General Reports

[Dogers69]

Curious as to where you go and what your approach is? I did have a girl at the Green Witch try to get me to join here and her friends going to another place. But one of her friends cock-blocked and said I was too old. (he's like 40 - if they only knew, LOL) Still, I don't find it easy to approach people at those places.

A young gringo like under 33 shouldn't really be paying in HK. Partying in HK sure. But I know young guys who would go to beer garden place and get woman very easily. They were not tall either. Just walking into Mexico makes them go from a visual 7 to 9 due to woman not caring much about height.

[Dcrist0527]

Curious as to where you go and what your approach is? I did have a girl at the Green Witch try to get me to join here and her friends going to another place. But one of her friends cock-blocked and said I was too old. (he's like 40 - if they only knew, LOL) Still, I don't find it easy to approach people at those places.

Most often, I've had success at El Copeo and at Rancho Grande.

I would stop short of saying I have an approach. I don't really go in those places to hunt so I'd credit luck more than an approach. But when I've had success, I just go to the bar, have a drink and just look around the room. If I make eye contact and get a smile, I'll raise my glass and ask them (by my motion, not verbally) if they'd like a drink. If they come over, chances are very high that things will go very well. I'm definitely passive because it's not a goal I have when I walk in. So it's a lot about luck, timing but most importantly, be approachable and welcoming. If guys aren't comfortable because of language or environment, then it just won't work.

Also, as others have said, the key word is help. After establishing rapport (do NOT lead with help), the conversation will naturally lead to her difficulties. That's your cue to offer help. Be direct but do not make it transactional. Here again, I am very passive, I'll sit and drink and talk for a long time. I enjoy the flirting and conversation. But if you offer help, she will know what you are talking about.

Las Pulgas is another place some have reported success. I haven't had any luck there. Chicas are usually in larger groups and it's just a different dynamic. It just hasn't worked for me.

Most importantly, realize that I am over 40, overweight, can't dance and my Spanish is limited. If I can do it, anyone can. Be approachable and you'll do well.

[Captain Solo]

Texas' recent felony prostitution and antiabortion laws, allowing any party to rat on and sue providers for bounties, are way too extreme. Soon they may have stricter laws against fornication and adultery if they are not already in the book. Texas' lawmakers prefer the citizens to praise the Lord while screwing their own children and cousins hehe.

OTOH Texas is not serious about prosecuting human traffickers and horny teachers screwing their young students, which seem to happen a lot in Texas.

Elon Musk and company are moving to Texas. These guys are highly stressed and wild. I figure they will have lots of run ins with redneck laws. Or Elon may just buy all those Bible-thumping pols and legislate Texas into a Philistine state just to keep his workers happy pumping out cars.

[LuvMexicanas]

I did have a girl at the Green Witch try to get me to join here and her friends going to another place. But one of her friends cock-blocked and said I was too old.

The friend may have saved you the expectation of picking up the tab. There is asking you to join in a genuine sense and asking you to join so her and her friends can drink on your dime.

[Phordphan]

Curious as to where you go and what your approach is? I did have a girl at the Green Witch try to get me to join here and her friends going to another place. But one of her friends cock-blocked and said I was too old. (he's like 40 - if they only knew, LOL) Still, I don't find it easy to approach people at those places.

In a Zona club it's not unusual for a guy to have relations with a girl one-third of his age. He's the paying customer. In civvie bars it will be a bit different. Generally speaking, you're going to have to be more "age appropriate." It won't necessarily be as bad as the USA, but if you're 50, for example, it'll be hard to pull a 22 year old. Women between, say, 35 and 40 would be more likely targets.

[Dickus Maximus]

I am the epitome of out of shape. But I do well in civie bars. I think Mexicanas are more forgiving. No doubt good looks help. But I would not say you need to delay.

Curious as to where you go and what your approach is? I did have a girl at the Green Witch try to get me to join here and her friends going to another place. But one of her friends cock-blocked and said I was too old. (he's like 40 - if they only knew, LOL) Still, I don't find it easy to approach people at those places.

[Turgid]

This is a very serious charge.

Soliciting arrests will likely go down but other sex crimes, rape, kidnap, murder will likely go up.

https://www.dallasjustice.com/buying...elony-offense/

A law pushed by haters and deviants.

[StRobert]

I was Tuesday in Tijuana (pedestrian crossing San Ysidro ped east) and the first time I saw a Mexican officer had a sniffing dog and the dog was sniffing people entering Mexico. The dog looked like a brown spaniel (not a German shepherd used by the US CBP). There were four or five Mexican Marines with machine guns at the X-Ray machine, and they watched everyone as they entered. Do not bring any illegal items to Mexico because you're going to be in deep doo-doo (e. G. Weed is legal in California but illegal in Mexico).

