General Reports

[Sol12]

Well I have been seeing a sugar baby in Tijuana for a year now about once a week for overnights. We have been barebacking for around 10 months now. I have been pulling out but messed up last time. She is not pregnant yet as far as I know but I want to know what could happen.

I know others have mentioned that if she knows your name and address that she would be able to get money from you. Not sure if that's true but even if it wasn't I agree with Luv and you should be a man and be a man.

Now I know a guy that got a girl pregnant that he said was an accident and he did everything he could to provide for them both. Later he got her pregnant again so I began to second guess him saying the first was an accident. By that time I started to talk to him less but a few years later I ran into the woman in San Diego which was a shock since she didn't have a Visa when I had known her and everything was great as she had the young baby with her and the older child was with my friend at the movie so I wasn't able to catch up with him. Just was happy that he was still doing his parental duties and some how got her to the US.

I think if you are having unprotected sex the first thing you should do is talk to your girl and figure out what she wants, she can go on the pill or get an IUD implant. The other option is that if you mess up just take a morning after pill. They also sell a pill, in Mexico for later pregnancies but from what I remember it is more risky and can make the girl unable to have a baby later.

Good luck.

[LuvMexicanas]

Well I have been seeing a sugar baby in Tijuana for a year now about once a week for overnights. We have been barebacking for around 10 months now. I have been pulling out but messed up last time. She is not pregnant yet as far as I know but I want to know what could happen.

If you get her pregnant and she gives birth, you man up and take responsibility. Period. Simple.

[AmorPorFavor]

Well seems that many guys here have hooked up with regular girls and working girls that became girlfriends or wives so of course it's going to happen. Are you asking the question in regards to what your responsibility is in that situation or you just asking to ask?

Well I have been seeing a sugar baby in Tijuana for a year now about once a week for overnights. We have been barebacking for around 10 months now. I have been pulling out but messed up last time. She is not pregnant yet as far as I know but I want to know what could happen.

[Jackie888]

Has anybody ever gotten a girl in Tijuana who they were seeing a lot pregnant?

This is not going to end well. I suspect.

[Sol12]

Has anybody ever gotten a girl in Tijuana who they were seeing a lot pregnant?

Well seems that many guys here have hooked up with regular girls and working girls that became girlfriends or wives so of course it's going to happen. Are you asking the question in regards to what your responsibility is in that situation or you just asking to ask?

[AmorPorFavor]

Has anybody ever gotten a girl in Tijuana who they were seeing a lot pregnant?

[WombatEd2]

Where are these middle class neighborhoods? Even a friend in playas in beautiful home couldn't keep her car in the street or it would be broken into or stolen and every house had bars and fences and gates like it was south Africa. Most people with money try and live in buildings with security. A nice relaxed neighborhood that's middle class in Tijuana? Gringo friendly? Few and far between.

Sounds to me like your definition of "nice" and mine are quite different. I live in a very nice, low-crime district of San Diego, not far from plenty of neighborhoods that fit your description of Tijuana.

[Artisttyp]

I thought about moving to Puerto Rico back in the day and take up a life of an I don't give a shit surfer. Then I learned that it was fucking expensive because it was an island and they had to import just about everything, including a lot of their food. So I cannot understand how one can maintain a decent middle class lifestyle equally in both places. I mean if I am going to fork over the money for a middle class lifestyle in Puerto Rico, I may as well get a middle class place in Chula Vista or San Ysidro and make a trip to the Zona Norte every single day. (Actually I came close to going every day a couple of years ago, got bored and ended up spending more time outside the Zona Norte than in it).

Me I would take Tijuana because of better pussy, a better nightlife, and more inexpensive things to do. And even though both are latinas, I find Mexican women to be softer, nicer, sexier and less of a princess than Puerto Rican women who often thinks they are God's gift to men.

Did I mention that Puerto Rico is an island? You can't really take a uber to the border and the trolley up to mainland USA San Diego for shopping, or the beaches, or medical care. You actually have to get on a plane to get to the mainland. You can't just drive up and go to Vegas, or skiing up Big Bear. You are literally stuck on an island.

