Sosua Reports

[Trace79]

Hey, reason of last post is that I'm heading back from 31 July to 8 August. I'll be staying at the Mary Rose. Would love to meet up with anyone on the boards that is going to be there at that time; this is my second trip. Send me a PM or just look for the dude, mid-thrirties, wearing blue surf shorts.

Also, I've read that a few of you have hooked up with a bartender from El Toro. This chica was my last three days in Sosua and she even cried on the last day with tears in her eyes saying "Te Amo," LOL. I'm FB friends with her currently. I don't care about how much "D" she's been getting, but I just want your advise on if I should even let her know I'm coming back to DR. Trying to avoid a scam ya know. She was all of freshly turned 19 years of age last time I was there 6 months ago. Her recent FB pics shoes her having braces. She is a tiny spinner about. 5'3" and maybe 120lbs. Cute as shit too. She wasn't a hardcore puta chica back then [never asked about money at all, ] but things change and she may be different now. Any knowledge about this girl will be greatly appreciated.

I can post pics of her off of FB, but I don't know if this is a wise thing to do....I'm leaving it up to you guys to direct me in this. Sorry for being a newb lol.

[Trace79]

i know i have been absent on the forums since last april [and that is how much i just had to read through. 62 pages of almost complete philosophical bs lol. ] on that side-note, i do respect many of your opinions regarding the lifestyle habits of safe mongering practices for the greater good of all. however, within the 62 pages that i just read through this was all i came up with regarding actual reports about sosua. these two newbies [to the forum, as am i, ] that gave awesome reports and also deepimpact [sorry bro, but you are too well respected on this forum for me to regurgitate your words. ]

well i read through these last few pages and thought i'd throw my 2 cents.

a lot of what has been discussed over the last few pages was pretty relevant. although my time in dr was spent mostly in sosua i did have a day over in punta cana & boca chica. breifly on that note, i saw punta cana wasn't as expensive as some have claimed on the forum. i only went with one chica, but she agreed to 1000 pesos and $1 lol.

unfortunately for me the performance was related to the price, no gfe, she wanted to be in and out of there. gave her an extra 300 pesos and another $1 (i had $2 spare i don't use american dollars, so i was offering what i had)

wish i hadn't she gave me a quick kiss on my chest and neck and called that 'freaky freaky'. should have stuck with the 1000 pesos didn't make a difference and she pretty much killed the moment.

boca chica was just as described on here. constant stream of touts, non stop buggin the hell out of me. i ended up chillin with these 2 dominican guys on the night, same age as me, mid twenties. the one thought he was the top dawg, kept tryna fight with other dominicans. they ended up taking me and these other american dudes i met to a club with some chicas, well of the 3 guys 1 was like 'this is too dangerous' and went home with another. the one that stayed with me (as i was a lone wolf) actually volunteered and swapped and rolled with me.

i didn't see much i liked there, we got loked up, i lost the guy, and that same dominican got me dropped home. maybe that other dude still somewhere lost in boca chica fuck knows lol.

so next day i see one chica them guys had introduced me to the night before, she was a good 7. i offered 500 pesos and she said yeh. hell why not. took the number, said i would hit my hotel, change, and call her.

only thing is i really wasn't feeling boca chica, i was hearing lot's of stories, i was there on my own, and apart from them guys i hadn't seen a single other tourist. and my spanish at that time mostly consisted of 'no gracias, no comprende and hola'. had to get the fuck out of here. so i tried her number, but my phone wouldn't call any dominican number, so thought i'd save myself for sosua!

to cut a long story short, if you do not speak spanish, travelling from punta cana to boca chica (well as close as it takes you) by bus, and travelling to sosua from boca chica via santo domingo is definitely something i would not recommend. i actually missed my stop in santo domingo, the driver was cool enough to actually turn back and drive me back round. when i said i couldn't speak spanish they just smiled and shook their heads (there was a woman who was translating with broken english). i offered him 100 pesos tip but he turned it down.

sosua.

i got sosua real late, my taxi couldn't find my place as i was renting a condo. he pulled over and some guy he knew called the number in my email, i settled in and was shown around by the guy i was renting the place off. we headed passions, as i wasn't feeling how the girls in cmp surrounded me, i like to pick wisely with a girl that shows charm and i see we have chemistry.

i found that in passions, girl was an 8 and she spoke english which helped. i told her i would come grab her the next day. so i come back next night, but knowing what the going rate is on the street i reallllllly was not feeling these prices. i don't know if this is a regular occurrence but i negotiated with her and gave her 3000 and we left just after 9pm. sure i know i could of had 3 ladies for this, but like i say, the chemistry is important if i'm going to be hittin it all night. plus i think the price is 5000 if before 10 and after 6. apparently they don't see any of that money until the sunday either, so i counted myself lucky and off we went.

