General Reports

[Jackie888]

Seems like there are a couple of issues what mongers have to overcome or at least try to solve before dating a bar girl in Tijuana. I think any guy wanting to date one should consider these issues. Did I miss any?

1. age. She is in her very early 20's, and the time to settle down may not be ripe for her. She likes to party, and she hasn't gotten it out of her system yet.

2. language. Google translate helps, but does not do it all. So ideally the guy learns Spanish and the girl learns English at the same time.

3. culture. Mexicans have a family culture where everyone is involved in major decision making. In the US, we tend to do shit and tell the family later.

4. independence. The better bar girls can support themselves pretty well, so they really don't need your money as much as you think they do.

5. other guys. Bar girls are constantly put on a pedestal by guys. She ain't the mousy librarian that meets a guy once a week. You need to learn to give her a lot of attention.

6. distance. It is a pain in the ass to drive down there for a date. Better plan to move down there.

7. family. She came from a poor family. She ain't going to abandon them. You should budget to help her family out in addition to taking care of her.

[Jackie888]

Will you want her when she is old and can't compete? I think I would prefer to trade in for a younger model.

I think that most of us guys are in our 40-60 range, and the chicas we are with are about 20. So when she is old and cannot compete, we will all be pushing up the daisies. So it's probably a moot possibility.

[Member #4730]

Dating a prostitute is like driving a Mclaren down a road with lots of hills and potholes. Lots of fun but dangerous. My girl isn't going to stop working the club and I wouldn't want her to. Its too soon to fully support her and she doesn't want to stop anyways. Its female nature they want to keep their options open but they don't want you to fall in love with another girl and they lose their investment. Its a double standard but those exist. These women do what they do because they are looking for money plain and simple. My hope is I can even help them make more money while I get my fun out of it.

Realized you just got to see the situation for what it is. Not much different than relationships in america. It is going to be hard eventually after years if we are still going and develop more feelings its going to be hard seeing her go to the club for work. Just remember eventually she will age and won't be able to compete with the younger girls and guess who is going to be there to comfort her? Us.

Crazy life we are living here but how cool would it be to end up old with a HK girl? Cool story to tell. I love the unconventional nature of it all. Nothing ever scared me more than being just another normal guy. You know white picket fence, two kids, wife and golden retriever. Boring. A death sentence.

I did realize the situation for what it is and it is a good time. I wish I would have known earlier. She mentioned she wanted marriage a few weeks ago and I was confused as her actions don't match her words. I never mentioned marriage, but I guess her family must be thinking the same since her mother kept showing me videos of her cousins marriage a year ago. I was confused on that part as well since she doesn't know the "full" complicated story. I think she enjoys being around me as she doesn't have to lie and can live her life without judgement.

I did go to the club to pick her up and she came by and sat with me for a couple of drinks and was upset I was spending money in the club. She actually escorted me out of the club and then went to change so I could take her home. She said she would "kill me" if she saw me being escorted out of the club by another chica. It is really strange how they think, but I haven't had any desire for any other woman and plenty stopped by to rub my dick. One spinner sat next to me for over an hour just eye fucking me and telling me I'm attractive, but I didn't get her a drink or entertain her. Odd how this girl put a spell on me or maybe the talent level since the summer just isn't in town.

Also forgot to add I had my first mile high experience when she gave me a BJ when were flying in business class to Europe. It was exciting since I kept thinking a flight attendant would stop by, but it was a night flight so most were either a sleep or watching movies. She always keeps things interesting. Time will tell how long this journey lasts.

[Member #4730]

I went to Deja Vu on Thursday night since the girlfriend was working. Only 2 guys in the club and probably 15-20 ladies. I got a lady from Sinaloa 2 drinks and the mesero said it is her first day. She quoted $150 for room and her time (30-40 min.). I passed as most of the ladies are curvier than I prefer. It would make a great place since close to border, casino, and restaurants, but talent just wasn't there on a Thursday night.

[Captain Solo]

5 mongering flights RT Tijuana nonstop in Feb Total price $208.

Tijuana–Mexico city Volaris 3 HR 10 min Nonstop.

MEX–Cancun VivaAerobus 2 HR 15 min Nonstop.

CUN–Guadalajara VivaAerobus 3 HR Nonstop.

GDL-Puerto Vallarta VivaAerobus 0 HR 55 min Nonstop.

PVR–Tijuana Volaris 2 HR 46 min Nonstop.

Stay 3 or nights at each city, a good, sexy 2 weeks vacation. To maximize the use of time, we need to research venues and options for girls, food, entertainment, sight seeing ect. The first 3 items are essential.

We can also scale it down to 3 cities in 1 week and spend 2 nights at each spot.

[Big Magick]

Will you want her when she is old and can't compete? I think I would prefer to trade in for a younger model.

