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[Captain Solo]

Rainman.

Check out this escort at La Cueva del Peludo. Doger talked highly about this club.

Next to it is a 5-star resort of some sort. Check it out and let us know how it goes.

https://www.facebook.com/18315754875...type=3&theater

[Sol12]

The other regular I was with was from Sonora and I stayed at her apartment every once in a while, but the girl I'm with deleted her contact from my phone. At the beginning of the "relationship / arrangement" I was fearful of losing her, but now after getting to know her more, I've come to accept / tolerate her work and it would hurt a little if she did leave. She was even talking about buying me shoes, which is odd and told her I don't need her to spend any of her money on me. I'm supposed to arrange a "romantic" Valentine's Day event, but have no clue as I'm not a "romantic" type of dude. So any suggestions would be great if you know of any places in Tijuana, Rosarito or Ensenada. She said she is going to surprise me too. Who knows, maybe the surprise is an amiga for a threesome, but I could only imagine. Have fun and enjoy the ride!

Now this is a place that a old friend of mine would take his girls back in the day so I'm not sure the condition of the place now but seem like they have kept it nice from pics but you might want to do a recon visit one day without your girl to see the place for yourself. It's hotel Las Rocas Spa and Resort. Since it's cold now the beach isn't great but this hotel is one of the only ones that have a few suites with fireplace so it would make for a nice romantic experience and with the spa you can really spoil her. You can either go to dinner in Porto Nuevo or Rosarito. Or if you really want to do something special for her you could take a short tip to GDL and have a romantic getaway to a place that she likes. They have some really nice spa hotels in Lake Chapala but it's expensive and not sure how booked it is for v day.

Good luck.

[Sol12]

You could try Deja Vu if it is a weekend. During the weekday I went it was dead and the ladies available were all curvy and kind of chunky. I prefer a more slim, curvy figure. I haven't been to Las Cueva Del Peludo, but try to check it out one day. The girl I'm with wanted to check out Amenesia gentleman's club on Revo, but she was upset I went into HK while she was working, so didn't get opportunity to check it out. As far as hotels, they have Ticuan on Revo or La Mansion (4 hour) short time motel, I think zona Rio, but located right off via rapida pte. No suggestions regarding escorts, but probably check out escort section. Have fun!

La Cueva was cool when I went but that was almost 20 years ago. I'm sure it's not a huge difference but don't expect it to be like HK. I'd imagine it's still a ficha bar and if I remember it had a few pool tables if you don't like any girls. If you go a little more east you can go to Siete de Copas also. It is more of a Tropical vibe but again I haven't been in a long time. It use to be smaller but they expanded and have a stage for live music more like Las Chavelas just bigger. I always was tempted to let my girl shop at Sígalo XXI and for me to go across the street to Siete.

[Elvis 2008]

She said she would "kill me" if she saw me being escorted out of the club by another chica. It is really strange how they think, but I haven't had any desire for any other woman and plenty stopped by to rub my dick.

When I was at a strip club out of the blue, this cute chick fucked me bare back, and she would have these wild orgasms when she did. I was younger, married, and it kind of scared me. She told me "if I was your GF, I would lock you up, not let you see another girl, and fuck you day and night." It was a weird deal to me. Most times I would think this was bullshit, but I kind of thought she was telling me the truth. And then it happened again.

The girl does not fuck me in the club but does serious grinding sessions and gets off three, four, and five times. I get that people here thinks that is bullshit but she never saw me outside the club. I would have liked to as I was more attracted to her, but she said, "Look, you are not ready to settle down right now, and I know that. If you were my BF, I would be fucking you like crazy, but it would kill me if you cheated on me."

The next time I saw her she called me an asshole. She did not want to tell me what happened but I got it out of her. Apparently she went out with other guys, and one came right away and the other had a micro dick. In both cases, she went to the bathroom, masturbated and thought about me, and got off. She told me I was fucking up her life, and I think she meant it.

I saw her once more like two years later, and she said, "Oh great, I just had you out of my mind and you come back in."