we grabbed some brugal, and some food, she got a motoconcho to bring her some weed. and i mean that wak, full of seeds compressed bush weed lol. we smoked we drank, she was like ok papi come it's time to fuck me. she didon't have to ask twice. now here was a problem. i did ask her what she would do in the club, and she asked me why i am asking these questions as no one asked this before? i just asked about the gfe and daty, which i would normally ask as well, i am paying and as such i told her the same. now the time comes and we are on the bed, she telling me no daty, i was pissed admittedly, as i had asked and she'd brushed it off like it was a said thing, but i was high and drunk so i just didn't have the energy to argue and i wanted that pussy, so we moved on quickly from that. as i'm hittin it i'm hearing all that spanish shit which i came for lol, nothing quite like hearing a dominican chica whisper a sexy language you can't understand in your ear in between the moans and 'mmmm papiiiiii'. so the way i am now smacking it, she's like damn are you trying to make me cum? stupid question really. so now she's rubbing her clit as i'm fucking her, and we both licking her fingers, i'm like damn you taste good lol. so yeah eventually she cums, squeezes my ass and pulls me in deeper makes me start banging her even harder, she became very loud, and i make her cum again. too much of the brugal meant i didn't get my end off, but next morning we had couple more rounds so i got mine.

i don't even know if this report will all fit, and this is the shortened version!

so another night, i remember i was just about call it a day (ain't this always the case?) and so i'm just passing near my street, when i see a brother asking someone about baseball i think? so i ask him if he knew where i could catch the juanma fight next day, he told me many places will probably be showing it if i ask in the bars. so we talk a minute turns out hes from ny and he's here on his own too, think he said he had some friends over in pp. so i'm like ima head mine grab some dinero lets catch up in d'latins he was after some 'para gratis' (he later told me that phrase which came in handy and the one phrase i knew very well lol)

so found him over in d'latins, we started hitting the henny talking to some chicas, but then we decided to roll down to the casino where that club above is. in there i met one of the finest girls of the entire trip. with the worst attitude of the entire trip! she agreed to 1000 pesos, but i ended up losing her. though later on in the story we catch up again.

so me an dude from ny get f'd up, and on the way back we see some chica sitting down, we start chatting to her. she says she will fuck us both for 2000. i'm like nar 1000. we haggle for about 5 mins and she agrees both of us for 1000.

we head back to his i think it was the europa, take her to the room she starts give me bbbj. she then gives same to him, he passes me a rubbber i start hitting it she suckig him, we swap, he now spitting on the puss why putting his hand in it, we swap, he then leches all over her face lol. i beat her till completion. we head out she wana come back to mine for more, well this is what hes telling me, his spanish is so-so but better than mine, he wanted more but she was refusing to let him nut her again. as i'm walking away he calls back to me and starts gesturing to give her nada. i burst out laughing she looks back and he starts styling it out rubbing his head or something, he then calls again and same thing was said, this carried on back and forth a few times, and was genuinely a very funny moment.

i take her back, we fuck couple more times, then i'm like damn i only got 900 pesos here with me, i will catch you later we can go again i give you 1100 we go again. she agrees. i still got the number if anyone wants it pm me.

ok so next night was crazy, and this is where i saw the 'darker' side to these chicas. the same girl i saw in casino was in la rumbas. she was wearing a tight black outfit, and man was she thick in all the right places. i had planned on going on a little walk to try find her. but i guess she found me. so we start talking and we agree to same price. we start drinking, and although i was encouraging her to drink more she was very uptight and really did not want to 'let go'. so we head back mine. she wanted money upfront. i'm like ok cool let's go atm. or i said, take the 500 pesos i have on me now, we can fuck and when we walk back i go atm and give the other 500. she wasn't having it. that latina passion came out, and bwooooy did she flip. i'm like, damn cool down i said we can go atm now? she's like i'm just taking the 500 and going (her english was worse than my spanish). i'm like no you are not. if you go give me back the 500. eventually we agree i can go atm she can wait there (all my stuff was locked away)

