General Reports

[BrotherMouzone]

Sorry Vets don't want to get slammed for this seemingly which is better post, but I legitimately want to put this out there as someone who has been to both Tijuana (many many times) and Medellin (just once).

Even flying in from the East Coast 3 times or so a year, the overriding factors for me are language barrier and convenience. A high percentage of service workers, including a good enough percentage of the chicas, speak passable English. This includes food and retail service workers out and about Tijuana. The USA Dollar is also pretty much universally accepted everywhere in Tijuana and the good ole USA Is literally within walking distance of Zona Norte.

That all amounts to a level of comfort that, at least for me, makes Tijuana preferable to Medellin and the other destinations outside the USA You can look at quality (which is subjective) and cost of chicas in those other destinations but, IMO, the gap isn't that wide and at least for me doesn't come close to making up for the decreased convenience.

For you (being 90% fluent in Spanish as you mentioned) and several others on this board, language barrier I guess isn't really a big issue given your fluency in Spanish. So can see why those other destinations might be more desirable for guys like you. But a large percentage of gringos who go to Zona Norte don't speak a lick of Spanish and don't have the time to fly to another continent in another part of the world.

I'd guesstimate that I know 2,000-2,500 Spanish words and can read / speak / understand very basic stuff, but wouldn't be comfortable (relative to my comfort level in Tijuana) pursuing chicas in a country where another language is spoken exclusively. Am working on improving the Spanish though, LOL.

[TjBrazil]

No, I'm not attracted to 50's or 60's chicks. If I was, I would never have to monger. The amount of old broads that hit on me is horrifying. There is something called post nut clarity. It happens after fucking young attractive girls too. It's almost like after 3 or 4 bangs, she all of a sudden becomes unattractive to me. An old woman doesn't even get me to the starting line to experience it.

[GentileBear]

I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's?

HELL NO! Tom Leykis said it best "The cure for Erectile dysfunction is banging YOUNGER WOMEN".

[The Cane]

This link was posted in another thread by another monger. Have a look at it, even if it's just the first 10 minutes. The guy is so on point! Listening to it, I say to society that I know nothing is wrong with me. I agree with a lot of what he says, and with respect to the the institution of marriage acted accordingly based on what I knew would work best for me and the life I wanted to live. Check it out:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o5z8...hiteUnderbelly

[Turgid]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

There must be something to marriage as throughout human history billions of people have tried it.

[The Cane]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

It's extremely rare for me to find a woman in her 50's to be attractive. And when I do, it's usually somebody on TV LOL! That said, I have a colleague in her 50's who is hot and who I would fuck in a heartbeat! Otherwise, it's also exclusively women in their 20's and 30's for me too. And I've never had to adjust because, after becoming a committed monger, I've been able to just keep fucking hotties in their 20's and 30's, and I'm happy with that. I decided a long time ago for my own personal reasons that marriage (and all of the challenges that come with it) wasn't for me. Like you say, I calculated that marriage, for a variety of reasons (including but certainly not shallowly limited to how one's spouse might look 30 years later), was a very bad deal. Jackie888 mentions some of the pitfalls of marriage, but that's only the tip of the iceberg really.

So, despite societal expectations and pressure I decided not to go there, and to instead focus on my education, establishing a career, and earning and saving money. Then when I discovered the world of mongering where I could have as much sex as I could both handle and afford, well then that sealed it. That's all she wrote! Speaking of societal expectations, I remember when I landed my first professional job. It was coming right out of university, and one of the female professors stated that now that I was going to be employed, I needed to get married because, in her view, every gainfully employed man needed to be supporting dependents. Really? Uh, I don't think so! Well, I didn't always deflect the weight of the pressure that easily, but by the time I decided to become a pro monger many years ago, that did it for good. Monger for life!

[Jackie888]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

I'm in my mid-50's and women my age are grandmothers. If I date them, I run the risk of being attracted to their daughters who are in their 20's and 30's. IMHO, marriage is something one should do if one wants a family with kids. But just be aware that living together is tough and a majority of marriages end after 7 years according to statistics, so keeping her a wife for 30 years (20 to 50) requires a lot of effort. But hey if a 20 year old is willing to marry my 55 year old ass, I'll give it a try!

[Phordphan]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

If you both truly love each other, as your relationship (and yourselves) matures, physical beauty is replaced by something else. You each become attractive to the other for different reasons. Only the most shallow and self-absorbed people never experience this.