This type of chemistry was rare for me, but it happened a few other times with other women, and except for the first girl, the reaction was not pleasure but fear.

Strippers are notorious liars so I did not believe these women but as it kept happening I considered that they were being honest. I did not get why so many women were unhappy after having these great orgasms.

I realize now that a lot of them had BFs and they were having these great orgasms with me and not with their BFs, and that bothered them. Their BFs would stay loyal to them and they knew I would not so yeah I get whey later they were scared to dance and dry hump me.

The girl calling me asshole had an amazing body. So her beauty may interfere with guys ability to control themselves. And they had to worry about performance anxiety. To me, I was just paying her.

In addition, I was not giving myself any credit. As I have aged, my ability to get hard is less but with some enhancements I can stay hard when feeling good and now I can cum when I want. So if I am fucking my gal, and she wants to get off, I am not going to cum as many other guys would. And because I have had beautiful women before, her beauty does not intimidate me. Her beauty would have intimidated me if I were younger.

She had a BF before who was very controlling, and I think he was because he knew she was a better person than him. I do not feel that way, and I realize now that most guys cannot handle a lot of money or a beautiful woman. They think they can but they really cannot.

Thing is as a guy we get a high from seeking out the new. These women get a high from seeing the same guy and even more when the sex is magical. Women can fuck as much as they want. And we are the ones with the limitations on how much we can get hard and how many orgasms we can have.

So looking from their eyes, I can kind of get how they feel. Why are you taking one of my erections and one of my orgasms and wasting it on this tramp? And if you do that, you are putting my magical sex at risk, and why in the hell would you do that to me?

That is the part that has kept me in. Sure, I look at photos of women and porn and get turned on, but I have not acted on my impulses. I know sex with anyone else would be a letdown and if I fucked someone else and she found out, I could ruin it with her. Women are not the same if they knew you have cheated on them.

[Member #4730]

Small world. My girl is from sonora. She looks very European. Probably not a neck breaker like yours but I do catch guys staring. Something I'm used to though from my last civvie girlfriend. If they arent looking at your girl you are with the wrong girl. She's 100% my type though. Small spinner girl. Sometimes I feel like I found a unicorn.

Threeways get tricky because of jealousy. Its never easy! But no girl is special and we can definitely replace them eventually. Its the beauty of tijuana. Theres so many new girls coming in. And I think you're selling yourself short. Guys think in terms of looks so we think "why does this girl like me I'm old, ugly etc" but you are a veteran, so that means you're probably not a beta male with a weak personality. You have cash. Probably more I can say but that's two things already 80% or more of men don't have.

The other regular I was with was from Sonora and I stayed at her apartment every once in a while, but the girl I'm with deleted her contact from my phone. At the beginning of the "relationship / arrangement" I was fearful of losing her, but now after getting to know her more, I've come to accept / tolerate her work and it would hurt a little if she did leave. She was even talking about buying me shoes, which is odd and told her I don't need her to spend any of her money on me. I'm supposed to arrange a "romantic" Valentine's Day event, but have no clue as I'm not a "romantic" type of dude. So any suggestions would be great if you know of any places in Tijuana, Rosarito or Ensenada. She said she is going to surprise me too. Who knows, maybe the surprise is an amiga for a threesome, but I could only imagine. Have fun and enjoy the ride!

[Member #4730]

Will be in Tijuana from February 2 - 5. Depending on when the world really opens up from COVID, may be my last Tijuana trip for awhile. Likely going to try German FKK & Colombia next. Plus I have other totally none mongering trips to take.

Have 2 nights booked at Rizo de Oro at the Tropical bar. Still need a hotel for my last night in Tijuana. The hotels at Chicago & Adelita don't allow online booking. Might go outside the zona as well.

Can anyone recommend a top flight recent experience with an escort? If yes, might pick a nice hotel outside the zona. What about some of the clubs outside the zona with attached hotels? Worthwhile?