but emotions were high, and as i'm walking to the atm i thought you know what? ima draw out shit loads of cash come back and just chuck her out. yes looking back that was a stupid idea. so anyway get atm. 10, 000 pesos please. spits my card out. i'm like wait. huh? let's try this again. no luck. i try the atm across the road. same result. i'm thinking why oh why lord why now? damn! so i can't remember if it was the security guard that tried to help me out, but eventually the policia offered to take me to another atm, ok yet again another dumb idea (blame the alcohol) but i obliged. this machine let me draw out the money (can't remember if i tried for something like 9 this time) i get back in with the policia and they ask me for 600 pesos! i'm like what? nah man you guys are police you ain't supposed to ask me for money. i gave them 50 pesos and they dropped me back. as i walk in through the gate, (ran in more like) i see her at the other gate arguing with the security trying to leave! i run over and i try to explain the situation, if i remember, the other security guard, at the entrance i came through had it, so she's now walking over that way and i follow. she gets the security to give the i'd and i am there trying to explain whats happening but he doesn't understand. so i am saying look, she has 500 pesos, take it off her and you can have 300 just as long as she don't have anything. he was refusing money off me, but then he finally grasps whats gone on and realises she has the money and tells her to give it back to me. i flash my cash at her and flick through all the notes, and tell her it was no bs i was going to pay her. her face drops and she's like ok lets go back. i'm like f*ck you no way, your attitude stinks from the moment i met you. he tells her give me the money, she screws it up and throws it at me and says something about me getting fucked up. i laugh the security laughs and she walks off. (i'm sure many who post on here would know this girl, she has thick hips, she's light skin very pretty. i know she's one of the hardcore ones, obviously at 1000 pesos, her attitude, the fact i didn't have to look for her, and found out she's pretty much on that strip daily, one of the more famous sosua putas)

not one to want to end my night on a low i decide to head back out. not long before i see the same girl! lol! she didn't say much just walked past me with a 'if looks could kill, you would be bathing in sulphuric acid' look. oddly with a little smirk too. hmmm. hahaha.

so anyway can't remember how i got talking to the next chica i met but again, instantly recognisable by the huge blonde afro, and i think she lives above the club that was being refurbished. she wanted 2000 i countered with 1000. she was far far more friendly, and much more humble. but she would not budge less than 1500. while we was still ironing out the finer details she asked for some food for her and her friend. i had already brought them a drink each, but i agreed. i just ordered some fries. next thing you know the guy wants 600 pesos. i laughed and said for what? he starts reeling off all this shit they ordered, chicken wings fries this that there was a lot. i'm like hell no. so the blondies little friend starts going ballistic. you loco you loco. i'm like fuck you! i had enough of this shit now, she picks up a bottle (from what i keep reading seems like the classic sosua puta special power / weapon of choice) i laughed and said i will take the bottle off you, i went to walk away, walked back and threw my fries on the table, she threw them on the floor and i went home. tonight was only going to end badly better to let things blow over.

next early evening i saw the two chicas again (blondie & ms itchy bottle fingers) i had pre decided if i saw them i would offer to buy some food, i was a lone wolf, i did not want any problems or to be recognisable for causing trouble. so i tell the blondie (who was still completely cool with me) tell her friend i can get her some food. she asks for 200 pesos and i hand it over, i ask her if we ok now? she says yes.

so me and the blondie start chillin together, she is very friendly (she's sneaky, knows how to get things bought for her, very sweet and innocent acting) first she wants a coke, then a beer, then when we sitting down a woman comes selling eye liner, she wants that, then her friend (itchy bottle fingers) comes back i get her a drink. all the time acting like butter won't melt. major difference between her and the one that couldn't wait for the other 500 pesos, this one will get return custom, and you will be open to spending your cash, even though the other one should be killing it, i know her lack of people and social skills means she is offering 1000 pesos when she could be asking for 3.

anyway me and blondie finally agreed to 1500 pesos (throughout this i may seem like a cheap mofo, but the whole 2 week vacation cost me nearly $3000 which is a lot for someone like me) i take her back, she is much more open to the daty and gfe which is good. we have a good sex session, i pay her and i walk her out. finito.

i decided from here that i would just stick with the chica from passions, i liked her a lot, we got a long well, and i knew i would have no more problems. it just meant spending a lot of money in comparison!

next night i'm with my passions chica, we had a good night, went d'latins then casino. she didn't want to go d'latins in the first place and when i suggested we go to the club above the casino, (after she won me some money lol) she was again saying no, she said if we go there, there will be trouble, that all the girls here fight over bs. and she didn't want to mark up that pretty face now did she? (her words, we laughed about it).

so as i'm walking out the casino to go home, i see blondie. i'm like hey hello and wave. she asks for 200 pesos! i laugh and keep walking. next thing you know. guess who. itchy bottle fingers! lol man she was so coked up, she made tony look like a rookie. she comes flying up to me, 'give me 2000 pesos' trying to put her hand in my pocket i pushed it away and tried to walk round her, as this was the exact thing the chica i was with was trying to avoid, i didn't hype up, i just tried to walk on. she starts going wild, like a bat with rabies, she starts swinging for me, i grab her arm, twist it back and push her away and told her i do not want to her hurt her. next thing you know this kid, must have been between 8-10 years old, comes up to me with this big white pole. he is there trying to give it me telling me to beat her with it. lol. only in dr i guess? it was after 2am i thought what the hell is he doing here? anyway she then starts trying to fight someone else. we walk off and my chica is telling me how she was saying in spanish that i fucked the blonde one which is her girl! that's why she wanted the money. she told me that they both used to be very attractive, but now she believes they are on crack, and this is the result. she says they are together in a relationship, like i say i am sure people will know who i mean.

