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[Hughdad]

Hey foxeshunter,

I meet a girl from Goiania online and came to Brasil to spend a week with her. My experience is that she was not p4p there fore cash rewards for renting her body was not given, we were a couple. I paid for everything while she was with me. As mongers we become accustomed to thinking every girl is looking for money from us, its true in some ways. But not always.

Goinanians are very slowwwww people I am from New York we think, eat, sleep, walk and talk very fast. Her slowness really dragged me down and we had no chemistry. But one thing SHE WAS SWEET! A real Joy! When I came home she sent me an email asking for airfare from brasil to California to see her mother but I said no and that was the end of us. We both had other intentions. Your age difference sends up some red flags. An older foriengnor is viewed as rich with opportunitys. I suggest show her a Honeymoon experience and have some fun, pay for eveything then ask her if you can give her some money as a gift. Then throw her like some money but remember that once you pay her it changes the relationship forever.

Boa SOrte Amigo!

I met a 50-plus y/o guy from NYC that met a 21 y/o hottie in Brazil. The guy was basically a loser with women here - he is the smothering and needy type. A real weaselly guy. At any rate, he goes to Rio, meets this hot young mother and next thing you know he was going there every other month, letting his business suffer, bought Nextel direct connect phones so they can talk 24/7 for cheap (and he could keep a leash on her activities when he is in the US), sent $ each month, was trying to get her and her son back here (and finding the going tough), and was talking about giving her another baby that she wanted. This 21 y/o trim was making him nuts! He was running around showing everyone her pictures - even if he just met someone - the pictures came out. His prized possession. Turns out, she thought he was a loser too and had a real boyfriend in Brazil too. Her cousin ratted her out - and now this guy is pursuing a relationship with her cousin.

Think things through with a clear head. And enjoy what you have in front of you. I have known other guys that had relationships with girls from other countries that were decades younger than them. And unless these guys were rich and showering them with $ - the relationships never lasted. It was a case of them wanting to get to the US and once they were here they saw their options. And the guys ended up bitter and trying to screw the girls over. Who needs that drama.

Get your wits about you man! If she likes you for who you are go with it, sure buy her some nice gifts if you want because you are saving on termas or paid pussy. If she wants more you'll find out soon enough.

[Golfinho]

Fox - This is the best advice do not give money give gifts instead; the best kind of gifts to give she will love and will benefit you as well! For example she likes your notebook, get her a notebook and she will use it to keep in communication with you via Skype, Instant Messaging and email, etc. You can also get her a nice cell phone; in our case probably the best kind of cell phone to get her is a Blackberry for one simple reason; Blackberry Messenger also known as "BBM"!

With BBM you can text back and forth free of charge; you yourself will also have to have a Blackberry, it works just like instant messaging but better and on your cell and it's free if you use Blackberry, better than having to pay SMS international fees!

But you get the idea buy her gifts that will help her keep in contact with you etc. and she will love to have all the new technology; you will not be setting the expectation of giving her money and she will think you really like her because you are giving her gifts to keep in touch! It works believe me!

Blackberry gets sold in a heartbeat. (my prediction) to buy something the mother needs for the house. (is what I'd guess).

[Musze3000]

Hey Que RicoQue Rico,

I like your reply because it is a real suggestion. I think I will behave myself in this way. I will try to buy some gifts her and I will offer some money, I think 500 euro (I hope it is right).

Thanks a lot!

Fox - This is the best advice do not give money give gifts instead; the best kind of gifts to give she will love and will benefit you as well! For example she likes your notebook, get her a notebook and she will use it to keep in communication with you via Skype, Instant Messaging and email, etc. You can also get her a nice cell phone; in our case probably the best kind of cell phone to get her is a Blackberry for one simple reason; Blackberry Messenger also known as "BBM"!

With BBM you can text back and forth free of charge; you yourself will also have to have a Blackberry, it works just like instant messaging but better and on your cell and it's free if you use Blackberry, better than having to pay SMS international fees!

But you get the idea buy her gifts that will help her keep in contact with you etc. and she will love to have all the new technology; you will not be setting the expectation of giving her money and she will think you really like her because you are giving her gifts to keep in touch! It works believe me!

[Bimbo Boy]

...
2) It is the first time I meet a so wonderful girl. In the past time I
had some little relationship only.
3) In Europe I have a wife and a family and I don't like to get problems.....
but I will not meet anymore a so wonderful girl around the world.
This meeting was irresistible and it is tangling me.

Foxeshunter,

You are living a very typical situation found in Latin cultures. Just listen to this song from Teo Galindez "Dos mujeres en mi vida" . http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3fKv4E4j_8 (2 women in my life). I lived through the same thing. I travelled to Brazil for a few years, until my children were grown up, and now I am divorcing and coming for living here. Do not worry about the age difference. It is quite frequent in Brazil.