You could try Deja Vu if it is a weekend. During the weekday I went it was dead and the ladies available were all curvy and kind of chunky. I prefer a more slim, curvy figure. I haven't been to Las Cueva Del Peludo, but try to check it out one day. The girl I'm with wanted to check out Amenesia gentleman's club on Revo, but she was upset I went into HK while she was working, so didn't get opportunity to check it out. As far as hotels, they have Ticuan on Revo or La Mansion (4 hour) short time motel, I think zona Rio, but located right off via rapida pte. No suggestions regarding escorts, but probably check out escort section. Have fun!

[TomJackin]

I just saw this today and not sure what to make about it:

San Ysidro, Calif. — USA Customs and Border Protection will require essential border-crossers to be fully vaccinated before entering the United States starting Saturday.

Truckers, students and other essential workers who are non-USA Citizens will now have to declare proof of vaccination to cross into the country, according to border officials. The USA Will require proof of vaccination from all foreign nationals crossing from Mexico and Canada.

Sophia Rodriguez and her friend Darrianna Moreno cross the border several times a week.

"I think they got to take care of the people that live here, so I think that's fine," Moreno said. "I think that's fair enough."

Any thoughts?

[Member #4730]

Jackie888.

Age. I'm 29 and she's 24. Not much of a difference and yeah she's a party girl but I'm hoping its just a phase. I've been partying since about 14 so I'm over it.

Language. I'm fluent in spanish so no problem.

Culture. My parents came from mexico. We have the same cultural values which I like. Plus she's pretty westernized and thinks more like an american than other mexicanas I have met, another plus.

Independence. My girl doesn't need me which is also a plus. I don't want some third world peasant who is 100% with me for money. But she most likely also knows she can't work / doesn't want to work the bars forever. Most likely sees me as her ticket out.

Other guys. This is a big one, I worry some dude at HK will fall in love with her and flash stupid amounts of cash and take her. Guess its a danger or dating a bar girl. And are sure constant attention? How much? Because everyone says its beta male behavior to be constantly texting your girl.

Distance. I'm in orange county so not too far and we are getting an apartment together in Tijuana.

Family. Again I understand the situation mexicans go through because my parents and family went through it. I would respect her less if she abandoned them actually.

Sol12.

My girl not having kids is one of the main reasons I'm pursuing her. I really don't mind the kids. Its so common among mexicanas that it usually can't be helped. I just know I will always come second or maybe 3rd if the baby daddy is still lurking around.

I wouldn't worry too much about some guy flashing too much cash and swooping her up. It would be a win in my book if she was just in it for the money and less of a future headache for you further along in the relationship. My girl says she has a different personality when working and a "normal" life personality which she wants to keep separate. I find it hard to figure out how they can compartmentalize this aspect of their life. She does tell me interesting stories which make me laugh.

Id recommend just having fun and enjoying the GFE situation as long as it is worth it to you. It is always day by day with my girl as I had no clue she was thinking marriage, but she did break down the other night saying she hates the bind she is in, but I told her I’d try my best to help her if she ever decided to quit. I told her I'd support her in whatever decision she makes and try to make life easier for her as I imagine it's hard trying to convince guys to spend as much as they can by providing an experience. A lot of people say not to date a women with a high body count, but I've been mongering around the world as well so what does that say about men with a high body count? The most difficult part of the relationship is what is her true intention with being with me. So plan for short term and don't have high expectations.

[Big Magick]

I do love and like this girl as she was the top experiences from my worldwide travels. I've been all over the world with most ethnicities. She turns the passion on and you would think after 6 months you wouldn't be able to fake genuine connection. I guess time will tell. I did a threesome with her when I was a client, but she wouldn't even look or talk to me after the experience so I know better than try to attempt something like that again. The top girls I've met were from Sinaloa and Sonora. They have almost a European look to them and I just have to laugh when I travel with my girl as guys young and old are breaking their neck. I bet they wonder what she sees in me and sometimes I wonder the same, but I told her I'm not scared to lose her as I am in a good position in life and could easily find someone else, but it is hard to find genuine connection.