policia.

one of the days i met another guy who was from england. he has lived in the dr now for the past 2 years. cool as fuck guy. we obviously shared a lot in common for the reason of where we are both from so arranged to meet up. missed him the first time but another time caught up with him. long story short. we go on his bike, park up by new beach (the new developed part not many know of i think?) have a couple of beers. met some other dominicans, all half american spoke perfect english went private schools. after we had a couple beers we got back on his bike. now before we got there i should note two things. one he had shown me many pictures of people that had died there in road accidents after drinking. he said the law is pretty much not enforced in that respect. pictures with guys still holding their bottles, dead, brains on the floor. not nice. second he had told me he had his bike confirep001ed recently as there is a new traffic police boss or some sh*t. and they are cracking down on those who do not wear a helmet. even though from what i saw nobody did! thirdly he had just stopped of and brought himself some tony m. damn.

so we are cruising a long, i have a glass in my hand of whisky, (we must have stopped somewhere for this but i do not remember where exactly) and obviously neither of us wearing helmets. i see police ahead of us, they slow down, i tell him man feds are in front. i don't know whether he thought i was lying or did not want to believe me but he said no it isn't. i said trust me i swear look police. so he's like ok watch this, starts half speeding past them (maybe he thought they wouldn't notice 2 gringos no helmets drinking on a bike? lol)

they looked straight at us as we went past and i'm like ahhhh fuck they are 100% going to stop us just from that look i can tell, he starts speeding off and i am trying to remind him he's been drinking and i do not want to end up on someone's phone as a picture with my brains on the floor. he gets pretty far up the road and he's like its ok we lost them we lost them. i'm like actually i think this is them now. they go to drive past us, stop, reverse, jump out overly excited. one of them has a gun about as big as me and i'm 6". all i'm thinking is what this dude has on him, and if they find it. what does that mean for me? (my passions chica later told me exactly what that would mean for me)

he had a rucksack on him, so three of them almost tear that off his back straight away. one stays in the car. they seemed only concerned with what was in his bag, they didn't even search me. they start pulling out all these packs, he kinda half grabs them back saying it's for work (i could half follow what they were saying) but he keeps grabbing them again after searching saying 'no what is this? ' luckily the guy in the car (who by the way looked by far the worst one you would want to fuck with) kept calling them over and over saying to leave us. and eventually they did just that. worst thing is dude had all the tony in his pants pocket. it wasn't even hidden. if they had searched him i don't know if i'd be here writing this right now.

moral of the story? well there is no moral. just don't get involved in those things at any time, because of all the times to get stopped by policia in sosua trust it to be then. if i could describe how corrupt these guys looked, especially the one asking what the packs were. hmmm. turns out those packs were bundles of usd as well, showed me when we got back mine, the one he kept grabbing contained $350. the guys dad owns a big lettings agency out there, why he was carrying all that on him he never fully explained.

to conclude, i mostly hung out with the chica from passions from then on. we sometimes did our little out of hours deals which she said could cost her her job. eventually she trusted me enough to take me back to the casa where a lot of the passions girls lived, they kinda grew to like me, threw a party for me on my last day. (well if you call buying themselves a crate of el presidentes and smoking some weed & sheesha a party ha) but yeah they was all like you my nigga, high fives asking when us two getting married haha. she would be cooking for me etc. so i had a littleeee soft spot for them in the end. you know what the crazy thing is? on the day they got paid on the sunday, they were all broke. i saw what they got paid. my chica had been missing days and coming late. plus they had a new uniform sprung on them. all that money i spent. she ended up with 700 pesos! believe me those girls are not living well. boom boom, wake up in someone else's bed, back to work for 10am (okay sometimes they start at 1pm or 4pm etc but still) for a 10-15 hour shift, all week, end up with 700 pesos. as you can imagine, she wasn't happy.

so there you have it, i tried to keep it brief and really there are many more stories to tell. what can i say about sosua? or even the dr? if you have been to thailand, i don't think you can compare. dr is an absolute sh*t hole. considering that fact, its also pretty expensive for what it is. thailand beats it hands down in every way. except probably the most important thing. i definitely find the dr girls a lot more attractive. but then again, i like hispanic girls and light skin black girls. i wish the girls from thailand could trade with dr and i know where my new home would be. ah well a guy can dream eh? dr has put me off latin america, if i am honest, kind of glad i didn't go colombia now. dr is a dangerous country, even if sosua is not so much.