You must make your own life choice ... Apparently you have chosen to pay your way out, as cheaply as possible, so please do not let us hear more of your whining.

Regards.
B.B.

[Golfinho]

Zingadoon,

I'm sorry but I don't like this reply at all.

1) Sure I like to spend money for a real girl friend but in Brazil

I don't know how much money I have to spend because I don't know Brazil.

2) It is the first time I meet a so wonderful girl. In the past time I had some little relationship only.

3) In Europe I have a wife and a family and I don't like to get problems.

But I will not meet anymore a so wonderful girl around the world. This meeting was irresistible and it is tangling me.

If you TRULY do not know a thing, then you'd better be careful. I've travelled all over Goiais.- in a rental car down potholed and dirt roads.- to places where the people had never seen a gringo. Show affection and appreciation to her family. Discover.- without asking.- what they need, and quietly make a present of it to them. Whatever you do, don't talk $$$. Last thing: don't play with their feelings.- They have NO sense of Irony.

[Eros74]

....
but I will not meet anymore a so wonderful girl around the world. ; ...

Never say never Fox, or in other words, check Russia too in your future travels

[FoxesHunter]

Hey foxeshunter,

I meet a girl from Goiania online and came to Brasil to spend a week with her. My experience is that she was not p4p there fore cash rewards for renting her body was not given, we were a couple. I paid for everything while she was with me. As mongers we become accustomed to thinking every girl is looking for money from us, its true in some ways. But not always.

Goinanians are very slowwwww people I am from New York we think, eat, sleep, walk and talk very fast. Her slowness really dragged me down and we had no chemistry. But one thing SHE WAS SWEET! A real Joy! When I came home she sent me an email asking for airfare from brasil to California to see her mother but I said no and that was the end of us. We both had other intentions. Your age difference sends up some red flags. An older foriengnor is viewed as rich with opportunitys. I suggest show her a Honeymoon experience and have some fun, pay for eveything then ask her if you can give her some money as a gift. Then throw her like some money but remember that once you pay her it changes the relationship forever.

Boa SOrte Amigo!

Hey Que RicoQue Rico,
I like your reply because it is a real suggestion. I think I will behave myself in this way. I will try to buy some gifts her and I will offer some money, I think 500 euro (I hope it is right).
Thanks a lot!

[FoxesHunter]

Have you NEVER had a girlfriend before, Man? Just because it's Brazil doesn't mean it works differently from anywhere else on the planet. Spend 10 days with someone, how can you not figure out what's what.

Zingadoon,
I'm sorry but I don't like this reply at all.

1) Sure I like to spend money for a real girl friend but in Brazil
I don't know how much money I have to spend because I don't know Brazil.
2) It is the first time I meet a so wonderful girl. In the past time I
had some little relationship only.
3) In Europe I have a wife and a family and I don't like to get problems.....
but I will not meet anymore a so wonderful girl around the world.
This meeting was irresistible and it is tangling me.

[Que Rico]

Hey foxeshunter,

I meet a girl from Goiania online and came to Brasil to spend a week with her. My experience is that she was not p4p there fore cash rewards for renting her body was not given, we were a couple. I paid for everything while she was with me. As mongers we become accustomed to thinking every girl is looking for money from us, its true in some ways. But not always.

Goinanians are very slowwwww people I am from New York we think, eat, sleep, walk and talk very fast. Her slowness really dragged me down and we had no chemistry. But one thing SHE WAS SWEET! A real Joy! When I came home she sent me an email asking for airfare from brasil to California to see her mother but I said no and that was the end of us. We both had other intentions. Your age difference sends up some red flags. An older foriengnor is viewed as rich with opportunitys. I suggest show her a Honeymoon experience and have some fun, pay for eveything then ask her if you can give her some money as a gift. Then throw her like some money but remember that once you pay her it changes the relationship forever.

Boa SOrte Amigo!

[Voyajer1]

Brazilian men typically don't treat their women nowhere nearly as well as how an industrialized westerner would treat his lady. Your lady wants no money, but as all relationships cost money at the end anyway, I suggest you take her out to all her favorite places: bars, restaurants, and yes, shopping for some nice stuff. A nice dress, matching bag, and shoes should do nicely. Just keep doing whatever it is that you are doing. I bet she is having the time of her life also. Just avoid those wedding bells at all costs. Now that is expensive !!!