Small world. My girl is from sonora. She looks very European. Probably not a neck breaker like yours but I do catch guys staring. Something I'm used to though from my last civvie girlfriend. If they arent looking at your girl you are with the wrong girl. She's 100% my type though. Small spinner girl. Sometimes I feel like I found a unicorn.

Threeways get tricky because of jealousy. Its never easy! But no girl is special and we can definitely replace them eventually. Its the beauty of tijuana. Theres so many new girls coming in. And I think you're selling yourself short. Guys think in terms of looks so we think "why does this girl like me I'm old, ugly etc" but you are a veteran, so that means you're probably not a beta male with a weak personality. You have cash. Probably more I can say but that's two things already 80% or more of men don't have.

[Rainman306]

Will be in Tijuana from February 2 - 5. Depending on when the world really opens up from COVID, may be my last Tijuana trip for awhile. Likely going to try German FKK & Colombia next. Plus I have other totally none mongering trips to take.

Have 2 nights booked at Rizo de Oro at the Tropical bar. Still need a hotel for my last night in Tijuana. The hotels at Chicago & Adelita don't allow online booking. Might go outside the zona as well.

Can anyone recommend a top flight recent experience with an escort? If yes, might pick a nice hotel outside the zona. What about some of the clubs outside the zona with attached hotels? Worthwhile?

[Big Magick]

Jackie888.

Age. I'm 29 and she's 24. Not much of a difference and yeah she's a party girl but I'm hoping its just a phase. I've been partying since about 14 so I'm over it.

Language. I'm fluent in spanish so no problem.

Culture. My parents came from mexico. We have the same cultural values which I like. Plus she's pretty westernized and thinks more like an american than other mexicanas I have met, another plus.

Independence. My girl doesn't need me which is also a plus. I don't want some third world peasant who is 100% with me for money. But she most likely also knows she can't work / doesn't want to work the bars forever. Most likely sees me as her ticket out.

Other guys. This is a big one, I worry some dude at HK will fall in love with her and flash stupid amounts of cash and take her. Guess its a danger or dating a bar girl. And are sure constant attention? How much? Because everyone says its beta male behavior to be constantly texting your girl.

Distance. I'm in orange county so not too far and we are getting an apartment together in Tijuana.

Family. Again I understand the situation mexicans go through because my parents and family went through it. I would respect her less if she abandoned them actually.

Sol12.

My girl not having kids is one of the main reasons I'm pursuing her. I really don't mind the kids. Its so common among mexicanas that it usually can't be helped. I just know I will always come second or maybe 3rd if the baby daddy is still lurking around.

[Member #4730]

With women I found it best to follow their actions not words. We are both in the same boat. In the back of my mind I get those thoughts of banging other girls and I know I can but I don't really want to. Its a strange back and forth in my mind. You definitely love / like this girl because I was in HK just last week and the talent is there. I was actually sitting with my girl and her bar friends and there was plenty of girls I wanted to put my dick in. Was kind of annoyed my girl was there LOL.

When I told her I was leaving she did the same and escorted me out of the club. She was making sure I didn't walk to another part of the club. My degenerate ass walked straight to tropical though because I saw one of the prettiest girls I've ever seen in the zona at tropical. 19 yr old from sinaloa. Alondra. God this girl was pretty. Reminds me of a 19 yr old spinner I found in HK once. Those young ones look so good as creepy as that sounds. But it just biology. We are biological creatures and its why we still lust for other women even though we like our partners.

I actually had an amazing threesome with two HK girls last week at like 10 am and then saw my girl later that same night. Don't get me wrong the threesome was hot and a good time but its not even that I felt guilty. I just rather be with my girl more. Damn I've really caught the simp bug again.

I do love and like this girl as she was the top experiences from my worldwide travels. I've been all over the world with most ethnicities. She turns the passion on and you would think after 6 months you wouldn't be able to fake genuine connection. I guess time will tell. I did a threesome with her when I was a client, but she wouldn't even look or talk to me after the experience so I know better than try to attempt something like that again. The top girls I've met were from Sinaloa and Sonora. They have almost a European look to them and I just have to laugh when I travel with my girl as guys young and old are breaking their neck. I bet they wonder what she sees in me and sometimes I wonder the same, but I told her I'm not scared to lose her as I am in a good position in life and could easily find someone else, but it is hard to find genuine connection.