i actually came back feeling i needed a vacation because of that vacation!

if i do go back, yes i'll probably go see my passions chica again. but the thing i would do differently is probably go somewhere like pp for normal girls. i think there is a lot of p*ssy to be had there. once i shook off the lust for that one chic, i saw everywhere i went (aside from sosua where obviously every girl is on you regardless of who you are) for example in airports etc, i was getting crazy attention off the girls there. i think if someone is young and good looking you can probably do very well in dr, there is no need to stay in that hell hole they call sosua.

at least in thailand, you have no drama (maybe they beef up your tab, but nothing you can't laugh about) , everything is cheap as hell, there is many things to do outside of mongering, and it's a safe place to be. hey the women are still pretty hot there too.

hasta la vista sosua!

awesome post man! this is what this forum has been lacking. solid reporting on specifics of your trip!

day 1.

arrived via miami to pop at 2 pm. it took perhaps 20-30 minutes to obtain tourist card ($10. 00) and clear customs. once outside of customs, be prepared to be bombarded with all types of silly offers, you want a beer, cambio, straight bullshit street vendors praying on the moment of you're new into this country, new experiences and hey can i take advantage of this mark. that's how i felt the moment i set foot on this rock and my opinion has not changed yet.

my hotel was voramar, run by a dutchman named henke. good guy and has owned the place for i think twenty years. he left (holland) and never came back. this is a little outside of the gringo glutch but it's quiet and secluded. two motorconcho guys sit under tree just outside of hotel and wait for people to step out (3 minute ride to la passions and the glutch) this hotel appears to cater to germans, austrians and dutchman. outside of myself and the canadian that looks like elvis, we would be the only guys outside of europe at this place so far. he has to make his money as an elvis impersonator, if he's not, needs to change his profession.

typical cab ride to sosua is $25, but mine was only $5 difference from typical ride to center of sosua. my ride was $30 us taxi from puerta plata airport to hotel. can't complain, i was hyped up and on the hunt for some tail.

get to hotel, henke was fair and exchanged some pesso's at 40 per dollar as of today, so much better than airport, which was selling at 34 pesos / dollar.

if you like latina's and chicks with a fat ass, this place is for the booty officianado's. i'm about 6'1 and 245 so not a little man but thus far, i've pulled two spinners with phat little asses out of passions and one aggressive ass chica from cmp.

i walked from hotel to la passions in top siders and no socks, which i don't recommend, trying to find a band-aid in this place is like panning for gold.

made it to passions, order a beer. five to seven chica's get the short straw and draw the day shift. a gringo walks in and all eyes are on you buddy, so enjoy the moment. all of the girls are trying to make eye contact, look for the one you want and smile back or motion over, they will be there shortly. two beers later, i take the plunge and pop my dominican cherry. my first of the day was nicole, from santa domingo. afro caribbean and again on the day shift, i close deal by like 3:30 or 4pm. it was nice, she was gentle but the only negative would be she wanted to do cbj, which can be a deal breaker for many of you. i generally require bbj but i needed the extra time, i got this chica jellin and producing a little wetness. i would have popped much sooner had i not received the cbj service. all around good suction and decent service.

the owner at passions, i believe runs a good business. the girls there know what is expected of them. if they slip up or perform outside of clients expectations, there are 5, 000 other chica's coming up that want their spot. i showered and cleaned up, took a stroll down to check out cmp.

cmp appears to be older place, the chica's from what i experienced were way more aggressive here than in passions. an age demographic older, more hardened and mileage on the body was evident with a few. this was the daytime around like 4:30 or 5pm, so slow time for these girls working the day shift (may have been the b team) chomping at the bit, bouncing their ass, whipping their tits out, giving you the peep show of the jj and the whole nine, wanting you to pick them. i order a beer, but they would not stop until you picked one, i really could have picked all four but the fifth one had a pair of man mades and jacked up teeth, so she automatically disqualified.

i chose one, can't remember her name, exotic chick in the face, large titan tetanga's and marginal english. she wanted to session immediately but i wanted to re-charge the battery. they really wouldn't let up, so i thought just your luck chica. you draw a guy who just busted about 30 minutes ago. you want to apply your high pressure sales tactics, guess you have to earn this one honey. i'm not too quick on the trigger, she would have been complaining anyway for the leche but asked for propina after she figured out how hard she had to earn her money. a little cow girl, mish, doggy and finish up with yet another cbj and hj while jiggling the jury to get the judge to drop his load. not sure i'll go back but the curiosity will kill the cat.