[Dcrist0527]

Thanks for the advice everyone and I would never be so crass to just proposition civies like that, even in the zona bars I make sure to talk and flirt with the girl first. I've learned making things less transactional benefits everyone. I get better service and she feels less guilt / shame or whatever about it. I really need to get in better shape so I can hit the nightlife outside of the zona LOL.

I am the epitome of out of shape. But I do well in civie bars. I think Mexicanas are more forgiving. No doubt good looks help. But I would not say you need to delay.

[Jackie888]

https://www.audacy.com/krld/news/loc...fficking-sting

Can you imagine that caught in the sting? Ruin your job, profession and life, have a felony on your record just for natural urges unmet in US!

They said in the article wouldn't have the human trafficking without the demand (B.S.). Cartels making $ hand over fist bringing whomever person across our southern border for whatever reason. Demand is the overall chance for a better life in U.S. Yes since p-tution illegal in U.S. organized crime gets involved and do take advantage of at risk women.

It isn't just having a felony on your record. The troubling thing is also where you will jailed. Probably prison with the real Felons. General population.

With a misdemeanor, more often that not, you can plea out to a fine and probation. It's really the bread and butter of the court system. The money is used to pay the salaries of the court system employees. And if jailed, you are held in county jail with all the other jay-walkers. And it cost the county to host you. Hence the rate of a misdemeanor plea is so high.

[Gregyyr]

While Luke sounds like he will be out of state he did a heck of a sales pitch on Halloween in Tijuana / Norte. Have never been there for Halloween so it be tempting as it's a new adventure. Could be fun to meetup with a few from the forum if others make it down there.

https://youtu.be/dDo4irBJOaM

G.

[Gregyyr]

This is a very serious charge.

Soliciting arrests will likely go down but other sex crimes, rape, kidnap, murder will likely go up.

https://www.dallasjustice.com/buying...elony-offense/

If demand goes down girls will just go to other states to work which will probably piss off the girls from those areas and maybe the prices will go down in the non-felony states?

I think it's kind of funny that the religious right has Texas by the balls and "everything" that encompasses. It's one thing when they say "no abortion" but many men didn't give a shit as it does not affect them. But now some of the men's lives could get fucked up a bit with this new law. So as much as I hate to see it I think it's good that Texas feels the full weight of the BS laws they pass. Plus maybe it will drive more prostitution demand over the border in Mexico and get some of the money going down there.

Also those folks who claim they just had to move to Texas due to all the issues in CA. They brag a bit how good it is and yet life seems more and more not so great there.

Can't wait to see the next bullshit laws they pass in Texas.

Not trying to trash TX too much as I really like Houston and know several folks who live in that city. But just "saying". Tijuana is looking better and better.

G.

[Cocr Brotheler]

I haven't paid for many sessions in the states in my life nearing 55 years.

When I lived in South Florida in the early 2000's I did a handful of times because could get some nice talent and not too much $$. Then I discovered CR and Colombia and no need for it in US since I don't have to have it very often. Only one time in TX early 2011 and was a chance encounter in an elevator of a nice hotel where the woman asked if she could use my restroom LOL. I was not actively pursuing and she started the negotiations.

Sounds like these Johns all got caught on-line. The article Solo linked mentions if is a first offense and get a good lawyer then can get it dropped from your record but still! Even before upgrade of the offense I just didn't pursue due to not even wanting to be Misdemeanored on my record. I considered SA and SB but too much $$$ and hassle. I wonder what it is like on those sites now?

I'm thinking the recent Johns caught were going onto free or low cost social boards like on "To Catch a Predator" series and actively offering in a predatory manner but who knows?

San Diego/TJ just a 2.5 hour flight away when I can arrange my schedule. Have been thinking of pursuing work in CA to be closer but soon I think they will eliminate negative testing requirement for air travel back to U.S. and is game on for me for more trips south of the border.

[Captain Solo]

This is a very serious charge.

Soliciting arrests will likely go down but other sex crimes, rape, kidnap, murder will likely go up.

https://www.dallasjustice.com/buying...elony-offense/

[Phordphan]

https://www.audacy.com/krld/news/loc...fficking-sting

Can you imagine that caught in the sting? Ruin your job, profession and life, have a felony on your record just for natural urges unmet in US!

They said in the article wouldn't have the human trafficking without the demand (B.S.). Cartels making $ hand over fist bringing whomever person across our southern border for whatever reason. Demand is the overall chance for a better life in U.S. Yes since p-tution illegal in U.S. organized crime gets involved and do take advantage of at risk women.

115 arrested, 100% were men. This says all you need to know. Note that there were ZERO arrests of anybody actually involved in this "trafficking. " These shadowy kingpins, who smuggle and "traffic" these girls all over the country (if you actually believe this) somehow escaped. These noble cops and lawyers rescue these girls, but for some reason the girls never seem to roll over on their traffickers. So, there you have it. If a girl offers sex for money, she's the victim and in need of rescuing. If a man offers, he's a felon.