[Member #4730]

Seems like there are a couple of issues what mongers have to overcome or at least try to solve before dating a bar girl in Tijuana. I think any guy wanting to date one should consider these issues. Did I miss any?

1. age. She is in her very early 20's, and the time to settle down may not be ripe for her. She likes to party, and she hasn't gotten it out of her system yet.

2. language. Google translate helps, but does not do it all. So ideally the guy learns Spanish and the girl learns English at the same time.

3. culture. Mexicans have a family culture where everyone is involved in major decision making. In the US, we tend to do shit and tell the family later.

4. independence. The better bar girls can support themselves pretty well, so they really don't need your money as much as you think they do.

5. other guys. Bar girls are constantly put on a pedestal by guys. She ain't the mousy librarian that meets a guy once a week. You need to learn to give her a lot of attention.

6. distance. It is a pain in the ass to drive down there for a date. Better plan to move down there.

7. family. She came from a poor family. She ain't going to abandon them. You should budget to help her family out in addition to taking care of her.

I told my girl that she needs to figure out if she is ready for a relationship and she always said she was, but complicated. Also I told her she is young and should explore her options as I am almost twice her age and can relate when I was younger. Language isn't too much of an issue as she has to get certified TOEFL in order to graduate and she is independent and has taken care of herself since she was 17. She doesn't need me or my money and difficult to try and help someone that doesn't need it. Also she told me she falls apart when I leave since she doesn't have any true friends or family in Tijuana. I didn't know and she never told me, but always thought she would hang out with a hometown friend in the area.

She also has a ton of guys trying to date her, take her to eat, vacations, etc. I don't have time to dedicate all my time to her and she does get annoyed when I don't respond timely to her texts. I prefer video chats and think texting is kind of pointless. Also since we are not married and just dating, then I don't feel like I'm obligated to fund family issues and she doesn't feel like I have any obligation to her family either. She is trying to do the best she can juggling work, school, and family obligations. Sad a "decent" salary for workers in her hometown is $100 per week. Her mother was actually still working since she couldn't afford medical expenses so my girl was in a dilemma between not wanting to ask for my help, ending the relationship since she thought I wouldn't stay, and trying to figure out how to make as much money as possible before they go back to in person classes. It is strange how I got to this point, but she is great to me and really hard to imagine how many options she has and yet she still stays with me.

[Sol12]

Seems like there are a couple of issues what mongers have to overcome or at least try to solve before dating a bar girl in Tijuana. I think any guy wanting to date one should consider these issues. Did I miss any?

1. age. She is in her very early 20's, and the time to settle down may not be ripe for her. She likes to party, and she hasn't gotten it out of her system yet.

2. language. Google translate helps, but does not do it all. So ideally the guy learns Spanish and the girl learns English at the same time.

3. culture. Mexicans have a family culture where everyone is involved in major decision making. In the US, we tend to do shit and tell the family later.

4. independence. The better bar girls can support themselves pretty well, so they really don't need your money as much as you think they do.

5. other guys. Bar girls are constantly put on a pedestal by guys. She ain't the mousy librarian that meets a guy once a week. You need to learn to give her a lot of attention.

6. distance. It is a pain in the ass to drive down there for a date. Better plan to move down there.

7. family. She came from a poor family. She ain't going to abandon them. You should budget to help her family out in addition to taking care of her.

I'd say the most important thing is that 90% have kids and if you are up to step into that father role if he's not around or want to deal with the drama of him still wanting to see the kid and mad about her being with some American now.

[Guardman]

I think that most of us guys are in our 40-60 range, and the chicas we are with are about 20. So when she is old and cannot compete, we will all be pushing up the daisies. So it's probably a moot possibility.

I guess I depends on when you think women hit the wall. For me over 35 is on the way down. That's only 15 years from 20 to 35. Plenty of us will still be around then.