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08-03-11 22:01 #5288
Posts: 1328Memo to self: It's OK to like the girls.
Originally Posted by Guitarrefreak [View Original Post]
But it's OK to like the girls. They happen to be people, too. In fact, mongers should add appreciation to their kit. Why? Because the quality of your session could depend on it. Most girls will deliver a good session to a good attitude and respectful demeanor, even if they are rats. You can set the tone for the session and give her a "benchmark." Now, she might have one eye trolling the room for your stuff as you glam slam her, but chances are she'll keep the session running well for you.
Some might mistake your appreciation and positive attitude for stupidity and ignorance because "everybody knows" hookers lie, steal and deliver bad sessions.
Not so fast. Not all girls are out to rip you off.
It is OK for you to like the girl, take her as your favorite and pay her a bit more for the extra effort she puts into making your session a good one. All that is cool.
The thing comes apart when she mis-interprets your good intention as an opening to "groom" you into a walking ATM machine. Or if she starts playing a guilt game with you. All the girls know very well that the arrangement is a business arrangement. The one's that would exploit that opportunity on a personal level are the ones to watch out for. If yuo see it coming and don't step out of the way, you could be in for a big hit.
So, like the girl. Always be square with the girls. Pay them what you owe them, and give them a tip if they deserve it. But keep one thing in mind: THERE ARE NO FRIENDS IN BUSINESS.
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08-03-11 20:42 #5287
Posts: 173Fantasy
Originally Posted by Guitarrefreak [View Original Post]
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08-03-11 19:33 #5286
Posts: 502Originally Posted by Guitarrefreak [View Original Post]
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08-03-11 19:14 #5285
Posts: 194Hey Gfreak:
It was nice to see that someone could take another's point of view as it was intended, and not a knock on ones self. Country John posts many good thoughts. I am a better person for reading and taking in his words.
I understand that this is P4P and they are all in it for the money. If it wasn't for the money, do you think that women 1/3 to 1/2 my age would be going arriba with me. Of course they wouldn't. That does not mean that they are not real women, with hopes, dreams, and desires. They want to feel special, especially since they have to do what they are doing. I have a current favorita (which is very unlike me) , half my age, that will sit with me for a great deal of time, refuse more drinks, and is very passionate (GFE type) in la cama. She says that she likes me because "I make her happy". When we come back down she goes about her business of making money from drinks, and going arriba if she chooses. I will often sit in the bar while this is happening, and it serves many purposes. She can continue to make money instead of counting on me for more to just sit with me. I will ride this horse until it ends, and then NEXT!
I don't think that you need to "harden" yourself. There is nothing wrong with caring. If I can make a suggestion; there is a place in your body that when you are with a woman you like, and actually want, that you can feel intensely. It could be in your chest area, or possibly your head. Understand that when you get this feeling it is not serving you well. At that moment that you realize this feeling, step into yourself and thank it for showing you where you don't want to go. Immediately change that thought to a positive thought about what a good time you are going to have with this beautiful lady, for this moment in time only. This will not harden you, but actually make you happier, which will translate to the lady, hence a better session. Then again, I am probably full of sh*t. I'm sure that she does like you in a certain perspective as CJ so eloquently stated.
It is like I tell the ladies, about my unit, I am not grande I am gordo. It always gets a laugh, and their interest.
Health & happiness to all.
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08-03-11 06:03 #5284
Posts: 583It is always great to read a genuine post that knocks some sense back to oneself.
No arguments here. I am a scorpio, and in my travels, I have knack for getting myself into troubles like this. There have been times when things turned out to be sweet and great (we can talk about which part of the world this happen over an ice cold one but I digress).
I guess all I am looking for is a way to harden myself (no pun intended.). To be more resilient to the temptations of young, hot nubile chicks by allowing myself to fall into this briefly, just enough to see that she is in it for the money (maybe, most of the time) , and then finally realize that I am sick of dealing with this particular individual.
That being said, I can't help to derive a little joy and satisfaction knowing (or,"imagining") that I somehow have caused a working girl to develop some interest in me (see'mon guys, all of us do like to think that our dicks are actually bigger than they are right?.). Maybe if it is just something that temporarily gives me a place to hide from the harsh realities of corporate america.
But thanks CJ for keeping it real and making sure none of us get ahead of ourselves.
Originally Posted by Country John [View Original Post]
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08-03-11 05:56 #5283
Posts: 583Originally Posted by Country John [View Original Post]
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08-03-11 01:25 #5282
Posts: 35Nicely done Country John, probabltthe clearest, most concise and yet detailed explanation yet of the SW or BG perspective.
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08-02-11 21:30 #5281
Posts: 1328Originally Posted by Guitarrefreak [View Original Post]
So her strategy is to earn income from you. There are no friends in business.
She seems to have tested your limits and developed parameters. You're good for an $80. 00 session (that works out to about $900 pesos, a lot of money for a few hours work). You might be good for more, she will have to continue working you to find out how much.
Soon, you'll get the message that her dad needs a brain operation and she needs to wire $2, 000 back to some place deeeeep in Mexico, or he will most certainly die. My girlfriends father died about four times before he actually did kick the bucket in my living room three years ago.
IN your situation, you might be able to sit down at your kitchen table and map your entire route to retirement. You can budget, you have credit, you have a steady income that you can see well into the future. Not so here. It's day to day, or week to week. There is no other profession that will bring her an income that will support her entire family like the sex industry. If she can line up several clients like you, she will be set for as long as she can keep you interested and excited (marketing).
It is totally OK for you to like her. It is totally OK for her to like you. Nothing wrong with that. The problem develops when you mis-read her like for you as some sort of promise that a condition will exist with her into the future. The ONLY condition that will exist will be the condition of client (you) , and provider (her). That is unless you are willing to change your life.
She will rely upon your "good faith" and inclination not to "cheat" on her, and your sense of guilt for even thinking about it. Her talent will be in the area of grooming those emotions to keep you in her corral.
So play the game the way you want to, but be very aware that her needs are different from yours and that her success will depend on her ability to keep you dreaming about her. Buyer beware.
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08-02-11 21:10 #5280
Posts: 1328Originally Posted by Guitarrefreak [View Original Post]
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08-02-11 21:06 #5279
Posts: 1328Originally Posted by Madisonguy [View Original Post]
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08-02-11 20:35 #5278
Posts: 502Originally Posted by Jrzmong [View Original Post]
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08-02-11 20:31 #5277
Posts: 502Anyone actually live in Tijuana? I'm curious to see if there are any expats in that area? If you would be so kind as to PM me if you are living there that would be great.
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08-01-11 08:31 #5276
Posts: 583Originally Posted by Jrzmong [View Original Post]
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08-01-11 06:40 #5275
Posts: 83Mexicolindobar site
Hey what is wroing with all of you, I enter this site site.mexicolindobar.com and it looks like a Fail site, like a Girls posing sexy big time FAIL site, I mean come one except 1 or 2 the rest are really FUGLY, who the hell is hiring this girls?
I invite anyone here to take a stroll at the bigger malls in Tijuana and you will see real cuties spinner thin and young girls.
Most of the girls on that site are Ugly, Fat many of them old.
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07-31-11 21:01 #5274
Posts: 583Originally Posted by Artisttyp [View Original Post]
I guess I will be moving on. Hee hee