Oi amigos,
I'd like to get some info about how much money I have to pay to my girl friend.
I often travel around the world, I know very well South America and never I have meet a stunner, wonderful morena girl. It is appening in Goiania. She is very sweet too. She is incredible for her sweetness. A real girl friend. What good luck!! She have a job and I am meeting her every day in the late afternoon. I will meet her 4-5 hours every day for 10 days. She has to pay its taxi or bus to meet me and she doesn't wish any money. She is a staunch real girl friend but .... I am worried. She probably will ask me to get Europa but I cannot agree.
At the end of my staying in Goiania I'd like to make a present of money.
In your opinion how much money could I give her for 10 days?
I am very worried!
I thank you for your suggestions.

[Hughdad]

Very interesting suggestions, I thank you! I don't know Brazil and now I am noticing it is very expensie to fuck a real girl friend. The cost of the Heaven is too much high for me. I am very worried.

When I have come to Brazil I didn't think about meeting a real girl friend and now this matter is upsetting me.

May be it is better to break off immediately this relationship or to follow the suggestions of Sperto. He recommend me to pay its taxi money and take her out to do some shopping, some nice new clothes. I hope it is sufficient.

I thanks yo!

If she is looking for a real relationship and hopes to get to come back to Europe with you she will be disappointed with anything else. Yeah, you can pay for her transportation, meals, entertainment and shopping trips and have a good time there. But you are aren't looking for a "girlfriend" per se if you only want to see her while you visit Brazil. And chances are she is looking for a trip to Europe. Either just enjoy the time you have with her as you currently have an arrangement to do. Or be honest and tell her you won't bring her to Europe and see what happens. You may find out she really likes your company or that she really wanted to get out of Brazil. Is that what you are worried about. Hearing that? You said you would be willing to break off the relationship immediately anyway. Why is it so hard to simply say what you feel and want. After all that is what being in a "relationship" is about. Otherwise, there are plenty of options for companionship in Brazil.

[FoxesHunter]

When a girl has stayed with me for a whole week, I have traditionally given her US$1000 at the end of the week, plus all her meals during that week, plus transportation to wherever we might travel during that week (e.g., Ouro Preto, Diamantes, Buenos Aires), plus access to whatever entertainment we might indulge (movies, concerts, etc.). Bear in mind that she will be staying in a luxury hotel during that time.

Very interesting suggestions, I thank you! I don't know Brazil and now I am noticing it is very expensie to fuck a real girl friend. The cost of the Heaven is too much high for me. I am very worried.
When I have come to Brazil I didn't think about meeting a real girl friend and now this matter is upsetting me.
May be it is better to break off immediately this relationship or to follow the suggestions of Sperto. He recommend me to pay its taxi money and take her out to do some shopping, some nice new clothes. I hope it is sufficient.
I thanks yo!

[Garotalover]

I agree with you 100% with you Lorenzo, guys that give the gdps that kind of jack are suckers and thats why they ask for so much money. For some reason they want to give favela garotas ny prices.As many times as I go to Rio I cannot understand giving a puta that kind of money!! $375 a day + f&b.

Interesting, but I'm curious as to where you found this "standard formula," i.e., whose standard is it? This is a bit steep and would in fact bankrupt me rather quickly, given the age difference between the girl and me. When a girl has stayed with me for a whole week, I have traditionally given her US$1000 at the end of the week, plus all her meals during that week, plus transportation to wherever we might travel during that week (e.g., Ouro Preto, Diamantes, Buenos Aires), plus access to whatever entertainment we might indulge (movies, concerts, etc.). Bear in mind that she will be staying in a luxury hotel during that time. In return for this, she will be my companion and be available to meet my sexual needs during that time, including threesomes when the opportunity arises. I have never had a girl complain or ask for more. If she is a termas girl, this may come to less than she might make at the termas, but it is more like a working vacation for her, and she doesn't have to screw 4+ guys a night. Works for me, and I think for her as well.

[FoxesHunter]

There is a standard formula for Girlfriend pricing in Brasil, sometimes called Namorada Valor. It is (^a * R$15 * t) where ^a = your age minus her age, and t = time in days. Thus if you are 50 and she is 25, ^a would be 25.
Therefore 25 * R$15 * 10 = R$3.750,00
You should also offer to pay her transportation cost.

Poucolouco,
is I will use that formula I will not get Europe from Brazil anymore because I will became a poor man.
I am 56 old and sher 21 old.

[Golfinho]

You are right! Really I am troubled by this relationship. What can I do? She like my notebook, could I buy it to her?

Some suggestions please. I wish to got a fromway through the window.

Have you NEVER had a girlfriend before, Man? Just because it's Brazil doesn't mean it works differently from anywhere else on the planet. Spend 10 days with someone, how can you not figure out what's what.