Thank You for your comments. I think you make a lot of sense. It seems like gentrification is taking place in PR in a big way. Corporations buying up properties to rent them back to tenants for higher rates or turning them into AirBnB's. I feel really sorry for the isanders who will get priced out eventually.

Although I may still take a trip out there this Fall to confirm things. It would make for a fun trip regardless if I decide to move there or not.

[Dogers69]

The buildings with security you are talking about like New City would be considered upper class. You can't compare what is considered middle class in the US to Mexico. If you make and can only afford lower class in the US you would be considered middle class in Tijuana. So what ever class you are in in the US you would go up a class in Tijuana.

To me, when I gringo is looking for safe middle class, Tijuana is the last place on earth I would tell them to go to. Yesterday I was in a lot parts of Tijuana that were the better areas, including a really nice restaurant area which is inside new city. That place was cheaper than anything I've had to eat in Zona Norte or revulucion. But I was the only gringo, and all these areas I went to, hopdroma, etc, I still did not see any street with houses, or apartments that one can find in mexixo city even. I'm not saying don't move to Tijuana. But if safety middle class neighborhood is your goal, Tijuana is not the place unless these neighborhoods are far away someplace I've never seen. I think one would be better just moving to the carolinas.

[Jackie888]

If you had a choice to live a decent middle class lifestyle in either place with a nice place maybe a cleaning lady etc. Which would you choose and why?

Maybe it doesn't belong in this thread but I had nowhere else to put it. Excuse me.

I thought about moving to Puerto Rico back in the day and take up a life of an I don't give a shit surfer. Then I learned that it was fucking expensive because it was an island and they had to import just about everything, including a lot of their food. So I cannot understand how one can maintain a decent middle class lifestyle equally in both places. I mean if I am going to fork over the money for a middle class lifestyle in Puerto Rico, I may as well get a middle class place in Chula Vista or San Ysidro and make a trip to the Zona Norte every single day. (Actually I came close to going every day a couple of years ago, got bored and ended up spending more time outside the Zona Norte than in it).

Me I would take Tijuana because of better pussy, a better nightlife, and more inexpensive things to do. And even though both are latinas, I find Mexican women to be softer, nicer, sexier and less of a princess than Puerto Rican women who often thinks they are God's gift to men.

Did I mention that Puerto Rico is an island? You can't really take a uber to the border and the trolley up to mainland USA San Diego for shopping, or the beaches, or medical care. You actually have to get on a plane to get to the mainland. You can't just drive up and go to Vegas, or skiing up Big Bear. You are literally stuck on an island.

[Artisttyp]

The items you mentioned are many of the things that I miss about living in Tijuana compared to the US. Maybe if you lived in a small town you would find these things but for the size of Tijuana and the gap between the have and have nots most people are very respectful to each other and I never witnessed someone going off on help in a restaurant or to others like the "Karen's" you get in the US. As you live in Tijuana longer and get to know more people in your neighborhood you will also begin to run into people you know when you are out and about. Since Tijuana has only so many places to go and things to do you are always running into people you know.

Dogers you really shouldn't make such an ignorant statement just from hearsay of others and not a personal experience. Zona Ri is a very well know middle class area of Tijuana and very gringo friendly. Also just because homes have bars on the windows doesn't mean it's a bad neighborhood. Like many cities in the US that have been over run with homeless people Tijuana has the same problem. Zona Rio is a nice area but sometimes you get small crimes because of the homeless drug addicts that live in the river and will try to steal small things to buy drugs. Even high end neighborhoods in the US are having problems with robberies or up in the Bay Area where cars are broken into all over the city.

There is a lot of money in Tijuana. More so than many other places in Mexico. It depends on who you associate with but I see an upper middle class crowd all over Tijuana. The women have fake designer handbags and the men always have a nice looking dress shirt on. They eat at Caesars and other 4 start dining establishments. They also golf and possibly own a second home on the coast.