When I married my late wife I thought she was very attractive. Over the decades her looks faded, but her inner beauty grew. It sounds corny, but it was very true.

Now I have Mexican GFs of 50,49, early 40's, 30, and 25. And a Thai GF of 61. I appreciate each of them for their uniqueness. They all have varying levels of physical beauty, but I find that isn't the most important thing in a relationship. Much better to have a kind and sweet 7 than a psycho-***** 10.

[SmallWeinerGuy]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

Just look at older men who are attractive. DiCaprio throws women away after they turn 26. Pacino is 80 and just got his 29 year old girlfriend pregnant. Monika Lewsinsky was in her early 20's when she sucked Bill Clinton off. Basically some men age with their wives but I would argue that they're settling. The evidence suggests that men who are able to, generally trade in their wives for younger models.

[Baxter Slade]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

Good question.

I'm in my late 60's I can't even get a women in her 70's to give me a 2nd look in the states. To be honest I wouldn't want her to, due to 0.0 attraction.

Now add Tijuana to the equation I have a mid 30's GF who I'm very attracted to.

[Izl80]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

Not a gaurantee but meet her Mom and Auntie and see how they might look in their 50's.

Maintain your health and hopefully your sexual appetite in your 60's can match her sexual appetite in her 50's.

A woman that is easy on the eyes is way better than viagra any day!

Happy hunting Tijuana Amigo!

[StubbornMule]

I'm in my 30's and prefer girls in their 20's and 30's; women over 50 don't do anything for me. I'm curious if those of you in your 50's and 60's feel any attraction towards women in their 50's? It seems to me that marriage is a bad deal, in the sense that even if you marry a beautiful woman in her 20's, you take the risk that won't be attracted to her when she reaches her 50's. Any thoughts?

[SlickVick0303]

To me this is easy. It just depends on whether you have to fly.

If you can drive to Tijuana it's something you can do anytime. It's a great place to wedge in whenever. So go to Med and save Tijuana for last min trips.

If you have to fly either way do Med. The longer flight is not that big a deal once you're dealing with airports. You'll just lose an afternoon.

Unfortunately I do have to fly to either so it makes the decision tougher as both are quite the hike for me and thus don't get to visit easily.

On another note. I have been looking at other places in Mexico as Tom Jackin seems to conquer and find something everywhere! LOL. But I just don't see a place with a better easier set up than Tijuana. With just 5-6 days, I think most other towns take some work and tougher time just executing. I was in Mexico City, Puebla and Oaxaca and Jesus was it SOOOO hard to find any action.

I am leaning towards Medellin, just need to keep it to parque lleras and keep things simple I think. I would love to explore and find gems in other areas, but being solo and not knowing the lay of the land well yet. Don't want to explore only to strike out.

I've even contemplated a whole other destination like Panama City, Lima or Guatemala. All within the same price range flightwise, so just need to find the best option with some sure hits and a nice scenery.

[TjBrazil]

Where? Cancun, Ensenada, and Cabo were awful for this. Just bad.

Unfortunately, Cancun should be the greatest mongering destination in the world but isn't due to Mexican business models. I went into one strip club. Pretty nice place. I was the only guy there, and 20 girls stood up and were smiling at me to come sit down. They were so desperate for customers. The manager in a suit came to me to explain. It was like 300 dollars to be with a girl plus entrance fees or tips. They rather have no customers and charge outrageous prices that few bite on. The sweet spot there would be 150 dollars and the club makes money on drinks and entrance fee.

[AmericanPi]

To me this is easy. It just depends on whether you have to fly.

If you can drive to Tijuana it's something you can do anytime. It's a great place to wedge in whenever. So go to Med and save Tijuana for last min trips.

If you have to fly either way do Med. The longer flight is not that big a deal once you're dealing with airports. You'll just lose an afternoon.

Sorry Vets don't want to get slammed for this seemingly which is better post, but I legitimately want to put this out there as someone who has been to both Tijuana (many many times) and Medellin (just once).

I have 6 days free coming up in December that I can take off and this will be the last time I can make magic happen for the year. I am torn between what I know and exploring a bit more.

Here is my thought process:

Tijuana.

Pros:

1. Know it very well and even explored outside the Zona and found many good places to eat and drink and just overall hang out. Plus many spots still left to explore with confidence.

2. Easy to get to, I have GE so crossing back is not a hassle to me..