ok, on the hunt for a band aid. it was hot and i run into a german just sitting outside of a little market. sipping on a beer and taking a break. i get the blister patched up and off for a little dinner.

i had walked by new garden earlier and went in for a bite. this place always happens to have something going on, so when i had walked by earlier the place was busy. so i thought, let's check the scene now. some little kids birthday party and they must have cleared out all the other chica's and sportsman out of the pool area. anyway, made for a good setting to observe all the street traffic and lady's walking by.

finish dinner, walk back to hotel and i have to overcome my fear of getting on the back of those motorconcho's. those guys are relentless and every single one that drives pass, hit's you up for a ride. i make a joke and say gordo and i need the exercise.

return to room, take a short nap and cool down. need to recharge the battery. my plan was to stop off at passions to check out the evening shift. see the talent in the fish bowl and then head out to dlatins.

passions is a complete time trap, this place is really unbelievable. there just is not enough time in one vacation to do all the chica's any normal person could handle.

i can see the draw of the entire town now, it appears just about every girl is available. some of the daytime street action, i would shy away from, many are extremely young and questionable age range to get caught up. there is just too many other options to consider.

i wish i could have made it to dlatins last night. but i couldn't get passed this beautiful little latina with a cute ass smile and a beautiful ass at la passion's. took kathryn for the evening around 10pm. she was good for two busta's last night and one in the morning. bbbj provider and all around solid performer. again, another good experience and she knows how to deliver. highly recommend this chica if she's still around passion's when you visit. the transient lifestyle many of these chic's live, makes it hard to find the exact one you see or read about. don't worry or stress, another one will be just around the corner, standing in the doorway of a salon and she day's "hola papi".

thoughts.

for me, anymore than three in a day is an excellent day in the life of sosua. it's just too much and i really think after two or three days here, your dick will need some rest at the pace of sosua and the streets. they literally throw the jj at you, and i think whatever your vice and poison you can find it in sosua. i have literally scratched the surface here, but i'm pretty sure i will be back to the dr and sosua.

it's just one of those places, where you can read blog after blog, trip report after trip report. until you pull the trigger, you will never know what's here. you just have to experience it for yourself.

another really good report. thank you much for taking the time to give recent updates on sosua!

[Wrx2005]

Not sure what you might be auditioning for, but it makes for painful reading. Maybe hoping to get picked up by a blogging site? However, witty you think it may be, it appears more like someone having a conversation, with themselves.

I concede that to be true for you or anybody else. But if you read through something that is painful, and more importantly, not necessarily intended for you. Whose to blame for your pain? Since you don't seem sure of what is going on, you shouldn't worry about it.

[Mongerman69]

Your wording tells a story. You said, you think they would be less successful in seducing them. That doesn't suggest they will be UNsuccessful in seducing them. Just that they would be less successful. That suggests some doubt. It also presupposes IMO, that some guards will be successfully seduced, or it could mean certain times they may be successfully seduced. And some guards won't be seduced or at certain times they won't be seduced. But then if we knew how an inmate manifests treating a female guard like "the dirt on the sole of their shoe", also what the guards are attracted to or repulsed by.we might be able to guess or speculate where any respect ( if any ) exists. Also, the success or failure potential of a seduction.

Not sure what you might be auditioning for, but it makes for painful reading. Maybe hoping to get picked up by a blogging site? However, witty you think it may be, it appears more like someone having a conversation, with themselves.

[Frannie]

Overheard in Sosua.

Little girl aged about 5: "Mummy, what are all these women doing in these bars?"

Mummy: "They come here to drink alcohol."

Little Girl: "When I am grown up, I want to come here and drink alcohol!"

[Wrx2005]

Don't know how much it has to do with "respect" though. If the inmates treated these women like "the dirt on the sole of their shoe", I think they would be less successful in seducing them.

Your wording tells a story. You said, you think they would be less successful in seducing them. That doesn't suggest they will be UNsuccessful in seducing them. Just that they would be less successful. That suggests some doubt. It also presupposes IMO, that some guards will be successfully seduced, or it could mean certain times they may be successfully seduced. And some guards won't be seduced or at certain times they won't be seduced. But then if we knew how an inmate manifests treating a female guard like "the dirt on the sole of their shoe", also what the guards are attracted to or repulsed by......we might be able to guess or speculate where any respect ( if any ) exists. Also, the success or failure potential of a seduction.

[Frannie]

With those female guards getting with inmates. They may have high or low esteem, but still we need to know what they are focused on that they respect in the men. Many inmates are smooth talkers. Maybe the female respects his sincerity (or the appearance of it ). He may come off as being very personable, or knowledgeable. And she may respect that in him.