If she's been a good girl then yes I will want her. Its hard to replace a girl that's been by your side for so many years. Like most men we will always want some side pussy. We see prostitutes as a product and its easy to forget they are human too and want to have regular lives and relationships like the rest of the world.

[Guardman]

Dating a prostitute is like driving a Mclaren down a road with lots of hills and potholes. Lots of fun but dangerous. My girl isn't going to stop working the club and I wouldn't want her to. Its too soon to fully support her and she doesn't want to stop anyways. Its female nature they want to keep their options open but they don't want you to fall in love with another girl and they lose their investment. Its a double standard but those exist. These women do what they do because they are looking for money plain and simple. My hope is I can even help them make more money while I get my fun out of it.

Realized you just got to see the situation for what it is. Not much different than relationships in america. It is going to be hard eventually after years if we are still going and develop more feelings its going to be hard seeing her go to the club for work. Just remember eventually she will age and won't be able to compete with the younger girls and guess who is going to be there to comfort her? Us.

Crazy life we are living here but how cool would it be to end up old with a HK girl? Cool story to tell. I love the unconventional nature of it all. Nothing ever scared me more than being just another normal guy. You know white picket fence, two kids, wife and golden retriever. Boring. A death sentence.

Will you want her when she is old and can't compete? I think I would prefer to trade in for a younger model.

[Big Magick]

Dating a prostitute is like driving a Mclaren down a road with lots of hills and potholes. Lots of fun but dangerous. My girl isn't going to stop working the club and I wouldn't want her to. Its too soon to fully support her and she doesn't want to stop anyways. Its female nature they want to keep their options open but they don't want you to fall in love with another girl and they lose their investment. Its a double standard but those exist. These women do what they do because they are looking for money plain and simple. My hope is I can even help them make more money while I get my fun out of it.

Realized you just got to see the situation for what it is. Not much different than relationships in america. It is going to be hard eventually after years if we are still going and develop more feelings its going to be hard seeing her go to the club for work. Just remember eventually she will age and won't be able to compete with the younger girls and guess who is going to be there to comfort her? Us.

Crazy life we are living here but how cool would it be to end up old with a HK girl? Cool story to tell. I love the unconventional nature of it all. Nothing ever scared me more than being just another normal guy. You know white picket fence, two kids, wife and golden retriever. Boring. A death sentence.

[BlackThought]

This new girl though. She seems to be genuinely interested in me. I met her inside Hong Kong. I did pay to go up with her a few times but she never asked for much. She would stay the whole night and be happy with 100 $. She constantly texts me and shows up to all our dates outside the club. All the signs of a girl being genuinely into me are there. In the back of my mind I can't help but feel she's just playing the long con game to sucker me in. We are looking at apartments I'm tijuana right now so things are getting serious.

It seems the outcome of this no one can predict but any advice from the bros would be greatly appreciated. Hope you guys are enjoying the putas. Stay singly guys! Don't be a simp like me LOL.

$100 for all night with a HK girl, you are definitely not a simp. I'm hoping I can score TLN for $300 again next week.

[Member #4730]

Hope everyones been having fun in the zona. Its been a wild experience for me going multiple times a month for like the past year. In that time I have managed to go on dates outside the club with two girls. The guys on here have always given me good advice on all mongering matters. I have asked older mexicans and older americans for advice on if I should trust these bar girls and they all say the same thing. Don't. I've learned about the true nature of women and its why I find it hard to trust these girls. I dropped my last bar girlfriend because she would ask for way too much money. I wasnt born yesterday so I walked away.

This new girl though. She seems to be genuinely interested in me. I met her inside Hong Kong. I did pay to go up with her a few times but she never asked for much. She would stay the whole night and be happy with 100 $. She constantly texts me and shows up to all our dates outside the club. All the signs of a girl being genuinely into me are there. In the back of my mind I can't help but feel she's just playing the long con game to sucker me in. We are looking at apartments I'm tijuana right now so things are getting serious.

It seems the outcome of this no one can predict but any advice from the bros would be greatly appreciated. Hope you guys are enjoying the putas. Stay singly guys! Don't be a simp like me LOL.

I'm still rocking 6 months with the bar girl. She has been great and like you stated she never put a price on her time with me. The complicated part is I drew a boundary that I'd leave if she ever decided to return to work. She has family medical issues which she feels obligated to help her family. I told her my financial situation and I couldn't help with more so she was "working" existing clientele when I was back in the USA I found out before trip to Paris and I actually confronted her about it during the ride up the Eiffel Tower and actually lost her during New Years in a crowd of 200-250 k people. I actually could have cared less, but then realized my mistake that I shouldn't let a woman by herself around a bunch of drunk mobs. She eventually got back in contact that night and surprisingly found some friends, chicas from Venezuela and Columbia and some dude from Iran to party with at the Airbnb. I proposed an open relationship which she didnt want and is extremely jealous of any woman that contacts me. Strange how things work with these women.

