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Originally Posted by MemoeNasty
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This bar has always been like this. Waiters and chicas pressure you to buy a drink before you even find a table to sit at. This is the worst bar by far for that shit. Moe.
I didn't have any issue with any of the bars. Either I'm on the hunt or sit down and just get a Fresca or juice because I don't drink. It is hard enough to love on the chicas when sober that I couldn't even imagine being wasted. I do notice the meseros roaming around checking drink levels, but I call that good service. Sometimes it is lacking at regular restaurants as they don't stop by to see if you need another drink, but no issue in the clubs. I look at everyone in the industry trying to provide for their families. I've been supporting single moms around the world and don't regret any minute of it. Have fun and stay safe!
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Bottle of water = "mesero repellent"
Originally Posted by BigButtDetecto
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Yes I call the bottle of water a "mesero repellent".
Love it! So true!
Sometimes I want to go to HK club just to hang for a few minutes and not buy a drink since I plan to be there under 20 minutes.
Fighting off the meseros makes those visits uncomfortable.
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Originally Posted by MemoeNasty
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This bar has always been like this. Waiters and chicas pressure you to buy a drink before you even find a table to sit at. This is the worst bar by far for that shit. Moe.
I've never had that issue at AB but then again, I like to throw back some brews.
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Originally Posted by Jackie888
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Buy a bottled water. Put it in front of you. No one will fuck with you.
Yep Jackie. I totally agree an no problem when I did this at Adelita's (or other bars). I typically just drink water when I am at the bars. Sounds boring but I just like flirting and touching the women and having beer just fucks with my senses when I need to be very aware of what the hell is going on inside a club etc.
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Originally Posted by BigButtDetecto
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I went to Adelitas yesterday, Saturday and the ratio men to women was pretty good. Problem is the guys at the door; one alleged again that I don't buy drinks; I had to find a server at the bar to witness that I buy drinks; they suck; among all bars they are the only one who do that; they must be desperate for $$.
This bar has always been like this. Waiters and chicas pressure you to buy a drink before you even find a table to sit at. This is the worst bar by far for that shit. Moe.
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I went to Adelitas yesterday, Saturday and the ratio men to women was pretty good. Problem is the guys at the door; one alleged again that I don't buy drinks; I had to find a server at the bar to witness that I buy drinks; they suck; among all bars they are the only one who do that; they must be desperate for $$.
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I've had many girls who will text me from their home town, trying to be friends again, by 3rd text they ask for money. One this year also said needed plane ticket to Tijuana. After I said I was leaving calif in a day wouldn't see her, she shows me picture of her boyfriend and she's not really going to Tijuana any more. I'm not saying a guy can't get lucky but to me, any guy who sends 100 bucks to a girl not in Tijuana probably has a 10% of receiving free sex someday for that. These are some low odds. Remember, these girls have a ton of contacts. Food in Mexico in middle no where still costs almost same as USA and Tijuana. Same as cell phone bill. Do you really think some girl is down to less then 100 bucks?
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Originally Posted by LuvMexicanas
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You can get lots of mileage from a plane ticket and I'm not talking frequent flier miles. A simple plane ticket for a chica to return from let's say Guadalajara to Tijuana so she can work in the Zona again might cost you a hundred bucks but what if I told you that the first day and night she's in Tijuana she's all mine with no clock watching. Thus, I agree there's a back and forth between both sides but sometimes a symbolic monetary gesture such as a plane ticket can get you platinum status.
This works for me as well. I bought my favorita a plane ticket home to Monterrey. The night before the flight she came over and spent the night, full GFE and it cost me a $90 ticket plus a $5 uber to the airport in the morning.
She just messaged me and asked if I will fly her back to Tijuana on my next trip. That's a 100% yes. I'll buy her a ticket to TJ, let her work for 3-4 days, then fly her home. As long as I get two TLNs out of the deal, I'm happy to do that.
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Originally Posted by CaptainSolo
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Sol12.
Some if not most young girls in Mexico are unemployed or underemployed, have no steady income, barely surviving. They can get into very desperate situations, especially with recent shutdown by CoVid19.
3 months into CoVid shutdown, an ex HK girl ran out of money to buy food for her puppy, had to put her dog up for adoption. 6 months into it, she texted me one night, terrified, had no work, no money, no food in the house. I know she was honest and would not lie to me, so I sent her money so she could have food the same night. I met her again after that. She lost a lot of weight due to malnutrition she she was not lying to me. I am guessing a lot of Mexican families were hungry during the shutdown.
A few years back I found a very beautiful MTY girl working in HK. She went home and gave me her tel. I called, talked to a woman, her next door neighbor. There were chicken quacking and children playing in the background. I had to ask a guy to talk for me on the phone. This very beautiful girl was living in poverty in a slum in Monterrey. She wanted to go back to Tijuana to make some money but had no money to buy air ticket. I really wanted to see her again so bought her a RT ticket, only about $100. It was worth it to see that girl again..
I think many guys over think things and are always suspicious of the girls that might ask for something. Unfortunately the girls that do try to take advantage of guys make it had for those that are sincere and have nowhere else to turn. You also need to take into account how the Latin culture is compared to the US. Those that have the means to help others especially family are expected to do so. My ex still has family in Mexico that will call when they need something. Sometimes she can but sometimes she just has to ignore the phone calls. One more thing that I currently have seen with a girl I spend time with is that she is always trying to help poor kids in the street. It's easy to think that it's the parents responsibility to care for the kids and I completely agree but she will go out of her way to give them money or buy them lunch. Now she could be heartless and just save the money for her own family but most aren't that way.
In regards to buying a plane ticket for girls to come back to Tijuana it might if changed over the years but lots of times if the girl works good the bar will buy the ticket and just let the girl pay it back. Can't be 100% sure on that anymore especially with a bar like HK where the girls don't bring in too many fichas for the bar.