I am pretty sure those female prison guards (or teachers or nurses in the prisons) have low self esteem as most of them seem to be fat and ugly. Yes, the inmates are often smooth talkers and may be good looking, so much more desirable as a sexual partner than anyone she could get on the outside. In some ways it is analogous to mongers pairing with attractive young women in Sosua. I know of one case in which a woman (ugly) actually PAID inmates to masturbate so that she could watch.

Don't know how much it has to do with "respect" though. If the inmates treated these women like "the dirt on the sole of their shoe", I think they would be less successful in seducing them. I think it might have a lot to do with sympathy, as it is easy to sympathize with some inmates who succeed in giving the appearance of having been hard done by. I remember one very nice guy who wanted his prostate checkup on his 40th birthday, which he was entitled to. He had been locked up since he was 17 on a home invasion offense and his earliest release date was on his 70th birthday, so he wanted to keep his health in optimum shape ready for going home. It is easy to sympathize with such characters, although one probably is not getting the whole story, when they are telling the female personnel "you are the only one who cares" or "I dreamed about you last night" and memorizing their work schedules, etc.

http://www.winknews.com/Local-Florida/2010-05-19/FCCC-clinician-arrested-for-sexual-misconduct-with-resident#.UdgabG0kzbA

[Zedman99]

That could work well in Sosua. Except when two to four show up at the same time? And, if they were his favoritas that don't know each other, that could be more of a problem.

The chicas only care about the $$$ they'll catfight for 100 pesos-oohh catfight.If they show up together.you take your pick-the other one gets mad.so what.there's a million of them out there.

[Wrx2005]

It depends what you mean by respect. I am very familiar with the phenomenon, but I think it depends a lot on economic situations. If the woman is financially independent she can support a man and may choose one who is a "bad boy" (usually equals drug addict, alcoholic, and unreliable employee) , because that makes her feel powerful in the relationship and that she can do something to help him get "better". I have known women who were teachers who have done this, and many women who are nurses get involved with men who are emotionally crippled or in and out of prison, because they enjoy the drama. I have also known women who work in prisons to get sexually involved with inmates.

On the other hand, if the woman is of low socio-economic status, she may get a boost by being associated with someone who appears powerful, even if he treats her very badly.

I'm not clear on what is dependent on economic situations? I got your scenario but not where you may be implying respect exists or doesn't exist between the parties. In your example. You have outlined one of the motivations for the woman with a man in that condition. But what we don't have are all of the OTHER variables that may apply for why she is attracted to or involved with the man. Such as his sexual prowess perhaps. Maybe the way he is in demand by other women? Maybe his behavior or track record gives him the appearance of a guy who isn't afraid to live on the edge, play by his own rules? It could be something so abstract that it may not even seem to make sense, but it may also be a reason for her attraction or involvement.

Which means. In certain instances, there may be many things about him that she may respect in him, and many that she doesn't. She may respect one thing about him, while totally ignoring or downplaying the other foul aspects of his character or track record, which she uses to feel powerful. In addition, I talked about another element that can help define respect in it's basic terms, and that was. To show regard or consideration. Using your scenario, the woman is showing regard or consideration to that man on some level. Her seeking or enjoying power does not necessarily mean that motivation negates there being any element of respect for her target, or certain aspects of that individual. Basic question. Can she respect the man or be respectful to the man, without respecting his condition / behavior? I say yes.

We can take your scenario and say the woman is of low socio economic status. She may have no ego boost at all, and therefore may not be the least interested in appearing powerful in the relationship. Under those circumstances, she still may find things about the man that she respects. With those female guards getting with inmates. They may have high or low esteem, but still we need to know what they are focused on that they respect in the men. Many inmates are smooth talkers. Maybe the female respects his sincerity (or the appearance of it ). He may come off as being very personable, or knowledgeable. And she may respect that in him.

So IMO, a lot depends on what the parties are focused on in each other, as they relate to each other, not necessarily where they are economically.

There was a scene in the movie Jackie Brown (1997) with Robert DeNiro, Brigette Fonda. Roberts character was supposedly just released from prison. They are sitting in the living room talking. And she asks him what he did to get in prison and how long? He said he got pinched for Bank Robbery and did 4 plus years. As soon as he said that, she blurted out that she was impressed by that. In other words, she admired him or showed regard or consideration for what he had done. A few minutes later she asked him if he wanted to fuck, he said yes. OTOH, when it was time to leave together to go to the mall, when they got in the mall, and when they left the mall, she was showing much disrespect to him all the way. Mocking him and not listening to him. I believe in that moment he would NOT have been getting any pussy from her. He ended up shooting her in the parking lot. My point here is. The things that lead to respect or disrespect are ever changing variables. And it can be applied or unapplied anywhere and anytime. One can have respect for someone in one aspect or area, and have disrespect for someone in another aspect or area. Where they are economically, may Or may not matter when there may be more variables to pay attention to.