Interesting trip, but I came to realize that I feel lucky that she didn't leave. I told her if she wanted to stay with me, then she shouldn't require "help". Eventually after living together for the past 3 months she tells me that she isn't ready for a relationship as she has "goals" and they shouldn't involve my money. I told her I could "help" with her families medical expenses, but she said she didn't feel comfortable taking my money. I asked her what suggestion she had and she would drop hints every now and then that some chicas are married or have BF that still work in the club.

I realized how lucky I am this chick isn't trying to game me for my money, hot beyond my imagination, sex is ridiculously incredible, and she wants to "earn" her own money. Not exactly wife material, but she stated she wished she met me later in her life. I never realized how much I cared for her and I agreed she can work certain days and it would be temporary to help her family. I told her I could help offset the costs, but she just wasn't having it. Complex situation yes, but I appreciate her honesty after I found out the truth. She hid it for a while as I told her my boundaries, but realized bar girls don't take up the life if the money wasn't required.

I did have an interesting experience taking her to a swingers club in Paris which was a first for me, but we only slept with each other as she wasn't comfortable with the older crowd. It was interesting having an older lady holding my cock and caressing my leg while I was having sex with the GF. She said she would be fine with a threesome with another chick, but I already know from previous experience with her that I wouldnt be able to enjoy it due to her jealous nature. She cooks, cleans, and tries to convince me to spend less money on unnecessary expenses. She even cooked meals in the Airbnb while in Paris. It is going to take work and takes 2 people, but I wouldn't trade it for the world. It has been amazing.

[Gregyyr]

So my girl isn't a top shelf HK girl but she is very friendly and popular. She recruits many of her hometown girl friends and brings them to HK. I foresee a lot of threesomes in my near future when we live together. Who knows, might put these girls to work in front of a webcam or escort agency. The possibilities are exciting.

I want HK to do a Chaturbate channel. Room. Maybe there are some rules against this but seems putting a few girls from HK in a room doing some sexy stuff would be worth trying.

G.

[MmaufcFan]

In my experience, newbies to San Diego rent a place by the beach, then eventually realize the rent is too high. They then move to El Cajon for cheap rent. If you are moving to San Diego for access to Zona Norte, anywhere near a trolley station will work for you. El Cajon, La Mesa, Chula Vista or Santee all have trolley stations and reasonable rent. Suggest an apartment no more that 2 or 3 blocks walk from a trolley station, then spring for a monthly transit pass so you can take the trolley to the San Ysidro trolley stop and walk across to Tijuana.

I'm looking at condos in one of those areas, closer to trolly would be great if I can get it, but the drive isn't that bad from any of those areas without traffic. I'm there for life, so the closer the better especially going into those golden years.

[LuvMexicanas]

So my girl isn't a top shelf HK girl but she is very friendly and popular. She recruits many of her hometown girl friends and brings them to HK. I foresee a lot of threesomes in my near future when we live together. Who knows, might put these girls to work in front of a webcam or escort agency. The possibilities are exciting.

Lucha Libre is popular in Mexico and I've always wanted to hit up the wrestling museum in Tijuana. Along the wrestling theme, tag me in if you need assistance Road Warriors style.

[Big Magick]

Makes sense knowing your age. At 29, I probably would not have frequented the Zona, as I enjoyed the chase when I was a young buck like you.

So my girl isn't a top shelf HK girl but she is very friendly and popular. She recruits many of her hometown girl friends and brings them to HK. I foresee a lot of threesomes in my near future when we live together. Who knows, might put these girls to work in front of a webcam or escort agency. The possibilities are exciting.

[Dogers69]

Went out late at midnight.

Very little street girls. When I woke up at noon their was a lot. Going by noon for street girls is a good idea. For whatever reason they like to work day time be home early. Found cute girl at Adelitas. She turned down her 2nd drink as she was so determined for sex and I wouldn't bite. I even tipped her 6 dollars for her ficha but she took twice as long to drink it and gave me a lap dance the whole time. Went into smaller bar, got laughed at by 2 groups of girls. Ill assume, the working girl group recognized me from week earlier where a girl was dancing and kissing me for a long time. That kind of activity becomes a big deal to the working girls cause most don't want to do that stuff. A few times nive been in clubs and other girls told me how they were watching a girl kiss me the other day. The 2nd group was a civie. Group. They saw me looking st them. Its a puta bar. What the hell else am I gonna look at. They were so chubby I wouldn't date them for free but in their mind I'm old gringo man. Nothing new doing in HK, same guys I see every night, I guess some new girls I don't really talk to the HK girls much.