was looking for some fun and we connected well even though we didn't speak the same language. She wanted to do a video call with me but I was too embarrassed because I didn't know how we communicate since she only sport Portuguese and I only spoke English. So for about two weeks I studied night and day my Portuguese if I wasn't working and picked up a few hundred words to have a basic conversation. About two months ago I went to Rio for a couple weeks and spent the whole trip together. She had been working on her English and I have been working on my Portugues and betime we got there we both spoke enough broken English and Portuguese that we could communicate without using Google translate for every message.

[Xpartan]

Dear friends,

Which Hotel would you prefer?

Hilton Barra or Copacabana?

Barra is cheaper, Copacabana is near beach.

Which Hotel is better for our sports?

Thank you for any help!!

It sounds like you're planning your first visit, so let me address the sports question first.

Stay in Copacabana for your first few visits or until you get your bearings. And perhaps even after that too.

I stayed at Hilton Copa a few times and still like it even though it clearly shows its age. It's not near the beach, it's right across from the beach and all rooms have ocean views. A huge plus in my book.

It's also GF now. You must register your girl at the check-in, but I personally don't mind that at all.

Any which way you look at it, Hilton Copa is a no brainer if you're choosing between these two.

[DonMedellin]

Clinica in SP and Prives in Rio are similar in structure. Presentation and then pick one, and how much time you want to spend. You can decline and walk to the next place if you so desire.

Termas are spa-ish, because the men can wear robes walking around but there are no actual spa or pool, etc. It function more like a strip club where garotas / girls walking around in skimpy, next to nothing clothing. You can drink and dance with the girl, sometimes there is strip shows, and then pick your girl / time to play. Price at termas are preset, unlike a nightclub or boates where the girl and you negotiate the price.

Thanks for your response. Glad that I asked. Looks like I will mostly go to prives, and perhaps 1 or 2 top termas just for the experience. What are some of the best prives these days? When it come to quality of talent of course. The Medellin forum has a map, is there one for Brazilian cities as well?

[LuvChicas]

Dear friends,

Which Hotel would you prefer?

Hilton Barra or Copacabana?

Barra is cheaper, Copacabana is near beach.

Which Hotel is better for our sports?

Thank you for any help!!

I can only speak for Hilton Copacabana. I've stayed there a few times. You are right next to ground zero for garotas action. Mabs restaurant and night clubs are across the street. But it is no longer like the good old days, way prior to the pandemic and before that. Sorry to write. But you may get lucky and find something nice, sweet and not so predatory. Happy hunting, Luvchicas.

[FlowState985]

I am a Colomnbia regular, heading soon to Brazil for the first time. I have made a list of clinicas to visit in Sao Paulo. I have some questions about Rio. Could someone help out a fellow monger? Please.

What is the difference between "terman", "clinica" and "prive"?

I am mostly a day time brothel guy, not interested in drinking or dancing, and I am into Latina / European looking women, where should I go in Rio? I only have 4 x4 and Whiskeria 65 on my list so far, these 2 places seem to open in the early afternoon, where else should I visit? Thanks everyone.

Clinica in SP and Prives in Rio are similar in structure. Presentation and then pick one, and how much time you want to spend. You can decline and walk to the next place if you so desire.

Termas are spa-ish, because the men can wear robes walking around but there are no actual spa or pool, etc. It function more like a strip club where garotas / girls walking around in skimpy, next to nothing clothing. You can drink and dance with the girl, sometimes there is strip shows, and then pick your girl / time to play. Price at termas are preset, unlike a nightclub or boates where the girl and you negotiate the price.

[Kforab]

I stayed at Copa. It was near Eden spa which was amazing at 150 real. Copas rooms look outdated but it is in the heart of everything. Hilton is cheaper and looks more modern but 30 minutes away. I used uber everywhere and it was good. Pm me anytime with questions. I didn't get much help directly from people but I was able to find info from reading months of posts which is still I great thing and appreciated.

Hi, your PM is dissbled. Sorry. So:

How easy it is to bring +1 girls on room in Hilton Copa for daytime fun?

What about is to be taken care if I visit a girl in her flat?

Going from airport to H Copa; you took Hoteltransfer or Uber or preordered ViP service?

Where I csn meet freelancers online? Tinder, tagged or there are some apps or pages?

I speak good spanish but no portugues. Will be this a problem?

Does the hotel have some seats on beach too?

Thanks for all help buddy!!