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Originally Posted by Sol12
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It is odd when I could go months with not finding a great session and really not wanting to go to Tijuana. Then bam I go one day and meet a great girl and my streak is over and I start having good luck again. I think this last year was very hard to not try and help a girl out with the whole Covid mess. In all my years I never sent money or was asked to send money to anyone. Now I have done my fair share of questionable things like flying down to a favs town to fly her back to Tijuana, but it was more like a little vacation. Also bought a plane ticket for a fav to go home for Christmas. Never asked just wanted to do it for her. In my opinion if you have the means and it doesn't make you sleep in the streets there is nothing wrong with helping a girl out. I think both sides try to get as much from the other as possible you just have to be smart enough to know when it's out of control.
I think it's out of control when they start linking their families into you. My mom. My brother. My sister. All needs help. I guess if I was a rich guy, there would not be a problem. But the reality is that I work for a living and that fucking retard of a brother should be looking for a job instead of having drug problems and needing my help to get into rehab.
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Helping desperate girls
Sol12.
Some if not most young girls in Mexico are unemployed or underemployed, have no steady income, barely surviving. They can get into very desperate situations, especially with recent shutdown by CoVid19.
3 months into CoVid shutdown, an ex HK girl ran out of money to buy food for her puppy, had to put her dog up for adoption. 6 months into it, she texted me one night, terrified, had no work, no money, no food in the house. I know she was honest and would not lie to me, so I sent her money so she could have food the same night. I met her again after that. She lost a lot of weight due to malnutrition she she was not lying to me. I am guessing a lot of Mexican families were hungry during the shutdown.
A few years back I found a very beautiful MTY girl working in HK. She went home and gave me her tel. I called, talked to a woman, her next door neighbor. There were chicken quacking and children playing in the background. I had to ask a guy to talk for me on the phone. This very beautiful girl was living in poverty in a slum in Monterrey. She wanted to go back to Tijuana to make some money but had no money to buy air ticket. I really wanted to see her again so bought her a RT ticket, only about $100. It was worth it to see that girl again.
My wingmen also advanced money to desperate girls a few times. They got GFEs back big time.
Don't be so hard on these young girls. Some may be BS artist with addictions, but not all would lie to you. If you think they have real needs, be a human and help them out. In cases I have seen, the girls always return the kindness with lots of gratitude and love.
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Originally Posted by Sol12
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It is odd when I could go months with not finding a great session and really not wanting to go to Tijuana. Then bam I go one day and meet a great girl and my streak is over and I start having good luck again. I think this last year was very hard to not try and help a girl out with the whole Covid mess. In all my years I never sent money or was asked to send money to anyone. Now I have done my fair share of questionable things like flying down to a favs town to fly her back to Tijuana, but it was more like a little vacation. Also bought a plane ticket for a fav to go home for Christmas. Never asked just wanted to do it for her. In my opinion if you have the means and it doesn't make you sleep in the streets there is nothing wrong with helping a girl out. I think both sides try to get as much from the other as possible you just have to be smart enough to know when it's out of control.
You can get lots of mileage from a plane ticket and I'm not talking frequent flier miles. A simple plane ticket for a chica to return from let's say Guadalajara to Tijuana so she can work in the Zona again might cost you a hundred bucks but what if I told you that the first day and night she's in Tijuana she's all mine with no clock watching. Thus, I agree there's a back and forth between both sides but sometimes a symbolic monetary gesture such as a plane ticket can get you platinum status.
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Strange
Originally Posted by LuvMexicanas
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It's okay to like working girls man. It makes the hobby fun and fucking more interesting. You do raise a good point. It's been awhile since I've had two memorable ones back to back. Usually, many transactional lays separate the memorable ones. The recent one in CDMX was memorable from an education and intelligence standpoint than anything else. Won't fall in love bro. Case in point, despite the numerous desperate pleas for money from chicas over the years, I've never sent a dime. Well, there was a close call a couple months ago with a chica who I was getting along with and I was going to send her money for her birthday, but it turned out her birthday was bullshit, which I wrote about in another post.
It is odd when I could go months with not finding a great session and really not wanting to go to Tijuana. Then bam I go one day and meet a great girl and my streak is over and I start having good luck again. I think this last year was very hard to not try and help a girl out with the whole Covid mess. In all my years I never sent money or was asked to send money to anyone. Now I have done my fair share of questionable things like flying down to a favs town to fly her back to Tijuana, but it was more like a little vacation. Also bought a plane ticket for a fav to go home for Christmas. Never asked just wanted to do it for her. In my opinion if you have the means and it doesn't make you sleep in the streets there is nothing wrong with helping a girl out. I think both sides try to get as much from the other as possible you just have to be smart enough to know when it's out of control.
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Originally Posted by Sol12
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Luv didn't you also like a girl you meet in CDMX? Are becoming a softy PLM? J / k just have fun and don't fall in love.
It's okay to like working girls man. It makes the hobby fun and fucking more interesting. You do raise a good point. It's been awhile since I've had two memorable ones back to back. Usually, many transactional lays separate the memorable ones. The recent one in CDMX was memorable from an education and intelligence standpoint than anything else. Won't fall in love bro. Case in point, despite the numerous desperate pleas for money from chicas over the years, I've never sent a dime. Well, there was a close call a couple months ago with a chica who I was getting along with and I was going to send her money for her birthday, but it turned out her birthday was bullshit, which I wrote about in another post.
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Originally Posted by BigButtDetecto
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Yes I call the bottle of water a "mesero repellent".
Yeah, I've done the same thing by chilling with Coke or Red Bull for a sometimes much needed caffeine boost.
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