They wouldn't be caught dead with the likes of me but I do appreciate some of their amenities like golf courses and fine dining. The "daughters" tend to be gorgeous in this social circle.

Then again there is the Critical Mass crowd. A lower rung socioeconomic group but still hardly comparable to American lower class. They don't have much money but they live a decent life own bicycles, spend ample time with family, have some free time, can afford to travel now and then.

For Mexico Tijuana is RICH.

I think for the right person TJ could provide a very nice lifestyle for someone. A better alternative than the alternative for many. (smile)

[Sol12]

Where are these middle class neighborhoods? Even a friend in playas in beautiful home couldn't keep her car in the street or it would be broken into or stolen and every house had bars and fences and gates like it was south Africa. Most people with money try and live in buildings with security. A nice relaxed neighborhood that's middle class in Tijuana? Gringo friendly? Few and far between.

The buildings with security you are talking about like New City would be considered upper class. You can't compare what is considered middle class in the US to Mexico. If you make and can only afford lower class in the US you would be considered middle class in Tijuana. So what ever class you are in in the US you would go up a class in Tijuana.

[Sol12]

I take it you haven't lived in Tijuana. They have areas that are gated, luxury amenities, etc. I can tell lots of luxury apartments are going up specifically catering to foreigners. I live in a middle class colony and you can tell just driving around the different areas the lower class, middle class, and upper class areas. I even saw a $10-$15 M house for sale in Tijuana in Chapultepec area.

People drive crazier in SoCal than anything I've experienced in Tijuana. I have yet to see someone try to cross 5 lanes on a freeway to get to the off-ramp doing 80-100 mph. Also people seem more respectful and courteous than in the USA Pretty much every person I've walked past in the colony I live in says the greeting of the day, buenas Dias, noche, etc. Even though I don't speak the language. Also at restaurants you have random strangers that tell you to enjoy your food, provecho similar to bon appetite in France. I thought it was odd the people leaving the restaurant would say it, but I guess it is common courtesy.

The items you mentioned are many of the things that I miss about living in Tijuana compared to the US. Maybe if you lived in a small town you would find these things but for the size of Tijuana and the gap between the have and have nots most people are very respectful to each other and I never witnessed someone going off on help in a restaurant or to others like the "Karen's" you get in the US. As you live in Tijuana longer and get to know more people in your neighborhood you will also begin to run into people you know when you are out and about. Since Tijuana has only so many places to go and things to do you are always running into people you know.

Dogers you really shouldn't make such an ignorant statement just from hearsay of others and not a personal experience. Zona Rió is a very well know middle class area of Tijuana and very gringo friendly. Also just because homes have bars on the windows doesn't mean it's a bad neighborhood. Like many cities in the US that have been over run with homeless people Tijuana has the same problem. Zona Rio is a nice area but sometimes you get small crimes because of the homeless drug addicts that live in the river and will try to steal small things to buy drugs. Even high end neighborhoods in the US are having problems with robberies or up in the Bay Area where cars are broken into all over the city.

[DontKnock]

I have a married friend who goes down a lot. As far as we could figure out there is no way to fix the ring tone problem. He has to leave his phone in the US and has a special phone just for use in Tijuana that he hides.

Thank you. I did go to TELCEL Plaza Del Rio about 2 days ago. Got quoted around $1900 pesos ($90) for a prepaid phone and a 30 day prepaid sim with 2 GB. 2 issues. You have to have a mask to enter the store, and you can't buy one from them. Also they don't accept dollars, only pesos and credit cards. The greeter that helped me said I just needed a Gmail account to download WhatsApp.

[AmorPorFavor]

How do you fellow mongers deal with coming to Tijuana, the girlfriend calls and it has a different ringtone or sound on their end? So basically how do you come to Tijuana and they don't know? Gracias.

I have a married friend who goes down a lot. As far as we could figure out there is no way to fix the ring tone problem. He has to leave his phone in the US and has a special phone just for use in Tijuana that he hides.