[Sidney]

Anoche, a sensational, exceptional performance by a multi-talented group of 4 singers, chanters, and musicians featuring guitars, bongos, and percussion. They blew the crowd away and received a standing ovation after playing almost 2 hours! . Sorry, I didn't get their name because the intro was done in very fast spoken Spanish.

[PartyPooper87]

Long time reader. 1st time poster. The site has helped travel all the way from East Africa to Asia and down to Latin-America. Boy, those trips would have been a bummer if I hadn't came across this forum. I'm heading to Sousa in a few weeks and want to know what's the likely hood of grabbing a 9 or 10 out of Classicos or anywhere. I like to aim high because my theory is if I travel half-way around the world I want to get a chick I clearly would have trouble getting very easily in the States. If I pay, I want to pay for the best, however this doesn't always translate to bed performance. The pics of chicas I've seen in the photo gallery just don't raise to the level of chicas in Costa Rica or Colombia. I want to know if everyone is playing with their cards close to their chest (hiding pics) or DR just doesn't have stunners like Colombia.

Thanks gents,

Also, I have two really good reports I will post for Manila and CR.

[Frannie]

Thats why it would be interesting to see the examples from the poster.

Many women do respect thugs and bad boys. Depends on what one means by respect. When I think of respect, I think in basic terms."Having admiration or esteem for a person." or "To show regard or consideration." And basically thats all the women are doing. Admiring or having esteem for the so-called bad boys, thugs, rough necks, (whatever term people use) but not admiring the nice guys or guys they can take advantage. Now, how much admiration or esteem a woman has, or what is considered bad or thuggish behavior in their eyes is a matter of personal preference or what they are attracted to.

It depends what you mean by respect. I am very familiar with the phenomenon, but I think it depends a lot on economic situations. If the woman is financially independent she can support a man and may choose one who is a "bad boy" (usually equals drug addict, alcoholic, and unreliable employee) , because that makes her feel powerful in the relationship and that she can do something to help him get "better". I have known women who were teachers who have done this, and many women who are nurses get involved with men who are emotionally crippled or in and out of prison, because they enjoy the drama. I have also known women who work in prisons to get sexually involved with inmates.

On the other hand, if the woman is of low socio-economic status, she may get a boost by being associated with someone who appears powerful, even if he treats her very badly.

The plot of the musical and film Grease is an interesting example of the goody-goody girl and the bad boy being both attracted and repelled by each other. Danny and Sandy have an innocent summer romance at the beach, and then meet up again in high school where Danny is a tough guy gang leader with a reputation to defend, while Sandy is an innocent young woman derided by other girls as "Miss Sandra Dee, lousy with virginity."

Whether the plot is true to life is another question, as it ends up with leather gang-leader Danny arriving for the last day of school in a letterman's jacket that he has earned in track in his attempts to impress conventional Sandy by converting to a jock, while she shows up in a sexy leather suit smoking a cigarette. Anyway, it is very amusing.

[Wrx2005]

He call four chicas up tells them he'll pay the first one the money that shows up and takes care of him at a certain time. He said its funny because the one chica said "How about if I come a little earlier " he told her "Well I guess you get the $$$$$."

That could work well in Sosua. Except when two to four show up at the same time? And, if they were his favoritas that don't know each other, that could be more of a problem.

[Zedman99]

Most of the hookups I have are pre-arranged on some level. When it comes to time, I will be flexible depending on the situation. Random chicas I don't like giving specific times when it comes to a tentative hookup. Too often more attractive options can happen at any time. I'm finding I have to exercise that now with these Dom Cupid chicas online. There's so many to choose from.

He call four chicas up tells them he'll pay the first one the money that shows up and takes care of him at a certain time. He said its funny because the one chica said "How about if I come a little earlier " he told her "Well I guess you get the $$$$$."

[Wrx2005]

I might tell a chica I see at say D'Latinos I might see her there tomorrow but never specifics-They could care less about appointments and times they tell you-they go for the quick $$$$ I can't blame them-unless your a regular and even then there's no guarantee that the chica will keep any appointment at anytime-In the meantime your missing out on dozens of other opportunities

Most of the hookups I have are pre-arranged on some level. When it comes to time, I will be flexible depending on the situation. Random chicas I don't like giving specific times when it comes to a tentative hookup. Too often more attractive options can happen at any time. I'm finding I have to exercise that now with these Dom Cupid chicas online. There's so many to choose from.